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Leave me alone... sweetie

Thursday, July 22, 2010

I was really getting ready for a "me" day today, and then at 5:30am my hubby advised me that he was staying home today, when he had originally indicated that he was going to be out of town today and tomorrow.

ANYWAY. This kind of messed up my plans to have a total "ME" day. I was really wanting to focus on several things that had come up this week that have to do with me (like updating my goals and trying to coming up with a personal "action plan").

Needless to say, today became more of a 'hubby' day. He made me coffee w/bailey's and we sat and chatted about anything and everything. We puttered around the house and yard together, etc. I really enjoyed the day, but am now feeling guilty because I didn't do what I had planned on doing, which made me think about the Cathy Trone cartoon below:


I feel like I should have told him to 'leave me alone' for a bit, but I didn't. But am ok with that, since 'tomorrow is another day'. But now there's a lot hanging on tomorrow....

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NOWELLE76 7/26/2010 2:37AM

    that's why they say "one day at a time"... we never know what tomorrow will bring. I think that's awesome that you and your husband had anything to say at all! I have this terrible fear that if I get married someday, that after about 2 years that me and my husband will have nothign to say and get tired of each other :) ... nonetheless... I hope you have a ME day soon... if not that, then many ME minutes... that's what I do.

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JAY75REY 7/23/2010 1:22PM

    Even in a loving couple, there is still a "me" and "you". I'm glad you still are taking care of "me".
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FITKAT2010 7/23/2010 5:48AM

    This too happens, LOL. How often does it happen? Perhaps even if you desire strongly to focus on you he feels this and then reacts to it???? I do know that this can happen.

I would lovingly sit him down and let him know that you need a ME ONLY day to focus on YOU. Let him know that doing this helps you to be more attentive to the relationship. And, it is the truth.



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GETDONE 7/23/2010 1:37AM

    What a sweet day you 2 had---To talk of everthing and anything must be something some of us just dream of--
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AML05030 7/22/2010 11:01PM

    Hubby means well, I am sure.

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BBGYRL4 7/22/2010 10:57PM

    I'm not married but I can understand how annoying it can be to have already planned out your day and it doesn't happen the way you wanted. Things like that happened to me when I lived at my Dad's, I'd stay home with the plans of relaxing or whatever and that wouldn't happen because a sibling stayed home too. Of course you don't want to be mean and say get away from me, I had plans that didn't involve you but at the same time that's exactly what you want to say. Tomorrow is another day and I hope that you're able to accomplish all that you want to do.

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FLB.MMA 7/22/2010 10:50PM

  you go girl!!!!

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doing terrible on Spark Trivia BUT glad I did!

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Well I got 5 wrong on Spark Trevia today, so am feeling pretty dumb. BUT, am so glad I did the trivia thing today because it helped me get rid of some bad/incorrect nutrition and exercise information I've been carrying in my head for a long time!

I also got my mom & dad off for their road trip to Virginia, so am looking forward to catching up on some 'Sabrina' time. All the things associated w/getting them prepared for the trip kept me busy (they are driving my Durango & hauling my trailer) so I had to make sure they were both ship-shape and ready for a long haul. Then of course there was the packing and loading. It was all good, and I was happy to help BUT am soooo looking forward to some ME time, LOL!!!

While Sparking today, I tried to catch up w/some of my peeps via the friend feed. DANG a lot of my peeps are doing fantastic!!! One of them, REALKIEKEY, crossed 10,000 fitness minutes so I wanted to visit her Spark Page & see what she's been up to. Her blog "WHAT I HAVE LEARNED DURING MY JOURNEY SO FAR" was great. So if you have time be sure and check it out:

/www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_journ
al_individual.asp?blog_id=3100081

Her words have inspired me to also just give up soda-pop all together. Let's keep on Sparking each other!

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GETDONE 7/21/2010 10:20PM

    I find that when I spend time on all the spark point thing I do better on my eating and exercise that day.


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SLOLOSER 7/21/2010 6:15AM

    Yay for learning!

... and some of their questions I care nothing about. (Mostly the which has more calories Brand x this or Brand y that?)

However, I agree, the Trivia questions are great!

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_RANDY_ 7/20/2010 8:17PM

    some days I get 100% correct -- sometimes it takes me several tries to get all the questions answered. But I'm like you -- it really does help me learn

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ELEVYN3 7/20/2010 5:23PM

  I find I am doing worse on the Trivia game than I thought I would.
I agree though that I am learning a lot from my mistakes so it is worth playing.

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Why is it so hard to take care of your self first??

Monday, July 19, 2010

KAT-RBLWTHACAUS left me the following message on yesterday's blog:

Sounds like you put yourself last hon. What I've learned over the years is that unless we put ourselves first and foremost there isn't much I have to give to others.

This statement hit a chord for me, so am currently pondering why it is so hard to take care of myself first? If this is a problem you've dealt with I'd love to hear how you have overcome taking care of your self last.

Thanks.

  
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ELEVYN3 7/20/2010 5:27PM

  Women may be hardwired to take care of others but I believe we are also programmed by our parents to take care of everyone else first -- at least I was. Growing up I always came last for everything and it has taken me a long time to learn that I deserve to take care of myself. We can't stand by and patiently wait for out turn -- the extra time and extra money are never there.

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AJDOVER1 7/20/2010 3:24PM

    When I look at the blog you wrote yesterday, I don't know if I would have eliminated any one of those tasks. I guess it's easy to say "we must take care of ourselves first," but I don't know how to incorporate it into my life.

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FRANCLYN 7/20/2010 12:39PM

    For years I've been telling coworkers (teachers and school administrators) and students, "You can't give 100% of you if you don't HAVE 100% of you." I'm STILL trying to live by that advice. Getting closer but not there yet.

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FITKAT2010 7/20/2010 5:40AM

    I could give you the answer, but it's best for you to find out on your own.

Here's how to if you are game: Make a listing of what you do in order to care of you on a daily basis. Now, do it!

This is what my Anchor of Action plan is. It is amazing how I feel now versus how I ran my life before. I truly smile at other people more. I am more gentle in my communication to others; I have more energy to give to others when it is within my path for the day; I am more understanding with others; I am more loving to others; I am more happy and accomodating to others...just because I am putting myself first!

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LIVINHEALTHY9 7/19/2010 9:34PM

    Although I hate to say it, I do believe women are just wired to take care of others even if it means neglecting ourselves.
I know I was, and still am this way, to some degree.
When I first started SP, I made up my mind I WAS going to put me first for a change. I had to to allow myself time to exercise, etc so that I could improve my health.

And it's true. We must learn to take care of ourselves so we can better take care of others.

Stay strong!

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I'm pooped-Busy day today

Monday, July 19, 2010

I've been up since 5:30 today to take my hubby to work (my beater truck died on me last week so it's in the shop). I remember getting home after dropping him off, but after that things were a bit of a blur. I'm sitting here (late) trying to remember/track all that I ate for the day, and my mind just doesn't want to be bothered by those little details...

I know I worked hard, did alot of sweating with volunteer work at the native plant garden from 7:45am to 1pm; then drove one of the other volunteers home (she was going to take city bus ride home which is about and hour and half ordeal). Due to the heat; I just couldn't let her sit in the sun waiting for a bus.

When I finally got home it was time to help my parent pack boxes & furniture for cross country drive to virginia they are about to do.

OK I'm pooped, I'm signing off.

  
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FITKAT2010 7/19/2010 5:47AM

    Sounds like you put yourself last hon. What I've learned over the years is that unless we put ourselves first and foremost there isn't much I have to give to others.

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VENISEW1 7/19/2010 3:36AM

    emoticonHope you got some much needed rest.

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Been to the garden today & bicycling too!

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

I made it out to the garden this morning to do some weeding and watering. I put the peppers & tomatoes in late so nothing is ripe yet (procrastination got me this year). I also got on my bike and cruised the neighborhood for about a half hour.

Things are getting hot so am back inside now trying to clean house a bit. Hope all are doing well.

  
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TABBYARTS 7/17/2010 12:07PM

    Haven't done a garden yet. Need to put up mega barbed wire against antelope, cattle and the neighbor's horses. But is encouraging to read others' experiences!
TEE

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GETDONE 7/15/2010 3:00PM

    Thats the first thing I did after letting the dogs out--went to the tomatoes--need to pick some.
I need to exercise too this eventing

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CEEGIE 7/14/2010 7:47PM

    Nothing in my garden is ripe yet either. I was really excited to see that I have lots of green tomatoes, green oranges and little green peppers. I hope they all live long enough to ripen. Every once in a while a deer manages to get in our back yard and have himself a nice salad! I think we've successfully cut off all points of entry, so I am keeping my fingers crossed. This is my first garden and everything is sure taking it's time to develop! Just like in my weight loss program, I guess I need to learn not to procrastinate and learn to be patient!

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SHARJOPAUL 7/14/2010 7:08PM

    Sounds like a good morning.

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BIKERDIANE 7/14/2010 6:42PM

    I went for a half hour bike ride on the trail behind my house for the first time in a long time, but really enjoyed it! emoticon

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