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Do-Over? No, but I appreciate the offer.Tuesday, July 26, 2011
OK, I've been AWOL for a while, at least from posting. I have been basically tanking for the last two months. I lost 26 pounds pretty quickly and then have slowly been putting it back on. I've been "Sparking" daily, but I have felt like I've been doing this in the 3rd person -- as if all of the information I've received has been referring to somebody else and not me. What's up with that?? ![]()
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KIYOSHI04
7/27/2011 9:18AM
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sometimes it is difficult to get back on the track you wish to be on but if anyone can do it, i know you can.
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CATSANDGARDENS
7/27/2011 6:51AM
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My best friend, after allowing me to winge (sounds more grown up than whining) . "Wow, you are going through a lot, guess you need to put on your big girl panties and deal with it!" Report Inappropriate Comment |


REDHEADMOM2U
7/26/2011 6:42PM
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Sounds like you are on the right track now! Great!!!
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GEORGIAINVT
7/26/2011 4:33PM
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MARYHAMILTON93
7/26/2011 4:32PM
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I had a conversation with a dietitian a few years ago. She gave a talk at my workplace for people who were interested in losing weight. Anyway, she said something that has really stuck with me. She said, you have to be very honest with yourself about what you are willing to do and what you are not and then work with it. What is negotiable and what isn't. She said that if you don't do that you are setting yourself up for discouragement and failure.
For example, I have finally acknowledged that I will never be a morning person and I'm really tired of apologizing for it, since my husband is up at the crack of dawn. I'm hardly coherent until at least 9 am. Therefore, if I made a commitment to get up at 6 am to exercise... well it would never happen or I might be able to do it for a while and be completely miserable, and then I'd get down on myself and quit exercising altogether. For me, this is not negotiable. I am much more awake after work, so that's when I exercise. It might be more productive if I exercised in the morning, but it just ain't happening.
Also, I am amazed by the number of Spark People who exercise 120 minutes a day. Wow! That's not realistic for me either, so I do what I can and try to get at least 30 minutes in every day. That is my commitment.
Same goes with food. I will NOT give up ice cream, cookies, candy, etc. Again, I might be able to do it for a while, but I love these things too much to say I will never eat them again. I'd feel like a failure when I ate one of the things that I love (and believe me I would eat that ice cream eventually). That's just not negotiable. What I WILL do is be accountable for eating these things in terms of portion size and tracking them on my Nutrition Tracker so that I stay within my calorie range.
I think it's important to accept and be happy with ourselves the way we are and use the tools available to us to set realistic goals and priorities. Knowing what I am willing to do and what I'm not willing to do are really important steps and it's probably incredibly different for each of us.


KALISWALKER
6/6/2011 1:24PM
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I agree with you accept and be happy with ourselves! If we keep fighting ourselves we not happy and will not stick with it. I had icecream cake at my friend's birthday and loved and recorded it too. Have a great week! Report Inappropriate Comment |


MAMASUDS
5/30/2011 1:24AM
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Know thyself. Oh how true. Fits in very well with my blog that you commented on today. Like you, I love to glean from all sorts of diet buffs and apply what fits into my world. I love the quiet of the morning when I can catch it, but with a house full of kids, it is more likely that I will find peace and quiet at night than in the morning, so my night owl nature prevails. Amazingly, my world has gradually changed over the years and each time I review weight loss tips, I am always able to find one more that will fit in, which I thought would have never worked. We are constantly changing and growing and with perseverance and honesty our healthy lifestyles will be developing right along with us. I really enjoyed your blog. Thanks for sharing. Report Inappropriate Comment |


KIYOSHI04
5/22/2011 3:05PM
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it is hard to conform to what someone else thinks you should do or be. i think that is a lot of the reason why there is so much failure on "diets".... there are so many "rules." you cant do this, have to do that. the key to this journey is finding what works for you and sticking with it. thats it. as for me, yeah, i get in 2 hours a day....usually more. but im unemployed. also, what i do.... is just keep my feet moving while im doing household tasks. if i am cooking, baking, cleaning, doing laundry, making beds, feeding the dogs, cutting veggies... i am keeping my feet moving at all times. you'd be surprised how much that helps. it keeps me burning calories while doing something that needs to do and also lets me focus on weight loss. like sometimes i zone out while making dinner and just graze. but now, i find i am less apt to do that because i am working out while getting dinner ready. small bursts of fitness do add up. Report Inappropriate Comment |


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MAHONEY_09
5/22/2011 11:27AM
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Loved your blog and good for you! I feel much the same way as you do!
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ILIKECACTI
5/22/2011 9:33AM
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Oh that is so true. I think I have been telling myself that I was doing that, when in fact I was trying to make myself conform to a routine that was just too strict for me. I'm finally admitting to myself that a 1200 cal/day is just not going to work out for me. Way to restrictive- which leads me to get frustrated and go overboard later. I think I'm finally realizing that slow and steady reality is better than having ambitious yet unrealistic goals that get me nowhere over time. Too bad it took me so long to realize it. Report Inappropriate Comment |

