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Chemotherapy and radiation starting today

Thursday, September 12, 2013

Becca and her parents have returned to CHOP. She is going through her first radiation treatment right now.

This morning, her parents had to put a pill in her mouth that is, essentially, poison. Chemotherapy is a carefully concocted potion of chemicals that, incorrectly dosed, could kill her. And they don't know for certain that this is the correct medicine.

Those of us, their friends and family, can only pray and offer our love and support. One of the ways that we are showing that support is to participate in the CureSearch Walk, a fundraiser for children's cancer research, on September 28. So far we have raised over $5000, and have 24 walkers signed up.

If you live in the Cleveland area, then consider walking. It would be wonderful to meet some of my local Sparkers. If not, and if you'd like to do something, consider making a donation to Team Becca.

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DOTTIEJANE1 9/14/2013 10:28AM

    Prayers for all involved in Becca's care .

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TATTER3 9/13/2013 6:23AM

    Wish I were there! Prayers

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NANA2PRINCESSES 9/13/2013 6:16AM

    Prayers for Becca, her family, and everyone dealing with this terrible disease.

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JANETRIS 9/12/2013 7:40PM

    prayers and hugs for Becca and the family emoticon emoticon

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LIALEEPANTHER 9/12/2013 4:10PM

    Sending wishes and hopes to everybody suffering like this... and hugs to you for supporting Becca... :(

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RUNNING-LIFE 9/12/2013 3:25PM

    You are all in my prayers emoticon

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SIMPLELIFE4REAL 9/12/2013 3:04PM

    I like to think of my chemo as something that will save my life. Hopefully, Becca's chemo will do the same for her.

Hugs,
Kay

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PAPAMIKIE 9/12/2013 2:51PM

    My prayers and thoughts

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MSANITAL 9/12/2013 2:14PM

    I am not in the area, but I will dedicate my walk tomorrow to her.. sending prayers as well,

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NATPLUMMER 9/12/2013 1:22PM

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SHARONSPARKLE 9/12/2013 12:20PM

    My heart is heavy - no child should have to suffer through such a thing! I will pray for all of you, especially Becca.

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LINOVER 9/12/2013 12:17PM

    I will pray for Becca and your family that everything goes well!

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LUCKYDOGFARM 9/12/2013 12:13PM

    Praying for Becca and her family and medical team too!

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HILLSLUG98239 9/12/2013 11:52AM

    I wish you peace and courage.

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STUDLEEJOE 9/12/2013 11:47AM

    I will be praying for all of you. I watched my wife go thru chemo 5 years ago due to stage 4 indometrial cancer. I am happy to say that she is now 5 years ned. That means no evidence of disease. Tell them to keep going strong.

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KNYAGENYA 9/12/2013 11:32AM

    emoticon I'll light a candle when I go to Church. I wish I could participate in the walk but I will be out of town. If there are any others let me know and I will make sure that I am there.

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NICOLED40 9/12/2013 11:29AM

    Many prayers and blessings for you and your family & friends. I can't even imagine what you all must be going through. God bless you all! emoticon

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RICHILA 9/12/2013 11:13AM

    My favorite prayer is Hasidic:
"Lord, I know you will help, but help me Lord until you help." emoticon

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JBALDWIN29 9/12/2013 11:08AM

  Prayers being sent

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MYUTMOST4HIM 9/12/2013 11:05AM

    Prayers are with all of you
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She's just a baby

Wednesday, September 04, 2013

Tomorrow and Thursday evenings I will be with our friends, as they try to make something approximating the Jewish high holidays.

At these events, I will do my damnedest to keep my self together.

But.

I am seething with rage and impotence. How bad is this? Imagine your worst nightmare. Your worst loss. The worst ache of your heart.

You are still in the junior league.

But don't feel bad about me. I'm just the beloved auntie. My presence provides assistance to the parents, gives that amazing, stubborn, willful beast of a child just one more target for her defiance.

And I'm good being that. Cuddle me only as a last resort, tease me in the meantime, drive me crazy.

But please, Becca, oh please. Keep being here to exasperate me. Please keep being that contrary little thug who loves best on her own terms.

You're a thug. Please, for all of us, keep being a thug.

I can't imagine life without you.

  
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SKIRNIR 9/12/2013 6:31PM

    Had to read a few posts I had missed when I saw the most recent one. I have to say, I do love how you worded this. Made me want to cry and laugh at the same time. I trully hope that Becca is around a long time to torture you and hopefully others who get to meet her in her long life.

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DOGLADY13 9/10/2013 8:21PM

    I know this is late. I don't know how I missed this.

Your pain is palpable. I wish there was a way to ease your pain, but I can't.

Becca is a wonderful, beautiful, beloved child. Keep loving her. Keep that positive, loving, fierceness present in her life.

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LUCKYDOGFARM 9/4/2013 5:33PM

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SIMPLELIFE4REAL 9/4/2013 11:44AM

    Being a thug might work to her advantage....it sounds like she is a fiesty fighter!

Hugs,
Kay

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Becca: home for a few days

Sunday, September 01, 2013

For those of you following Becca's story, the family arrived home for a few days visit before they have to return to CHOP to begin intense radiation therapy. I organized a potluck housewarming party at their house yesterday and at least 60 people showed up. Becca loved seeing all her friends, and her teachers came as well. It was heartwarming to see the outpouring of love.

Other than being a little overtired and very cautious with her body because of the ports, Becca was her usual funny, stubborn self. She has a very puckish personality and is likely to give you a giant hug--unless you ask for it. Then, no way. We had a long and giggly conversation about the time she threw up on me--she thought that was hysterical.

Her parents were glad of so many friends to hug and the support. As the evening ended and they put the kids to bed, DH, another friend, and I cleaned the kitchen and got the house back into pre-party shape for them--I didn't want any of the burden to fall on them.

I will see them again on Wednesday and Thursday nights, when it will be quieter and we can relax and talk. But I think it was good for them and good for the community of people who are supporting them to have a day where we could all come together.

  
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LEANNROCKS 9/3/2013 7:51AM

    Thanks for sharing this lovely story.

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DOGLADY13 9/3/2013 6:49AM

    What a lovely gift. I hope all of you get some rest and enjoy each other's company.

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LUCKYDOGFARM 9/2/2013 9:44PM

    Sounds like a wonderful time was had by all! Becca and her family are blessed to have you for a friend.


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TOWHEE 9/1/2013 11:46PM

    You gave Becca and her family the greatest gift in the world - friends, laughter, and supporters. I'm sure that she will remember that day when she has to endure the procedures ahead of her.

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TATTER3 9/1/2013 9:40PM

    Be blessed.

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SIMPLELIFE4REAL 9/1/2013 9:33PM

    That's nice! I'm glad Becky enjoyed herself so much. I'm sure her parents appreciated seeing so much support. It helps so much!

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THOMS1 9/1/2013 5:07PM

    emoticon You are such a good and giving person. emoticon

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KNYAGENYA 9/1/2013 3:30PM

    That was so thoughtful of you.

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CASSIOEPIA 9/1/2013 3:02PM

    That is so nice of you to do that for Becca and her family. What a great friend.

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NATPLUMMER 9/1/2013 2:58PM

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VLINDER2014 9/1/2013 1:20PM

    What is awesome .. you showed them all the love and support they have.. We often know it .. but to see it and have it reinforced when times are about to get really hard.. somehow might make things a little easier to manage...



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OPTIMIST1948 9/1/2013 11:34AM

    Lovely times before hard times. Thank you for the update.

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How to talk to people who are hurting

Monday, August 26, 2013

When confronted with someone's grief or pain, someone's terror for a sick child or other loved one, someone's own illness, it is common and understandable to want to ameliorate that grief or pain or terror by cheering them up.

STOP DOING THAT.

When you tell a person that it's happening for a reason, or that it's all going to be okay, or that God has a plan, you are putting a burden on an already overloaded person. Your interaction includes an expectation of a response, and that response contains an expectation of feeling better. You may not realize that you are doing this, but trying to cheer someone up by minimizing their grief or pain carries the message that says, "You should stop feeling the way you are feeling and feel better now."

That's trivializing what the person is going through. And creating an expectation that they must either respond to or silently try to ignore. In trying to help, you are making it worse.

So what should you say? Some version of "I am so sorry. This is terrible." It carries no expectation that your words will magically lighten their burden; it just acknowledges their pain. By acknowledging their pain, and not putting an expectation upon them to feel less of it, you are allowing them the choice to share more if they wish. If it's someone you know well, they might want to talk about it. If they don't, it's not a reflection on you.

  
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JANETRIS 8/27/2013 5:21PM

    Thanks for that blog. Well said... emoticon

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CASSIOEPIA 8/27/2013 9:19AM

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I was thinking about you several times yesterday, with the back-to-school activities going on.

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MSANITAL 8/27/2013 9:00AM

    You are right.. and what other said are right.. I think when someone says something it's because they really don't know what to day and they feel they need to offer some type of help, and why their intentions where not to make you mad or feel worse they may of been un prepared or educated in the fact to help someone in need so yea a profession who deals with this everyday said it right they listen.. and be quite..

but I know for me.. if I was talking and crying and all the person did was listen to me.. heck I could do that to a wall, and not get feed back.. sometimes I like feed back and weed out the bad advice and take the good.

Hugs to you, your in my thoughts and prayers..



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OPTIMIST1948 8/26/2013 8:15PM

    Truth.

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CRAZYNDNCOOK 8/26/2013 7:56PM

    Unless you have been through it, it is hard to know what to say to someone. I heard so many hurtful things and even hear them 17 years later. I learned over the years that the people that helped me the most are the ones that didn't say something at all. They let me talk, or just sat there if I didn't want to talk and were patient enough to let me cry while I talked. Sometimes laughing does lift some of the sadness. I was able to talk about some of the fun things that I did with my son, things that made me smile or laugh and being able to talk about them helped my heart remember that there was happiness with him too. That his death wasn't the only thing in his life.

Sometimes I just with there was a class thought on this subject. Because a person that feels they don't know what to say are the ones that say the things that hurt the most and they don't know how much it hurts. We are all going to be in that situation at one time or another where we have a family member or a friend that is very ill or a sudden death in the family, or now days where we are chatting with people from all over the world and we reach out for kind words but find ourselves upset because some of their words hurt. But I guess people don't really want to talk about illness or death until it happens and then they are stuck with nothing to say.

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CBLENS 8/26/2013 5:12PM

    A a grief counselor, we listen and let the client lead the talk, with my young widow/ers group they help one another in ways that others can not.

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KNYAGENYA 8/26/2013 2:59PM

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JUST2OFUS 8/26/2013 2:42PM

    My you find peace. You are in great pain just now; know others do care. Let the tears come, as they must. Then I wish you peace in your own way and in your own time.

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SIMPLELIFE4REAL 8/26/2013 1:02PM

    I couldn't agree with you more. I have been amazed at some of the thoughtlessly hurtful things people have said to me trying to cheer me up.

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HILLSLUG98239 8/26/2013 12:44PM

    Thank you for your honesty and your courage.

When my first husband died, there were people - friends - I never heard from again. I think they were so paralyzed by not knowing what to say they decided to say nothing. And then their absence made them feel guilty, so they avoided me all together.

The real winners? "What can I do to help?' - which is exactly what you did when you got that horrible phone call. It's much more direct than "Let me know if you need anything."

And yes, "I am so sorry" and "I don't know what to say" are probably the best thing to say. We've all suffered losses and tragedies, but no one person's situation will mirror another's. I really hated "I know what you're going through." Really? How can you know that? You may have suffered a horrible loss, but unless you've lost a loved one to a violent crime, you really have no idea what I'm feeling. And in your situation, unless someone has seen an innocent child they love suffer from an inexplicable and capricious disease, they have no idea what you're feeling. I know people meant well, but I just hated that line. I wanted to scream every time some said it.

After Mike I died, there were times I made no effort to hide my sorrow. I'd hear a song lyric that would rip my heart open and I would cry, regardless of the situation. Did it make people uncomfortable? Undoubtedly. Did I care? Not so much. We are a social animal. Caring for each other is part of our make-up. We must expect to feel some discomfort in carrying out that mission.

So, thank you for sharing. Thank you for not hiding your pain and your rage. Thank you for letting us, your on-line tribe, share some of your burden. Thank you for trusting us with that.

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UKMOM638 8/26/2013 12:29PM

    I agree with you....any feel the same way... although I don't think most people do this on purpose it is hard to hear those words when you are grieving... emoticon

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NATPLUMMER 8/26/2013 10:34AM

    emoticon Well said.

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4DOGNIGHT 8/26/2013 10:33AM

    It is difficult to know what to say when someone is grieving. I'm sorry just doesn't seem appropriate sometimes. My mother in law died recently and people would say I'm sorry. But really, for my husband and I, her passing was a welcome relief in some ways because she had been ill for so long and was now at peace. I miss her but at the time, I was grateful for the life she had and that she was at rest finally. People would look at me funny when I would say, its okay, it was her time. I just walked into her room today and I felt her presence very strongly. We have guests coming that have to stay in that room. I'm rambling, but your note has got me thinking. We are all thinking of Becca and her family and it is hard to know what to say or do. God comforts me in a special way but my way is not necessarily your way. At any rate, we are there for you.

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AMARILYNH 8/26/2013 10:10AM

    emoticon Excellent advice! Acknowledging the pain someone is in is powerful - I believe its important to do. Another thing is in the days or weeks following a tragic event, I find it often opens conversation if I ask that person if they are sleeping ok. OFTEN the answer is no, and by understanding this (it is a common occurrence) I think we offer validity to their suffering. Letting them talk to us about their feelings or just about the event can be helpful too - I used to worry that I didn't have the right words to say, but now I realize I don't NEED the right words - being there to listen to them and offer comfort is enough,

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SKIRNIR 8/26/2013 10:07AM

    I have to agree with you. When I cry, my husband tries to change the subject and make me laugh and most times it makes me so mad. Even when he makes me laugh, it still doesn't really help in the end. The reason I was crying usually comes right back as soon as I think about it again.

Any news on Becca?

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Struggling with faith

Friday, August 23, 2013

I have gotten lots of comments and messages from people who are praying for Becca and her family. And I deeply appreciate those messages and those prayers. I am certainly praying as well. It's a comfort to know that people are sending so much healing energy to her.

But I'm having a lot of trouble, emotionally, with the "Put everything in God's hands; God will cure Becca" people. I know they mean well, but their version of God fills me with fiery rage.

Because if God is so freakin' clever and all-powerful, why is Becca going through this in the first place? Why was there a tumor at all? What kind of psychotically insecure egomaniac is this "God" person that he's up there thinking, "Wow, I'm feeling underappreciated. I think I'll give this innocent child a brain tumor that will cause her to spend months suffering and put her family through the kind of unimaginable trauma that will lead to life-long emotional scars, just so I can cure it and have a bunch of people appreciate me."

Why would *anyone* want to worship that kind of sadistic lunatic? If I met him, I'd just want to punch him in the throat.

I don't believe that God controls all things in our lives and this is all part of some kind of master plan. I believe that when God gave us free will, that meant stepping back from being a controller, not just of our decisions but also of the world in general. But I believe that we were blessed with a special kind of grace: the power of prayer. I believe that we were graced with an ability to affect events, not hugely, but to nudge them to a better place. We can't pray away a hurricane, but we might be able to diminish its power or "scooch" it aside a little.

We might be able to increase a child's odds of surviving.

And so I am grateful for the power of prayer, and the fact that so many people are praying so hard. But please don't tell me that this is all "God's plan."

  
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TATTER3 9/1/2013 9:39PM

    Wish I could help. I care.

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JLITT62 8/26/2013 8:04AM

    People mean well, but it's so hard to know what to say in situations like this & we often say the wrong thing. Our hearts are usually in the right place - wanting to ease your pain & sympathies, but we still so often say the wrong thing.

I do personally believe in God, but that doesn't mean nothing bad ever happens - I've certainly seen my share of bad.

Whatever sustains you & gives you comfort is right for you. I simply pray for a miracle for becca, for strength & peace for your family.

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DOGLADY13 8/26/2013 4:17AM

    What you are going through makes absolutely no sense at all. It's horrible. I have nothing that can comfort you. Nevertheless I have offered prayers of supplication for you, Becca and her doctors. I hope that you can find some one or something to help you manage this extremely hard time.

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CRAZYNDNCOOK 8/25/2013 10:05PM

    I hear you. Totally hear you on this one. I hated hearing that crap when I lost my son to SIDS. I heard so much crap about God, like God wanted him more than me, God had other plans for him, God.... BS I say.

Now when I talk to others who have lost a child (one was a preemie, the other a young adult in a car accident due to bad weather). I tell them that people are going to say things that hurt you, especially these God things, or the other one "I know how you feel". I told them to let those comments roll off their back and not give much thought to it. As others don't TRULY know what is going on. They don't TRULY know the heartache that goes on when your baby is this sick or after the death of a child. My first bereaved parents meeting I heard the one thing I cling on to this day. That you TRULY DON'T KNOW, until you been there. The story was a guy who lost is niece and at the funeral told his brother "I know how you feel". Years later this guy lost his own son and when his brother walked in the door the first thing he said was he was sorry for what he said at his niece's funeral. Now he really knew how his brother felt. It is a heartache like no other. I lost my mom, my 2 best friends when I was in my teens, then lost my grandmother and aunty in 4 days of each other when I was pregnant with my first born. My heart never ached as much as it did when I found my son and as I planned his funeral and for the years afterward as I came to accept he was gone. It was also said in these meeting that people say these things because they don't know what to say. They think that those words are comforting, but in reality they hurt even more.

15 years after I first heard those words they still hurt and it wasn't about my own child. I was talking to an older person when we heard that the preemie was taken off life support and passed. I wanted to scream at this person for thinking that way. I walked away and broke down because I knew the earth shattering pain the parents were feeling at that time and that those words would hurt them even more. For a Native spiritual person he sure hung onto church beliefs.

I am happy that you are there for this family and that those words hurt you so and that you have reached out and said something, sometimes you just don't know what to do in that kinds of situation when your faith has been shattered. I hope my words are some comfort for you. It is ok to struggle with faith at a time like this. I was never raised in any kind of religion and what faith I did have in Native Indian Traditions went out the window the night I held my son's body. Some people cling to their beliefs while others lost faith in their beliefs. Keep as strong as you can be for the family and I hope all goes well with treatments.

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EBRAINK 8/25/2013 9:29AM

    Miss G, you are allowed to feel what you feel. It's your life, and you are the person going through this awful part of it. I am hoping for the best outcome for this little girl and her family, and I wish for you the strength and peace to be the loving and supportive soul she and the family need from you. As for the friends and acquaintances who seek to support you, I hope we may all have the compassion and kindness to help you through it.

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OCEAN7 8/24/2013 7:34PM

    I know one child who at 3 underwent more than I could bear. She was hours away from death from leukemia. That child trusts God today ( 14 years later) and one thing I can tell you is that that sweet child taught many adults to pray. Every day she lives is a glory to God and a teaching to those of us who watched as she trusted and as God reached out to her. She taught many of us humility. She taught us to trust God more. She taught us to love one another more deeply and sincerely. She taught with more grace than any sermon I've ever heard. Through it all, she grew our faith. Her suffering was not for her sake, but literally blessed our souls in strengthening our faith in God.

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4DOGNIGHT 8/24/2013 8:50AM

    I hear you. And I am definitely praying for this little girl and her family!

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SIMPLELIFE4REAL 8/23/2013 9:03PM

    hugs....I hear you......

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HILLSLUG98239 8/23/2013 7:37PM

    People often say the most horrible things when they're trying to be comforting. I've done it myself, I'm afraid.

My faith was at a low when my first husband died unexpectedly when I was thirty. One fallout of that tragedy was the complete and utter destruction of my religious faith. I just didn't care anymore.

A few years ago, God started calling me back. I finally couldn't ignore the tug. I'm telling you this because I wish people would realize I did not return to Christianity because of anything a human being did or said: it was all God's work. Christians actually help drive me away from God.

I still kind of picture God shrugging his shoulders and saying, "Look, I'm really sorry about my kids." I have to believe he kind of wishes we would quit dragging his name into everything.

My wish for you is strength and peace. I know you're being a great comfort to Becca's parents; this blog is a safe place to vent and air out all those fears and rage. We can handle it.

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TWINKSPLUS2MOM 8/23/2013 5:32PM

    Prayers for you and the little one and family. Regardless of your view on God, he can work miracles. He did in my daughter when she had open heart surgery @ 4 months old. For us, being unwaivering in our faith in Him, and just knowing that she was going to be OK, it gave us a glimmer of hope. My husband's faith, like yours, was on very shakey ground during her first 4 months of life. He cursed him. A lot. And we had prayer warriors. And she is a beautiful 1 year old girl today. With no medical restrictions, and a repaired heart. And a father who praises God for her and her health every day. We have no idea why it happened to us, why it happens to anyone. But we learned more from this little baby then we had in a life time. She showed what she was made of, what God was capable of, and other people found faith in that. I hope this helps. Again, many prayers.
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SKIRNIR 8/23/2013 4:35PM

    Just read your past few blogs... and oh, my holy moly. What a bike accident and Becca... ugggh. Sorry, at a loss for words here. So horrible.

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SKIRNIR 8/23/2013 4:31PM

    I would have to agree with you. If I felt that God was causing someone to go through such pain, I would yell at him and then cease worshipping him completely. I do not believe He is doing that, but I do wonder sometimes why He seems so danged far away.

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PINKYYSUEE 8/23/2013 2:15PM

    I agree...Free Will is in the world and so is evil...I think the bad stuff that happens in our life can be used for the Glory of God in the way we handle it and the way we learn from it and what we take from it...God doesn't "do" these things to us they just are because of the world we live in...But we can pray... emoticon

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SHARONSPARKLE 8/23/2013 12:08PM

    I agree with you. I don't believe God looks down and says, I think I'll give this little girl a brain tumor. I believe he is grieving right along with you. Since sin entered the world, his heart is breaking for the pain we are experiencing.

That being said, I do believe in the power of prayer and continue to pray for her recovery and her loved one's peace and strength through this horrible ordeal.

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OPTIMIST1948 8/23/2013 10:33AM

    You need to take up kickboxing or krav maga or muoi thai or some other kind of martial art. You have rage (understandably!) and need a safe place to put it before it eats your insides to a black soup.

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4DOGNIGHT 8/23/2013 9:52AM

    I am so sorry your family has to go through this. At times like these, our faith in God is the only thing that helps. Lets look at this in the 50% favorable section. That is better odds than many people have! I will pray for you for that 50%! emoticon

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MSANITAL 8/23/2013 8:59AM

    It is perfectly normal to be upset and hurt it is understandable.. but GOD did not do this to her family.. God did not construct the accident what I think people are saying is to have FAITH that God will heal her sorrow it is hard to have faith in something that we can not see or do not believe in that fact.. and yes we do question the fact of WHY? why is this happen? why do I feel this way? and those questions are normal and I can only speak for my self. that when I start to ask the question of WHY?? then I have to realize that there is a reason I may not know now or will ever know.. I have to trust in my faith that there is a reason and I also have faith that we are not given anything more then we can handle and if we feel we cannot handle it then we are given people who can help us handle it.. and the answer is with all the prayers and people who are reaching out.. I know what I just said dose not make sense to you and that is ok.. but what I want to say is that what your feeling is normal..
because you are not keeping it bottled up. and your expressing your feelings and that is a huge step..

God Bless you and your family and yes people are praying the power of prayer is strong..



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