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7 Tips To Stop Overeating (from mindbodygreen.com)

Monday, September 16, 2013

Almost everyone has moments when they overeat, especially when they are stressed. People often turn to treats for comfort, and then wind up feeling guilty (on top of being stressed) about what they just ate. Instead of piling on the guilt from overindulging in junk food, use these healthier strategies to reduce your stress.
1. Instead of losing yourself in the fridge or the pantry, talk about what's stressing you.

Just naming it or talking about it can help you get in a proactive state to do something about your stress level. Is there some action you can take to minimize your stress? Everyone feels better in action than when brooding. While you can't completely rid your life of the causes of stress, you can take the time to ask yourself how you can make things better. You can get better at controlling how you think, so practice choosing the positive.

2. Do one thing you love every day.

Don't let too many days go by without doing something you love. In fact, if you can, try to get at least one thing on your daily calendar that you love. Call a friend. Take a stroll. Treat yourself to something you enjoy that doesn’t involve food. Take a bubble bath. Get a full night’s sleep. Sip your favorite kind of coffee.

3. Choose healthy foods first.

When you're stressed out, you are producing higher levels of the stress hormone cortisol, which can make you crave sweets and salty foods. Instead of trying to fight it, select a sweet or salty food that’s healthy for you. Before you reach for the donuts, see if you can satiate your craving with a healthy choice. Make yourself a smoothie with your favorite fruit, nonfat milk and yogurt. Not only will a smoothie satisfy your sweet craving, it will also suppress your appetite so you are less likely to consume several donuts in one sitting. If it’s salt you crave, eat some pickles, almonds or walnuts.

4. Don’t put foods you have a difficult time avoiding in your house.

Don't create your own temptation challenge in your own home. Be kinder to yourself by making it easier for you to stick to healthier items. Make it easy to choose healthy by keep healthy snacks on hand so you can easily turn to healthy options first.

5. Have a planned indulgence once a week.

Choose one meal or snack where you eat what you want, and get back to healthier eating for your next meal. It's called planned indulgence and it's your permission slip to indulge and enjoy--a guilt-free zone you schedule--so you are in control. Knowing you can indulge once a week can make it easier the rest of the week to stay on track--even when you are stressed.

6. Empower yourself with exercise.

You've probably heard it a zillion times, but exercise is one of the best ways to elevate your mood and alleviate stress. Ramp up your intensity and really go for a sweat. Aim for those endorphins and watch what they do to reduce your stress, boost your mood and give you some mental clarity. Consider some group exercise so you can empower yourself with the energy of others as well!

7. Take a minute to breathe.

Whether it's meditation or yoga or simply sitting in a comfy chair and clearing your mind, focus on your breathing and unplug from technology and the daily dashing about. Choosing quiet can help you recharge and disconnect from stress.

With a little creativity and planning, you can step off the cycle of stress, overindulging and guilt. The new, chill you will thank you.

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DSJB9999 8/21/2014 4:06AM

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CRAFTSFAN1 9/16/2013 8:10PM

    Very good reminders for a healthier lifestyle.

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GINA180847 9/16/2013 7:13PM

    Thank you!

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    Great advice. I struggle with a couple of them but am working on doing better.

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RIDLEYRIDER 9/16/2013 6:24AM

  Excellent! Thanks for sharing!

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    great, thanks for sharing!

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Help Others

Saturday, February 02, 2013

This site has been keeping me going alongside Brain Quotes and Spark People, and it's....

I hope some of you will take some time to check this out, it's quite addictive, in a good way.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

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PCOH051610 2/17/2013 8:17PM

    Must go check that site out. Thank you.

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BRAVELUTE 2/9/2013 5:32PM

    New to me. Thanks. I'll return often.


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    Totally love the site!!

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SHAMROCKY2K 2/2/2013 4:52PM

    What a wonderfully uplifting site. I read a couple of the stories and will read more every once in a while. emoticon

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CHRISTINASP 2/2/2013 3:49PM

    Thank you - I subscribed. A very interesting idea.

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BE-THE-CHANGE 2/2/2013 9:15AM

    Thanks for sharing - I've never seen that website before.

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JENNCABA 2/2/2013 9:14AM

    emoticon emoticonThanks. Great site emoticon
Hope you have a great week ahead emoticon

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MJRVIC2000 2/2/2013 8:19AM

    Restoration for the fallen is possible with the help of God! God Bless YOU! Vic.

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REMCMFA 2/2/2013 8:08AM

    Thanks for the site. I like the site www.makesmethink.com

Have a good day.

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HEALTHY4ME 2/2/2013 7:58AM

    Hugs and a great site, hope you are doing better daily. Memories will come in with tears and some with smiles. Still happens to me, sometimes when i least expect it, but hugs to you!

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Some quotes I like

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

I still find each day too short for all the thoughts I want to think, all the walks I want to take, all the books I want to read, and all the friends I want to see.
John Burroughs

When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, 'I used everything you gave me'.
Erma Bombeck

A man sooner or later discovers that he is the master-gardener of his soul, the director of his life.
James Allen

My formula for living is quite simple. I get up in the morning and I go to bed at night. In between, I occupy myself as best I can.
Cary Grant

Only a life lived for others is a life worthwhile.
Albert Einstein

It is not length of life, but depth of life.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

Every man dies. Not every man really lives.
William Wallace

Some of these quotes, especially the last one, really applies to my dad, he really lived, he pretty much done just about everything and went loads of places. I'm so proud of that fact.
The loss of my sister and my dad has really made me hate life, I find that I just keep on keeping on, which sucks. Life only gives you what you can handle, but I can't handle being obese anymore, nor can I with losing the weight.
Because I am depressed I find that quotes from this site:
really helps me just get by for a little while longer. I share them with my mum aswell.
Thank you for taking the time to read this. I'm sorry for the hiatus but, like I said, my dad got rushed into intensive care early in the morning of 5th December and passed away on Christmas day.
Again, thank you.

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CHRISTINASP 2/2/2013 3:52PM

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I really hope you will not hate life for long. I keep on thinking good thoughts for you.
love, Christina

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BE-THE-CHANGE 1/31/2013 10:20PM

I love Brainyquotes...they keep me going as well.

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Ecclesiastes 3 A Time for Everything

1 There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under the heavens:
2 a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
3 a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,
4 a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance,
5 a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
6 a time to search and a time to give up,
a time to keep and a time to throw away,
7 a time to tear and a time to mend,
a time to be silent and a time to speak,
8 a time to love and a time to hate,
a time for war and a time for peace.

9 What do workers gain from their toil?
10 I have seen the burden God has laid on the human race.
11 He has made everything beautiful in its time. He has also set eternity in the human heart; yet[a] no one can fathom what God has done from beginning to end.
12 I know that there is nothing better for people than to be happy and to do good while they live.
13 That each of them may eat and drink, and find satisfaction in all their toil—this is the gift of God.

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2HAMSDIET 1/30/2013 11:43PM

    Make your sister and father proud by really living. It is hard having a parent die. My father died suddenly at 53 and I was 24. Hugs

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    These are wonderful quotes. I loved them.

I have lost many close loved ones too. I do my best to live a good life because they would want me to.

I am so sorry about your father. I hope that your memories of him comfort you and that you dedicate your life to living it to the fullest like he did

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JSMC10 1/30/2013 8:38PM

    Thank you, my sister passed away when I was 11, in 2002, she was 12, we were like twins, she had a rare brain tumour and died of pneumonia due to a weakened immune system due to this. My dad had pulmonary aspergillious, a rare fungal infection, that's hard to diagnose and treat, he got rid of it once but then it came back with avengencw and we think it spread aswell. He also suffered from emphysema which made it doubly worse. Thank you for the support.

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HDHAWK 1/30/2013 7:29PM

    You've been through a lot. Just keep coming here for the support you need. It will get better, but it does take time. emoticon

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HEALTHY4ME 1/30/2013 7:28PM

    OH my heavens I didn't know any of this ! I am so very vry sorry for your lose, hard any day but Christmas day is so cruel. I am glad your dad used his time here and you got to know things from him.
I don't know when your sister passed, but condolences on this too.
I am not sure why I don't know this but mabybe we are not on any teams together etc.

HUGS and many memories to help you along when you are ready for them, they will be there.

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Positive Thinking Quotes (4/12/12)

Tuesday, December 04, 2012

Below are some positive thinking quotes that I quite like, I hope you do aswell emoticon
As always, thank you for taking the time to read my blog and have a great day emoticon

We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.
Gautama Siddharta

The ancestor of every action is a thought.
Ralph Waldo Emerson

When you wholeheartedly adopt a "with all your heart" attitude and go out with the positive principle, you can do incredible things.
Norman Vincent Peale

Once you replace negative thoughts with positive ones, you'll start having positive results.
Willie Nelson

From: www.positivequotes.org/thoughts/

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CHRISTINASP 12/15/2012 2:40PM

    Nice blog! I looked at some of your earlier blog entries too, thanks for sharing!

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    I love all of these and the people who made them.

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40LESSOFERIN 12/4/2012 9:49AM

    You always find the perfect quotes to share!! They are awesome, Thank you!

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    Thank you!

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    Thanks for sharing!

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SANDYCRANE 12/4/2012 7:37AM

    My favorite was the Willie Nelson quote. It is very true. I used to say I could never lose weight, now I know it is possible. Thanks for sharing and a have a great day.


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30 Things to Start Doing For Yourself, a Thoughtful Article (2/12/12)

Sunday, December 02, 2012

This is an article I found while looking around for what to post today and I really like it. It refers to some other articles on the site and so, if you are interested in reading more, then just click on them, after you've clicked on the link that I provide below.
I hope you find it as interesting and thoughtful as I did emoticon

1. Start spending time with the right people. – These are the people you enjoy, who love and appreciate you, and who encourage you to improve in healthy and exciting ways. They are the ones who make you feel more alive, and not only embrace who you are now, but also embrace and embody who you want to be, unconditionally.

2. Start facing your problems head on. – It isn’t your problems that define you, but how you react to them and recover from them. Problems will not disappear unless you take action. Do what you can, when you can, and acknowledge what you’ve done. It’s all about taking baby steps in the right direction, inch by inch. These inches count, they add up to yards and miles in the long run.

3. Start being honest with yourself about everything. – Be honest about what’s right, as well as what needs to be changed. Be honest about what you want to achieve and who you want to become. Be honest with every aspect of your life, always. Because you are the one person you can forever count on. Search your soul, for the truth, so that you truly know who you are. Once you do, you’ll have a better understanding of where you are now and how you got here, and you’ll be better equipped to identify where you want to go and how to get there. Read The Road Less Traveled.

4. Start making your own happiness a priority. – Your needs matter. If you don’t value yourself, look out for yourself, and stick up for yourself, you’re sabotaging yourself. Remember, it IS possible to take care of your own needs while simultaneously caring for those around you. And once your needs are met, you will likely be far more capable of helping those who need you most.

5. Start being yourself, genuinely and proudly. – Trying to be anyone else is a waste of the person you are. Be yourself. Embrace that individual inside you that has ideas, strengths and beauty like no one else. Be the person you know yourself to be – the best version of you – on your terms. Above all, be true to YOU, and if you cannot put your heart in it, take yourself out of it.

6. Start noticing and living in the present. – Right now is a miracle. Right now is the only moment guaranteed to you. Right now is life. So stop thinking about how great things will be in the future. Stop dwelling on what did or didn’t happen in the past. Learn to be in the ‘here and now’ and experience life as it’s happening. Appreciate the world for the beauty that it holds, right now.

7. Start valuing the lessons your mistakes teach you. – Mistakes are okay; they’re the stepping stones of progress. If you’re not failing from time to time, you’re not trying hard enough and you’re not learning. Take risks, stumble, fall, and then get up and try again. Appreciate that you are pushing yourself, learning, growing and improving. Significant achievements are almost invariably realized at the end of a long road of failures. One of the ‘mistakes’ you fear might just be the link to your greatest achievement yet.

8. Start being more polite to yourself. – If you had a friend who spoke to you in the same way that you sometimes speak to yourself, how long would you allow that person to be your friend? The way you treat yourself sets the standard for others. You must love who you are or no one else will.

9. Start enjoying the things you already have. – The problem with many of us is that we think we’ll be happy when we reach a certain level in life – a level we see others operating at – your boss with her corner office, that friend of a friend who owns a mansion on the beach, etc. Unfortunately, it takes awhile before you get there, and when you get there you’ll likely have a new destination in mind. You’ll end up spending your whole life working toward something new without ever stopping to enjoy the things you have now. So take a quiet moment every morning when you first awake to appreciate where you are and what you already have.

10. Start creating your own happiness. – If you are waiting for someone else to make you happy, you’re missing out. Smile because you can. Choose happiness. Be the change you want to see in the world. Be happy with who you are now, and let your positivity inspire your journey into tomorrow. Happiness is often found when and where you decide to seek it. If you look for happiness within the opportunities you have, you will eventually find it. But if you constantly look for something else, unfortunately, you’ll find that too. Read Stumbling on Happiness.

11. Start giving your ideas and dreams a chance. – In life, it’s rarely about getting a chance; it’s about taking a chance. You’ll never be 100% sure it will work, but you can always be 100% sure doing nothing won’t work. Most of the time you just have to go for it! And no matter how it turns out, it always ends up just the way it should be. Either you succeed or you learn something. Win-Win.

12. Start believing that you’re ready for the next step. – You are ready! Think about it. You have everything you need right now to take the next small, realistic step forward. So embrace the opportunities that come your way, and accept the challenges – they’re gifts that will help you to grow.

13. Start entering new relationships for the right reasons. – Enter new relationships with dependable, honest people who reflect the person you are and the person you want to be. Choose friends you are proud to know, people you admire, who show you love and respect – people who reciprocate your kindness and commitment. And pay attention to what people do, because a person’s actions are much more important than their words or how others represent them.

14. Start giving new people you meet a chance. – It sounds harsh, but you cannot keep every friend you’ve ever made. People and priorities change. As some relationships fade others will grow. Appreciate the possibility of new relationships as you naturally let go of old ones that no longer work. Trust your judgment. Embrace new relationships, knowing that you are entering into unfamiliar territory. Be ready to learn, be ready for a challenge, and be ready to meet someone that might just change your life forever.

15. Start competing against an earlier version of yourself. – Be inspired by others, appreciate others, learn from others, but know that competing against them is a waste of time. You are in competition with one person and one person only – yourself. You are competing to be the best you can be. Aim to break your own personal records.

16. Start cheering for other people’s victories. – Start noticing what you like about others and tell them. Having an appreciation for how amazing the people around you are leads to good places – productive, fulfilling, peaceful places. So be happy for those who are making progress. Cheer for their victories. Be thankful for their blessings, openly. What goes around comes around, and sooner or later the people you’re cheering for will start cheering for you.

17. Start looking for the silver lining in tough situations. – When things are hard, and you feel down, take a few deep breaths and look for the silver lining – the small glimmers of hope. Remind yourself that you can and will grow stronger from these hard times. And remain conscious of your blessings and victories – all the things in your life that are right. Focus on what you have, not on what you haven’t.

18. Start forgiving yourself and others. – We’ve all been hurt by our own decisions and by others. And while the pain of these experiences is normal, sometimes it lingers for too long. We relive the pain over and over and have a hard time letting go. Forgiveness is the remedy. It doesn’t mean you’re erasing the past, or forgetting what happened. It means you’re letting go of the resentment and pain, and instead choosing to learn from the incident and move on with your life.

19. Start helping those around you. – Care about people. Guide them if you know a better way. The more you help others, the more they will want to help you. Love and kindness begets love and kindness. And so on and so forth.

20. Start listening to your own inner voice. – If it helps, discuss your ideas with those closest to you, but give yourself enough room to follow your own intuition. Be true to yourself. Say what you need to say. Do what you know in your heart is right.

21. Start being attentive to your stress level and take short breaks. – Slow down. Breathe. Give yourself permission to pause, regroup and move forward with clarity and purpose. When you’re at your busiest, a brief recess can rejuvenate your mind and increase your productivity. These short breaks will help you regain your sanity and reflect on your recent actions so you can be sure they’re in line with your goals.

22. Start noticing the beauty of small moments. – Instead of waiting for the big things to happen – marriage, kids, big promotion, winning the lottery – find happiness in the small things that happen every day. Little things like having a quiet cup of coffee in the early morning, or the delicious taste and smell of a homemade meal, or the pleasure of sharing something you enjoy with someone else, or holding hands with your partner. Noticing these small pleasures on a daily basis makes a big difference in the quality of your life.

23. Start accepting things when they are less than perfect. – Remember, ‘perfect’ is the enemy of ‘good.’ One of the biggest challenges for people who want to improve themselves and improve the world is learning to accept things as they are. Sometimes it’s better to accept and appreciate the world as it is, and people as they are, rather than to trying to make everything and everyone conform to an impossible ideal. No, you shouldn’t accept a life of mediocrity, but learn to love and value things when they are less than perfect.

24. Start working toward your goals every single day. – Remember, the journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Whatever it is you dream about, start taking small, logical steps every day to make it happen. Get out there and DO something! The harder you work the luckier you will become. While many of us decide at some point during the course of our lives that we want to answer our calling, only an astute few of us actually work on it. By ‘working on it,’ I mean consistently devoting oneself to the end result. Read The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.

25. Start being more open about how you feel. – If you’re hurting, give yourself the necessary space and time to hurt, but be open about it. Talk to those closest to you. Tell them the truth about how you feel. Let them listen. The simple act of getting things off your chest and into the open is your first step toward feeling good again.

26. Start taking full accountability for your own life. – Own your choices and mistakes, and be willing to take the necessary steps to improve upon them. Either you take accountability for your life or someone else will. And when they do, you’ll become a slave to their ideas and dreams instead of a pioneer of your own. You are the only one who can directly control the outcome of your life. And no, it won’t always be easy. Every person has a stack of obstacles in front of them. But you must take accountability for your situation and overcome these obstacles. Choosing not to is choosing a lifetime of mere existence.

27. Start actively nurturing your most important relationships. – Bring real, honest joy into your life and the lives of those you love by simply telling them how much they mean to you on a regular basis. You can’t be everything to everyone, but you can be everything to a few people. Decide who these people are in your life and treat them like royalty. Remember, you don’t need a certain number of friends, just a number of friends you can be certain of.

28. Start concentrating on the things you can control. – You can’t change everything, but you can always change something. Wasting your time, talent and emotional energy on things that are beyond your control is a recipe for frustration, misery and stagnation. Invest your energy in the things you can control, and act on them now.

29. Start focusing on the possibility of positive outcomes. – The mind must believe it CAN do something before it is capable of actually doing it. The way to overcome negative thoughts and destructive emotions is to develop opposing, positive emotions that are stronger and more powerful. Listen to your self-talk and replace negative thoughts with positive ones. Regardless of how a situation seems, focus on what you DO WANT to happen, and then take the next positive step forward. No, you can’t control everything that happens to you, but you can control how you react to things. Everyone’s life has positive and negative aspects – whether or not you’re happy and successful in the long run depends greatly on which aspects you focus on. Read The How of Happiness.

30. Start noticing how wealthy you are right now. – Henry David Thoreau once said, “Wealth is the ability to fully experience life.” Even when times are tough, it’s always important to keep things in perspective. You didn’t go to sleep hungry last night. You didn’t go to sleep outside. You had a choice of what clothes to wear this morning. You hardly broke a sweat today. You didn’t spend a minute in fear. You have access to clean drinking water. You have access to medical care. You have access to the Internet. You can read. Some might say you are incredibly wealthy, so remember to be grateful for all the things you do have.


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KITTY_M 12/3/2012 7:30PM

    Thanks for the article. It's a great read.

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SWEETZMIX 12/3/2012 7:21PM

    Thanks! I enjoyed this!

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LIVINGFREE19 12/3/2012 9:06AM

    That was a great article!

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CAT-IN-CJ 12/2/2012 8:56PM

    Powerful! These are great things to ponder and put into practice.

Every day is a miracle... Why waste a moment!

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    Great article!

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GINA180847 12/2/2012 8:51AM

    I love each and every one of those. It is a matter of being mindful of life rather than just waiting for it to pass on. I have to find a way to save this

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CELIAMINER 12/2/2012 7:10AM

    What a beautiful, positive way to start the day! Thanks for posting!

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SLENDERELLA61 12/2/2012 6:32AM

    Great article! Thanks for posting. The "possibility of positive outcomes" is certainly a strong concept I'd never heard expressed like that. Competing with an earlier version of yourself is another one I like! Many of the others I think are already me.

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NESARIAN 12/2/2012 4:23AM

    Wow! Lots of info and a great read. Thanks for sharing.

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