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Resolve...sagging

Wednesday, January 04, 2012

Isn't this just the darkest time of the year? Oh, I know that the days are actually getting longer now, but the fun of the holidays is over and all that's in front of us is the long stretch of winter. It makes me want to curl up and hibernate.

It doesn't help that I have been mildy ill. I worked out Monday, but yesterday was a no-go, and today I'm waffling on whether it's a good idea.

But if I feel well enough to even consider it, then I should at least give it a try. A short workout is better than no workout, as far as maintaining the habit. So here I go....

  
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JLITT62 1/4/2012 12:29PM

    I'm with you on how hard these days can be! It's ok to take a few days off exercise - nutrition is really 80% of the battle, you know!

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DSW310 1/4/2012 12:08PM

    Your title today got me singing a tune, "A little bit of resolve is what I need now..."

Hope you feel a lot better soon!

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TRAVLNWOMAN 1/4/2012 11:26AM

    Where do you live? I'm coming over to tickle you silly and chase those blues away. (Not really emoticon )

When I get the blues I go get one of my younger grandchildren and load up on hugs. Do some shadow boxing in your chair and pretend you are knocking the socks off of the blues. Punch hard and fast. Use a pillow for greater satisfaction!

I really wish I was living in your area. I would come get you and just get you out of the house. Even when it is freezing outside it still makes you feel better.

Hugs,
Kimberly

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HONBAD 1/4/2012 10:21AM

    I feel you on the dreary days!

I hope you feel better! I like to do something little even if it is walking in place for 10 minutes at a time. Might give you a little more energy and help lift your spirits too.

emoticon I think the sun should be peaking out at least for a bit today!

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Every day is a new day

Sunday, January 01, 2012

New Year's is a time when we focus on renewal, but every day is a day when renewal is possible, and when we have a new chance to make good choices.

Yesterday and today haven't been particularly good choice days, but tomorrow is a new day! And today's bad choices? I'm just going to embrace them as the choices that I needed for today, and not get hung up on guilt.

  
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THE-MORE-GIRL 1/3/2012 4:51PM

    That's the way I look at it, which won't surprise you, and I also feel every meal is a new meal, so if I had an iffy lunch, my next meal is a chance to have one full of yummy veggies and stuff.

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SARAHSTARTSOVER 1/2/2012 8:07PM

    Yes! It's all about moving forward.

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JLITT62 1/2/2012 6:46AM

    Not getting hung up on guilt is the key! So important! We're all human.

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TRAVLNWOMAN 1/1/2012 8:45PM

    That is a good thing to do! We learn from our choices both good and bad. I hope and pray this new year brings you many GOOD choices. It will be an awesome year!

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Saturday, December 31, 2011

Just when you think you have it all figured out, the world has a way of putting you back in your place. Oh well, humility is good for the soul.

  
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EUPHRATES 1/1/2012 1:51PM

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THE-MORE-GIRL 12/31/2011 12:09PM

    Eep! That sounds bad. Courage, friend. You can make it through this, whatever it is.

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COLEENCOLE 12/31/2011 11:09AM

    That it is.

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HONBAD 12/31/2011 11:05AM

    I hope things get back on track for you, whatever they are! Keep a positive attitude about it. There is a positive or at least something to learn from every situation if you look hard enough.

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Intuitive eating

Thursday, December 29, 2011

The problem with having a relationship with food that says, "This food is GOOOD, but *this* food is BAAAAAAAAAAAD" is that when we (inevitably) eat something in the BAAAAAAAAAAAAAD category, we start making value judgments about ourselves that spiral into self-loathing and a need to justify BAAAAAAAAAAAD behavior.

Food is food. Some of it is more nutritious than other, some of it is very calorie dense, some of it is delicious, and some of it is vile. When your relationship with it is based more around emotions of fear and self-loathing than around enjoyment and acceptance, then it's appallingly easy to fall into that binge cycle. Because the eating stops being about what tastes good and what nourishes us and becomes about compulsion and guilt.

If we give ourselves permission to eat what genuinely makes us happy, without beating ourselves up over every choice, then that compulsive eating demon has many fewer triggers. Example: yesterday I was alone in my mother-in-law's house because she and hubby went to run an errand. I was a little bit bored and a little bit nibbly, so I had a cookie. It was a really good cookie, sort of almost shortbread style, and I took the time to really enjoy it. I didn't guilt out about it - and I didn't feel the need to EAT MOAR COOKIES!!!! Last night we went to dinner at a steakhouse, and I had a grilled chicken salad; not because I was controlling calories and depriving myself of steak, but because that's what sounded really, really good to me. When we came home, I had a small glass of egg nog with some Kahlua, and one was enough. When I did my status report, I was about a cookie over my calorie budget. But I'm not going to panic, because guess what? I'm not a binge of cookies over my calorie budget!

Developing a healthy relationship with food doesn't mean "only eating healthy foods." It means eating in such a way that you are listening to your body and giving it what it desires and deserves, not a series of deprivations and indulgences triggered by the brain. When I eat like this, I eat sensibly. When I let the emotions and value judgments take over, I binge eat.

  
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PINKAMBER18 1/1/2012 10:07AM

    The-More-Girl sent me... very nicely written. :) I had never thought of food in such a way. I guess I have/had the mindset if it tastes good I NEED (not even really want, but NEED) to eat it. :) Keep up the awesome blogs, I'll be reading for sure!

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TRAVLNWOMAN 12/30/2011 8:13PM

    Everything you wrote is true. Once we realize all this we have just about won the battle.

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EUPHRATES 12/30/2011 2:24PM

    Amen and amen!
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THE-MORE-GIRL 12/29/2011 3:18PM

    Yes yes yes. I've just told everyone who reads my blog that they should come over here and read yours. Thanks for being here.

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DEEGIRL50 12/29/2011 2:32PM

    Love this! You've helped me today.
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HONBAD 12/29/2011 10:31AM

    I agree! I always try to eat exactly what I want in the moment. I am most satisfied that way. That's why I'm terrible at packing lunches and planning weekly meals! What I pack at 7am is not likely to still be what I want at noon. I do weigh the nutritional value when making my decisions. I try to stay away from the less healthy stuff unless I really, really want it! I like that you said "what it desires and deserves" because my body sometimes desires foods that it doesn't deserve! It is a balance of both.

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Fuhsteration!

Thursday, December 29, 2011

I'm blogging now. I shouldn't be blogging now. I should be putting the suitcases into the car and saying goodbye, ready to drive to the airport.

But instead I'm blogging, because United canceled our flight.

Oh, they were quite nice about it. They changed us to an afternoon flight and everything. But it means that instead of getting home in the early evening, we get home at midnight. Whereafter we have to try and fall immediately into bed so we can get up in the morning and get right to work, rather than having an evening to unwind and get back on schedule.

It's interesting: I really don't want to leave California, but if I have to I'd rather just get it over with. The delay is irksome.

I do have to say that my worry that I would suddenly adjust to Pacific Time was unfounded. I woke up at 5:30 this morning and could not talk myself into going back to sleep.

  
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NELLJONES 12/29/2011 9:45AM

    This stuff happens to all of us. You'll get home and adjust to the delay, and then it will fade into a story you'll remember for years. Until it happens again, and if you fly often enough it will, alas. Blogging sounds like a good solution to me.

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