Saturday, March 06, 2010
Some of my past history is emerging slowly partly as I read some of your blogs, and partly as I need to forgive some of the people I met in the past if I want to live a healthier life....
One was a colleague, the nastiest person I have ever met. She had been slandering me even before I actually got my job at University, just in case.
She continued playing dirty tricks , faking, telling lies, and nobody dared to stop her.
She slandered everybody she met in her path but all the people were too afraid to move.
I was the only one who took courage and told her everything I thought in her face so she hated me all the more. Our colleagues were too frightened and the people in charge just did not care.
She seemed to be always completing most of the job , but it wasn't true, she simply exploited all the other people and then boasted things she had never done.
I know she's still slandering me now - even if I'm out of that job.
She does so without any reason, maybe just in case our roads crossed again.
I know she's an insecure person, she does not have any preparation for teaching at University , she's afraid of anybody else , therefore she acts in this way.
Mobbing can be very hard on you...a lot of headaches and ultimately your life becomes unmanageable.
Accepting this part of my past isn't easy, because being slandered at workplace leaves something negative inside you and outside you - and it's hard to come to terms with all of this.
Anyway I pity her and sooner or later I'll succeed in forgiving her completely.