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Change Your Thinking

Saturday, December 05, 2009

this was sent to me and thought i would share it here...............

Change Your Thinking

It will take just 37 seconds to read this and change your thinking.

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room.
One man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs.
His bed was next to the room's only window.
The other man had to spend all his time flat on his back.
The men talked for hours on end.
They spoke of their wives and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where they had been on vacation..
Every afternoon, when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could see outside the window.
The man in the other bed began to live for those one hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside.
The window overlooked a park with a lovely lake.
Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color and a fine view of the city skyline could be seen in the distance.
As the man by the window described all this in exquisite details, the man on the other side of the room would close his eyes and imagine this picturesque scene.
One warm afternoon, the man by the window described a parade passing by.
Although the other man could not hear the band - he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive words.
Days, weeks and months passed.
One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died peacefully in his sleep.
She was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take the body away.
As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone.
Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the real world outside.
He strained to slowly turn to look out the window besides the bed.
It faced a blank wall.
The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who had described such wonderful things outside this window.
The nurse responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall.
She said, 'Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you.'
Epilogue:
There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own situations.
Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled.
If you want to feel rich, just count all the things you have that money can't buy.

'Today is a gift, that is why it is called The Present.'

  
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TWEETS9401 12/9/2009 12:49PM

    Thanks you so much for sharing this story with us.....

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HOKU-ALOHI 12/5/2009 8:23PM

  Thank you for sharing this sweet story! I appreciate the warmth and magic that your positive energy brings here to Spark People. You are a Christmas gift we get to enjoy the other three hundred sixty-four days each year.
Mele Kalikimaka me ka Hauoli Makahiki Hou!
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Aloha ~ Maya
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SWIM_2_SLIM 12/5/2009 6:16PM

    We need to take note and look at things in a positive way and stop and smell the roses along the way. emoticon

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AUNTC321 12/5/2009 5:49PM

    That was fantastic. Thanks for sharing. Chris

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HOSTALADY 12/5/2009 12:16PM

    When I started this journey I started looking at things so differently in a great way. I have been learning everyday and everyday has been good in some way and I feel blessed for that. Positive thoughts are true power and strength that comes from with in.
Thank you for sharing
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KELPIE57 12/5/2009 3:10AM

    It is a lovely way to remind us all to use our imagination positively, and not to "awfulize"

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RENA1965 12/5/2009 1:42AM

    My thoughts exactly- I could have caved when my husband died-- He was a poor no name man, but boy when I married him he gave a poor life colour and man did I meet a huge umbrella of different people.. I thank God for opening my eyes appearances are nothing- some people are huge surprises..
I hope my husband spirit is being used other places to enrich other peoples lifes..
Life is truelly a gift- I choose to open my eyes and make life happen now..

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TRYINGHARD1948 12/5/2009 1:25AM

    It's amazing how much better it feels when we can look on the bright side of things, hard though it might be at times.

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IAMWINNING 12/5/2009 1:16AM

    I really like this story. It certainly does serve as a good reminder to check how we look at things: positive or negative.

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No Return Ticket

Saturday, November 28, 2009



George Carlin's Views on Aging





Do you realize that the only time in our lives when we like to get old is when we're kids? If you're less than 10 years old, you're so excited about aging that you think in fractions.

'How old are you?' 'I'm four and a half!' You're never thirty-six and a half. You're four and a half, going on five! That's the key.

You get into your teens, now they can't hold you back. You jump to the next number, or even a few ahead.

'How old are you?' 'I'm gonna’ be 16!' You could be 13, but hey, you're gonna’ be 16! And then the greatest day of your life!
You become 21.. Even the words sound like a ceremony. YOU BECOME 21. YESSSS!!!

But then you turn 30. Oooohh, what happened there? Makes you sound like bad milk! He TURNED; we had to throw him out. There's no fun now, you're Just a sour-dumpling.. What's wrong? What's changed?

You BECOME 21, you TURN 30, then you're PUSHING 40. Whoa! Put on the brakes, it's all slipping away. Before you know it, you REACH 50 and your dreams are gone...

But! wait!! ! You MAKE it to 60. You didn't think you would!

So you BECOME 21, TURN 30, PUSH 40, REACH 50 and make it to 60.

You've built up so much speed that you HIT 70! After that it's a day-by-day thing; you HIT Wednesday!

You get into your 80's and every day is a complete cycle; you HIT lunch; you TURN 4:30; you REACH bedtime. And it doesn't end there. Into the 90s, you start going backwards; 'I Was JUST 92.'

Then a strange thing happens. If you make it over 100, you become a little kid again. 'I'm 100 and a half!'
May you all make it to a healthy 100 and a half!!

HOW TO STAY YOUNG
1. Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay them.

2. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.

3. Keep learning. ! Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever, even ham radio. Never let the brain idle. 'An idle mind is the devil's workshop.' And the devil's family name is Alzheimer's.

4. Enjoy the simple things.

5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.

6... The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on.. The only person, who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are alive.

7. Surround yourself with what you love, whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.

8. Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.

9. Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county; to a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is.

10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.

ALWAYS REMEMBER: Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body,
but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting '…….holy sh*t ....what a ride!'





  
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AMYISSUCCEEDING 12/4/2009 2:15PM

    This is a great blog. Thank you for sharing. Hope you have a wonderful weekend.
Amy

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KIKICANADIAN 11/29/2009 6:30PM

    LOVE IT!!

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AUNTC321 11/28/2009 6:12PM

    It is funny how we say these things about age and never really give it much thought but it is true.

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POLYANASUNSHINE 11/28/2009 4:33PM

    Love the quote.

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1AVERY 11/28/2009 4:00PM

    George Carlin was funny and he was a very smart man. I only felt old on my 21st birthday weird how some ages bother different people. I had a friend that had a meltdown on her 30th. I am 55 and age has never bothered me. My mother and one sister try to lie about their ages all the time.

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TRYINGHARD1948 11/28/2009 2:27PM

    Love it.

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LOLEMA 11/28/2009 10:44AM

  Love him! Miss him!

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JERSEYGIRL1950 11/28/2009 10:29AM

    Great blog and so true..had a great laugh with this one...the last time I had a meltdown over age was 30...many moons ago...now in a few days hitting 59...and feel better now then 30..it's just a number..LOL Hugs

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The Land of THANKFULNESS

Saturday, November 21, 2009

The Land of THANKFULNESS




I live in the Land of Thankfulness ...
I love the Land of Thankfulness where blessings overflow;
I claim it as my native home, most charming land I know;
And if I've need of anything, no matter what it be,
I just give thanks with confidence and see it come to me;
I like to live in Thankfulness! Would live there all my days,
Would let its spirit stir my soul and fill my heart with praise;
I questioned once how I had found a place of such a kind,
Knew I'd discovered it because I'd thankful thoughts in mind;
Oh, come with me to Thankfulness! We ask this of you:
That you be always thankful, friend, this is all you do;
And if there's anything you need, no longer doubt or fear,
The thing you seek's awaiting you, it surely will appear.
© 2004 Frank B. Whitney - Unity "Daily Word"




At times our own light goes out and is rekindled by
a spark from another person. Each of us has cause to think with
deep gratitude of those who have lighted the flame within us.
~ Albert Schweitzer




Best of all is it to preserve everything in a pure, still heart, and let there
be for every pulse a thanksgiving, and for every breath a song.
~Konrad von Gesner




Feeling gratitude and not expressing it ...
is like wrapping a present and not giving it.
~ William Arthur Ward





Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life ...
It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial
into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity.
It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.
Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today,
and creates a vision for tomorrow.
~Melody Beattie



i wish i could write such wonderful blogs that others do but i am not talented with words so i try to find relavant poems................hope you don't mind.............i have reached another plateau so continue to plod along as best i can and thanks to everyone here at sparks you keep me coming back day after day..................i am so grateful and appreciate it so much..............
to all those celebrating Thanksgiving later this coming week................may it be all that you wish for and more....................
blessings and hugs to all.....................lita

  
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1AVERY 11/28/2009 4:04PM

    L*I*T*A*
you are the best and write the best. You always have the right thing to say at the right time. You find a lot of inspirational stuff to print. You are very good with words on your own also. I have received many. Your friend Teri emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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DESERT_BIRD 11/23/2009 9:03AM

    Beautiful. Happy Thanksgiving to you too!

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JARHEADSBABY 11/22/2009 10:33PM

    I loved it. thanks Lita!

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TEXASGIRL48 11/22/2009 4:43PM

    You always find just the right things to put down. Thanks for them. Hope you have a Happy Thanksgiving if you celebrate as well.

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ALANOFLINY 11/22/2009 12:20PM

    And a very happy Thanksgiving to you too Lita!! Hugs....Alan

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WISLNDR 11/22/2009 10:47AM

    I love the poems! Thank you for sharing your treasures!

Happy Thanksgiving!

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TRYINGHARD1948 11/22/2009 3:32AM

    Lita, your blogs are always thought provoking and much appreciated. Thank you,
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SHERI1969 11/22/2009 12:56AM

    I pray your Thanksgiving is wonderful Lita. Mine was very pleasant and quiet.

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WILLOW49 11/22/2009 12:49AM

    Another wonderful blog! Thank you!!! emoticon

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FLEMIDG 11/21/2009 11:54PM

    What a wonderful blog. What words of wisdom. Thanks.

Darlene


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THE LIGHT IN YOU

Sunday, November 15, 2009

I am thankful for.....



I've seen the light
and it's in you ...
in everything you are
and in everything you do.

It's a perfect light that
shines for all to see;
in fact it shines so brightly,
it's pierced the heart of me.

The light is from a friend,
it's a light that keeps me warm;
it lets me know how loved I am
and keeps me safe from harm.

FOR YOU I AM THANKFUL
in so very many ways,
and you lift up my spirits
each and every day.

To know that you are there for me
makes me feel alive;
it is your friendship's light upon
which my own love thrives.

Though 'thank you' isn't good enough,
they're the only words I know,
to say your light of friendship
gives my world its glow.

It's the simple things in life
that are truly unforgettable

Thanks for sharing your light with me ...

~ Author Unknown

  
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SHERI1969 11/21/2009 2:37AM

    I just got this very little poem in an email yesterday! Guess it must be important for me to read it plenty or it wouldn't be here on your blog too!!!!!! :)

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MACGIRRL 11/18/2009 10:52PM

    Thank you so much for being such a source of light. Your energy is so pure. emoticon
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ILOVEROSES 11/17/2009 6:57AM

    Thank you for sharing this lovely poem with all your friends.
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TRYINGHARD1948 11/16/2009 3:03AM

    You are a delight Lita.

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HOKU-ALOHI 11/15/2009 7:37PM

  Your emoticonis so amazingly bright emoticonas I wander through Spark People and see your emoticon emoticon emoticonI cannot help but feel the warmth of your emoticon. Now I must don my sunglasses to protect my eyes from your brightness. emoticon

Thank you for this awesome blog and for being you.
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~~~Maya

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WILLOW49 11/15/2009 4:12PM

    Right back at you, my friend! What a blessing you are to so many :)
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ETAGGEL 11/15/2009 3:30PM

    Thanks for sharing! that was beautiful!


Phyllis

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AMYISSUCCEEDING 11/15/2009 2:22PM

    Thank you for the sharing the nice poem. I really like it. I am taking a sparkbreak for a week so will be back next week. Hope you have a good week too.
Amy
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JUDYPOPPINS 11/15/2009 12:54PM

    Thanks for sharing that...you are a light in my life.
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JERSEYGIRL1950 11/15/2009 12:21PM

    Beautiful my sparkfriend..I am the light!! woohoo emoticon emoticon emoticon

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1AVERY 11/15/2009 11:53AM

    You are the best. Like Poly says you always seem to have the right thing to say at the right time. You are a great inspiration and motivation to all of us. I still don't know how you find the time to do all you do but we are all thankful for you and everything you do for the KNEES team. Teri emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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POLYANASUNSHINE 11/15/2009 11:27AM

    I send all those words right back to you. You always seem to know my thoughts and feelings and when special words like those above I need so desperately. Thanks for being a wonderful friend that posts such great words. emoticon emoticon

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Dream Big

Friday, November 06, 2009

Dream Big

" If there were ever a time to dare,
to make a difference,
to embark on something worth doing,
it is now.
Not for any grand cause, necessarily-
but for something that tugs at your heart,
something that's your aspiration,
something that's your dream.

You owe it to yourself
to make your days here count.
Have fun.
Dig Deep.
Stretch.

Dream big.

Know, though, that things worth doing
seldom come easy.
There will be good days.
There will be times when you want to turn around,
pack it up,
and call it quits.
those times tell you
that you are pushing yourself,
that you are not afraid to learn by trying.

Persist.

Because with an idea,
determination,
and the right tools,
you can do great things.
Let your instincts,
your intellect,
and your heart
guide you.

Trust.

Believe in the incredible power of the human mind.
Of doing something that makes a difference.
Of working hard.
Of laughing and hoping.
Of lazy afternoons.
Of lasting friends.
Of all the things that will cross your path this year.

The start of something new
brings the hope of something great.
Anything is possible.
There is only one you.
And you will pass this way only once.
Do it right."
--- Macintosh ad from 1991
--- Sent in by Erin Schiebel --- Iowa


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PHEBESS 11/14/2009 7:47AM

    Thank you for this!

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ILOVEROSES 11/14/2009 12:57AM

    Thank you Lita for sharing, as usual it is so true.
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AMYISSUCCEEDING 11/13/2009 7:18PM

    Very nice poem. Thank you for sharing.
Amy
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AQUAGIRL08 11/8/2009 4:45AM

    Wonderful blog Lita! Thanks for sharing!

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RAZFOUR 11/7/2009 9:19PM

    wonderful!!!! But I am dreaming small, to get smaller by losing more weight!

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POLYANASUNSHINE 11/7/2009 9:17PM

    Great blog as usual fro my Spark Friend

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COLEMANSR 11/7/2009 7:46PM

    Awesome, I'm glad i had time to stop by. Very inspiring.

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TRYINGHARD1948 11/7/2009 4:14AM

    As always Lita, a thought provoking blog. The power of the mind is unlimited, we just have to break the barriers we raise outselves. Have a wonder filled weekend.

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SOULCOLLAGESUE 11/7/2009 1:31AM

    Your blogs speak so well of you, a tender-souled sister enjoying similar year on Earth. Thank you for your thoughtfulness, for being you.

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HOKU-ALOHI 11/6/2009 11:36PM

  I love this blog Lita! It speaks to my resolution of living a life of purpose on purpose with no regrets!

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BETTYAHE 11/6/2009 10:28PM

    Enjoyed this blog LITA! I am dreaming big too! Hugs, Betty

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WILLOW49 11/6/2009 10:12PM

    Absolutely wonderful blog!!! I've been doing some big dreaming lately :) emoticon emoticon

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