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FOLLOWING IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF FAITH, 3/9/2012

Friday, March 09, 2012

JACOB, FOLLOWING IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF FAITH, 3/9/2012


Genesis 35:1-7
GETTING BACK TO BETHEL, Lesson 38a

Let me begin by asking a few questions today. Do you remember when you met God? Do you remember that moment when Jesus Christ became your Savior? Do you remember how you felt when Jesus saved you? Do you remember the thrill of those early days of serving God, when everything connected with God: the church, the Bible, worship, prayer, witnessing, etc., thrilled you beyond words? Do you remember how wonderful those early days of blessing were? Sure you do!

How many of us would have to be honest and say that memories are about all we have left? How many would have to say that the things of God just don’t thrill us anymore? That we really don’t care anything about going to church most of the time? That we can usually find something we would like to do instead? That reading the Bible, praying and telling others about Jesus just don’t thrill us anymore? That we would just like to be left alone to do as we please and serve God on our own terms?

It’s sad, but many believers are in that shape today! It’s evident on any Wednesday night. It can be seen during the Sunday School hour. It is clear in the worship services as silence reigns and deadness dominates. It is clear as dust gathers on altars where tears used to flow freely.

I want you who may be in this very condition today, to know that things do not have to stay the way they are. God has a plan for you and it is illustrated here in these verses concerning Jacob. God called Jacob back to Bethel. Bethel means “The House of God”, and it was at Bethel that Jacob first met the Lord.

Jacob was raised in a home by parents that knew God. In spite of that, every person must have a personal encounter with God. When Jacob met the Lord, he made some vows to God,( Gen. 28:19-22). It seems that these vows were not paid. Jacob may have forgotten, but God does not forget, (Eccl. 5:1-5)! In this passage, God is calling Jacob back to that place of the first blessing. He is calling him back to that place of beginnings; to that place where the things of God are fresh, living and exciting.

I am sure that I am speaking to some people today who had a good beginning with the Lord. You were saved by grace and you started out right. But, somewhere along the way, things went wrong in your walk with the Lord. You find yourself in a place today that you never envisioned. Well, my Brother, my Sister, God is calling you back to Bethel today.
He wants you to know that He is the God of the second chance. He is the God Who allows U-turns. He is the God Who loves you in spite of where your path in life may have taken you. God demonstrates those truths in His dealings with Jacob. I challenge you to allow Him to speak to your heart today. I want to point out a few truths from this passage as we look on the subject “Getting Back To Bethel“.

v.1 GOD’S COMMAND WAS HEARD BY JACOB

God called Jacob to come back to the place where He started for God. God’s command was for him to dwell there, build an altar and worship. It had been 20 years since his Bethel experience and Jacob had gotten far away from the Lord. He had gotten mixed up in idolatry. He had grown cold toward God; and now God is calling him home!

I think it is safe to say that many Christians find themselves in this same condition today! The things of God have become dead and the life of the Christian displays that deadness. This is not a new trend, for example, The church of Ephesus – (Rev. 2:1-7)!

If you are in that spiritual state today, God has a word for you. The word He has for you is the same counsel He had for the Ephesians believer.

Remember – Isa. 51:5; Eph. 2:1-4a; 11-12 – Think back to where the Lord found you and what He did for you when He saved you by grace. Remember, and realize that He deserves better than He is getting from most believers!

Return – God’s call to Jacob and to the Ephesians was “Return.” His call is the same to you and to me. When we wander away from Him, He tells us to come back. Thank God, He will receive us and He will restore us, (1 John 1:9); Like the Prodigal Son ( Luke 15:11-24)! When we return to Him, in humble repentance, He will return to us, (Mal. 3:7, James 4:8).

Repeat – God’s call to Jacob and to the Ephesians believers is exactly the same. They were to do the first works over again. In Gen. 28:16-22, Jacob met the Lord, and when he did, he began his walk with God by performing an act of worship. He humbled himself before the Lord. He called upon the name of the Lord. He dedicated his life to the Lord. Those early steps of commitment by Jacob were essentially the same as the acts of “first love” that God is speaking to the Ephesians about.

God is calling His people back to the place where He is first and foremost in their lives. He wants us to come back to the place where our souls are aflame with love for Him. Remember those days when just the mere mention of the name of Jesus was enough to bring tears to your eyes? Remember those days when “Amazing Grace” made you want to shout? Remember when you could think about Jesus dying on the cross, rising again from the dead, saving your soul by grace and nearly have a shouting spell? That is where the Lord wants to bring you back to! Remember when you loved the church, the Bible and the brethren? Remember when God was first, and He got your best? That is where He wants you to return to. God’s plan is for us to rekindle that deeply burning first love, rebuild the altars of our worship and serve Him faithfully!

Removal – The Ephesians believer are warned that if they fail to rekindle the old flame and love Jesus first, that they will face His chastisement. I just want to remind you that those who are saved by grace can fall from grace, (Gal 5:4)! You can be removed from the Lord’s family. But, you can count on this: if you choose to walk away from God, and you refuse to return to Him, you will face His judgment in your life! That is His Word; that is His promise ( Rev. 3:19; Heb. 12:5-11).

Here is a man who has not walked with the Lord as he should have for 20 years. But, I find it interesting that he can still hear the voice of the Lord. And, I am sure that there is no more miserable person in this world than a believer, who is away from the Lord spiritually, but who can still hear His voice and His call. How hard it must be to remember the good days of walking with the Lord, while being so far away from Him today. That must be how Adam felt when he heard the voice of the Lord walking in the garden, while he hid in shame because he was no longer right with the Lord, (Gen. 3:8-10)
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You don’t have to live in that misery any longer! You can come home right now. You can return to the Father and He will receive you and forgive you, (1 John 1:9). He will restore you and bless you again! Can you hear Him calling you? Jacob did and his life took a new direction!

TODAY’S HYMN and BLESSING!
“Turn My Heart “ By Lynn DeShazo (1992)

Turn my Heart, O Lord, like rivers of water,
Turn my heart, O Lord, by Your hand;
Till my whole life flows
in the river of Your Spi - rit
And my name brings honor to the Lamb.

(Repeat Chorus)

Lord, I surren-der to Your work in me; I rest my life within Your lov - ing hands.

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BITTYGIRL51 3/9/2012 4:22PM

    My love for him, grows deeper and deeper every day. I have so much to be thankful for...for when I knew him not, he was still there - waiting on me.

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NELLIEC 3/9/2012 3:30PM

    I remember that I was in a large cardboard box outside in my grandmother's back yard. I was reading Pilgrim's Progress. When he gave his life to Jesus, I prayed that Jesus would receive me also. I was about 7 or 8 at the time.

However, it didn't stop there. I have been regularly meeting with Jesus and He is my constant companion!

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ADJQUILTER 3/9/2012 11:01AM

    "But may all those who search for You be filled with joy and gladness. May those who love Your salvation repeatedly shout, "God is great!" Psalm 70:4

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GROEDER 3/9/2012 7:36AM

    This is a great reminder and lesson for us all!!!! Thanks for sharing God's "wake-up call" today.

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FOLLOWING IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF FAITH, 3/8/2012

Thursday, March 08, 2012

JACOB, FOLLOWING IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF FAITH,3/8/2012

Gen. 32:22-32
JUST A LITTLE TALK WITH JESUS, Lesson 37

This is the second spiritual encounter of Jacob's life. The first was at a place called Bethel, (Gen. 28:10-22). At Bethel, Jacob saw a ladder, as Jabbok, he saw the Lord. At Bethel, Jacob became a believing man, at Jabbok, he became a broken man. At Bethel, Jacob became a son of God, at Jabbok, he became a saint of God. At Bethel he died to his sins, at Jabbok, he died to self. He left Bethel with a spring in his step, he left Jabbok with a lasting limp but with a forever changed heart.

Now, all men need a Bethel experience. Every person needs to be able to recall a time when you met God personally, you received Him and became His child. Isn't salvation wonderful? However, many never go beyond that experience. They get saved and that's as far as they go. They never seem to be able to produce anything for the glory of the Lord. While we must have a Bethel experience if we expect to get to Heaven, we also need a Jabbok experience if we ever hope to be useful to the Lord.

The very thing that happened to Jacob needs to happen in the life of every believer today. He spent the night talking with the Lord and He was never the same. I would venture to say that 99% of all Christians need to have a little talk with Jesus like old Jacob had. Let's spend some time today looking into these verses and see what transpired during Jacob's talk with the Lord.

V. 24a JACOB WAS VERY MUCH ALONE

Jacob was facing a serious time of testing. He had left his home behind and he was about to face a brother he had wronged many years earlier. At this juncture in his life, he needed to seek counsel from the Lord. The fact that Jacob spent the night in prayer is evident from Hosea 12:4. As he entered this time of prayer meeting, Jacob found himself very much alone. All he had was gone. Family, servants, livestock, wealth, everything. Jacob was forced to face God all alone!

Many people fear this kind of loneliness! People structure their time to be as full as possible. The reason? When we are alone and unoccupied, then we have to come face to face with God, (Judas, Matt. 27:3-5)! People fear that kind of intimacy with the Lord! Yet, the very thing they fear is the very thing they need the most in their lives.

When we are busy, we can occupy the heart and the mind. When we are alone and still, it is easier for us to hear the Lord when He is speaking. Many sinners tend to fill their lives with busy work so that they can avoid the voice of God. If we Christians are going to be strong in the Lord, then we must find time to be alone with God. The value of a daily quiet time is clearly demonstrated in the life of the Lord Jesus Christ. He took time to be alone with the Father - (Matt. 14:23; Luke 6:12). You and I should never fear being alone with the Lord. He only has good planned for us, (Jer. 29:11), "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end."

V. 24b-25a JACOB WAS VERY MUCH ALIVE

As Jacob prayed that night, it appears that he experienced a Theophany. That is, he was privileged to be in a place where the Lord decided to manifest Himself in a personal manner…. A theophany is a pre-Bethlehem appearance of the Lord Jesus Christ. The angel was unable to overcome Jacob. Of course, we know that God could whip Jacob with just the thought of His mind, but He allowed Jacob to fight to bring Jacob to the place where he was willing to see himself as he truly was.

At this point in time, Jacob represents the fleshy nature of man. He represents our old, sinful nature that is constantly fighting against the Lord. These natures that we are born with are stubborn, unyielding, fighting and self-sufficient. The old nature of man is everything the saint of God should not be.

The fact is, many of us are just like Jacob! We fight the Lord at every turn in our lives. God will tell us something is wrong and the old nature rebels against the Lord's truth. God will tell is something is right and our flesh will rise up in defiance. Paul struggled with this dilemma - (Rom. 7:15-25). May I remind you that the old nature is not fit to live! It deserves on thing and that is to be put to death, (Col. 3:5-10; Eph. 4:22-24; ***Gal. 5:19-25***).

We are called upon to reckon the old man dead, (Rom. 6:1-18). However, we like to drag the corpse around with us don't we? The Roman practiced taking a convicted murderer into the desert, staking him down and then laying the corpse of his victim on top of him. Just as the corruption from that corpse would fall upon that guilty man until he eventually died, so our old nature eats away at us bringing death, destruction and corruption at every turn. The old human nature is fit for nothing less that the fire of hell. It does not deserve to live! I join Paul in exclaiming, "O wretched man that I am! who shall deliver me from the body of this death? I thank God through Jesus Christ our Lord. So then with the mind I myself serve the law of God; but with the flesh the law of sin."

I challenge you to ask yourself, "Who is alive? My self, that old man; or the Lord Jesus?" Do you constantly find yourself fighting against the Lord? Do you find yourself acting stubbornly when faced with God's plan for your life? Who is alive in you, the flesh or the Lord? Look again at Rom. 6:6-7; Gal. 2:20.

V. 25b-32 JACOB WAS VERY MUCH ALTERED

This one night in the life of Jacob was the culmination of 20 years of patient activity by the Lord. We want instant everything today. Instant coffee, instant tea, instant grits, instant gratification, instant everything! Yet there is one thing for sure: Instant holiness is not available to anyone! It is always the result of prayer, sacrifice and self-denial. It seems that God always takes His time in bringing us to spiritual maturity. He gently and patiently leads us along and brings us to the place where we can be filled and used for His glory. This is evident in the life of Jacob.

V. 25b-27 He Was A Broken man - Notice:

He Was Clinging - Jacob is no longer fighting, he is merely holding on. If we insist on fighting the Lord and His attempts at growing us, He will eventually bring us to the place where all the fight is gone. You see, He knows exactly where and how to touch your life to get your attention. ( Absalom and Joab - 2 Sam. 14:28-32). God's desire for your life and mine is that we come to the place where we stop walking in our own power and self-sufficiency and we come to the place where we are depending on Him for everything. He wants us to understand the truth of John 15:5.

He Was Confessing - The angels demands to know Jacob's name. He forced to admit just who he is. Jacob = trickster, supplanter, cheat, one who takes you by the heal. Or, in our terms, one who twists the arm. Jacob had to come to the place of seeing himself as he really was, before the Lord could use him. By the way, God can't use any of us until we are willing to admit the truth about ourselves to Him. God can't use us until we come to the place where we are willing to admit that we are failures and sinners before Him and that we are incapable of anything without Him ( 1 John 1:9). God will bless an honest heart, (Psa. 51:17), "The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou wilt not despise."

V. 28-30 He Was A Blessed Man - The Jacob who left Canaan was capable of deceiving his brother, lying to his blind father, of cheating a crooked uncle. But, the man who returns is a man with a new nature. No more Jacob the "Trickster", but Israel a "Prince with God." God's purpose in breaking us is always the same. He does it so that He can make us again, (The Potter - Jer 18:4). He doesn't throw us away, but He shapes us and molds us until we fit the image He desires for us to have. He really is still working on us! Saul who became Paul was worthless until he was broken before the Lord. But, once he was broken, the world was touched for Jesus! I wonder what God could do with each of us if we came to that place where we were totally broken and yielded before the Lord?

V. 31-32 He Was A Branded Man - The limp! Everywhere Jacob went after that day, he carried the mark of God upon his body; when he stood before Pharaoh in Gen. 47:7-10. Every step he took reminded him and everyone around him that he was the Lord's and the Lord had touched him in a very personal manner. The believer is no different , (Matt. 5:16). We ought to be branded for Jesus (Paul - Gal. 6:17) like the Law of the Bond-slave ( Ex. 21:1-6). After the hole had been bored into the ear, there was no doubt as to who the slave belonged to! By the way, folk ought not have to wonder about us either! The walk of the believer ought to be different ( 2 Cor. 5:17). When a man is walking with the Lord, he will always be out of step with the world!

Conc: Jacob's life was one of contrasts. Before this incident, faulty, substandard living marked this man's life. After this eventful night, holiness and spirituality marked him. If you were perfectly honest today, which would you say best describes your life? Carnal or spiritual? Perhaps this would be a good time for you to come to this altar and let this be the place for your Peniel experience. Let this be when you come before the Lord and allow yourself to be broken by Him for service. Let this be the time when you are forever altered. The time when you fully and finally present yourself a living sacrifice to the Lord Jesus Christ, (Rom. 12:1-2). Many of you know you have resisted His call, let this be the day when you find yourself out of step with the world and in step with God. Will you come as He calls you to Him?

TODAY’S HYMN and BLESSING!
“Have Thine OWN Way” By Adelaide Pollard (1902)

Have Thine own way, Lord! Have Thine own way! Thou art the Potter, I am the clay. Mold me and make me after Thy will,While I am waiting, yielded and still.

Have Thine own way, Lord! Have Thine own way! Search me and try me, Master, today! Whiter than snow, Lord, wash me just now,As in Thy presence humbly I bow.

Have Thine own way, Lord! Have Thine own way! Wounded and weary, help me, I pray! Power, all power, surely is Thine! Touch me and heal me, Savior divine.

Have Thine own way, Lord! Have Thine own way! Hold o’er my being absolute sway! Fill with Thy Spirit till all shall see Christ only, always, living in me.


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SCTRACKER 3/8/2012 11:16PM

    Thank you. That is one of my favorite hymns.

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    I am subscribing to your Blog. I am not sure how it works but I will figure it out. So much food for thought. I love this food! ...and the vegetable soup too... emoticon

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Good Luck reaching Your Goals!
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ADJQUILTER 3/8/2012 3:48PM

    Every day your blog blesses me in a new way!

"Have Thine own way, Lord! Have Thine own way! Thou art the Potter, I am the clay. Mold me and make me after Thy will,While I am waiting, yielded and still."

In order for God to mold me, I must be waiting, yielded and still. I am trying, with God's help to assume that attitude: expectant, waiting, yielded, still, and thankful.


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VISUALLYRICS 3/8/2012 12:24PM

    Thank you for this encouraging blog, and Welcome to the Driven by Faith Team!
We are truly Driven by our Faith in Jesus...it's All about Him!

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FERGSGIRL2 3/8/2012 11:50AM

    Another great blog that I can use to search my own heart and life; God is using you to speak to His people; continue to be receptive to His will for you and your life. I'm feasting on this and experiencing God's presence and peace. Bless you,


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GROEDER 3/8/2012 7:57AM

    The message really hits home for me!!!!! It reminds me of my own questioning, stubborn nature. Every day I pray that God puts me in the position that I am totally ready to let Him take complete control - and I know He will, in His time!!!!
Thank you for a GREAT lesson, Vic.

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FOLOWING IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF FAITH, 3/7/2012

Wednesday, March 07, 2012

JOSEPH, Following In The Footsteps Of Faith, 3/7/2012

THE MESSAGE FROM JOSEPH’S BATTLES, 36d

A. There Is A Message Of Hope – If the early years of Joseph’s life teach us anything, they teach us that your childhood does not have to ruin you. On the same note, your past should never be allowed to define you! Just because you came up rough doesn’t mean you have to live that way now. Just because you were raised around harsh words and violent tempers does not mean that you have to use the same words and display the same temper! You can overcome you past by the help of God!

To look at how you act and say, “Well, that’s just how I was raised”, is a copout! People say, “Well, my mother was ill-natured and that’s how I am too.” No, it’s how you choose to be! Others say, “My parents were negative and so am I. I can’t help it!” No, it’s how you choose to be. Some say, “A bad temper runs in my family and I guess I come by it naturally.” No, it’s how you choose to be!

To blame your actions on people in your past is nothing more than a smokescreen for a heart that refuses to repent of sin and be changed by the power of God! God would change you if you would let Him! He would take the shackles of your past off forever, if you would allow Him to. Your past should never be allowed to define who you are today! What if people like Peter, Paul, King David and King Josiah had adopted the attitude of people in our day? They all had pain and problems in their past, but they overcame them all by the help of the Lord and rose above that which could have held them down. We all have the power of choice!

B. There Is A Message Of Home – If we can take anything away from the home of Joseph it is the truth that our own homes should be sanctuaries of godliness. Every mother and father should fall down before the Lord and ask for His help to make your hope a godly home. It should be a place where Jesus rules; where His praises are heard; where He is Lord and where He is honored at all times.

Our homes must be places where our children can hear the Gospel and see it lives out. Our homes must be places where the Bible is read, honored and lived. Our homes should be places of worship, where Jesus is lifted up. Our homes should be places where the voice of the Holy Spirit is able to speak to hearts and lead us in the right paths. Whether you have children or not, you ought to pray to that end today! Every home that makes up this church should stand as a shining light for other homes in the church and in the world.

C. There Is A Message Of Help – As I consider the problems that plagued the early years of Joseph, there is a great blessing that I can take away with me today. I can rejoice that God was able to take the ore of this young man’s life; refine it and shape it into pure gold for His glory! That is a blessing to me!

Looking at Joseph from the outside, and considering all of his problems and the dysfunction of his hone, it would have been easy to conclude that he would amount to nothing! But, God took this life and shaped him into one of the greatest men of the Bible. That is the power of grace! That is the power of God! It gives me hope as a parent. I know I made my mistakes raising my children. It is a comfort to know that God can overcome my foolishness and use my children in spite of me. It gives me hope as a Man. I see children growing up today with the deck stacked against them. It is a comfort to know that God can work in their lives in spite of their problems. He can save them and use them. It gives me hope as a person as well. When I think of my own past and the baggage I carry to this day, I am encouraged when I understand that God can use me in spite of what I am, where I have been and what I have seen and done. I hope it gives you hope as well.

Conc: When God went looking for an Apostle to the Gentiles, He didn’t look inside the church. God went to the most unlikely mine imaginable and dug out some ore that no one would have chosen. When God was finished refining and shaping that ore it became the gold called Paul. When God went to choose a new king for Israel, God didn’t look in Saul’s palace. God went to the most unlikely mine called Bethlehem and dung out some very unlikely ore. When God was finished refining and shaping that ore, He had David, “a man after God’s Own heart”. When God sought a man to lead His people out of Egypt, He didn’t choose the likely candidates. He went to an unlikely mine and dug out the ore of a washed up, eighty-year-old fugitive who was keeping his father-in-law’s sheep. When God finished refining and shaping that ore, He had a Moses.

The Bible, and the church, is filled with stories just like those. God can take us in spite of what the world and the past has tried to do to us and He can take our unlikely ore and shape it into valuable gold that He can use for His glory. Praise His name!

If you have never trusted Jesus and He is dealing with your heart, you need to come to Him and be saved. If He has spoken to you about the life you are living, you need to come and get your ore into His hands. If there are issues in your past that need to be reconciled, bring them now. If you want to come and pray about your home, come now.
If you are ready to stop making excuses for your bad behavior and you are ready to become what the Lord can make you, you come now. This altar is open and God stands ready to help you with the burdens you bring to Him.

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BITTYGIRL51 3/7/2012 3:39PM

    The home is to be a microcosim of the church. We in our home aspire to achieve such but perfection will only be attained when we reach heaven. Until then, we will do our best to draw closer to our maker and trust that He will honor our efforts.

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POETLKNG2LOSE 3/7/2012 2:44PM

    We all make excuses for our behavior and the way we act. It's easier to excuse than it is to change from the inside out. There are many times i just want to give up. I know god can work in me i just have to be able to trust him. That is a hard one for me.

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SUNSETBREEZE05 3/7/2012 12:59PM

    Awesome is our God! Thanks for sharing your insight.

Good Luck reaching Your Goals,
Cindy

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GROEDER 3/7/2012 8:21AM

    God has the power to shape us to His will, no matter our upbringing. All we need is faith and the desire to let Him have our lives. He will show us the way!!

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ADJQUILTER 3/7/2012 7:15AM

    Lord, take me and shape me and mold me into what You have planned for me to be.
Your plans are perfect. Enlighten my heart and guide my steps that I may always seek to follow Thee!
Amen

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FOLLOWING IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF FAITH, 3/6/2012

Tuesday, March 06, 2012

JOSEPH, Following In The Footsteps Of Faith, 3/6/2012

THE MAZE OF JOSEPH’S BOYHOOD, 36c

The Problem Areas Of His Childhood – Joseph’s upbringing was not an easy one. In fact, his early years were like a minefield. It is amazing that anyone could survive the pain and turmoil of those years with their sanity, their integrity and their emotions intact. Let’s take a moment to look at some of the events that marked young Joseph’s life.

We have already talked about the problems in the home. One man with children by four women, living under the same roof, is a recipe for trouble! Add to this the fact that Jacob obviously loved Rachel more than the other women and you have trouble enough to go around, Gen. 30.

At a young age Joseph and his family make a hasty departure from his grandfather Laban’s house. They flee away under the cover of darkness, (Gen. 31:17-21), because Jacob has cleaned out his father-in-law through deception.

Imagine the fear as your grandfather chases the family, overtakes the family and has hard words with your father, (Gen. 31:22-35). Laban accuses Jacob of stealing his household gods. Jacob denies this, but it turns out that Rachel had taken them. She lies to her father to cover up her theft.

Jacob and Laban make a covenant to stay away from one another. Laban departs and Joseph never sees his grandfather again, (Gen. 31:36-55). Gen. 31:49 is not a prayer of blessing; it is a threat of violence!

As you travel, word comes that your father’s brother, Esau, is coming out with many men to meet the family. Jacob is afraid of Esau because of the way he treated Esau some twenty years earlier. He divides his flocks into three parts to be used as a bribe to soften the heart of Esau, (Gen. 32:1-23).

Joseph’s older sister Dinah is raped by Shechem. Two of his brothers, Simeon and Levi trick the men of the city and eventually kill them all, (Gen. 34:1-31).

Deborah, Rebekah’s nurse dies, (Gen. 35:8). Jacob does nothing to make things right.
Rachel, Joseph’s mother, dies while giving birth to his little brother Benjamin, (Gen. 35:16-20).

Reuben, the oldest brother, commits incest with his father’s concubine, Bilhah, (Gen. 35:21-22). Jacob knows about it but does nothing, as usual.

Joseph’s other grandfather, Isaac, dies and is buried, (Gen. 35:27-29).

Joseph’s older brothers were all wicked, self-centered men.

Jacob was a passive father who allowed his children to do as they pleased with no correction.

Jacob was also guilty of favoritism. He loved Joseph more than the rest of his sons, (Gen. 37:3).

Joseph lost his beloved mother at a young age.

Joseph was uprooted and moved as a young age.

Joseph was surrounded by rape, murder, incest, treachery, intrigue, idolatry, jealousy, death and hatred. This was a very negative and hostile environment in which to raise a child. Many people can look back at your own upbringing and see many problems with how you were brought up. Some of you were brought up in violent homes. Others were raised with drinking, drugs and hellish living. Some may have been physically or sexually abused. Hearing what Joseph faced may have dredged up bad memories of your own past. Let me encourage you to place your past in the hands of a sovereign Lord. Trust Him for the grace to live with the memories and for the strength to avoid making the same mistakes.

Where did all this dysfunction come from? It all started when Abraham asked Sarai to lie about their relationship, (Gen. 12:10-20). The foundation for future turmoil was laid when Sarai gave her maid Hagar to Abraham to be his concubine, (Gen. 16:1-16). The problems in that family, and in every other family, are passed down from generation to generation. Looking at the problems that existed in this home, we should have a desire to avoid some of their mistakes. Just for the record, here is how to build a dysfunctional home:

Be less than truthful with one another.
Be jealous of other family members.
Demonstrate favoritism to your children.
Try to help God accomplish His will in your home.
Practice deception so you can get your way.
Operate outside of the will of God.
Live a life of anger, manipulation and control.
Sin is always the root cause of dysfunction in the home!

The Positive Areas Of His Childhood – Not everything was negative in Joseph’s background. There were a few positive moments along the way. Let me share a few that may have had a hand in shaping the life of this special young man. One night Jacob sent his family ahead and he stayed behind to pray about his upcoming meeting with Esau. Jacob had an encounter with God that night that changed his life forever, (Gen. 32:24-32). When he catches back up with his family, he is limping on his leg and he tells them that he has a new name. He will no longer be called “Jacob”, which means “Trickster, Deceiver, Heal-grabber”. His new name will be “Israel”, which means “Prince with God”. Jacob has a new name, a new walk and a new life. He would never live like a trickster again! Surely the change in his father was something young Joseph never forgot.

God calls Jacob to come back to Bethel. Jacob demands that they do away with their false gods. He calls his family together to worship God alone. While they are there, Jacob builds an altar, worships the Lord, and gives the testimony of how he first met the Lord, (Gen. 35:1-4). Surely young Joseph never forgot the lessons he learned and the testimonies he heard at Bethel.

Gen. 35:5 tells us that as this family journeyed they enjoyed divine protection. They were surrounded by warlike tribes, but they were not attacked. This must have made an impression on Joseph.

As I said, most of us can find flaws in our upbringing, if we look close enough. Yet, most of us can look back and see times when God revealed His hand in our lives, even at a young age. I can remember prayers, church services, godly people, etc, that left a mark on my life. Thank God for those times when the Lord moved, in spite of the darkness and the sin, and revealed His presence and His providential protection. You can never underestimate the importance of the positive influences on a child’s life. In Joseph’s case, the positive influences seem to have had far more impact that the negative ones. I think the same can be said about your life and mine as well.

SHARE THIS LESSON WITH A FRIEND!

To Be Continued Tomorrow!

  
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JUST_BREATHE08 3/6/2012 11:29PM

    Thank you.....Great Blog!!

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GROEDER 3/6/2012 6:44PM

    This shows that God's hand can be with us no matter what our upbringing. He can lead us from dysfunctional childhood to a life of service for Him.
Thanks for the lesson and the words of wisdom on breaking the cycle.

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BITTYGIRL51 3/6/2012 2:22PM

    That is very enlightening, Vic. It gives me great comfort to know that dysfunctional homes very much existed back in Bible days and that it is not just ours or a sign of the current times. The part that ministered to me the most and the part of work on the hardest is the following;

"Try to help God accomplish His will in your home"...I try very hard NOT TO, but sometimes I think I get in the way of what God wants to do or get impatient.

God Bless you for these studies. They really minister to me, ALWAYS even though I don't always comment.
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ADJQUILTER 3/6/2012 12:25PM

    The real blessing is knowing that our God can heal even the most dysfunctional childhood, and He loves us because He is our Father!
Thank you, Vic, for another thought provoking blog.
God bless you!
Arlene
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IAM_HIS2 3/6/2012 9:17AM

    What a blessing!! You have us so much wisdom in this message...I truly needed to read this and look at my childhood differently. Also, I needed to know how to stop the cycle of being dysfunctional. The antidote to being dysfunctional: truth.

God bless you for this teaching!!

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FOLLOWING IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF FAITH, 3/5/2012

Monday, March 05, 2012

JOSEPH, FOLLOWING IN THE FOOTSTEPS OF FAITH, 3/5/2012

Genesis 30:22-24
GOLD FROM AN UNLIKELY MINE, Lesson 36b

We hear a lot in our day about dysfunctional homes. I realize that many homes are in turmoil today. Divorces, sins of all kinds, absentee parents, among other evils, have left the home in tatters. In many cases it seems that little children growing up today do not stand a chance.

We are told that we are a product of our environment. We are told that our background shapes our lives to such a degree that how we were raised will determine how we will live. To a certain degree we are all products of our upbringing. We bring with us certain traits, habits and characteristics from the homes in which we were raised. Thankfully, that is not true in every case!

Joseph blows that theory out of the water! Before Joseph was thrown into a pit; before he served as a slave in Potipher’s house; before he languished in prison; and before he stood before Pharaoh as Prime Minister of Egypt, Joseph spent his formative years in a home marked by sin, sadness, strife and struggles. Yet, Joseph became a great man of God and was used of the Lord in tremendous ways.

Today, I want to examine the early years of Joseph’s life. I want to talk about those formative years that could have formed a boy into an evil man. Instead, I want you to see that God overcame Joseph’s family, his upbringing and all the negative influences he faced.

Looking at Joseph’s family and at his early years, most people would have concluded that Joseph didn’t stand a chance. After all, most of his brothers didn’t turn out too well. God, in His providence and by His power, was able to overcome all the negatives in Joseph’s life.

I want you to see how God dug “Gold From An Unlikely Mine“. Let me share some simple observations with you today as we focus on the thought “Gold From An Unlikely Mine“.

THE MIRACLE OF JOSEPH’S BIRTH

The Testimony Of His Birth – Joseph was born into a family embroiled in the midst of controversy. His father Jacob fell in love with his cousin, a girl named Rachel, and agreed to work for her father Laban, who was also Jacob’s uncle, for seven years, (Gen. 29:18). The deal was struck and after seven years, the wedding day arrived. Laban had two daughters, Leah and Rachel. Leah was the oldest, but Rachel was, by far, the most attractive. On the evening of the wedding, Uncle Laban tricked the trickster and sent his eldest daughter Leah to Jacob’s tent instead of Rachel, (Gen. 29:23). Jacob spends his wedding night with Leah, and in the morning discovers the trick, (Gen 29:25). Jacob confronts Laban who agrees to let Jacob have Rachel in exchange for seven more years of work, (Gen. 29:27-28). He didn’t have to wait seven years to marry Rachel. He had to wait one week, (Gen. 29:27-30), but work seven more years for his uncle.

So, within a week, Jacob has two young wives. These two wives are sisters. Jacob clearly loves Rachel more than he does Leah, (Gen. 29:30). This sets the stage for jealousy, bitterness and anger.

It isn’t long before Leah gets pregnant, not once, but four times. She gives Jacob four sons, Reuben, Simeon, Levi and Judah, one after the other, (Gen. 29:32-35). Rachel comes unglued! The worse thing that could happen to a woman in that day was to be childless. She takes matters into her own hands and gives Jacob her handmaid Bilhah to have children in her place (Gen. 30:1-4). Bilhah has two sons, Dan and Naphtali, (Gen. 30:5-8). Leah sees this and knows that she isn’t having children again so she gives her handmaid Zilpah to Jacob to have children for her, (Gen. 30:9). Zilpah has two sons, Gad and Asher, (Gen. 30:10-13). After a time, Leah has three more children by Jacob, Issachar, Zebulon and a daughter named Dinah, (Gen. 30:17-21). Are you confused yet?

Now Jacob has ten sons and a daughter, but his beloved wife Rachel is still barren. However, God in His providence hears Rachel’s pleas for a son and Joseph is born, (Gen. 30:22-24). Joseph’s birth is a testimony in itself because God opened a barren womb to bring him into the world. He was born because of divine intervention! By the way, you are here because God, in His sovereignty, decided to send you to this world. Your birth was not an accident; it was the will of God! That is a testimony in itself!

The Triumph Of His Birth – Surely Jacob was proud of all his sons. Surely he was pleased with his little daughter Dinah. But, still something was missing! As he watched the woman he loved suffer because she could not have children, it must have broken his heart. But, God heard their prayers! God opened Rachel’s womb and Joseph was born! The birth of little Joseph brought about a time of rejoicing and great happiness in Jacob’s home. That is how the birth of a baby affects every home. Those cute, wrinkled dictators are born and they dominate the home. But, they bring with them such joy and satisfaction. Thank God for the privilege of seeing children come into the world!

C. The Timing Of His Birth – Joseph was the eleventh son born to Jacob. Reuben was Jacob’s first born. Form all outward appearances; Joseph entered this life at a disadvantage. It did not appear that there was much hope for his future in the family. He would always be the low man on the totem pole, being bossed around and picked on by the others. The timing of his birth could not have been worse, from a human perspective. But, as we will see, God knew what He was doing, and like cream, Joseph rose to the top of that family. You might look at your own life today and feel like everything is against you. Don’t count the Lord out! He has a plan for you, and He will implement and execute that plan, no matter how things may appear.


INVITE A FRIEND TO YHE TEAM!

TO BE CONTINUED TOMORROW!

  
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POETLKNG2LOSE 3/5/2012 4:35PM

    Thank you for the blog about gold. I often forget that God put me here for a purpose and i am not insignificant or unimportant.

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NELLIEC 3/5/2012 2:58PM

    Also, because Joseph was preferred by his father, the other brothers were jealous, and could see no good in him!

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FERGSGIRL2 3/5/2012 2:23PM

    Awesome and informative blog! You brought some points I had not heard explained before. Thanks for taking the time to post these blogs! Looking forward to the next one!

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ADJQUILTER 3/5/2012 9:38AM

    I pray that God will use His patience to find the gold in my unlikely mine!
I suspect that if any gold might be there it is because He put it there!
Thank You and praise You dear and patient miner!
Amen!
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IAM_HIS2 3/5/2012 8:39AM

    Wonderful blog. God bless you. I look forward to tomorrow's blog.

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GROEDER 3/5/2012 7:34AM

    You are certainly right about Joseph's family life!!! If not for God's intervention, he would not have had a chance!!!
Praise the Lord for his wisdom!!!

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SVELTEWARRIOR 3/5/2012 7:30AM

    Wonderful blog!!


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