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Credit card companies will go just like the Dinosaurs!

Thursday, October 08, 2009

I just read a blog about credit card fiasco's and added my own 2 cents. These companies are on the way to extinction!! Here it is!

I can sure understand why people want to get rid of their credit cards these days. Those Companys are ruthless. I lost my job the end of last year, after working almost 26 years, and lived on Unemployment and my savings up until 2 mos ago. I now have no income, and I tried to explain to 2 of these high interest credit cards, that I was in the interim, as for getting my next income check. And those suckers don't care, I am still getting nailed for late payment fee (needless to say, I was never behind until now) and they are closing my accounts. I was floored at their behavior. Do these credit card companys know if they keep treating the "good paying" consumer this way, because of a minor setback, that they will lose us, and their company and their own jobs? Geeesh if only.

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IUHRYTR 10/9/2009 12:53AM

    Loyalty is a one-way street when it comes to the companies. Hang in there. -- Lou

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QUIDDITCHGRRL 10/8/2009 6:53PM

    I agree...banks make a LOT of money from credit cards, and they are going to pay the piper here soon, with so many people just saying, "screw that" and filing for bankruptcy instead of repaying their cards.

I read an article yesterday - Americans spent more on overdraft fees last year than they did on PRODUCE. :-(

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_CALLIOPE_ 10/8/2009 4:26PM

    Oh they are the WORST! I actually *just* checked my credit card statement and it said I'd gone over my limit by $15. Why? Because they had added some weird membership fee that I've never seen before! I bet they did that just so I'd go over the limit and get slapped with tons of fees! I didn't work for three months, so obviously I lived off my credit cards. Now I have to pay for it--literally... I can't wait to pay off my debt and then cancel my account with these dishonest bloodsuckers!

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Baby steps, and I mean baby......lol

Sunday, October 04, 2009

Today was good, I actually got off my duff, and walked a bit. I am not getting enough exercise. Because I hate it.
But know I need it. No matter how much I cut back on calorie intake, I still need some activity. I will just dry up and blow away, maybe skinny, but not very strong.
I do know it goes hand in hand, and geeze how much tv can one watch? anyway? I actually am, getting sick of it.
and too much time on the computer too. I need a life! lol emoticon

  
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LADYNETTIE 10/6/2009 12:01AM

    I started out feeling the same way about exercise, but slowly I began to enjoy my time doing it. Get an MP3 player if you don't have one, it makes a huge difference to me to be able to walk and run to music. It's actually something to look forward to now, after sitting on my butt staring at a computer screen all day! Take care and keep sparking!!

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SILVERWITCH59 10/5/2009 8:21PM

    I just do it and get it done. I am not a fan either. LOL

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PINKCOCONUT 10/4/2009 9:49PM

    I hear ya! I've been pretty lax in the exercise department this week but I know I can't keep it up. If I do I'll undo everything I've worked for and nothing else will come off! So we can get off our butts together.

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FANA52 10/4/2009 7:50PM

  I didn't much of anything. I didn't even get out & walk with my dogs. I just did a 90 min. of yard work but the heat is back in Fl & I just couldn't take the heat after several real nice days. I just tried to catch up on computer stuff. Tomorrow is another day.

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_CALLIOPE_ 10/4/2009 7:40PM

    I used to hate exercise and really, really dread it. But after working out consistently for several months, I have learned to love it:) they key is to do something that you actually like, or make it more interesting. I always bring my iPod and listen to podcasts so I won't get bored. Without my iPod, I'm lost! And it really sucks that my iPod recently got stolen, so now I have to get a new one so that I won't die of boredom at the gym...

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POKIEFUZZBUCKET 10/4/2009 7:31PM

    I know exercise can be annoying at first, but once you get into it and find an activity you enjoy you will grow to like it, even crave it. The key is to listen to your body and just to keep at it!
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LUCKY-13 10/4/2009 7:20PM

    I can relate to spending too much time on computer! Between my job, Spark and Google, I'm on the computer than I sleep!

As for exercise, try to find something you like and exercise can become fun. Maybe dancing? There's a lot of ideas if you check out the fitness tracker. I never would have found out that cutting the grass or raking leaves counted as cardio until I looked.

Have fun!
Lucky

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They just don't get it

Saturday, October 03, 2009

I have never been so happy with a plan, like I have here on Sparkpeople. I feel better, I look better, I do more, and I am getting back my strength, and clear skin.

But.......... sigh....... I have been telling friends, and family, and of course they see the results. All about Sparkpeople, and how it's turned my life around. They are like, ok I will check it out.
That's as far as it goes.

I am thinking, they don't want to give up their lifestyle, of eating fattening, sugary, calorie and carb high foods. No they don't. Or they would put more effort into seeing what Sparkpeople is all about. This is the most effective plan, I have ever been on, in my life. All you have to do
is follow the guidelines, that simple. That's why it's so hard for me to fathom, why they don't want to do it?

I worry about their health. I know they would be so more self-confident, and happy if they chose to do something about it. I am offering this website. I cannot do it for them, wish I could, but they have to do it for themselves. I hope as I keep up my journey, and lose the weight, and keep building my self-confidence, they might consider it. Here's hoping. emoticon

  
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MARIAELENAGZ 10/4/2009 2:03PM

    Yup, you spread the word, now it's up to them. You are doing so GREAT!!!!!!!!! Keep up the fabulous work!!!!!!!! emoticon

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GABIRUSZCZAK 10/3/2009 10:17PM

    Never underestimate the power of your modeling this new lifestyle. People are hesitant about change no matter how beneficial and for lots of reasons not even they could articulate. At this point the best things to do is to continue with your own process, your journey and share YOUR feelings and accomplsihment s with them in a non-threatening and supportive manner. Ask them to celebrate your milestimes with you and when you least expect it, you may find one or more of them really taking what you say to heart and making a change...

Either way, be proud of YOUR accomplishments and stand strong! Namaste. Gabi

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WANDA68 10/3/2009 10:07PM

    this was my # 1 tough lesson that I learned this week that I really have to let go and take care of myself and I am the only one that can do it and the people that I love the most and care about do not get it either My overweight 16 yr old son in particular and it hurts but hopefully like you say when they continue see the results one day they will and hopefully want it for them selves as well. Good luck!

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SILVERWITCH59 10/3/2009 6:01PM

    People are scared of failure .It is only human for you to want them to join you..Alas the old saying you can lead a horse to water but.... LOL Congrats to you on your journey to a new healthy life Keep up the good work :)

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MELA1953 10/3/2009 4:34PM

    I look back at myself and realize that no one could tell me what to do- I had to come to a conclusion that I needed help all by myself and a friend just so happened to mention SP to me so I checked it out - that was almost a year ago and 84 lbs ago.. All we can do is hope that our friends who need help will begin to feel it for themselves...

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_CALLIOPE_ 10/3/2009 1:18PM

    It sucks when people don't understand what's good for them... I have a friend who wants to lose 15lbs and I told her how to do it. Did she listen? Nope, instead she went out and got some OTC diet pills. Sigh...

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LYNNR61 10/3/2009 1:07PM

    What a tender heart you have! I agree with the comments here. You need to look after yourself and do what you can to help others. If they choose to not take your advice, you have done all you can.

Sorry about your friend Merlinandme.

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FILLANGES 10/3/2009 1:03PM

    I remember back before I started this journey and I didn't want to hear about anything. Until each of us is "ready" or actually "willing" to make the change, we won't. As for you, you are doing AWESOME and if that's not enough to get your loved ones excited, just keep doin' what your doin'!!! I've actually convinced my wife, mother, son, and one daughter to join...they have all given up without any efforts. they are just not ready. But they all say "I wish i could do what you are doing" LOL I say they can, but they aren't ready. Take care and God Bless. Rick emoticon emoticon emoticon

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ANGELBELIEVER 10/3/2009 12:57PM

    You are doing all you can. They're just not ready yet. Who knows...down the road they may get tired of being sick and tired and remember there is a place they can go to for help. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink! Good for you for spreading the Spark. What they decide to do with it is their choice. emoticon

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POKIEFUZZBUCKET 10/3/2009 12:51PM

    I think as long as we keep spreading the word and living our lives in a healthy and happy way, it will start to make sense to the people in our lives eventually. I tried to get my sister and my partner into SP, but it just wasn't right for them at the time. I hope that as they see me succeed they will reconsider and come back to it eventually!!
Until then we just keep on keeping on!
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MERLINANDME 10/3/2009 12:46PM

    We have no power to control the behaviors of others. We have to focus on ourselves. I have lost 148 pounds here. I told my friend about it, signed her up, showed her exercises she could do at home, encouraged her to join a medically based gym like mine. She did join the gym and cried everyday because she hated exercise.

So, she chose gastric bypass surgery, against my advice. And she died from the surgery--directly from the surgery.

We can worry. We can suggest. We can offer. But we cannot control the choices other people make. I focus on my own behaviors and am pleased when someone tells me I am an inspiration. But I also understand the real inspiration is personal desire for change and the willingness to do the work required to achieve it.

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The Holidays are coming, the holidays are coming!!

Monday, September 21, 2009

I am so ready for them. I am going to decorate and bake, and have a great ol time. Because, I am not going to mess up my progress by indulging in the bad foods. No I am not. But all of my friends want me to bake, lol. You know I think I can, and it will not affect me. So I will still make a batch of my most loved fudge. And I won't touch it. Because, I don't want to. How's that?
I just talked to my Brother, and last thing he said before we hung up, I need you to bake me a cake Sis. No occasion, he just likes my buttercream frosting. I swear, if we could add weight through our skin, I would be doomed, because everyone still wants me to bake for them, including my former boss. And what's really cool, is they know I can, and I will make it for them, not for me. So there, Holidays! Take that, I will not be defeated by you. Mark my words. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon Another reason I am asked to do these things, is that I am an artist with my foods, I like them to stand out, be inviting, and all my friends and family love that. My last endeavor was some little frog truffles, I did for a bake sale at work. I didn't make enough of these, but they were pretty intricate, and time consuming so I only made a dozen, lol, they didn't survive the first 5 minutes, because everyone wanted to take one home to their spouse. But I love to do it, it is my passion.

  
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LADYNETTIE 9/30/2009 11:36PM

    I agree with you, I want to bake goodies during the holidays but am not the least bit interested in eating them all, so I will give them all away and enjoy the attention and appreciation that I get from those that will enjoy them. Bring on the holidays!!!

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_CALLIOPE_ 9/28/2009 11:34AM

    I can't wait to see some pictures from this year's holiday artistry!

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BARBARASDIET 9/26/2009 8:26PM

    Good for you--it sounds as though you are really an artist. I send good thoughts that you will be able to resist the temptation of trying the treats you bake! I am just not that strong, although a lot better than I used to be!

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HONEYBEE56 9/23/2009 12:14AM

    I love to make holiday goodies too and the families all love them. Like you, it's also a passion of mine.

However; I'm still afraid to make cookies as I was a notorious cookie a holic before sparkpeople!



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SHIRLEYX 9/22/2009 8:11AM

    It sounds like you have a great plan MJ! I used to be an incredible baker and chocolatey, but have switched my energy into creating beautiful shushi - you can do so much, butterflies, flowers etc. My family and friends are all very health conscious and really appreciate the switch. It is a lot more expensive though LOL
Have fun this holiday season and pics would be wonderful!

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SLJWATTS 9/21/2009 10:28PM

    I have the same problem- and I do like to bake, but it does take me off focus from my eating plan because I do taste as I go...wish I didn't but I do. Hope you stay stronger than me... Sharon

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MELA1953 9/21/2009 9:43PM

    It's all in the presentation!!! And of course the skill to go with it!! You sound like you will be fine this holiday season- good luck to you!

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POKIEFUZZBUCKET 9/21/2009 7:52PM

    What a wonderful gift to have! And I admire your willpower to make these things for those around you without indulging yourself. Cooking and baking has as much to do with love and care as it does with eating, so I can see how that would work!
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Have a good night!
Patti

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JUDITHHELEN 9/21/2009 7:01PM

    Good for you!!! I know you can and will do it!

I usually bake a lot of fancy Christmas cookies of all kinds and wrap them up as gifts for my husband to take into work for his staff. Strangely enough, I've never been tempted by sweets so I'll probably be able to do it again this year. Oh, but those chips!!! They are my downfall. If I eat just one, it's all over and the bag is gone in no time.

You're doing great!

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SILVERWITCH59 9/21/2009 4:23PM

    I love to bake too. I bake 100's of cookies and give them away over the holidays :)

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QUIDDITCHGRRL 9/21/2009 3:42PM

    I love to bake, too. There is something magical about putting things into a bowl and mixing them up, adding a little heat and pouf! Food! :)

That being said, I think I am more prepared for the holidays than I ever have been, temptation-wise. Hopefully I can be mindful and aware of my downfalls and habits and when I do indulge, do it in a moderate way. I just don't have any more time for the gym, so I can't eat any more than I am now. :P

Good for you, I hope you keep knocking everyone's socks off!

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TXLIZWOLF 9/21/2009 2:27PM

    I applaud your resolution and am confident that you will stick to it. Bake away, MJ, bake away!! Too bad I am on your side of the table and can't enjoy all the holiday goodies. But I won't either.

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SCORPION1352 9/21/2009 2:15PM

    Another baker yeah------I love cooking in general and I too think this season is not going hard for me I think I have overcome the hard parts. What an accomplishment that is.

Have fun this season would to see the pics of those little frogs

Marty

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LISSUS 9/21/2009 2:05PM

    GOOD for you!! I've got to be honest and say the upcoming holidays scare me. Soo much yummy goodness everywhere, and I'm afraid my willpower will take a beating.

It's awesome that you can cook/bake for others and resist the temptation!

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What I eat

Friday, September 18, 2009

I have been asked by one of the members of Sparkpeople what I eat. I would allow my fellow sparkers to see my nutrition page, but I include my journal, and I put some more private thoughts on that. So here goes

Breakfast.... usually is cereal, I try to have very nutritious, fiber cereals, I like the kashi puffed cereal, or I like the generic brand bran, which has no hydrogenated ingredients, where all bran did. With a cup of soymilk, I like silk vanilla light. And of course a fruit, to sweeten. Most of the time its a banana I try to eat one every day for potassium. Once or twice a week, usually on Sunday I have an egg white omelet, with sour cream topping and chopped tomatoes on top, filling varies, I do like goat cheese and baby spinach, mostly. I change it up to not get bored with any of my food items. And I have my 1 cuppa coffee in the a.m. with silk creamer.

Lunch.... is usually my protein, I eat it early in the day. Either chicken breast, or turkey lean, or fish, or beans, usually homemade for the sodium control. Canned beans even rinsed, I cannot figure how much sodium is still there. I try different recipes with my chicken, and fish, my favorite at the moment is pecan crusted, I substitute almonds, oh my, but it is so
delish! And I add a salad, for my roughage, and raw vege needs. I either spritz on a dressing
or use a no fat dressing, or throw some mandarin oranges on it, with some almonds and not use a dressing, but vinaigrette works well with that combo.

Dinner.... is usually my steamed veges, its my smallest meal of the day, and I usually eat around 5, no later than 6 p.m. I have 2 cups steamed, with my still bad ingredient, until I can completely cut it out, and that is my Brummel and Brown. I love the taste, but it has bad ingredients. I have purchased Smart balance, so we will see.

then I have my snacks, 1 being another fruit, I only eat 2 a day, most fruit is high in sugar, so I feel 2 are enough for me, sometimes 3. I like Sun chips, good ingredients. And of course my organic popcorn, or I just nosh on raw vege's

And throughout the day, I drink the water. I believe this is what keeps me stable, and not wanting to eat more food. It keeps me full.

And I keep my calories at the low end of my 1200-1550 guidelines. Sometimes I have 100 more, mainly on Sundays, I just add something else, it also keeps my metabolism confused! lol

  
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BIBLIOMANE40 9/20/2009 12:04PM

    Great info! Thanks for sharing :)

Sherry

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_CALLIOPE_ 9/19/2009 5:34PM

    You make healthy choices, and even if you have one "bad" ingredient, it doesn't really matter. I mean, I don't eat 100% clean, but I'm trying to phase out the occasional Diet Coke and the artificial sweeteners I sometimes use. Overall, you and I are doing a great job. and I can't wait to see what the scale tells you at your next weigh-in!

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TXLIZWOLF 9/18/2009 9:44PM

    You do very much the same I do. I do not eat past 7 p.m. because of GERD, and stop drinking my water by 9 p.m., so I don't have to get up in the middle of the night and disturb my beauty sleep :)


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