Monday, September 14, 2009
As some of you know I've been dreading going to a birthday party this afternoon, because I have such a hard time controlling my food/beverage intake when I'm at a party or cookout enjoying myself. I told NOEL_76 that my party plan was to limit my food intake to one (small if possible) slice of birthday cake and plain ice tea, diet soda or ice water for beverage. Unfortunately I was not well prepared for what I would be tempted with!
If you can imagine, her daughter-n-law baked FIVE DIFFERENT CAKES! Strawberry cake, lemon pudding cake, German chocolate cheesecake, carrot cake, and a date torte! Actually I should have known, since this party was for a friend of mine that turned 90 years old this past week and her daughter-n-law loves to bake!! Plus she made fruit salad to go w/it. Anyway, I ended up modifying my plan and decided to cut 1-sq inch bites from 2 of the most tempting choices and have a cup of fruit salad w/ice tea. (Thank goodness there was no ice cream; or I surely would have blown it even worse.)
Part of me didn't want to go to the party because of the food temptation & bad choices I might make. But another part of me absolutely wanted to be there to celebrate Dory's milestone of 90 years on this earth. She is spry, witty, somewhat cantankerous and slightly hard of hearing lady, but frequently says that 'growing old beats the alternative -- dieing young'. She is a special lady and I was honored to be there. Even though I deviated from my party plan, I wouldn't have missed this party for the world.
--Today's Chuckle & wisdom--
Dory's son received and email about another 90 year old lady which I have copied & pasted below. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.
45 LESSONS LIFE TAUGHT ME
Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio: "To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me... It is the most-requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more"
1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's,we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come.
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."
FYI: I came home and googled 'Regina Brett, 90 years old" and found the following statement:
Please know that Regina Brett, author of 50 Life Lessons, is not 90 years old (don't feel bad - that misinformation is all over the internet), but she is indeed wise. She is actually 53 years old; she is the senior metro columnist at The Plain Dealer in Cleveland (Ohio's largest weekly newspaper); she was a finalist in both 2008 and 2009 for the Pulitzer Prize for Commentary; and she has a book based on her 50 Life Lessons coming out in April of 2010. You can check out her website by going to http://www.reginabrett.com where you will see that all I've written here is true !! You can also read all of her past columns, including the columns nominated for the Pulitzer Prize, at http://www.cleveland.com/brett
OK. So Regina wasn't 90 years old after all. So lets praise 53 year old women too!