It is often better not to see an insult than to avenge it.
- Lucius Annaeus Seneca
Security is mostly a superstition. It does not exist in nature nor do the children of man as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than outright exposure. Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing.
When Alice came to a fork in the road, the Cheshire Cat appeared. Alice asked which road sdhe should take. the Cat asked where she was going. Alice rersponded that she didn't know and the Cat said "Then it really doesn't matter which road you take!"