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Heading out for Thanksgiving

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

I am heading to DC/Maryland/Virginia/Pennsylvania...all of the above really, for my Thanksgiving holiday. I am so looking forward to it. I land in MD, rent car, drive to VA to pick up my daughter from college, then drive to PA, where we will be joined by my brother-in-law in caring for my mom (who has dementia) and having a nice Thanksgiving together. The consensus is that we will go out to eat. I don't mind cooking, but everyone else thinks it will be easier on me (it will!) to eat out. It will be so nice - a rather unusual group of very different people, but that will make it even more fun...and it will be for a short enough time that hopefully no tempers will rub together and create (the wrong kind of ) sparks.

Meanwhile, my two sons will be having their Thanksgiving together at our house. I hope they have fun, and I also hope that when I return, the house hasn't been totally trashed! I fully expect to find a huge sinkful of dishes waiting for me. :-( Oh well, it will be worth it.

  
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JTREMBATH 11/20/2012 2:54AM

    Have a great thanksgiving.

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ZRIE014 11/20/2012 12:49AM

  have a great bird time. emoticon

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Lesson learned

Sunday, November 18, 2012

I did something really awful the other day...so awful I have given up e-mail temporarily, and am spending a lot of time in introspection. Not sure if I will come to any grand conclusions, but at least I am spending time trying to figure out how to become the kind of person I really do want to be.

In brief, what I did was write something rather nasty and sarcastic about someone on a loop I was a member of. What I thought I was doing was forwarding my nasty comments to another person - really in order to get his opinion and comments. However, instead of hitting 'forward,' I had accidentally hit 'reply,' and my comments went, not only to the person in question, but to the entire loop. Ouch! Major ouch.

I was (am) so mortified. But nothing like sticking one's foot totally in one's mouth to teach a good lesson.

  
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LADYFROMTHEWOOD 11/18/2012 7:27PM

    Hard lessons are the ones that stick the best. Introspection is such a good thing. But you obviously realize that already. Best wishes to you in this time of self-discovery and hopefully a new leaf turned.
~ t.

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T-shirt motivation

Thursday, November 15, 2012

Last summer I saw a guy wearing a T-shirt that I just loved because I related to it so much. Of course, my memory is so blasted bad that I forgot exactly what the shirt said - only remembered that I liked it and it had to do with getting older. I kept meaning to ask my daughter, who was with me when I saw it, if she remembered what it said, but I never got around to it. I suspect she would have remembered, if only because, unlike me, she has a really good memory.

Well, today I was looking through one of those ubiquitous Christmas catalogues, and, lo and behold, there was the shirt! I still like it just as much, and I think I may just order one for myself for Christmas. It says, "The Older I Get, The Better I Was." SO true. And sad, too, because I used to hate my body and think I was a klutz who couldn't do anything remotely athletic. Sigh.

Anyway, my long-term goal is now to get to the point where I am better now than I was when I was younger. I don't know if it will ever happen, but I think it is something to strive for.

  
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BLITZEN40 11/15/2012 1:14AM

    I love that saying! It's one my Dad relayed to me a few years back and I got a laugh out of it then. It's true that if you have an older relative who tells the same story about himself over and over year after year, the story gets better as it relates to painting the teller in a more positive light each time.

It's great to aim high in setting goals regardless of whether you are striving to get to where you once were or do even better than that. Just set out to be the very best person you can be and you can't go wrong! emoticon

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In Memory of my Father and All Veterans

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Well, it being the day Veteran's Day is celebrated (although everyone knows it was the real thing yesterday...the eleventh hour of the eleventh day of the eleventh month), I am going to try to post a picture of my father, taken during World War II, in 1944. He was a jumpmaster in the D-Day invasion, and he was also in the Battle of the Bulge and a number of other campaigns. He was one of those who liberated one of the concentration camps. He saw the horrors there and became physically ill.

He went on to fight in the Korean War, and also in Vietnam. While he was in Vietnam, he got sick and was sent home, where Stage IV pancreatic cancer was discovered. He died three months after the diagnosis. He was only 55 years old, and I was a young child when he died.

In his memory, and in memory of all who have served in the military, I say, "Thank You!"

  
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BLITZEN40 11/13/2012 10:00AM

    Great photo! I'm so sorry you lost him at such a young age. We can all be thankful for brave men like him who served and protected our country. emoticon

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JTREMBATH 11/13/2012 2:00AM

    emoticon emoticon In memory of all Vets.

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ANDYLIN90 11/13/2012 1:26AM

    And so do I! Thank-you for posting this.

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DIBANANA 11/13/2012 1:25AM

  Thank God for men like your dad! He was very handsome as well. I am sorry that you lost him at such a young age.


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ZRIE014 11/13/2012 1:13AM

  they gave their tomorrows for our todays. a great group. emoticon emoticon

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DJ4HEALTH 11/13/2012 12:44AM

    emoticon

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LATTELEE 11/13/2012 12:42AM

  Nice

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Lots of Walking

Saturday, November 10, 2012

Well, today I certainly got my 10,000 steps and then some! Danny was invited to a birthday party at the Botanical Gardens, which is having a big dinosaur exhibit. We must have walked a couple of miles at least. Back in my younger days, I could have done that without blinking. But now, with bad hip arthritis, I can walk, but it hurts, and the greater the amount of walking, the worse the pain. But I did it. It was rough, but I got through it. And it was worth the pain, because the Botanical Gardens are just lovely! I truly enjoyed seeing so many beautiful plants. In addition, being out in nature was rejuvenating.

Afterwards, I dropped Danny off at his dad's, drove home, and realised I had to walk the dog. Boy, I didn't feel like it, but you can't tell that to a dog. So I took her for her walk and put in probably about 5000 more steps. I hope she appreciated it, because now I am afraid all my muscles are going to seize up and I won't be able to make it out of my chair.

Now for a nice long relaxing bath and early bed. I need a good sleep so I can work tomorrow without snarling at everyone I encounter.

  
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BLITZEN40 11/11/2012 4:34PM

    Glad you got to enjoy the beauty of the gardens! Sorry your hip is hurting. I recently read that pineapple juice is good for arthritis and have tried it for my knee with some success. It's all natural, so worth a try. Way to go getting all that walking in! emoticon

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SUNSETBREEZE05 11/11/2012 2:08AM

    I love to walk the gardens. It is a perfect place. I have a dog named Dexter but I don't walk him because he is on a constant run 24-7.lol He was a year in Aug. Hope you feel better than what you think when you wake up. Have a great Sunday!!

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MARYJEANSL 11/10/2012 11:00PM

  Of course I forgot to bring my camera to the Botanical Gardens, so I don't have any pictures to post. Next time, I hope!

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