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feeling good enough

Sunday, September 27, 2009

hey yall..i kno this isnt exactly, diet/food consumption related, but i figured someone out there has 2 kno. first of all u'll need 2 kno alittle into the situation..i have a very low self confidence rate with myself. i never feel good enuff andeven tho im trying 2 do better i always feel fat and unattractive. to top it all off i always feel like i'm no where near good enuff 4 the love of my life. i feel like i bother him no matter wat i do, and i feel completly unattractive 2 him due 2 not lookin like a model as i feel he does. and i kno he likes. and i seem to be completly stupid no matter wat i say, bcuz i never kno the right answers and i always seem 2 do sumthin wrong due to lack of knowledge...can anyone tell me anything 2 help me get thru this or anything at all..i hate 2 whine and complian about my problems but i feel like mayb someone can help possibly..thanks so much! ~Linzy Rain~ emoticon

  
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JESSYVIRGINY 10/4/2009 7:30PM

    hi! i really hope that you are over not feel attractive ?? i know how you feel, for me , i had to stop listening to every stereotype out ther, trust me , the way society thinks today about being a little over weight is wrong.
what i did to motivate myself was easy, i had some article of clothing that a really like so that was one gaol, then it was to be able to play with my kids outdoors for more the 15 min. without getting tired. and so on... and it really works.

i also notice that you are a we love edward team, i'm the new co-leader and if you ever need support just drop by and i'm shure that are new topic could help you emoticon emoticon

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ALEXSGIRL1 9/27/2009 7:26PM

    i think we all feel like you at one point in our life or another. i had very low self esteem due to the way i as brought up and also things that happened to me as a young adult. what helped me was a little task i did every morning. i thought i must be somehow good because god made me right? he can't be wrong. so every morning i forced myself to say one good thing i liked about my self,and every morning i had to pick another thing. i started with easy i like my hair,or i have pretty eyes. then came i am kind to others, i am good at my job,etc..each day i started feeling better about myself. then when i felt better i wanted to be the best i could be body and soul. and started eating better one day at a time. adding one extra fruit one week.no more frying foods another,etc. then i wanted to exercise so i started walking once around the block one week, going to the gym for 10 minutes the next. just small steps to build on..you can overcome the problems that gave you low self esteem and rebuild yourself one step at a time. your in a great place here at spark people to change linzy you can one step at a time. emoticon

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