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Life was too good to be true....

Friday, September 07, 2012

Mike came over today, and blew up on me about my helping so many people, he was one of them, and not having money for my prescriptions. Well, he has my money, and didn't offer to try to get it for me. It was horrible, and I cried all day, well, the friends here with me, helped a lot, but there is a lot of drama here lately and I don't know how much more I can take. Of the three only one pays rent, and that is only $60 a week, but when he pays me tomorrow, I will call my prescription in. I will be ok, and grateful tomorrow will be here soon.

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MORTICIAADDAMS 9/10/2012 8:23AM

    I do agree about one thing. Your medicine comes first before any of these people, including Mike. You have Cleo to take care of. I don't want anything happening to you. You need to stop giving money to everyone.

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GLC2009 9/8/2012 4:05PM

    are these people living with helping in any other way? they should be paying you money, even a nominal amount, but, if for some reason they absolutely can't, then at least your house should be spotlessly cleaned by them, your yard mowed, your garbage taken out.....whatever.
people who just come into your space, don't help out and fill it up with them and their stuff are selfish and rude.
stand up for yourself, knock some heads together and tell them it's time for a new regime and they better step up or get out. that includes buddy mike. i can't believe he gives you crap and he doesn't even pay you back what he owes you. how rude.


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SPARKLEMAMMY 9/8/2012 1:21PM

    You should kick all those spongers out of your life, you deserve better.

There are takers and givers and it seems to me that you are a giver and ALL the OTHERS are takers and (spongers) and they are on to a good thing, your life would be much RICHER and you would be better off without them.

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PEGGY-BEE 9/8/2012 12:23PM

    I'm with Mike on this one (and I also think he's showing you that he puts himself first).

You Must put yourself first! If you don't, what will they all do when you are not there to help them? So you get what You need, then if you have anything left over, you can help those in need. If they don't appreciate your needs, they don't really care about you and it's all about them. Your health is of utmost importance, the priority.
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PINK-SOLDIER 9/8/2012 12:10PM

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SEAWILLOW 9/8/2012 10:49AM

    I am guilty of helping others and putting myself last as well. We need to make ourselves a priority and WIN! emoticon

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JEANNE229 9/8/2012 9:25AM

    So sorry Mike's return wasn't a better one.

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KANOE10 9/8/2012 8:32AM

    Hnag in there. I hope you get your prescription soon! Take care of yourself. I am sorry you are going through a hard time.
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SANDYW1945 9/8/2012 6:18AM

    I'm sorry. I should know but I don't. Do you have people who live with you? Do you charge them rent and they don't pay? There are people who take advantage of others. They aren't really friends...parasites is a better word. Take care that you are not being someone they just use.

So sorry about all you are going through. Take heart. You and only you are the captain of your ship. Do what you need to do to make yourself safe. I'm pulling for you.

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KAYYVAUGHN 9/8/2012 5:27AM

    I agree. You should take care of yourself. The others need to learn to take care of themselves.


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GRAMMAP1 9/7/2012 11:44PM

    Please take care of yourself, Friend. You need somebody with some clout help you get money from the other renters. emoticon

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MJREIMERS 9/7/2012 11:07PM

    Hang in there. Remember, we have to take care of ourselves if we are to be of help to others. We won't be any good to others, if we aren't healthy and doing what is right for our health. It will get better!

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Crazy Day here,

Thursday, September 06, 2012

Saw Mike this morning, he is still so weak and tires so easily. Today my son and grandsons visited, I so enjoy having them here. Tonight, the place went nuts.......John's ex wife had a fight with there son, tried to hit him, Johnflew out of here. Hope he will be ok.

  
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KAYYVAUGHN 9/7/2012 7:44AM

    That would be too much for me. I'm glad that you are handling everything well.
Kay

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JEANNE229 9/7/2012 7:15AM

    Always drama to contend with. Glad you have those peaceful times with family, too.

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GEORGIAGIRL26 9/6/2012 9:44PM

    Happy that Mike was able to come home.
Hope that he is doing much better.
I am also glad that you got to visit with your son and grandson.
Sorry that the ex-wife was causing a problem.
Will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
Your friend in health. Holly emoticon emoticon emoticon

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MORTICIAADDAMS 9/6/2012 9:43PM

    I hope Mike gets his strength back soon. I know you are the best medicine for him.

I'm so glad your son and the grandkids could come.

John's ex wife sounds like a mess.

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Mike is home woohoo!!!!!!

Wednesday, September 05, 2012

I walked out of my room this morning and there he was, we talked for about 30minutes, then he left to get a haircut. He will be over later. I am so relieved he is home, he almost died, when he told me that, the tears rolled down my cheeks. I love my friend.

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HEATER1369 9/6/2012 10:06AM

    That is awesome!

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SNUZSUZ 9/6/2012 9:12AM

    I am so happy for you! yay!

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TWEETYKC00 9/5/2012 3:15PM

    That is so great. I am glad you have time with Mike and he is safe with you now.

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MORTICIAADDAMS 9/5/2012 2:34PM

    I'm so glad that Mike is back. You will have a lot to catch up on. I hope you have a great visit.

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JEANNE229 9/5/2012 2:29PM

    Happy day for you both.

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Not sure how I feel today,

Tuesday, September 04, 2012

Mike may either be home or coming soon. I'm a bit nervous, since it has been a month. Maybe he won't be the same, feel the same about our friendship. John is coming to have lunch with me, he is just a friend, but, I really enjoy his company. I'm having trouble sleeping, eating, and I don't like feeling this way. How will Mike react to John being here so much, he doesn't like him much. I think I will hide in my closet then I will have no problems...LOL. Life is definitly weird some times, (Who would ever think I would have such a problem)? emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

  
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ROSIEJ1942 9/5/2012 1:05PM

    emoticonHope all is going well, for you.

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NEWKATHYNOW 9/4/2012 8:48PM

    Good luck and I hope things work out just as you want them emoticon

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KAYYVAUGHN 9/4/2012 4:06PM

    Things will work out in time. John and Mike both care about you. So they will work out any issues.
Take care,
Kay

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TWEETYKC00 9/4/2012 1:15PM

    If John and Mike have issues, then they need to handle them. I hope things work out for all of you.

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MORTICIAADDAMS 9/4/2012 12:01PM

    Maybe Mike has more feelings for you than friendship if he doesn't like John being around. I would let Mike know that John is just a friend. You have stated that they are both just friends so they should be able to handle it.

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JEANNE229 9/4/2012 11:40AM

    Good luck m'dear.

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A good day,

Monday, September 03, 2012

The holiday is over, and I made it through. Now watching wrestling with some special friends.
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JEANNE229 9/4/2012 11:25AM

    I am always glad when you have a good day.

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MORTICIAADDAMS 9/3/2012 8:48PM

    Have a great evening, GF!!

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JUDYHELP 9/3/2012 8:43PM

  emoticon enjoy your get together and wrestling. Hope the holiday was good for you. Judy

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