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Weight watchers this morning...

Friday, May 24, 2013

Weigh in at the meeting this morning...Up point eight. Not all that bad, even though I was hoping for a loss. Still underweight according to the unrealistic standards at weight watchers...by...eleven point two pounds. I am happy where things stand right now though.

Also I have been getting in my exercise as this past week I had ten points plus of activity for the week.

I am loving the fact that I no longer have to deal with active link. I mean while I had it I did OK with it. I just did not get enough exercise in to warrant keeping it.

In listening in on the meeting this morning I have found that I do this one thing a lot...If out at a restaurant I know I have been to before...I will order just a salad with dressing on the side and instead of dipping a fork into the dressing with a bite on the tines...I will pour all of the dressing on the salad.

Also I need ideas on how to spread my points plus values out over the course of a day?.

I get 26 points plus a day and I am usually left with 3 to 5 points plus when I go to sleep.

Off topic...What can I do to get mom off the couch and back up to her bedroom?. She is saying now that her back is hurting...and I know it is from being on the couch all the time.

Also I think I may get home health to come back to the house for an evaluation.

  
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ALIHIKES 5/24/2013 9:06PM

    I think having home health come by would be very useful for both you and your mom. She may listen to someone else about getting moving a little more. Home health may also have some ideas for resources when your finances are so tight.

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COCK-ROBIN 5/24/2013 2:33PM

    I hope it goes well for you.

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Update on mother's chemotherapy...

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Mother's chemotherapy day today was just a quick fifteen minute in and out session for a shot of nulasta.

She does not have chemotherapy scheduled again until the 28th of May.

Today was somewhat better, but, I am still feeling like I am walking on eggshells around her as whatever I say gets twisted around and then gets used to hurt me.

Tonight I was able to go to the bookstore and cash in my books. Though they would not take my e-reader as they claimed it did not have a fully charged battery...what in the hell?.

I had that e-reader on charge all night last night. Anyway, I only made two dollars and fifty cents.

Also I went to the grocery store and got mom another phone card and also some lunch meat and a couple of pink lady apples...all for twenty five dollars...mom needs to start reimbursing me for these phone cards as they are twenty dollars for 120 minutes.

Also I paid for lunch again and that set me back about fourteen dollars. So now, unless I get paid overnight...I only have thirty six dollars to last through the end of May.

And she is telling me she needs incontinence pads for herself.

Those by themselves are eleven dollars and change. Start paying for those yourself, mom.

  
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JESSERMOVICK 5/23/2013 9:33AM

    emoticon Keep plugging forward. I know this stress is not easy, and it seems overwhelming, but God does not task us with these things without believing we can handle it, learn from it, and come out of it a stronger person! emoticon

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TUPPERWARE1 5/23/2013 3:34AM

    Nothing personal but your Mother needs to pay for own lunch and for her Pads.You insist on it.You can spend more wisely.Did you find a dog to walk yet?Go wash windows,clean someones house.Stop kibitching and do something.A weight watcher friend.

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COCK-ROBIN 5/23/2013 3:16AM

    wow, I hope it gets better for you.

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FENWAYGIRL18 5/22/2013 11:57PM

    It might make more sense to get one of those phones from Walmart where you can buy minutes instead of those phone cards, I believe they come with some minutes and then you can buy cards to recharge.
I'll say a prayer for mom, I'm sure chemo is taking a lot out of her....

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What have I done wrong here lately?...

Tuesday, May 21, 2013

This morning was mother's chemotherapy treatment. We got to the place to have the treatment at around 11am. They took her back at 11:15am. She stayed from 11:15am until about 2pm.

I was regulated to the hallway today as all the recliners were full as were the extra chairs. That upset me a lot as they need to make considerations for the caregivers that come to be with the chemo patients.

Anyway, after we left chemotherapy mom was a little hungry as expected so we stopped and ate lunch...and knowing our money situation is extremely tight right now...she made me pay the check.

Two salad bars and a diet coke for me (she had water) were seventeen dollars with tip...seventeen dollars for a salad...that ridiculous!!!.

Anyway, on the way home I told her that I wanted to stop at the bank and cash in some change and also stop and drop some books for donation and credit at half price books.

I also told her this before she and I even got to the medical building where she takes chemo.

She forgot about it. And when I reminded her of it, she got really, really angry at me (I did not one damn thing wrong) and said rather hateful "you don't even have five dollars in change to cash in", really nasty.

Anyway, I also told her that yes, I would like to go to the bookstore and cash in on those books (I had maybe fifteen dollars as I am getting rid of an e-reader I don't use) and she said that she would take me tomorrow to do that instead of today.

I do feel bad for her on these days she does chemotherapy....But, I am not asking for the moon, I just want enough money to last until the end of the month.

Right now I have only fifty dollars total to last until June 3rd when my social security check comes.

  
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ALIHIKES 5/22/2013 3:05PM

    So sorry -- you and your mom are both going through very rocky times. And the tight finances don't help. emoticon

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TUPPERWARE1 5/21/2013 10:58PM

    You did nothing wrong.Your Mother is not well and she takes it out on you.I would of dropped her off and went to lunch by myself.

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COCK-ROBIN 5/21/2013 9:19PM

    My prayers go with you and yours.

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KRUSSELL35 5/21/2013 7:38PM

    Is all right Lance...it's not you...I remember my Dad...he so wanted this or that or wanted to do this or that...but when it came to it...he changed his mind...

Sorry you weren't able to sit with your Mom during chemo...my Dad went on his own...he was able to talk with the other chemo patients...there's a bond that grows between them...

FYI we all know about the money situation as well! Hang in there!

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MASTERCARE 5/21/2013 7:08PM

    You did nothing wrong......

I am sure after her treatments....she just wants to go home. I don't blame her.

Since you don't drive....perhaps someone else could take you on your errands....or....just want till the next day.

Hang in there.

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And the Lord said....

Sunday, May 19, 2013

This week's meeting topic resonated with me a lot. In the bible it reads...

And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also.

This week's meeting topic is on SETTING YOUR TABLE.

This past week mom and I did just that. We cleaned off the clutter from the dining room table
(There were plants on the table from when my grandmother passed on two years ago) and we put on a new table cloth and put out the good silverware.

Yes, I will admit wholeheartedly that we use...gasp...paper plates.

I know that there are people that would set out the good "company only" china and the good glassware, but, I figured that since it has been only the two of us at home since my step dad and also my grandmother both passed on, unless my aunt or my brother and sister in law and the girls come...why bother?.

I mean that just means more mess to clean up and more dishes to wash (although I am finding that strangely...I now LOVE house work...all but cleaning the bedrooms. I know weird, right?).

Anyway, also due to trying to save money and budget our money and also our time...we are no longer eating out of doors as often as we once were.

And if we do we either use coupons or go to Cracker Barrel with my employee discount or as was the case tonight...we use coupons and mother makes me pay for the meal.

But that does not happen too often. This week we have just been big time B-R-O-K-E as mom's social security money went toward the one hundred and forty dollar water bill and also the electric bill.

Also we are not paying it, but, we have a cellular phone bill from T-mobile for 652 dollars and some odd cents.

We neither one will get our social security check until the first part of June so that means living on 101.19 until next Thursday when I get paid from work.

I hate that feeling.




  
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COCK-ROBIN 5/20/2013 1:13AM

    My prayers go with you.

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TUPPERWARE1 5/19/2013 11:39PM

    For money can you walk a dog,pull weeds,help a senior?
Can you wash a couple of dishes?
Stop buying paper plates! lsetting the table with nice things is one of the topics lately at w8w meeting.Go for a walk and lose your stress.Your doing a great job dealing with grumpy Mama bear. emoticon

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My day so far today eating wise...

Friday, May 17, 2013

Down one whole pound this morning. Back on track, back on plan and planning to eat all points plus today. I get 26 a day. I now have 8 points left as today I have the following menu:

Breakfast: Special K chocolate delight made with fat free milk and a single apple

Lunch: canned barbecue on light hamburger bun with carrots and tomatoes

Snack: 3 tablespoons popcorn, light

Dinner: turkey breast, lettuce, tomato onion, carrots, pickles, jalapeno peppers on a lettuce leaf with a single packet of light mayonnaise

Snack: Carnation instant breakfast drink

I think the fat free milk listed as ingredient in the carnation breakfast drink counts as a good health guideline.

Am I right or wrong on that assumption?.

  
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OUTDOORGIRL68 5/17/2013 9:00PM

    I like that menu maybe I will try that one tomorrow.

Good luck on your journey.
Ida

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