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Come out of seclusion, mingle!

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Hermits have never accomplished anything noteworthy. The only hermit most people can identify is Howard Hughes and in fact, he achieved all he did prior to his becoming a hermit. Other people form a support network to both give you good ideas and to give you a sounding board for your ideas.

Come out of seclusion, mingle! what do other people have to offer you. Will Rogers said we had to learn from the mistakes of others because we probably will not live long enough to make them all ourselves. I have paraphrased this to utilize the ideas of others because you won't live long enough to think of them all yourself. The only caveat is to give credit to the original idea person.

Other people can share their experiences and their knowledge as well as their ideas. They can tell you you are on the right road and give you encouragement. They can relate their experiences with the pitfalls that await you.

Other people are a great source of ideas, information, data, and guidance. Use them! Come out of seclusion, mingle!

  


Learn something every day!

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Step six along the Top 10 Strategies for Success adapted from an article by the same name by Mike Kramer of Spark People.

Dennis Waitley is fond of saying "If you're green you're growing and if you're ripe, you're rotting". The easiest way to keep growing is to keep learning. Learning is a growing experience and by learning we are exercising our minds. Oftentimes by learning one fact or one discipline, we have opened the door to a myriad of other knowledge we didn't even suspect we would be learning about.

If you learn something today, then you start tomorrow just a little bit better than you were today. And then the next day a little bit better than tomorrow and so on as you approach your full potential.

Leo Buscaglia said that his father would not let the children sit down to dinner until they told him a new fact that they had learned that day. He laughed that there was always a rush to the encyclopedia in the half-hour before dinner but he also admitted that he still remembers several of the trivial facts that he crammed into his head each evening.

It's not hard to learn something every day. All you really have to do is listen. The world around you is full of facts that you don't know and they are there for the plucking so stop, look around and listen and then Learn something every day!

  


Be consistent

Monday, May 11, 2009

Lesson Five - Be consistent

Be consistent not only in what you do but in who you are. Whether you agree with his politics or not, you have to agree that Ronald Reagan was consistent. He had a set of values which he brought with him into office and he adhered to those values throughout his terms in office. There was never any question as to how Reagan would respond to a given set of circumstances. Exactly as he had before.

Consistency builds power. When an airliner moves out onto the runway, it lines up wit the centerline and comes to a complete stop. The pilot then applies the brakes and full power. When the pilot releases the brakes, the airplane begins to roll. The pilot never applies more power. The same power that started the airplane rolling from a dead stop at less than 1 mile per hour causes the aircraft to accelerate up to fifty, seventy-five, one hundred and even one hundred twenty-five miles per hour when it can leave the binds of Earth and fly. The pilot then uses the same power to climb to cruising altitude. It is through the continuous and constant application that the airplane changes from a stationary object on the ground to a flying machine.

Consistency has another name which we have dealt with previously. "Habit" When people hear the word "habit", they immediately think of smoking and drinking and over eating and other less than desirable actions. There are good habits as well as bad ones. How many times have you automatically said "God Bless You" when someone sneezes? This is a habit, actually a Pavolovian response but a habit just the same. Most people get up in the morning and for the first ten minutes are on autopilot. They have done the same thing upon arising for so many years, that they do it without thinking.

Choose an activity which will help you reach your goals. Consciously and consistently practice that activity on a regular basis and it will become a habit and move you toward your goal. Experts tell us it takes twenty-one days to get a habit ingrained in our subconscious. Once you have mastered that activity and made it a habit, attack the next one. A word of warning, do not try to change too much at once. If you are going to try to establish more than one habit at a time, make them occur at different times of the day. Maybe a morning habit and an afternoon habit. This will keep you from confusing your subconscious.

Above all, Be consistent

  
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  But, be sure to exercise judgment as well. Even an airliner may reduce power to meet anti-noise restrictions.

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Keep Your Goals in Sight

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Lesson four of ten for the steps to success. Keep your goals in sight

As I have written before, people who have specific written goals and who follow a prescribed course to reach them. goals are excessively more successful than those without goals and considerably more successful than those with goals but no idea or plan as to how to go about reaching them.

The first step is to define a long term goal. Then break it up into a series of short term sequential goals. Then start with short range goal number one and work on it until you have attained that goal and move on to the next. Always keep your next goal, the one following it and your ultimate goal in sight. this means write it down and keep a copy where you will see it several times a day. Suggestions include on the mirror in your bathroom, in the lap drawer of your desk., near your keyboard or mouse pad or other similar location. Study your goals and see yourself as having achieved them. You must see your goals in two dimensions. the first dimension is real world observation of your written goal. Dimension two is your vivid visualization of yourself having achieved that goal. Seeing your goals in these two dimensions will make the road to achieving you goals easier to follow.

Keep your goals in sight

  


Focus on Everyday Habits

Saturday, May 09, 2009

It has been said that we form our habits and then our habits form us. What does it take to make a habit? Most pseudo-experts agree on twenty-one days. Take an action and perform it for twenty-one days and it will become a habit and you will perform it automatically.

This is true of good habits and of bad. The difficulty of breaking habits is also blind to whether the habit is good or bad.

Focus on beneficial activities. Maybe it is to repeat a positive mantra while driving between two distinct points each morning. Consciously practice repeating the mantra daily and pretty soon, when you drive past point A, the mantra will pop into your mind. These are mind keys or cues which will lead to a better life.

Focus on your everyday habits. Some of them are good and should be reinforced. Some are not so good and should be discouraged. If you have a less than good habit, consciously make an effort to change that habit. Substitute a good behavior for the less than desirable one and practice it. Maybe your habit is to munch on trail mix while you watch television. Find a substitute for the trail mix. A half cup of trail mix has a bunch of calories. In the time it takes to eat one bag of 100 calorie microwave popcorn, you could eat several cups of trail mix. Instead of reaching for the trail mix, get up, make the microwave popcorn, return to the television and leisurely munch on the popcorn. As an additional benefit, the popcorn can be flavored with different seasonings for variety.

You can establish your habits through a concerted effort and then those habits will define who you are.

Focus on Everyday Habits

  


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