Thursday, January 10, 2013
I had to skip the gym today. I had to stay home with my dad - hubby an appointment.
Then I get a phone call that the nurses are coming out to make sure that house is safe grumpy n to check his overall health. They also gauge if they feel that we r near burn out or not.
Well the good thing is house is kept clean so all I had to do was run vacuum (this has to b done a cpl times a day). Problem though I had just started a big put of collards 4 m n was working on hubby meal 4 when he gets home, and I was doing my wkly slicing of veggies. Soooo as u can imagine stuff all over the kitchen. still not getting upset I got some time.
THEN I realized there was a bad odor OH NOOOOO; YEA grumpy had an accident (he does this when he is mad @ us). Hubby usually deals w this but he wasn't here. SO FREAKING IRRITATING - IT IS WORSE THEN DEALING W A CHILD. So I already in a bad place - I calmly walk in his room n tell him LOOK I AINT ANDY I AINT ARGUING W U; THIS IS HOW ITS GONNA GO GET UR ASS OUT OF THAT BED GET IN THAT SHOWER. Of course it didn't go easy he as usual tried to do things his way instead of the right way. Once he is out of the shower dressed n bac in his wheel chair. I feed him. Decide to go clean up the bathroom n get the dirty clothes into the washer. But NO that doesn't happen instead due to the smell I sic everything came up. how a grown man can not follow simple directions. I will not gross u out w the details but it took an hr to get that bathroom properly cleaned & deodorized.
Luckily hubby got home right b4 the ladies got here n it looks like he will not only get approved for the program but they may b able 2 help u come up w the money 4 the ramp. The only issue was when they wanted to know what HE would do in an emergency like a fire -he said GO TO MY ROOM
TODAY OF ALL DAYS - I sooo cant wait 2 go 2 the gym 2morrow