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Monday, May 20, 2013

Tues: #2 - Autism Strikes Again -- promised as a Vlog on Tues.


7. Balance the Scales
9. New Budget& household items
10. Pass the Veggies & the Fruit!

I will get to them, I promise!!

  


Stats - (6)

Monday, May 20, 2013

My plan was to write about the amount of appts I have had in the last 6 mo. I went to count the calendar for appts and there we more than I realized. We are on week 21....

Anyhow - I had weekly - each Monday - Seth's Caseworker ( So 20 appts)
2x a month - Seth's Counselor (so 10 appts)
Scouts ea Tues - (so 20 meetings)
Pediatrician &others- (6 appts)
Psych - (5 appts)
Braces/ortho (3 appts)
Dentist for Kids (6 appts
My Acupuncture (15 appts)
My Dr Appts (3 appts
My Dentist (7 appts)
IEP/ Teacher Conf. (6 meetings)
Needless to say, I been busy..... over 100 appts and meetings just in this bunch... and I know I have random stuff that came up over this....

aria

  
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JANTWO 5/20/2013 1:01AM

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Breaking bad habits- Child A

Monday, May 20, 2013

It has really been a rough time with Child A --
A : 14 girl Mood Disorders and believes often the rules do not apply -Has Current history of stealing (no, the police has not been called Yet)

Child A really has some very bad habits that we have been trying to have her break. Theft being the big one. None of her siblings trust her with their things. She has to be patted down, and searched each time she leaves our house, to make sure she isn't taking anything from her siblings. Child A's other bad habits are lying, and not willing to do what needs to be done, to get ungrounded.

You see, this child has been assigned Community Service by her parents due to her stealing and lying. She must do it to become ungrounded. She has yet to even plan a day to do so, let alone work towards resolving it. Now you may say she's 14 ... EXACTLY!! She is 14 but she often decides she is 8 -- or at least acts like it. She is 14, she can plan her days, and decide when she will be doing the community service. Personally if I was her, and have suggested this to her, I would do it before we get *HOT*! We are in Albuquerque, NM and it gets to be over 100*F here. We expect her to do the community service. At this rate she will be doing it all summer long, and it was a very mild winter, so we expect a very warm summer.

Soooo Hope she gets her actions in gear....
aria

  
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ECOAGE 5/24/2013 1:00AM

    I just happened to get to this blog through a chain of other blogs --- one after the other, no one I know. So I don't know you or your child --- feel free to ignore my thoughts!

What you describe is not a habit. And if it was a habit, old habits are not stopped and new habits are not formed by Community Service. And the bad guys that are sentenced to Community Service do not determine on their own what they will do or when it will get done.

For your sake and your daughter's wellbeing, I hope you can find the necessary support to come up with a better plan to change her inappropriate behaviors. I see that you have many professionals in your life --- please ask for assistance to help her.

Sincere best wishes.

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MIRA04 5/20/2013 12:13AM

  Kids are tough :(. Hope she gets her community service in before that hot weather kicks in too!

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Summer Break (8.)

Monday, May 20, 2013

We are 3 days away from Summer Break. I am not quite sure where this school year has went, but it has come to a completion. This Summer is VERY well already packed!! And we have more that will need to be added to it.

May 31-June2 Boy Scout May campout

June 3-8 the "older" two girls go to Girl's Camp

June 22-29 Seth (boy) goes to Boy Scout Camp - amusment park and campout outside of camp then 1 week at Camp Dobins.

We then need to add on Swim lessons, Nature Centers / Science Centers, for Seth- Audio Inigration Therapy, OT, & PT; Community Service time, Dr Appts, Dentist & Ortho appts, Mental Health appts and anything else we can find to fill their time.

July's Campout for Boy Scouts

Aug - No campout & no scouts after Aug 6th (Watermelon feed) as we get ready for the new scout and School year.

Aug. 13 - School starts

  


Summer Break (8.)

Sunday, May 19, 2013

We are 3 days away from Summer Break. I am not quite sure where this school year has went, but it has come to a completion. This Summer is VERY well already packed!! And we have more that will need to be added to it.

May 31-June2 Boy Scout May campout

June 3-8 the "older" two girls go to Girl's Camp

June 22-29 Seth (boy) goes to Boy Scout Camp - amusment park and campout outside of camp then 1 week at Camp Dobins.

We then need to add on Swim lessons, Nature Centers / Science Centers and for Seth -Audio Inigration Therapy, OT, & PT, and anything else we can find to fill their time. Community Service time, Dr Appts, Dentist & Ortho appts, Mental Health appts.

July's Campout for Boy Scouts

Aug - No campout & no scouts after Aug 6th (Watermelon feed) as we get ready for the new scout and School year.

Aug. 13 - School starts

  


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