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Observations on Growing Older

Saturday, May 01, 2010

i got this in an email the other day and thought it was rather a fun read!!!

Observations on Growing Older

~Your kids are becoming you...and you don't like them
...but your grandchildren are perfect!

~Going out is good.
Coming home is better!

~When people say you look "Great"...
they add "for your age!"

~When you needed the discount you paid full price.
Now you get discounts on everything ...
movies, hotels, flights, but you're too tired to use them..

~You forget names ... but it's OK
because other people forgot
they even knew you!!!

~The 5 pounds you wanted to lose
is now 15 and you have a better chance
of losing your keys than the 15 pounds.

~You realize you're never going
to be really good at anything .... especially golf.

~Your spouse is counting on you
to remember things you don't remember.

~The things you used to care to do,
you no longer care to do,
but you really do care that you
don't care to do them anymore.

~Your spouse sleeps better on a lounge chair
with the TV blaring than he does in bed.
It's called his "pre-sleep".

~Remember when your mother said
"Wear clean underwear in case you GET in an accident"?
Now you bring clean underwear in case you HAVE an accident!

~You used to say,
"I hope my kids GET married ...
Now, "I hope they STAY married!"

~You miss the days when everything worked
with just an "ON" and "OFF" switch..

~When GOOGLE, ipod, email, modem ...
were unheard of, and a mouse was something
that made you climb on a table.

~You used to use more 4 letter words ...
"what?"..."when?" ???

~Now that you can afford
expensive jewelry, it's not safe to wear it anywhere.

~You read 100 pages into a book before you realize you've read it.

~Notice everything they sell in stores is "sleeveless"?!!!

~What used to be freckles are now liver spots.

~Everybody whispers.

~You have 3 sizes of clothes in your closet ....
2 of which you will never wear.

~~~~But old is good in some things:
old songs
old movies
And best of all OLD FRIENDS!!

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VALDESROSIERS1 5/3/2010 12:04PM

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Thanks for sharing


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DRASADAF 5/2/2010 3:07AM

    i feel like that today

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SAMODER 5/2/2010 1:10AM

    I have to admit the sleeveless stuff does bother me.

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MS5835 5/1/2010 8:14PM

    So true! Thanks for sharing

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CJS7159 5/1/2010 7:09PM

    Thanks, I thoroughly enjoyed that!

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NIGHTSKYSTAR 5/1/2010 10:18AM

    Ahh Lita..you always know JUST what to post!!

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HOSTALADY 5/1/2010 9:40AM

    Good chuckle! thanks for sharing!

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WILLOW49 5/1/2010 7:34AM

    Hehe, this was good! I hate to admit that I can relate to several of these! But there are some perks in getting older...but I can't remember what they are...hehe

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    Very funny, very true, and very ... Sorry, I can't remember what I was going to write.

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KARENV986 5/1/2010 12:27AM

  Boy I can relate to a lot of those!

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ERIECANALGAL 5/1/2010 12:21AM

    So true! So true!

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Friday, April 23, 2010



I woke up early today, excited over all the things
I get to do before the day ends...

My job is to choose what
kind of day I am going to have.

Today I can complain because the weather is rainy or ...
I can be thankful that the grass
is getting watered for free.

Today I can grumble about my health or...
I can rejoice that I am alive.

Today I can mourn my lack of friends or...
I can excitedly embark upon a
quest to discover new relationships.

Today I can whine because I have to go to work or...
I can shout for joy because I have a job to do.

Today I can murmur dejectedly because I have to do housework or...
I can feel honored because life has provided
shelter for my mind, body and soul.

Today stretches ahead of me, waiting to be shaped ...
And here I am, the sculptor who gets to do the shaping.

Today I am going to have a BEAUTIFUL DAY...
Because I am blessed with
so many gifts in my life.

~ Author Unknown ~

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GOSPELCLOWN 4/26/2010 10:49AM


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DRASADAF 4/26/2010 10:38AM

    your words are beautiful

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AQUAGIRL08 4/25/2010 8:41PM

    I love this blog! Thank you for sharing it with all of us Lita!

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MOMFAN 4/24/2010 6:21PM

    Great perspectives, choosing that beautiful day!

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MS5835 4/24/2010 11:54AM

    Thanks for sharing this beautiful poem. It's just what I need his morning. emoticon

Comment edited on: 4/24/2010 11:55:31 AM

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NIGHTSKYSTAR 4/24/2010 9:47AM


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JULIAOAK 4/24/2010 3:30AM

    thats really good - I am going to print it out and put it somewhere prominent - to remind me how lucky I am!!! emoticon

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SAMODER 4/23/2010 11:50PM

    I totally believe the philosophy behind your blog. Even when I don;t feel well, zI try to keep a positive attitude and demeanor. I think it helps me feel better.
Thanks for sharing

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    Yes, I think gratitude is one of the keys to happiness. I'm grateful to you for reminding me!


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WILLOW49 4/23/2010 10:44PM

    What a beautiful poem! We should make every day a beautiful day!

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Saturday, April 17, 2010


Some people come into our lives and quickly go;
Some people move our souls to dance; they awaken us to new understanding
With the passing whisper of their wisdom;
Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon.

Friends share simple, ordinary times in our lives,
Moments that become memories that stay in our hearts forever
... And we will never, ever be the same.

Friendship is a strange thing ...
It is by chance we met, by choice we became friends;
We find ourselves telling each other the deepest details of our lives,
things we don't even share with our families who raised us.

But what is a friend? A confidant? A lover? A fellow email junkie?
A shoulder to cry on? An ear to listen? A heart to feel?
A friend is ALL of these things and more;
No matter where we met, I call you "friend":
A word so small ... yet so large in feeling ... a word filled with emotion.

Once the package of friendship has been opened,
It can never be completely closed;
It is a constant book always waiting to be read ... and enjoyed.

We may have disagreements,
We may argue, we may concern one another ...
Friendship is a unique bond that lasts through it all.

A part of me is put into my friends: some is my humor, some is my listening ear,
Some is real life experience, some is my romanticism, but with all, it is FRIENDSHIP ...
Thanks for making a difference in my life!

~ Author Unknown

today was the last day of my 6 week bootcamp where i live.........
i could not totally bust through this long plateau but i feel i made a dent in it and have lost almost 10 inches overall, increased my muscle mass and reduced my body fat ................

thanks to everyone here for making such a great difference to me as we journey here together.........without this great network of help and support i would not be were i am today..........much appreciation and thanks to all........blessings and hugs.............lita

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DRASADAF 4/26/2010 10:45AM

    emoticon wow ...

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    Thanks for starting the week off with a big smile!

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VALDESROSIERS1 4/18/2010 2:59PM

    Lita congrats on losing 10inches !!

Keep up the great work !!

Val. :)

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VALDESROSIERS1 4/18/2010 2:54PM

    Ur poem was right on the head .thanks
And thanks for being a good leader.

The pic is so cute. I love it!!

I'm soooo happy I found Spark and made great friends and a fantastic buddy.


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GOSPELCLOWN 4/18/2010 11:39AM

    You are an inspiration~


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NIGHTSKYSTAR 4/18/2010 10:36AM

    this is wonderful!!! you are such a wonderful person Lita..thank you for the lovely blog!!

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JULIAOAK 4/18/2010 9:33AM

    you have done really well at boot camp - and the poem is lovely - a nice reminder of what a friend is!!
Keep up the good work! emoticon

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BECKYI39 4/18/2010 9:18AM

    10 inches, WOW!!! Be proud!!

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MS5835 4/17/2010 11:18PM

    Thanks for sharing such a wonderful poem. And congrats on finishing your boot camp and your accomplishments. 10" is amazing!!!! emoticon

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WILLOW49 4/17/2010 10:49PM

    You're doing great! What a cute picture and very nice poem :)

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    Love the picture and the poem too. Thank you for sharing.

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SAMODER 4/17/2010 10:14PM

    10 inches is an amazing amount..... emoticon You rock!


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BECKA525 4/17/2010 6:29PM

    Great job on your progress. Thanks for the poem it was nice.

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LHOLEWIN 4/17/2010 6:16PM

    Loved it

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TRYINGHARD1948 4/17/2010 6:08PM

    Thanks Lita and well done on finishing your six week bootcamp with such great results. WooHoo.

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MOMFAN 4/17/2010 5:16PM

    WooHoo on your progress! Great job!

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BAKRAUSE 4/17/2010 4:56PM

  I have always felt that poem/story to be so very appropiate for life. Every time I read it, I appreciate it even more.

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MOMM4LIFE 4/17/2010 4:47PM

    This was an awesome blog!!!

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Saturday, April 10, 2010


It is easy enough to be pleasant, when life flows by like a song,
But the man worthwhile is one who will smile, when everything goes dead wrong;
For the test of the heart is trouble, and it always comes with the years,
And the smile that is worth the praises of earth is the smile that shines through tears.

It is easy enough to be prudent, When nothing tempts you to stray,
When, without or within, no voice of sin Is luring your soul away;
But it's only a negative virtue Until it is tried by fire,
And the life that is worth the honor of earth Is the one that resists desire..

By the cynic, the sad, the fallen who had no strength for the strife,
The world's highway is cumbered today; they make up the sum of life;
But the virtue that conquers passion, and the sorrow that hides in a smile,
It is these that are worth the homage on earth, for we find them but once in a while.

Ella Wheeler Wilcox (1850 1919)

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TRYINGHARD1948 4/16/2010 5:05AM

    Lita, that is beautiful, thank you for sharing.

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ANGELONAWING 4/13/2010 12:53AM

    Thank you... I am worth while!

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SAMODER 4/11/2010 8:55PM

    Thank you for the beautiful reminder, Lita.


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NIGHTSKYSTAR 4/11/2010 8:34PM

    this is wonderful, Lita, as YOU are!!!

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PIXFIVE 4/11/2010 11:37AM

    Very nice. emoticon

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ILOVEROSES 4/11/2010 11:08AM

    Thank you for sharing. Enjoy your Sunday, it's time for me to go to sleep now. emoticon

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    Thank you for sharing such a nice poem. I always look forward to your blogs. Hope you have a nice day.

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HOSTALADY 4/10/2010 10:22PM

    I really enjoyed this poem thanks for posting it for all to read!
Blessings to you!

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MOMFAN 4/10/2010 9:25PM

    That pic is so going on my Spark Page! I love the poem, its a keeper!

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MEHOPEFUL2 4/10/2010 8:23PM

    That was beautiful! I love poetry that's so uplifting! emoticon emoticon

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WILLOW49 4/10/2010 8:06PM

    Thanks for sharing with us :)

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CHEVY63 4/10/2010 8:00PM

    Thanks for posting this - I really like what this poem has to say! emoticon

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The Three Trees

Saturday, April 03, 2010

The Three Trees

Once upon a mountain top, three little trees stood and dreamed of what they wanted to become when they grew up.

The first little tree looked up at the stars and said: "I want to hold treasure. I want to be covered with gold and filled with precious stones. I'll be the most beautiful treasure chest in the world!".

The second little tree looked out at the small stream trickling by on its way to the ocean. "I want to be traveling mighty waters and carrying powerful kings. I'll be the strongest ship in the world!".

The third little tree looked down into the valley below where busy men and women worked in a busy town. "I don't want to leave the mountain top at all. I want to grow so tall that when people stop to look at me, they'll raise their eyes to heaven and think of God. I will be the tallest tree in the world."

Years passed. The rain came, the sun shone, and the little trees grew tall. One day three woodcutters climbed the mountain.

The first woodcutter looked at the first tree and said, "This tree is beautiful. It is perfect for me." With a swoop of his shining axe, the first tree fell. "Now I shall be made into a beautiful chest, I shall hold wonderful treasure!", the first tree said.

The second woodcutter looked at the second tree and said, "This tree is strong. It is perfect for me." With a swoop of his shining axe, the second tree fell. "Now I shall sail mighty waters!" thought the second tree. "I shall be a strong ship for mighty kings!"

The third tree felt her heart sink when the last woodcutter looked her way. She stood straight and tall and pointed bravely to heaven. But the woodcutter never even looked up. "Any kind of tree will do for me" he muttered. With a swoop of his shining axe, the third tree fell.

The first tree rejoiced when the woodcutter brought her to a carpenter's shop. But the carpenter fashioned the tree into a feedbox for the animals. The once beautiful tree was not covered with gold, and not filled with treasure. She was coated with saw dust and filled with hay for hungry farm animals.

The second tree smiled when the woodcuter took her to a shipyard, but no mighty sailing ship was made that day. Instead the once strong tree was hammered and sawed into a simple fishing boat. She was too small and too weak to sail to an ocean, or even a river, instead she was taken to a little lake.

The third tree was confused when the woodcutter cut her into strong beams and left her in a lumberyard. "What happened?" the once tall tree wondered. "All I ever wanted was to stay on the mountain top and point to God..."

Many many days and nights passed. The three trees nearly forgot their dreams.

But, one night, a golden starlight poured over the first tree as a young woman placed her newborn baby in the feedbox. "I wish I could make a cradle for him.", her husband whispered. The mother squeezed his hand and smiled as the starlight shone on the smooth and sturdy wood. "This manger is beautiful." she said. And suddenly the first tree knew he was holding the greatest treasure in the world.

One evening a tired traveler and his friends crowded into the old fishing boat. The traveler fell asleep as the second tree quietly sailed out into the lake. Soon a thundering and thrashing storm arose. The little tree shuddered. She knew that she did not have the strength to carry so many passengers safely through with the wind and the rain. The tired man awakened. He stood up, stretched out his hand, and said, "Peace." The storm stopped as quickly as it had begun. And suddenly the second tree knew he was carrying the King of heaven and earth.

One Friday morning, the third tree was startled when her beams were yanked from the forgotten woodpile. She flinched as she was carried through an angry jeering crowd. She shuddered when soldiers nailed a man's hands to her. She felt ugly and harsh and cruel.

But, on Sunday morning, when the sun rose and the earth trembled with joy beneath her, the third tree knew that God's love had changed everything. It had made the third tree strong. And everytime people thought of the third tree, they would think of God. That was better than being the tallest tree in the world.

The moral of this story is that when things don't seem to be going your way, always know that God has a plan for you. If you place your trust in Him, He will give you great gifts. Each of the trees got what they wanted, just not in the way they had imagined. We don't always know what God's plans are for us. We just know that His ways are not our ways, but His ways are always best.

Author: Unknown

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DRASADAF 4/26/2010 10:50AM

    its so beautiful i am so touched emoticon

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PEWILK 4/19/2010 11:36PM

  This will stay with me. Thank you Lita.

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PIXFIVE 4/5/2010 10:13AM

    So heartwarming! Thanks

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CASE4GRACE 4/4/2010 6:50PM

    Oh, what a wonderful reminder. Thank you for sharing this. Happy Easter!

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TEXASGIRL48 4/4/2010 6:05PM

    Another amazing story. It was very touching.

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TRYINGHARD1948 4/4/2010 5:20PM

    Thank you Lita for sharing this wonderful story of the mysterious ways of the Lord, you bring joy and hope to all who read it.

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SPMOM2 4/4/2010 1:39AM

    OH, thanks, how beautiful

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EMJAYKAY 4/4/2010 12:35AM

    Great story & the last paragraph is a little miracle for me; as it is just what I needed . Thank you again & BLESSINGS for a beautiful day . I know that GOD's PLANS are the very best for me but it sure helps to be reminded !

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MOMFAN 4/3/2010 11:44PM

    Just what I need right now! Thanks!

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SAMODER 4/3/2010 11:32PM

    Beautiful story - Thank you for sharing it with us.

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    Great Easter story emoticon

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WILLOW49 4/3/2010 11:11PM

    What a wonderful lesson to remember. Thanks for sharing :)
Happy Easter!

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GOSPELCLOWN 4/3/2010 10:18PM

    It is a great lesson to remember: He will fashion us into what He needs.

Are you allowing The Potter to shape you, the clay???

Thanks for blogging this message!

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TRISHP1961 4/3/2010 9:30PM

    A perfect Easter story! Thanks for sharing!

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EMSMOMME 4/3/2010 9:02PM

    Love this, love this, love this! Great idea to post it here! Haven't read it in years! Hope you have a fabulous Easter!

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