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Hard to loose

Tuesday, April 27, 2010

It is hard to loose a friend over a misunderstanding.
She was attaching herself to a man and having him stay over.
A month ago I was consoling her about her ex....
I have been married for 43 years, I just do not empathize
Maybe someone else can help her.
I told her she was acting agitated and to calm down.
She told me where to go and has snubbed me ever since.
I feel like I am in middle school.

  
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TARACONKLIN 4/29/2010 1:14PM

    Sometime all we can do it be there. As you already know, people have to learn for themselves before real change can happen. It's not about you and you seem strong enough to understand that.

She's lost a valuable thing because of pride.

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LOSINGANGEL 4/27/2010 11:50PM

    Sounds to me like she is having her own doubts and doesn't want to believe that they might have some ground. You are a true friend for telling her how you felt. Maybe you could write her a letter about how you meant to come across. Sometimes it's easier to say what you mean when you write it down.
Trust God will show you the right time to talk to her again. Keep in prayer about her, and maybe pray for God to help show you how to be empathetic?

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AMAS92568 4/27/2010 2:33PM

    Give her some time. You may be able to save the friendship but you both will have to acknowledge that you have a different opinion but that it's okay.

My husband and his best friend argue constantly and have gone months without speaking. But they couldn't live without each other. It took them almost 20 years to admit they were different people but could still be close friends.

Hang in there.

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LLCURTS 4/27/2010 1:32PM

    All you can do is love her and forgive her, she doesn't have to apologize first - that will set her free to forgive herself and see truth. Just love her - pray for her and be there when she sees the light and wants friendship again. If she doesn't want your friendship again - she is still in God's hand - just turn it over to Him. emoticon

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WARRIORWOMAN90 4/27/2010 12:14PM

    Maybe after she calms down she will apologize. If not she wasn't a very good friend. Friends turn into different people with a man around. Good luck and God bless. WW.

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off to see the....

Saturday, April 24, 2010

So today I help a couple who are renewing their vows. I was there at the wedding, so now I will be there for her again.
I am really just helping my friend who takes care of everyone but needs some backup, that is my job. She really doesn't need me but I do not want her to figure out that because I still like her as my friend and would help her anyway I am able.

  
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LLCURTS 4/24/2010 1:03PM

    You are a peach of a Great emoticonFiend! emoticon
I am sure she appreciates your friendship and help...
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We are having another windy rainy day.

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

The Kids at school will be inside and noisy. It is noisy to have recess in the gym. But soon the tomato, squash and green pepper plants peaking out the peat pots will be put out into the garden. I am trying to get them big enough so they will grow faster than the snails and slugs and aphids will eat them. Today it is raining but the weatherman ( DAVE ) said the 70 degree and up weather will be back by the weekend. More time to walk and work in the yard.
My house will stay a mess. I love to be outside this time of year.

  
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LOSINGANGEL 4/22/2010 10:04AM

    I love Sprig too. I just got raspberry plants...speaking of which I better go plant them!

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Talking about Men

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

It never ceases to amaze me how Men can just throw out money just because it is in the form of a coupon. Hubby tossed out my Khols coupon for ten dollars and I found it when I pulled the little bag his present was in out of the trash.I pulled the bag out but the coupon had expired. Poo.
I was wanting another Rosette purse and they were on sale and....
Oh well I can herd cats better than explaining sales to men.

  
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LLCURTS 4/15/2010 1:15AM

    We just have different brain waves emoticon
I've been married to my man 39 years next month - I could write a book...
compromise and tolerance... emoticon
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LESLIELOSER 4/14/2010 12:15PM

    Amen to that!! I feel your pain!
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STEPHASANA 4/14/2010 12:12PM

    HAHAHAHAHA! I love this and I wholeheartedly agree.

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hubby's birthday

Monday, April 12, 2010

Everytime I go and purchase something for my husband or sons they hate it and I have to return it and get something else or give them the money after all.
But if they do not tell me then I have to sell it at a garage sale or donate it to the Cancer Society Gift shop.
So I just took hubby to Khols and purchased three shirts that he picked out.
So do you think he will like them?
What are the chances. He looks pretty good to me for 69!

  
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AMAS92568 4/12/2010 11:22AM

    Aren't our men funny sometimes? Yes, he looks great for 69!

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DAISYBELL6 4/12/2010 6:04AM

    Good idea!

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RORYLYONS 4/12/2010 1:29AM

    I bet he liked them too....It works for me.....best to bring them & you get to fuss over them how great it fits them...lol emoticon

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