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PAIN FREE!

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Hallelujah, the sciatic pain is gone! I cannot express how wonderful it is to be rid of that pain. I feel like a whole new person. I'll be starting PT next week for four weeks because my back and core are very weak from lack of use over the past few years. Once I'm able to get moving again it will be time to get rid of this weight I've been carrying around way too long. I don't need my other knee or my hips to give out so I will do whatever it is to keep them happy.

Thanks for all the kind notes and messages of support. It meant a lot and I'll get back to each and every one of you. Right now though, I'm off to have a mani-pedi and some much needed pampering.

  
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JUNEBUG1944 3/16/2012 1:07AM

    emoticon That is simply mah-vah-lous, my friend! I know you are just ecstatic!

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SHANSHE 3/15/2012 12:30PM

    Sooo happy for you to be pain free! That HAS to be such a freeing feeling! Hope you enjoyed the mani-pedi and any other pampering you had done! You DESERVE it!
Hugs,
Shan

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SCOTMAMA 3/15/2012 12:06PM

    It IS a wonderful feeling to suddenly be pain free when you have been suffering for so many years!

By the way the photo's of flowers on your page is sooooo beautiful!

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MOM2ACAT 3/14/2012 4:07PM

    I'm so glad to hear that! emoticon

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MARTHA-ANN 3/14/2012 12:20PM

    So glad you're feeling great, I get sciatica and piriformis flare-ups from time to time and know just how painful they can be.
The mani-pedicure sounds so relaxing...enjoy! emoticon

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MEME102 3/14/2012 11:15AM

    Oh Sharon - so glad to hear that!!! It is amazing how we feel 'born anew' when we have our lives back, isn't it? You know you can do this -- so happy and proud of you!!

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PUGRAD1995 3/14/2012 10:50AM

    Glad to hear it was worth it. I"m not pain free yet-still doing PT to build up the back muscles so I can walk without the walker. And I have some unexplained swelling in my legs that they hope will resolve once I'm moving more. I also have to get rid of some weight. But all in all, feeling better too!

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TIME AND PATIENCE

Sunday, March 04, 2012

Saw the doc on Tuesday. He feels I'm coming along good, but understands my pain. He said the nerve is bruised and until it quiets down that I will be uncomfortable. Yesterday was one of my better days. I was on the computer for about a half hour, worked on a friends manuscript and finished it. Today I'm stiff and sore again so have had mostly a down day. However, I'm beginning to see some light at the end of the tunnel so it looks like I'm going to live.

  
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PUGRAD1995 3/7/2012 3:36PM

    Glad to hear it's a little better.

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MARTHA-ANN 3/6/2012 3:18AM

    So glad everything's going well for you.
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JUNEBUG1944 3/5/2012 8:33PM

    Glad things are getting better...sure takes a long time, doesn't it. I'm sure part of the problem is that we have our surgeries and want the pain gone NOW! It does take awhile! Now, don't overdo and you'll get better every day.

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MEME102 3/5/2012 1:37PM

    That's a good thing - you're going to 'live'...but I understand exactly what you're saying - when we're in the midst of it its hard to believe or see the 'end' result. I remember I had extra swelling with my right knee and it seemed like it would never quit hurting and the P/T kept telling me when the swelling gets better it won't feel this bad - and they were right!
Glad to hear you got a good report from your dr...Now don't do TOO much at one time so you won't be stiff and sore!!! (or I'll come find you young lady!! HEY - did I tell you?? I'm coming back to FL in April?? AND going to Disney again!! Epcot is having their flower and garden show and my dd and I are flying down for the weekend -- I only wanted to go to Epcot but she talked me into Epcot and 'another park'.....so keep it warm for me

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SHANSHE 3/5/2012 10:44AM

    Glad you seem to be handling the pain some better... Wishing you patience and speeding time so that the pain lessens real soon.
Hugs,
Shan

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KINEPS 3/5/2012 7:44AM

    Great news!!! Take it one day at a time.


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PMCFARM 3/5/2012 2:00AM

  I remember those "not so good" days but they do get fewer and then you will appreciate the new body part! Will continue to pray for a speedy and less painful recovery.

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CAROLYN0107 3/4/2012 7:42PM

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BUGSMIMI 3/4/2012 5:48PM

    Glad to hear you are going to live! lol. Glad to hear you are mending. You take care.

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TONYVAND1 3/4/2012 5:29PM

  Great to hear you are on the mend


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Day 9 POST OP

Thursday, February 23, 2012

Surgery went well, so the doctor says. However, after 9 days I'm still in a high degree of pain when standing or walking. I'm not sure what the problem is but this not what I had expected. I expected some discomfort but this is ridiculous. Pain is much worse then before sugery and at this point I can honestly say I wish I'd never had it done. I see the on the 28th. Hoping I'm a bit better by then. Please keep prayers coming for the pain to abate and the healing to begin. Thanks.

  
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CAROLYN0107 3/3/2012 9:29AM

    Sorry you had so much pain after surgery. I trust you're feeling much better now.

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KATHY024 3/2/2012 3:33AM

    I used lots and lots of ice and it helped. Hope you are feeling better soon.

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BERRIMOUSE 3/1/2012 12:08PM

    Sometimes our expectations are very high after surgery, you are only nine days out and hopefully it will be better soon, take some time to rest and see what happens then give your doctor a call. Remember the stress of wanting it to heal can also add to the pain. Praying for you. emoticon

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ORCHIDLADY56 2/29/2012 2:17PM

    Hope this has been a better week.

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JUDYGREG 2/26/2012 2:32PM

    I hope things work out better for you. 9 Days is not very long. Pain lasts a while. After all you were cut open, and the nerves don't like that. Hopefully the pain will diminish over time. Meanwhile, enjoy the pain meds! They take away your appetite, and you might lose some weight in the process. I remember when you lost 20 lbs. after knee surgery. Have to look on the bright side of something!

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KINEPS 2/25/2012 8:18AM

    As with the others, I'm so sorry to hear you're in such pain. Prayers have never stopped, but will say a few extra! I agree -- don't try to tough it out, call the doctor's office now. You need to have relief!

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CHEESER22 2/24/2012 4:22PM

    I'm so sorry to hear that you are experiencing so much post-op pain. You aren't trying to tough it out without your pain meds, are you? Seriously, taking them before the pain gets bad is wise and therapeutic. (Here I go giving advice!) My doc has his patients taking pain meds on a schedule at first to get ahead of the pain. I slept a lot, but was able to do my therapy and get my walking in.

On the other hand, if it's much worse than pre-op, I'll chime in with others. Call your doctor.

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JUNEBUG1944 2/23/2012 10:02PM

    I'm so sorry you're in pain. I think I'd call the Doc and see if this is normal or if there might be a problem. I'm wishing you the best!

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BUFFYSMOM2 2/23/2012 7:34PM

    You need to baby yourself some MORE!! Just know that the more days go by, the better you will feel. It takes time. It will be all right! Hang in there!

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SHANSHE 2/23/2012 6:26PM

    Hope it gets better soon... hugs and prayers.
Shan

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MEME102 2/23/2012 5:15PM

    Oh no...didn't want to hear that! I agree with Diana (pugrad) that it may need just some more healing time....if it stays worse I wouldn't even wait til the 28th!!! CALL the dr or at the very least call and talk to his nurse - she can tell you if that's normal or expected...no need to go thru this much pain if not needed.

P.S. I didn't have that MUCH pain after my surgery but I had some all along (much milder than yours I know) but it did take me a whole year b/f I could say "I'm glad I did this" So don't give up hope! Pausing to pray for you now......

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PUGRAD1995 2/23/2012 4:39PM

    I'm so sorry. Mine was better so hopefully it is just something that needs to heal a little.
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IT'S COME DOWN TO THIS.....

Monday, February 06, 2012

After a year of treatments such as acupuncture, epidurals, chiropractic procedures, physical and pool therapy, with no loss of back pain, I am now scheduled for surgery on L4, L5 on the February 13th. I have a large bone spur which is laying on the nerve and will be removed, along with other disc debris. The good part is the doctor is 95% sure that my pain will be gone and I will be able to get my life back. I probably should have done this a long time ago but have always been afraid of back surgery. However, it's come down to the point of not being able to manage the pain anymore.

My surgery will be done as an outpatient, believe it or not, and will be the least invasive method they have. I should have about a four hour stay at the hospital. After my ride home I cannot ride in any vehicle until the trip back to see the doc on the 28th. I'm supposed to walk 4-6 times a day as tolerated which will be a treat since I haven't been able to walk much at all in the past year. Home health care will come in twice a week to check my incision (it'll be glued with Durabond so I can take a shower) and physical therapy will come in 3x a week until I see the doc again.

I don't expect this to be a walk in the park and I expect some discomfort at the incision site. That will be a piece of cake compared to 24/7 sciatic pain which I've been dealing with off and on for the past three years.

Once I'm recovered I hope to get back out there and start exercising again (gently at first), and I really hope that eventually I'll be able to line dance again which is a great workout.

Thanks to all you limes who've been sending me goodies and words of encouragement. I'm sorry that I had to drop out. Maybe another time.

I'm almost done with my second novel, "Stony Creek Diner" and hope to get it published by April. I still try to have some sort of social life by going to the movies, to my book workshop, and of course, out to eat once a week. I've had to use a walker to get around so I have to plan where I'm going and how I'm going to get there. I hope after the surgery the walker can be eliminated.

Hope all of you are doing well.

  
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JUDYGREG 2/23/2012 2:13PM

    Let us know how you are doing.
I hope everything turns out great!

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KRZYKAT3 2/16/2012 12:59AM

    having had many surgeries and back surgery last February, I have some advice.

1 - BELIEVE your outocome will be good, see yourself walking with no pain.
2 - be sure to have a pillow for your back for ride home
3 - BELIEVE your surgeon will do well
4 - get into your physical therapy as soon as they will let you
5 - BELIEVE you will walk the first day after surgery and the pain will be better
6 - a recent study advised that patient with back problems who had the surgery in 1st 6 months of problem recovered the best, you are not far from that time frame so BELIEVE

I recently had a coworker who had to do a spinal tap and told him about the importance of visualising to have a good outcome. When I spoke to him on Monday he thanked me for this advice. Working in a hospital I am around several techniques used for successful outcomes and visualizing the best scenario truly helps patients heal better.

Plan your space at home to help you feel self sufficient when oyu get home. If you have issues that I might be able to answer for you, please spmail me.


My incision was totally pain free, a little itching as it healed but not bad at all. I do have a high pain threshold but this was not bad at all. I had my surgery (the 2nd by the way) and got to stay all night but was up walking less than 4 hours after surgery. I walked down the wntire hallway before going to sleep for the night, bad idea since they got me up at 3 am to walk it twice LOL

Will be praying all goes well for you and you find the vision to help you heal quickly!

I think you will be surprised!

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1COUNTRY_GAL 2/10/2012 11:44AM

    I wish you the best and sending you positive healing vibes and will say a prayer for you to have a successful back surgery and have the relief from pain you deserve. emoticon emoticonDiana emoticon

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MRSWHITEWOLF 2/10/2012 12:22AM

    Hope all goes well Sharon! I will keep you in my prayers and that you recover well and quickly. Bless you!


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ARTJAC 2/9/2012 12:42AM

    thanks for sharing i am waiting to have back surgery sometime this year my surgeon told me i may have to be in hospital a few days then physiotheropy for a few weeks and go from there to see how long it will take before i go back to the hydro pool hope everything goes well for you

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PUGRAD1995 2/8/2012 8:53PM

    Sharon, My L3-L4-L5-S1 fusion had me in the hospital for only 2 days-and in rehab 6 days. I found the post op pain quite controllable with the pain meds-unlike some of the back pain prior to surgery. Did have a few spasms the night after surgery-drugs helped that too. My only complication was the incision pulling apart slightly-I tend to do that. I was told to not sit for more than an hour-to walk then. I did fine with walking-easier than the knee! I'm still doing PT, but mostly because my back muscles were so weak from using a walker the two years prior to surgery. I should be able to lose it this summer. I see the ortho surgeon tomarrow for a checkup and hope to get cleared for the pool. I miss that! Take care and good luck!

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MARTHA-ANN 2/8/2012 11:25AM

    Hope everything goes well for you.
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JUNEBUG1944 2/7/2012 9:24PM

    DH had surgery for a herniated disc with a spur and it was a breeze! They only kept him overnight because he has heart problems. He WALKED out of the hospital...no wheel chair! He was back golfing in 6 weeks!

You'll so fine, Sharon, and will be so happy you had this done! My best wishes to you!

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SHANSHE 2/7/2012 2:32PM

    Thanks for letting us know Sharon! I understand being scared of back surgery, but it does not sound as complicated as SOME back surgeries I have heard of. I pray it goes well.
Hugs,
Shan

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ORCHIDLADY56 2/6/2012 8:28PM

    Outpatient - amazing! I hope that the surgery will relieve your pain and have you feeling back to normal soon. Keep us posted.

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CAROLEE1945 2/6/2012 5:08PM

    I know others who had similar surgery to yours, and they are just thrilled to be pain free. I am sure things are looking up for you.

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SCOOTDOG 2/6/2012 3:06PM

    Will keep you in my prayers. Will also be having surgery on Feb. 13 (TKR of left knee). Good luck, hope pain is gone soon.

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MEME102 2/6/2012 2:27PM

    So glad you let us know!!! The pain from surgery surely will have to be better than what you've been enduring the past year or so for 24/7. I'd say '95%' are pretty good odds. Keep us posted.

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F8CONE8 2/6/2012 2:03PM

    Keep us posted on your progress. I am excited for you! No pain would be heaven for you.

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MOM2ACAT 2/6/2012 1:50PM

    emoticon I'll keep you in my prayers.

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CAROLYN0107 2/6/2012 10:49AM

    It's great getting your news again. So sorry for all the back pain but It's good that you're having it taken care if. Outpatient back surgery. What will they come up with next?
I pray it goes well and that you'll be able to be back up Line Dancing!!!
Keep us updated as you can.
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A WONDERFUL SUMMER...now heading back to reality....

Monday, August 15, 2011

I have less than a week and I'll be on my way to Florida where my DH and dog are anxiously waiting for me. I am so going to miss my DGD, Quinn. We have spent a lot of good quality time together, had many grandma to granddaughter talks (priceless), and have actually learned a lot about each other. I found myself becoming the "story-teller," just as my grandmother used to be, passing along information that may or not be important some day. I've also had the opportunithy to spend one-on-one time with every member of the family. I listened and learned about each and every one of them. We get so caught up in the daily routine of our lives that we overlook the small, and often, important stuff. I hope that when I head home each one of them will feel they had a piece of me, if only for a short time. They all know they have my heart, but I want them to feel they have my attention, too. Thanks to my exceptional husband who was okay with me being gone so long. I'm gonna' owe him big time!

And now...heading back to reality....Since being in Maine I have gained four pounds. My diet has consisted mostly of seafood; some fried, boiled, baked, and broiled. Lots of chowder, probably made with cream, and warmed up blueberry pie ala mode again and again. Red meat has only passed my lips twice. I could really live without it I think. Maybe an occasional steak every three or four months, but other than that, give me fish and I'm happy. It's a given that the four pounds needs to come off plus a whole lot more.

I'm still dealing with chronic sciatic pain and plan on finding someone, somewhere, somehow who can fix this problem when I get home. I've been dealing with it for over four years and it has made a huge impact, in a negative way, on my life. I had high hopes that once my knee was replaced the sciatica would right itself. That didn't happen. The one good thing is that I only have pain in one area now instead of two...the knee replacement was very successful.

So onward I go...get some relief fromthe sciatic pain, start slowly but surely with the exercises (will get to the pool ASAP), blog, track food, and basically just get my butt moving. Will post again once I'm back in sunny FL.

  
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SCOTMAMA 8/18/2011 7:33PM

    It sounds like you had a dream of a summer, thanks to the good heart of a hubby. Why couldn't he come too? Not retired? But it will give you wonderful memories to look back on, and I'll bet it did your grandaughter a lot of good too. In cases like this it's always debatable who got the most out of it.

It will be hard to give up all that delicious FRESH seafood!

Hugs, Eve

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JETTANALA 8/17/2011 8:45PM

    I love that you stated that you are the storyteller and that you want everyone to know they have your attention! You are a good grandma!

I have terrible sciatica off and on... I have not had much trouble with it since going to the chiropractor! Go in for a consultation! It did me a world of good, that and.... believe it or not.... Walking! when I was training so hard for the 3 day walk, I couldn't stand straight at first when I was walking... the more I walked and got adjusted (3 times a week for a while) the better I got! Now I just go in every couple of months for an adjustment! I strongly urge you to do this!

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LOOKING_UP 8/17/2011 4:36PM

    LOVED reading about your grandma time with Quinn--what a blessing!!! How wonderful to be there for each other enjoying one another!
I thought your DH was with you? Didn't he go other summers...or maybe he went back early. I missed something that I'm sure your wrote about at some point. What a great guy to be without you and let you enjoy your family and old friends!

those 4 pounds will come off, Sharon. It happens to us all. I'm so happy to hear your knee is doing well...now that sciatica. I hope you find someone to help with that when you get home.

Enjoy the last few days!!!

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PUGRAD1995 8/16/2011 8:45PM

    I think your wonderful husband understands that time spent with a granddaughter is a wonderful legacy. I remember those many days I spent with mine just doing gardening or cooking. They can never be replaced.

Hopefully, I will be back when you are back and can share my insight on the back! I am just ready to get it over!

Be safe and have a wonderful trip home! Diana

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MOM2ACAT 8/15/2011 4:34PM

    I'm glad you had a wonderful summer, especially the talks with your granddaughter, I'm sure she will always treasure those when she looks back on those times. emoticon

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SHANSHE 8/15/2011 2:23PM

    I am glad you had such a wonderful summer Sharon! It's great to have that one on one time with those we love! I often wish I was more "present" when I am with my loved ones, it just seems hard to slow my mind enough to be there.

Have you tried chiropractic for your sciatica? I have heard it helps others...

You will lose those 4 pounds in no time at all!

Shan

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LESLIEKK 8/15/2011 8:22AM

    Glad you had a great summer Sharon! Safe travels back to Florida.

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CAROLYN0107 8/15/2011 7:41AM

    It seems you've had a wonderful time with family. I am in the States on a family visit right now. We had a great family reunion this weekend. I'm now with my brother and SIL. Have a great day!

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