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Tuesday, December 02, 2008

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3 Ways To Stop Letting Yourself Down during Weight Loss

Tuesday, December 02, 2008

This SSSOOOO touches a nerve! This was twittered by Fitshack. THIS holiday is over - time to get back on track.


3 Ways To Stop Letting Yourself Down during Weight Loss
Posted December 1st, 2008 by JoLynn Braley

Has anyone ever let you down before? I think that most of us can answer yes to that question so you’re familiar with how it feels to be let down by someone else.

What I think is the more important question is: how often are you letting yourself down? How often do you make commitments to yourself, perhaps regarding your weight loss goals, but you don’t follow through with the action you need to take to make those healthy changes in your life?

The “Let Down”

When we really examine the feeling of being let down, it’s us who has placed an expectation on the other person or the situation and when they don’t come through like we expected them to then we feel the ”let down”.

The same thing happens when you set yourself up with expectations -unrealistic weight loss and fitness expectations. Now we’re not talking about having reasonable expectations of yourself, just like when you have reasonable expectations of another person (e.g. they tell you they are going to do something simple and don’t do it, and this happens over and over again).

Nope, I’m not talking about having realistic expectations of yourself, like when you follow your healthy eating and exercise plan and expect to lose 1 or 2 pounds in a week and instead your result for the week is no loss/no gain. Sometimes this is just how it goes when you’ve been on the weight loss track for several weeks or months - you just won’t lose weight every week even though you “do everything right”.

Unrealistic Expectations

Instead I’m talking about expecting of yourself that you’ll lose 4 or 5 pounds every single week. Maybe you’ve watched shows like The Biggest Loser and think that you should be able to reach the same weekly milestones as the people who are living weight loss 24/7.

Or maybe you take the unhealthy crash diet route instead of making healthy lifestyle changes that last. You know what I mean - those fad diets that promise quick weight loss and don’t teach you how to live to keep it off; those fad diets that give you high expectations of how much weight you will lose and how quickly that will occur but don’t give you a lifestyle plan to keep it off, nor do they address the inner reason that you gained weight in the first place.

3 Ways to STOP Letting Yourself Down

So let’s look at how you can stop letting yourself down, how you can stop feeling like you aren’t living up to your own expectations of how you “should” be doing with your weight loss:

1. Set Realistic Goals - Set small, realistic goals for yourself, daily, weekly, and even hourly if needed! For example, if you have been very sedentary for years make it a goal to walk 5 to 10 minutes every day. You can always add more and build up to 30 minutes a day but starting out small will get you going and you’ll be a success immediately by completing those small goals.

2. Take the Focus off the Scale - Instead of putting your entire focus on the numbers on the scale set different goals that when you achieve them will give you success whether or not the scale moves. For example, if you make it a goal to stick to your healthy eating and exercise plan, get plenty of rest each night, and take consistent action to reduce daily stress (which exercise will really help with) and you follow through with these actions and reach your goals then you are a success whether or not the scale moves.

You simply cannot rely on that scale to give you a feeling of success each week because sometimes your body needs to readjust to a lower weight and it won’t always release excess fat. (At the same time however it’s a good idea to measure yourself each week in addition to weighing because you will find that sometimes you lose inches and don’t lose pounds.)

3. Drop the Perfectionism - When you let go of the need to be perfect you’ll be on your way towards dropping the “let down” with yourself. There is no such thing as being perfect unless you are speaking of the fact that you are a perfect being living in human existence - that’s a different topic. When it comes to being perfect in your weight loss journey you are setting yourself up for feeling really let down because there will be times that you don’t get in your exercise, for example.

If you hang on to the thought that you must be perfect you won’t really enjoy the process of getting fit and if you don’t enjoy it and if it’s not fun then why do it? The joy is in the journey, not in the destination.

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MUNDOFLOR 12/2/2008 11:15AM

  Thanks for this.

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Let's just forget about last week and start over

Monday, November 24, 2008

9:30 -

Yes, I know it'll be tough this week with the holiday, BUT it's a short week for me (just working Monday and Tuesday), which means that I will be walking Pups a lot (plus a visiting pup) and doing stuff around the house.

Hubby is getting sick, which means that his appetite won't be that great and I'll be on my own finding food (ie, no big meals except Thanksgiving day).

Last week was BAD. Just need to move forward.

I have yet to figure out rewards. Once that's figured out, maybe that will help. I pulled out my WW keychain as a reminder. I'm kind of thinking about either charms for the keychain or a bracelet to add charms to.

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TEENIEWEENIE 11/29/2008 10:50AM

    Hey there LTWB - Keep moving forward - remember you are "Leaving the weight behind"

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KIMDCANDOIT 11/24/2008 11:11PM

    We all have times that we wish we could forget. Just try and get back on track, print up some things that motivate you and put them around where you can see them. The reminders do help. You can do this.

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Making a plan

Friday, November 14, 2008

10 a.m.

Last night, I went through my WW stuff. Now, I've been on WW 2 times - once in 1999 (to 2000) where I got down to my goal weight of 136 and then in 2004 when I went for about 3 month and that was it. Obviously, the 2nd time around, I just wasn't ready.

Anyway, it was motivating going through my stuff. I see that I can make that goal number as I did in 2000 - yes the body was much different back then, and this time around it probably won't be as easy. But what I was really looking at was in 2004. On this date in 2004, I was 186.0 - 4 lbs heavier than I am today. I had kept all of my log books and have the weight through the end of January 2005. The lowest weight I got at that time was 177.5 (on January 27, 2005). So,

emoticongoal #1 - to make it to 177.0 by 12/14/08. I figure 5 lbs in a month is a good goal. Especially if I get serious about this. Here are my (turtle) steps in making this goal.

emoticonStart counting points. (point range - 22 to 29). I think maybe that will help with focusing on the intake. I've noticed that I usually go over the calorie range and I'm hoping with the point system it will make me focus on what I'm putting in my mouth.

emoticonChange the evening routine. I've kind of started this. In the morning, I make a list of things to do in the evening to keep me active and it's helping. The key is to keep busy in the evening so that I don't just sit in front of the TV and snack. When I was going through my WW stuff, this was one of my goals way back then. Obviously, this has always been an issue for me.

emoticon Keeping reminders in view. When I went through my WW stuff, I found a bookmark that has the WW tools for living. I've put this in my calendar pagefinder. Where I will see it everyday.

emoticon Water first thing in the morning. This week, I started filling a waterbottle at night so that it's there first thing in the morning when I get ready for work. Even if I get at least 1 extra cup of water in a day, that's better than not (I have a feeling the one cup will lead to 2; to 3; etc.).

I'm still working on a reward system. I looked through the message board yesterday and found some good ideas. Just need to figure out what ones really appeal to me.

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PATTYB11360 11/21/2008 4:13PM

    Yes it is difficult until you finally make that decision to make it priority to lose this weight and get to a healthy status. Why we wait until we can't stand ourselves is beyond me. Keep moving forward as I will too. Today I actually did a good amount of exercises and will be getting on the elliptical this afternoon. I created a time/task management schedule to keep on track and it is helping to a great degree. I'm a visual learner so seeing what I am doing on paper helps me. Have a great day today and a promising week.



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SANDINB 11/14/2008 10:58PM

    Your doing the right thing with taking some small steps. Great attitude. You are on the right track. One reward I have been doing every day is to literally pat my self on the back and say aloud great job! I started doing it to be smart after I found out that you wasn't suppose to use food to reward yourself. Surprisingly it has some satisfaction in it.

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KIMDCANDOIT 11/14/2008 1:57PM

    I am so happy you have a plan set up. I always say you have to plan to succeed. That I believe you will do. Keep your plan posted up where you can see it through out the day it will help keep you motivated to keep going.
Great job!!!!

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RUBYPMD1998 11/14/2008 12:46PM

    looks great!

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I started the day off right!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

3:45 p.m.
I actually started the day off right today. I had a cup of water! Last night I filled a waterbottle with icecubes and this morning it was probably about 8 ozs of water which I drank while I was getting ready for work.

Yeah for those small accomplishments! So I'm going to start doing this every night and see how it goes.

I think I'm getting to a point that I'm realizing that I need to kick it into high gear if I want to make my goal by March 2009. Now, to make the change to do it (and get the plan in place to do it). Obviously this time is not going to be as easy as just watching the food intake - or it could be I'm just not eating the right food (I KNOW!).

When I was on WW, I really didn't do that much exercise, it was just watching what I was eating and keeping within the points. Maybe I should start there and try that again, but log it on here.

I was just looking at other blog entries and ran across this one - VERY inspirational!


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KIMDCANDOIT 11/13/2008 5:56PM

    Great job on getting your water in and planning a way to do it, I have also found planning for things ahead of time really makes you succeed at what you want. Keep it up and in know time you will find the right path for you!

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