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Sunday check in #6Sunday, August 19, 2012
So, my friends, it has been 6 weeks since we have begun checking in on Sundays. I look forward to it! ![]()
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MELLYBEANS0919
8/20/2012 11:05AM
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I made a plan, but am finding it very hard to stick to it. I guess my action plan this week is to do my best to stick to it more often then not. Also be consistent. Report Inappropriate Comment |


THREEE
8/19/2012 11:05PM
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i need the fruits and vegies that i buy to actually not be brown(grapefruit--yuk!) so i can get back to my improved eating habits with at least 5 a day...everyday... and it IS good to have this weekly check in with you, m'deah... Report Inappropriate Comment |


MYOWNHERO
8/19/2012 2:51PM
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To keep making progress I plan to step up the ST. Rawr!
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1CRAZYDOG
8/19/2012 12:24PM
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Plan your work and work your plan. Too easy to make excuses to avoid doing what you need to do. Too easy to think, "Oh , this once won't hurt" (truthfully, it probably WON'T, but it sets up the spiral into bad habits . . . agian.) That's my view of maintenance, for what it's worth.
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TADTURC
8/19/2012 11:21AM
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Im joining SparkCoach this wk. My trial is up in a couple days and I plan on signing up for it. It provides just a bit more motivation and support that I need sometimes. In the last wk Ive FINALLY stepped up my game on making better food choices. Exercise is the easy part right now. So here's to a better wk!
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Ever notice how when someone wants to talk to you, it really means "I want you to agree with me and if you don't,your opinion is invalid and I may or may not be mad at you"?
Yea me too. Apparently I got the memo late and just realized this.
Well, will keep that in mind and Either choose A. Agree outside while maintaining my point of view on the inside or B. Give my opinion anyway, and hope for the best.
I guess this is a case by case basis. I hate learning new things.


NINJA_SMOO
8/20/2012 10:53AM
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Sort of off track, but my favourite similar thing is when someone asks you a question because they want you to ask it back. For examle, they don't really care what you're doing on the weekend, they just want to share their plans. Back on topic, I completely agree. I think often people just want their opinion validated and that's why they'll completely ignore others who disagree. They're not actually looking for advice or your opinion. Report Inappropriate Comment |


THREEE
8/19/2012 11:02PM
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wellll...at least you know you are not an old dog Report Inappropriate Comment |


DAISY443
8/19/2012 3:38PM
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One of life's hardest lessons for me it to pick my battles! Good luck!
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MYOWNHERO
8/19/2012 10:22AM
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I like Diane7786's option C. Sometimes I'll add a bit of "change the subject by going off on an obscure tangent until they think you're a loon". Then they wander off. Report Inappropriate Comment |


AAAACK
8/18/2012 7:55PM
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Gosh, I didn't know you knew my family! Report Inappropriate Comment |


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SKY2012
8/18/2012 6:53PM
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you are too funny LOL
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1CRAZYDOG
8/18/2012 6:40PM
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DIANE 7786 took the words out of my mouth!!!! I quite often go with option C -- give a neutral answer since, what I sould say isn't going to change their opinion anyway. This way you've listened and not started a conflict. Now, if it is something morally @ issue, I would not hesitate @ option B -- tell 'em outright what I think and hope for the best. Interesting, thought provoking blog. Thanks! Report Inappropriate Comment |


MAMADWARF
8/18/2012 6:35PM
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A is easiest and I'm inclined to go that route to keep the peace but if I think i'm right, or I'm passionate about the subject matter, I will argue to the death. If I am giving very non Committal answers and you insist on dragging my opinions out of me, be prepared. You would think people closest to me would know this. Oh yea, first thing in the morning is NEVER a good idea. They should know that too.
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BADASSBLONDIE
8/18/2012 6:17PM
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I feel like it's very person specific. A sign that I really feel respected by a friend is when I can choose B and not fight ensues.
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DIANE7786
8/18/2012 6:10PM
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There is an option C. In my experience people who say they want to talk really want someone to listen. Often they don't ask my opinion. Sometimes they don't notice that I haven't said a word. They keep talking! There's no reason to get into an argument when I know my thoughts won't change their opinion or if the outcome doesn't affect me. I say things like, "That's interesting" and "I see your point" without saying I disagree. When I have to, I find at least one thing about the topic that we can agree. Politics? The candidate has cute kids! If a topic really matters I'm great at Option B but most times the drama isn't worth the effort. Comment edited on: 8/18/2012 6:13:45 PM Report Inappropriate Comment |


GRACEISENUF
8/18/2012 5:54PM
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Hold onto what you know is right and when correction comes and it is in your best interest God will show you that a change needs to be made. Trust in him cuz he will NEVER let you down but he says people will, as we are all imperfect. It is always hard for me to hold my tongue and not argue my viewpoint. :) Guess that's why I need God 24/7. Report Inappropriate Comment |


SARAWALKS
8/18/2012 5:46PM
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I have been taking the easy way out for most of my life but nowadays I am trying B. It is sometimes worth it. Report Inappropriate Comment |


HEALTHYASHLEY
8/18/2012 5:42PM
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A is easiest but that is the problem. I am not going to be bullied into something because it is easy. This is why there is so much fighting on FB now. Suddenly you can no longer have an opinion without being viciously attacked for disagreeing.
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TRIXYMAHOGANY
8/18/2012 5:38PM
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A friend I'd known for years recently started forcing me to agree with him whenever we talked, even if he was flat-out wrong (in a factual sense) so I know how you feel!
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LTMURPHY7
8/18/2012 5:37PM
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"A: is probably easiest Report Inappropriate Comment |

