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Sunday, September 04, 2011

*Sharing this from a site SP linked to---some things I really needed to hear today:

"Project Self-Empowerment

Thanks for stopping by! Self-Love Month (January) is over but not the 31 Days of Self-Love Challenge—a pledge to do your best to do something loving for yourself for the next 31 days, to make YOU more aware of being kinder to YOU.

Every self-help book pushes building self-love, yet studies show it’s still elusive. With pressure to look and act perfect at an all time high, more people than ever don’t feel good enough to be loved. I want to change that dynamic!

Taking the pledge is meant to be a consciousness raiser. I hope that signing it will lead you to continue giving yourself lots of love. You can post your acts of self-love & read my 31 Days of Self-love posts HERE.

“I pledge to do my best to do something loving for myself, however big or small, for the next 31 days.“

To that end I chose to pass on a deal for my book, How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways, and give away for FREE. It has hundreds of concrete, practical suggestions for building self-love. Every little thing you do that feels good—from taking a short walk, to saying “no” to what you don’t want to do, to getting enough sleep, to buying the brand name lotion since it feels better, to taking a bubble bath to making time to read a book—says “I love me!”

After hating myself for many years, I developed strong self-love by consciously being kind to me. It helped me reinvent myself into a self-empowerment counselor, speaker and author of 12 popular books, including Nice Girls Can Finish First (McGraw-Hill).

Love yourself enough to give yourself the greatest gift of all–yourself--whole and happy on your own.

I’m not the thinnest girl on the block, nor the youngest or prettiest. but I do still love and accept me completely. I now understand that perfection isn’t reality. while I do my best to improve myself, my self-love doesn’t change if I gain or lose weight. Lovingly taking good care of me nourishes it.

Please consider signing the pledge and committing to do your best to do something loving for yourself for the next 31 days. You can post what you do HERE.
I wish you a lifetime of love and blessings!
Daylle Deanna Schwartz
http://www.daylle.com

DAYLLE’S 10 COMMANDMENTS OF SELF-LOVE

1. I shall lovingly accept myself as I am right now.
2. I shall appreciate all the beauty that makes me who I am.
3. I shall regularly give thanks for all of my blessings.
4. I shall trust in my ability to take care of myself.
5. I shall not criticize myself.
6. I shall not criticize others.
7. I shall forgive myself when I make a mistake.
8. I shall be kind to others, without sacrificing my own needs.
9. I shall take responsibility for my life.
10. I shall love myself to the best of my ability.

The How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways self-love initiative is dedicated to the memory of Ruth and Lt. Colonel Robert C. Herman, Daylle’s beloved parents, who loved her unconditionally, flaws and all, till the day they passed away."

  
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GERMANIRISHGIRL 9/4/2011 9:54PM

    Thanks for sharing!

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CINDYWAGNER1 9/4/2011 3:06PM

    emoticon emoticonfor sharing it with us! emoticon

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CANDOK1260 9/4/2011 11:37AM

    great blog but then your always are

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DEBBIEANNE1124 9/4/2011 11:21AM

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MEXGAL1 9/4/2011 11:14AM

    Wow, great stuff. Thanks for sharing!

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SOULFISH80 9/4/2011 10:45AM

    This is a really great blog. I tried to google the author and didn't come up with anything, but I will try again. I am really interested in women loving eathother and ourselves in a healthy way that doesn't alienate others, but honors ourselves and everyone around us, without giving too much of ourselves and having nothing left.

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MARTY19 9/4/2011 10:17AM

    This is definitely thought provoking. I think I don't do it enough.

Marty

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HIPPICHICK1 9/4/2011 8:21AM

    Reminds me a bit of my 28 days blogging on what was special or unique about me. Self-love is a must in life for happiness.
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BILLPHIL123 9/4/2011 6:59AM

    Thanks so much for this blog. I need it.!! Phyllis emoticon

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NEW-CAZ 9/4/2011 6:57AM

    Amazing blog Liz, thanks for sharing emoticon

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In honor of all the hard working teachers I know

Saturday, September 03, 2011

www.nytimes.com/2011/09/03/opinion/b
low-an-ode-to-teachers.html?_r=1



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GERMANIRISHGIRL 9/4/2011 9:51PM

    great!

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SHRINKINGSHERI 9/4/2011 7:25AM

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CANDOK1260 9/3/2011 10:53PM

    yep great blog I hsver msny educator in my family and I know he hard work they do

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LALASLAND 9/3/2011 9:53PM

    What a fantastic article, Elizabeth! I am so proud of my science teacher husband! emoticon

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KAYELENE 9/3/2011 7:19PM

    What a good article.

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MARTY19 9/3/2011 5:27PM

    What a wonderful article. He made so mant good points. I'm going to print it and post it at my school.

Marty

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FUNKY5RED 9/3/2011 5:10PM

    Great article! Thanks for sharing it!

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NEW-CAZ 9/3/2011 3:39PM

    you got that right GONEWLIFE! emoticon emoticon

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GONEWLIFE 9/3/2011 3:20PM

    teachers rock !

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Just a quick show-off

Friday, September 02, 2011

Wait. wait, wait-
have I shown you this one?
My bedroom here at Jasmine Villa (the feng shui is incredible):


Or this one?
the view from the second bedroom:



Thank you for allowing me a bit of pride in my accomplishments.

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GRANDMABABA 9/12/2011 11:25PM

    Love it!

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GERMANIRISHGIRL 9/4/2011 9:48PM

    Awesome!

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HARRINGTON5 9/3/2011 2:51PM

    Oh man, I love the room and the view. No wonder you are proud!

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OLDERDANDRT 9/3/2011 1:11PM

    What a marvelous porch off the second bedroom!!! I'd love that!!! Have a nice cool drink there for me sometime, ok? Enjoy yourself! You deserve it!!!

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MEXGAL1 9/3/2011 10:28AM

    beautiful!!! So peaceful!

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FUNKY5RED 9/3/2011 10:06AM

    I want to go there! It is so beautiful!

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MARTY19 9/3/2011 8:56AM

    Absolutely beautiful! You have the right to be proud.

Marty

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HIPPICHICK1 9/3/2011 8:37AM

    Gorgeous!!

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DETERMINED56 9/3/2011 7:44AM

    Oh, I love it...so peaceful.Great job


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CANDOK1260 9/3/2011 5:57AM

    you did a wonderful job

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CHALLENGER75 9/3/2011 5:13AM

    Lovely!

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NEW-CAZ 9/3/2011 3:06AM

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_CYNDY55_ 9/3/2011 2:50AM

    A Beautiful Place to Enjoy!!

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DOOBRIE 9/3/2011 1:29AM

    I never tire of looking at photos of Jasmine Villa. What a wonderful home from home you have!

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MIMICOTO 9/3/2011 12:09AM

    OMG beautiful!!!

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DEBBIEANNE1124 9/2/2011 11:43PM

    Beautiful!

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SWEETBEETL 9/2/2011 11:02PM

    looks like paradise:)

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LALASLAND 9/2/2011 10:28PM

    Oh, my gosh, Elizabeth! I'd show off, too! How LOVELY! emoticon

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EMRANA 9/2/2011 9:51PM

  Absolutely gorgeous! Enjoy every second there!

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JENNIFER_67 9/2/2011 9:24PM

    Beautiful!

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TANYAHDG 9/2/2011 9:23PM

    Looks like a little slice of heaven:-)

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(Soon to be) Hurricane Katia

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

I'm happy to see that the National Hurricane Service is tracking tropical storm Katia to give Anguilla a wide berth this weekend-
we'll probably get some surf and clouds.
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Those poor Bahamian people or Bermudans may get whacked again, though.

www.nhc.noaa.gov

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CINDYWAGNER1 9/1/2011 2:59PM

    I hope NOT. That is where 1 of our timeshares is. Hope you are having a great time on vacation.

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MEXGAL1 9/1/2011 8:41AM

    so glad that you are not in the path.
we had nice visit with grandkids and head for Greece today.
enjoy.
Peanut

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MSWEEZER 8/31/2011 6:04PM

    Glad you can relax indeed. Get some R&R for me!!!

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SAM60SUMTHINK 8/31/2011 3:19PM

    Hope Katia goes out to sea...quickly and for good til her demise. We can't compete with nature's fury. Frightening. For folks on those islands, there's no escape...

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MARTY19 8/31/2011 1:54PM

    We were supposed to be hit but missed (Irene) I hope you get missed too.

Marty

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WESTCOASTKID 8/31/2011 11:01AM

    I am SO happy you will be spared, Elizabeth! I'm just freakin' that it is gonna slide up the Eastern Seaboard again!

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DEBBIEANNE1124 8/31/2011 10:52AM

    Stay safe!

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HIPPICHICK1 8/31/2011 9:48AM

    Glad to hear you will be safe.
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JENNIFER_67 8/31/2011 9:26AM

    Hopefully this one just stays a tropical storm. Glad its going to miss you either way.

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RDARLING 8/31/2011 8:49AM

    I hope it doesn't amount to anything for anyone! I have a friend getting married in a few weeks in the US Virgin Islands. I hope they are fortunate to have beautiful weather.

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LALASLAND 8/31/2011 8:46AM

    Yes, I am SO GLAD that you will not be affected by the storms! emoticon

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WHIRLEDTRAVELER 8/31/2011 8:21AM

    Rough time of year, but I'm glad you're having some tranquility! Enjoy your walk.

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NANCYBOAT 8/31/2011 8:06AM

    Glad it looks like you will be ok with this one. Hurricanes are a scary thing!

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HEALTHY4ME 8/31/2011 7:54AM

    I lived in Florida for a year and we had 3 hurricanes that year, and also lived in Bermuda for a year and luckilly we didn't have any hit that time!
Hope you stay safe! and us as they are coming up the Atlantic more often to Canada now.

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CAM2438 8/31/2011 7:52AM

    I know how scary these can be as I live in Florida. It seems as though no art of the country has been spared this summer.

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CASSIOEPIA 8/31/2011 7:52AM

    Glad you will be safe on this one.

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NEW-CAZ 8/31/2011 7:51AM

    hope Katie burns herself out before she causes any damage
stay safe

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RAYLINSTEPHENS 8/31/2011 7:50AM

    It is scary - Gulfport in MS gets it's share of storms too :(
When they hit, we tend to lose power for a day or two. *sigh*

Thankfully we are almost out of the worst of the season.

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Blissing out :)

Sunday, August 28, 2011

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I am blissing out at Jasmine Villa on the beautiful island of Anguilla,
my second home, and it is the nicest August weather we have ever experienced-
in the 80's, breezy but dry. emoticon
They have had their rainiest summer ever and everything is lush and green but the mosquitoes are not bad at all (my big fear).
Almost everything is shut down for the season so we are eating in most meals,
fine by us,
as we have a spectacular kitchen and outside dining area.
We brought a cooler full of frozen steaks, chicken and shrimp, so we are good.
We celebrated DH's 62nd b-day here Thursday night,
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just a romantic quiet day and evening together in our little piece of paradise.

I walk for an hour or more first thing every morning, stopping somewhere near the end for 1/2 hour of yoga/stretching/meditating, then I spend at least an hour or two or three in the pool or the sea later doing aerobic stuff so I am wracking up the fitness minutes and don't feel one bit bad about eating a little bit more than usual.
Here's one of my meditation spots:


Poor DD Mimi- she's a huge worry wart- Hurricane Irene was headed right for RI but now has weakened and moved to the west- going in to NYC as a tropical storm. So RI is just having a rainy windy day, but walmart, where she works, is all boarded up and they are actually closing at noon in case they lose power and/or the roads are bad.
Mimi is a wreck but she'll be fine- both her big brothers are nearby.

We got to skype with the grandkids yesterday- great fun- Lucy kept running off and bringing back toys and clothes to show us. emoticon

Hope everyone is well and enjoying the last little bit of summer- best wishes to all of my teacher/school friends.
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WHIRLEDTRAVELER 8/30/2011 10:35AM

    Aw, enjoy! I envy you your 80-degree days, but I am glad you get this needed and lovely break.
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    Glad you are enjoying your little piece of paradise! emoticon

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MS_DOLLY 8/29/2011 3:32PM

    I am loving your bliss. Please keep sharing the photos and enjoy!

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WESTCOASTKID 8/29/2011 1:09PM

    Heavenly, absolutely wonderful. Thanks for your comments on my "Irene" blog. All day long yesterday, as DH and I were watching news updates and they'd mention RI or, especially, Narragansett, I thought of you and your daughter! Hope she's a little more relaxed today! I know you are! NICE!

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MJK0430 8/29/2011 12:17PM

    Love your pictures! I can almost imagine being there. Enjoy!

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GERMANIRISHGIRL 8/29/2011 11:30AM

    Looks and sounds fabulous! Glad you are enjoying it!

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SEPTEMBERSPIRIT 8/29/2011 11:16AM

    Keep enjoying your very well deserved BLISS (love the pic of the chairs by the ocean)...

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    Thanks for sharing. Enjoy all of that time. emoticon emoticon

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KAREN_NY 8/28/2011 5:08PM

    Bliss is such a gift!! Thanks for sharing,
K:)

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MSWEEZER 8/28/2011 3:50PM

    Thanks for sharing your little piece of paradise for sure. What a great way to celebrate your DH's b'day and your anniversary. Congrats to you both. Soak up a little of that sun for me! Well done on the extra fitness time too. I have to admit I envy you!! ENJOY!!!!

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DOR2BFIT 8/28/2011 3:04PM

    Looks amazing! So glad for you. emoticon
First day of school here cancelled!

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MARTY19 8/28/2011 1:32PM

    I'm so glad you are enjoying your well deserved vacation. I wish I was with you. We were supposed to have a direct hit from Irene butg all we have had is rain and today the wind is picking up. Only lost power for 10 min this morning. School has already been canceled for Monday. This is so weird. LOL!

Marty

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DEBBIEANNE1124 8/28/2011 1:00PM

    Oh the joy of Skype.
Have a romantic vacation with your love.
You deserve the best.
Debbie

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Enjoy!!
Here the weather is very windy and we are battening down the hatches!! We are on the eastern fringe of the weather system known as Irene. There are white caps on our lake and the trees are very bendy. Hopefully none will break and put our power out.


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LALASLAND 8/28/2011 11:57AM

    What a beautiful place, Elizabeth! Enjoy every moment of it! emoticon

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JENNIFER_67 8/28/2011 11:46AM

    What a beautiful place to celebrate your anniversary. Congratulations!! And Happy Birthday to your husband too. It's a gorgeous spot. Enjoy the rest of your trip.

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MEXGAL1 8/28/2011 11:41AM

    Looks so wonderful. Glad you are having a good time. Peaceful.
Continue to enjoy.
Peanut

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NEW-CAZ 8/28/2011 11:10AM

    Paradise! Enjoy Liz, happy birthday to DH and what a wonderful setting for celebrating your anniversary.

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