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Morbid thinking or Not?

Friday, March 25, 2011

I am taking a small break from my PhotoBlog because this was something that was brought to my attention by a Sparkfriend and I feel the need to pass it on.

If you are like me, you have made amazing friends here on Spark. Could be someone that lives 3 blocks away or half way around the world. Most of these people I will never meet, but I consider them very dear friends.

I have had a couple of my Spark Friends tell me some incredible news this past week, in regards to their health and the health of loved ones. I thought, what if something were to happen? Something tragic? How would I ever find out?

As I talked about this with another of my SP Friend, he told me that he was going to give my email address to a trusted friend, as a "just in case". I told him I would do the same, but I am going to go one step further. I am going to give my trusted friend my log in information for Spark. I am going to ask her to go to each one of my teams and let them know if anything happens to me as well as my page. I have a few spark friends that I actually have their email address and I will give my BFF their email addresses too.

Is this morbid thinking? I don't think so. I know we are all here to get healthy and to live a longer life, but accidents happen. Car crashes, health issue that are non-health related...
I don't think this is any more morbid than drawing up a will or making pre-arranged funeral expenses.

I am giving my information to my friend this weekend. Won't you consider doing the same?

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ROXELLS_WARRIOR 4/2/2011 11:01PM

    You're so right on with this idea! I'll add it to my files, on a "please notify" page. One time the co-leader of my Special Ed team disappeared and did not respond to emails, and I worried that something happened to her. Now I have contact info for all three of my co-leaders and they have mine.

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TOBEARUNNER 4/1/2011 8:00PM

    Great blog Liz. I know that my sister would know to contact a local sparkfriend by getting numbers from my cell phone (if it was around) and she's also a facebook friend with that friend too, but I never thought about the login info... seems like something that two sparkfriends could swap as a "just in case" precaution, and like bringing an umbrella so that it doesn't rain, maybe being prepared will mean it won't be needed...

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SPARKNMOM 3/30/2011 6:04PM

    Nope...I totally agree with you. I've acquired some very real friendships here....

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SEYSARAH 3/25/2011 8:47PM

    It's a great idea and I speak from very personal friend who died..she will quite ill had her daughter contact her close friends and we in turn tried to contact her friends and teamies via private sparkmail...

Another friend was actually involved in a car accident while on the way to the airport.

The list goes on but I suppose I have lost some ten friends I knew fairly well, a couple very well and all thankfully had given either log in and passwords or email addys to a fellow Spark friend or relative.

With the exception of one who became very ill after joining Spark..all were fairly young and healthy.

Morbid, no...practical certainly.

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TNANCE3 3/25/2011 2:38PM

    I agree with the above comments. I don't think it is morbid. Actually your blog made me think about this. I would hate to lose someone and not be able to find out anything. I think your ideas are great and you should go through with them. I am sure that I am older than you, too, so it makes me think I need to do something about this myself. Thanks for the idea. emoticon

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    I don't think you're being morbid, I think you're being prepared, which is always a good thing.

Being older than you, and with friends here on SparkPeople and on Flickr, I have thought about this, too. Would anyone know if something happened to me? Would my family members even think of it? I also wonder, who would care? So, I'm kind of on the fence but it brings up an important point and a good suggestion. In my file with my final instructions, living will and such, I should have a page with my login information and with my wishes for how to handle my social networks. Technology has changed the world and our little corner often branches out way beyond its borders...

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SHELLEY81 3/25/2011 11:52AM

    That's a great idea! I have a spark friend who "disappeared" from spark and I have no idea what has happened! She was very active and involved and one day just "poof" she was inactive.. I wish I had some way to get in touch with her to find out if she's ok...

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    That's actually a good thought - not morbid. I live alone, and with my weird work schedule, I could be down and out in the house for days before someone misses me.

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LMB-ESQ 3/25/2011 7:18AM

    Yeah.... I think I will. Thanks for the idea

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Awesome Photo Blog: Day 17

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Day 17 - A picture of something that has made a huge impact on your life recently

Some of you know what all these Dragon Pictures mean. If you don't let me tell you....
It is the BLC Team - Jade Dragon Team! These pretty close group have made more impact on me than any other team I have ever joined on SparkPeople. I have joined all kinds of teams, ones with just 50 people all the way up to those with more than 10,000 people. I have made friends through just about ever team that I have joined but as individuals, not as a team. Jade Dragons are different. These 20 people are a group that have made the biggest impact on me than I could ever explain. I have been in two rounds of the BLC Challenge Team. Most of these Dragon team mates have been there much longer than I have. I have seen and am seeing Dragons go. But we have a motto in the Lair...once a Dragon always a Dragon.

The Jade Dragon team is no longer going to be a team on the BLC Challenge. I am not worried, The Dragons from the past and a few new Dragons will starting our own Team! I am sad to say that We are losing our beloved Team Captain SAYSARAH, Nan...this blog is dedicated to you. You will be missed.

To all my other team mates (past and future) thank you for allowing me to be a part of this great team!

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RUNNERMOMTO3 3/31/2011 2:59PM

    Liz~ I'm touched and am sitting here with tears in my eyes!! I have been with Spark for awhile and been part of many teams as like you. I have never felt this close to a group as I do with my Dragon friends. I feel truly blessed to have all of you in my life.

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EXRAYCHIC 3/31/2011 12:35PM

    Awe! Love it!

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    What a great testimonial to what sounds like a wonderful group!

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*MADHU* 3/23/2011 12:04PM

    Beautiful dedication to the Dragons and Nan emoticon
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JOANN562 3/23/2011 11:34AM

    I couldn't agree more.
Who would have thought that joining the BLC team & choosing maintenance group would lead to such a great group of people?! Mighty Masters of Maintenance for sure emoticon

THANK YOU for being the awesome Dragon that you are!

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KASHMIR 3/23/2011 9:37AM

    I'm so glad I got to be a dragon with you, and am looking forward to further adventures in the Lair! The Dragons are a great team, and you are a great Lairmate!

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TOBEARUNNER 3/23/2011 6:43AM

    Aww, how sweet Liz! The Dragons are lucky to have had you for two rounds and you better not think of leaving us any time soon! And don't worry, whether we're a BLC team or not, it's the group of people that makes our team special, and we'll still be just as special on our own! :)

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RUNNINGWILD 3/23/2011 12:11AM

    Such a simply stated blog... and I'm all choked up. I've only been a Dragon for one round and *I'm* going to be missing the lair, for sure.

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MKKAYA 3/22/2011 11:09PM

    Lizzy, great blog and yes being a dragon is quite special and I am so thankful that you are part of my spark journey!!! Each of one of you makes me better and thanks again for the great blog and the reminder! your awesome! HUgs


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ILOVEROSES 3/22/2011 11:02PM

    What a great blog Liz! I feel the same way about all my Dragon mates after the past 4 rounds and I am sure that we will have a fantastic new team!
I am hoping to meet some when I go to the States in Aug-Sept.

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SEYSARAH 3/22/2011 10:28PM

    Thanks so much Liz..very kind words. It's tough to leave the lair for a bit...but it's a good thing..I leave having known some tremendous people, ALL of whom have added something to my life...and that is amazing.

Meantime...I puruse my passion without diluting the passions of others, and have plenty to offer because I am the go getter amongst a huge group of go getters...looking forward to every Dragon, past, present and future doing well in every area of their life.

And....a word about your blogs...I have visited so many Dragon blogs and have loved them all...thanks so much to you and Penny for your picture blogs...they have made me really think...and at times laugh...I hope many will one day participate in doing this at some level.

Hugs always,

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SEASONS_CHANGE 3/22/2011 10:13PM

    Love it!~

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JOPAPGH 3/22/2011 9:52PM

    Way to go Biker Babe! It has been a fun time in Dragon Land.

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CHEMKATT 3/22/2011 8:04PM

    I love this selection! I totally agree that the Dragons are a fantastic group of people! I'm so happy I got to "meet" everyone!

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SPARKOVER 3/22/2011 6:35PM

    WOW, Beautiful

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Awesome Photo Blog: Day 16

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Day 16 - A picture of someone who inspires you

This is my husband...He inspires me to become a better person. Not just physically either. He Makes me want to become a better person. He says that is what I do for him...he has no idea.
We have been married for over 16 years and though it has not always been easy, i wouldn't change it for the world.

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*MADHU* 3/21/2011 11:01AM

    You have a handsome fella there...hold on to him dear friend emoticon

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HAZEL1022 3/19/2011 12:29AM

    Just here to echo the handsome sentiment!

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KLPEFFERS 3/16/2011 11:04AM

    I LOVE THIS!!! He reminds me of Baird Grill (or however you spell it) from Discovery. You know that crazy guy that get's stranded in horrible unlivable places on purpose!

YAY For you and 16 years!!!!! That's so awesome!

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-POLEDANCEGIRL- 3/16/2011 9:41AM

    Awesome!! He is handsome!

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SEASONS_CHANGE 3/16/2011 9:09AM

    Yes he is. ((whistles))

Congratulations on 16 years...

Cheers, to you and yours for a lifetime of happiness!


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GIANTOCR1 3/15/2011 11:38PM

    It sure is nice hearing stories like this. I feel the same way about my wife and we have been together for 16 years as well.. Love reading your blog.. Keep it up. Marty

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SEYSARAH 3/15/2011 6:49PM

    I agree, handsome and warm smiles!

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LMB-ESQ 3/15/2011 5:28PM

    Awww.... handsome guy!

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Awesome Photo Blog: Day 15

Monday, March 14, 2011

Day 15 - A picture of something you want to do before you die

I would like to learn to Rock Climb. This would be huge for me because I am afraid of heights!
I have three phobias...This one is the one I wish I didn't have.
One day before I die, I will climb. It doesn't have to be Everest, just any old rock will do...

This is a picture I took when we were at the Garden of the God's in Colorado Springs a couple years ago.

this is a picture I found online...That could be me one day!

It isn't to late to start the 30 Day Awesome Photo Blog!
Just Copy and paste and let me know if you join in, I will drop by everyday!
Day 01- A recent picture of yourself
Day 02 - A picture of you and the person you have been closest with the longest
Day 03 - A picture of your inspiration for weight loss
Day 04 - A picture of the cast of your favorite TV show
Day 05 - A picture of your favorite animal
Day 06 - A picture of a person you'd love to trade places with for a day
Day 07 - A picture of your most treasured item
Day 08 - A picture of your favorite color
Day 09 – A picture that motivates you to do more
Day 10 - A picture of your closest friend
Day 11 - A picture of your IPOD or other music playing device on shuffle, and then list the first 10 songs that play.
Day 12 – A picture that defines you
Day 13 - A picture of your favorite band or artist
Day 14 – A picture of you now
Day 15 - A picture of something you want to do before you die
Day 16 - A picture of someone who inspires you
Day 17 - A picture of something that has made a huge impact on your life recently
Day 18 - A picture of your biggest insecurity, and the reasons why it is the biggest
Day 19 - A picture of your nicknames you have; why do you have them.
Day 20 - A picture of somewhere you'd love to travel
Day 21 – A picture of an exercise you can’t do, but would like to try (and then try it if you want to)
Day 22 - A picture of something you wish you were better at
Day 23 - A picture of your favorite book; why is it your favorite?
Day 24 - A picture of what I would find in your bag
Day 25 - A picture of your favorite super hero and why
Day 26 - A picture of something that means a lot to you
Day 27 - A picture of yourself and a family member
Day 28 - A picture of something you're afraid of
Day 29 - A picture that can always make you smile
Day 30 - A picture of you last year and now, how have you changed since then?

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SEASONS_CHANGE 3/16/2011 9:10AM


BTW, I'm not a huge fan of heights either

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    Amazing to watch people do this! I saw a group doing it in Red Rock Canyon, Las Vegas - we were the only people on earth who went to LV to hike and not gamble! LOL!

Like you, I'm afraid of heights but I did climb a rock wall once... There's a blog called "Climb That Wall" on my page where I tell the story. It was an exhilirating experience and one that taught me that the only obstacles we have are those we place in our way...

Conquer yours! (But, try a rock wall first)!

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RUNNINGWILD 3/14/2011 11:27PM

    I'd like to try that as well.

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GIANTOCR1 3/14/2011 8:43PM

    Good luck, let me know when you go and I will join you..


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SEYSARAH 3/14/2011 8:10PM

    You can definitely do much fun would it be to start out with an indoor wall climbing area..they have beginner, intermediate and many start out that protuding rock..a couple of feet at a time...

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JAMBABY0 3/14/2011 7:13PM

    Good luck

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Awesome Photo Blog: Day 14

Thursday, March 03, 2011

Day 14 – A picture of you now

I JUST took this picture...giggle

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SEASONS_CHANGE 3/16/2011 9:11AM

    You look fabulous dahling!

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SPARKNMOM 3/11/2011 9:22PM

    Super Cute!!!!!

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    That's cheating! There's no evidence of giggling in the photo! LOL! But, I do love those eyes!

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LMB-ESQ 3/10/2011 6:42PM

    I thought I already left a comment! Are you messing with me?

Great pic!

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    Great are so young and beautiful!

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WALKOFFWIN 3/6/2011 10:59PM

    Another intriguing picture of an intriguing person... again.

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ETTEZEUS 3/4/2011 6:41PM

    You look great!

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SEYSARAH 3/4/2011 3:41PM

    Wonderful pic!

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TKAYSMILES 3/4/2011 3:32PM

    great pic!!!

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GIANTOCR1 3/3/2011 5:48PM

    You have the best looking eyes I have seen in a very long time. You have a great day.. Love your photo blog.

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