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Co-dependencyMonday, February 13, 2012
My co-dependency on taking care of other people's needs, wants and problems is one of the biggest challenges I have faced on my journey towards better health. ![]()
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NOTGIVINGUP49
2/19/2012 10:44PM
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YOU are NUMBER 1 and need to put yourself FIRST. It was a hard lesson for me, but one that has helped me on my journey. I am proud of you! Report Inappropriate Comment |


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SKY2012
2/18/2012 10:54PM
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I am soooooooooooooooo PROUD of you! very proud!
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TERRIJ_1
2/17/2012 10:59AM
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Just what i have been working on. And you are so right, people don't like the change but it is their problem not mine. Report Inappropriate Comment |


TABBYJO88
2/16/2012 12:11AM
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You go girl sometimes you just have to step back and know that you got to put you first. Report Inappropriate Comment |


KATHY_ON_462014
2/15/2012 10:43AM
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He say "I know you, you know me" One thing I can tell you is you got to be free Come together.. right now... over me Not sure why that Beatles song keeps going through my head but I thought I'd share it with you anyway LOL You are strong Belinda and right now, with your new focus, you are doing what is right for you. That's how it's supposed to be :) Hugs Kathy Report Inappropriate Comment |


LISA0517
2/14/2012 3:55PM
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It is a very difficult task to move out of a co-dependent relationship. But with perseverance, you can do it! Report Inappropriate Comment |


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BARBLIVESHERE
2/14/2012 9:33AM
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Sometimes you just have to put yourself first. If you don't no one will Keep on keepin on! Report Inappropriate Comment |


DIFROMWYOMING
2/13/2012 8:14PM
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It is. People don't like change any more than we do...and when they are used to our enabling it's not easy for them to give it up. But they can and will adjust, or they won't. If you are not building the walls you don't have to worry about taking them down. Do what is best for you. Let them know you are still working from a place of love. And let the rest go. I know, easier said than done, but practice, practice, practice! Hugs, Di
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RASMOO
2/13/2012 3:35PM
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You are right Belinda. Sometimes you have to put yourself first. And losing weight is a serious health issue. If these people care about you they should want you to be healthy and happy. Stay the course. Sharon R. Report Inappropriate Comment |


I was recently asked for my secrets to weight loss.
I wish I could tell you that I have some great weight loss secrets for you.
I don't.
What I do have is determination to beat this unhealthy, emotional attachment I have to food for comfort and security.
Sometimes it feels like I am rollerskating on ice, struggling to keep my balance, but I inevitably fall.
I fall down a lot. I have many a bruise to show for it.
I feel fragile, but I get back up every time.
I am still standing. I am determined.
That is my only secret.
Get back up.
Belinda


IAM3RD
3/4/2012 1:54PM
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Great attitude! Today, I am getting back up for the first time in months.
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EMELEE82
2/20/2012 9:19PM
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Thank you! this made me smile
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WOLFKITTY
2/9/2012 12:15PM
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Great advice, for sure! :D Jocelyn Report Inappropriate Comment |


PATRISNA
2/8/2012 3:23PM
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NOTGIVINGUP49
1/30/2012 10:14PM
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Getting back up is the key to success! Keep on getting back up! Report Inappropriate Comment |


VINTAGEMODEL
1/29/2012 8:07AM
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Dear Belinda, Enjoyed your page, listened to your words in my heart. Tomorro I "will get back up" and begin again. Learning to reprogramme my mind and emotions from using food, snacks, chocolate as a comfort, has been really difficult. Tomorrow is another day.... Old vintage w PS Love the photo of the pig, love the brushed-bach hairstyle Comment edited on: 1/29/2012 8:09:25 AM Report Inappropriate Comment |


CREVOISERATA
1/28/2012 5:39PM
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LGAR519
1/28/2012 8:54AM
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"Get back up!" Who knew it was so easy.
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CCASKEY37
1/28/2012 7:22AM
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Very nice.
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TABBYJO88
1/27/2012 9:22PM
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Great blog I love it.
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RAINWATCHERDAR
1/27/2012 5:26PM
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Amen,sister!!! We are on the same page, that's for sure!
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BARBLIVESHERE
1/27/2012 11:39AM
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I love this.
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RONDINI2
1/26/2012 6:00PM
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YOU ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I JUST LOVE YOU SO MUCH... KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK... SIS Report Inappropriate Comment |


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THE-MORE-GIRL
1/26/2012 1:30PM
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"That is my only secret. Get back up." I totally need to tattoo this somewhere I can see it. (I almost said "tattoo it on my ass," but hey, I can't see that. :-) Report Inappropriate Comment |


COPEMA
1/25/2012 1:21PM
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I am so proud to be your friend! Lotsa hugs, Marsha Report Inappropriate Comment |


DIFROMWYOMING
1/25/2012 8:19AM
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