Tuesday, June 24, 2008
It's another quiet day, and I haven't gotten the final word on things so I'm just kind of lazing around. I had intended to call the guy from the other place at 9 AM but he called at ten to nine and of course I let him off the hook.
Then I sent out thank you notes to all five of the people at his office who had met me and essentially told them, "it's not you, it's me". From such things relationships are maintained and continued and I'd like to be able to bank this very good (and relatively easy, when you get right down to it) job search for future help as you never know what'll happen in the future.
I also learned that my buddy who was laid off at the same time as me got an offer. So he's also going to be working soon, and it turns out it'll be very close to where I'll be so I suppose we could have lunch on occasion. Good for him as I was a little concerned about him. He's not as far along with his career as I am and he has visa issues. Great that it worked out for him.
I have been hesitating in telling too many people as I don't want the rug pulled out from under me. Not that that will happen but I think caution is in order until the exact last thing is done. Which should be by tomorrow.
Tomorrow I have dental stuff anyway and will leave here at noon for my appointment, then I'll be out for probably the remainder of the day. If I haven't heard by the time I leave, I'll have that to think about while I listen to soft rock classics and the dentist telling me to open wider. I'm getting a crown put on and so it'll be a long appointment no matter what. My husband will come and get me once it's done and we'll have leftover pasta (from tonight's cooking, which reminds me I've gotta start the pot to boil) so I'll have something soft to eat.
It's the culmination of a dental journey that's taken over a year -- I had to have a tooth pulled and this is the last of getting an implant. It's taken seemingly forever but it's almost done. I suppose that's also a piece of the irrational anxiety -- the fear that the dental stuff won't be done for some stupid reason or another.
Intellectually, I know that both things are fine and are going to resolve by end of business tomorrow. But that doesn't stop a little emotional weirdness from creeping in. I'll be glad once they're both all said and done already.
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Since I missed doing this on the 19th, I'll plunk it here -- it's the month in review. I was, er, a little busy on the 19th. Today is a quietly hypnotic kind of a day, hence the song.
Anyway -- it's been 5 months since I started alli, or about 21 or so weeks or something like 150 days. Lots of changes.
Weight and Measurements
Right now I'm 282.8; I started off at 346. Tomorrow is the official weigh-in day and it might not hold as I'm getting TOM, but it'll be close to that. Certainly I've lost more than 60 lbs., which started off as a year-end goal and then it was the September goal and now it's not even July and I'm there and past it.
Bicep 15.5" down 3.5"
Band 42.75" down 4.75"
Bust 50" down 4.75"
Waist 45" down 4"
Belly 56.25" down 3.25"
Hips 49.5" down 1.5"
Rear 50.25" down 13.75" !!!
Thigh 28" down 4.25"
Down an average of 4.97". The difference in the rear is undoubtedly due to how I do measurements so I suspect the difference is closer to 4 - 5" but it's still impressive.
28s are long gone. 26s are mostly gone (although I sleep in them sometimes) but I do need a few in order to have some clothes to wear. I am definitely a 24 with some aspirations towards 22s but once they hit my hips I've gotta have a 24. It'll come soon but the hips are still very frustrating.
I still wear the same size underwear, but I suspect that that is a function of (a) wearing stuff too small for me for a long time and (b) stretching the heck out of what I own. I just bought some new bras, but in the same old size. I just needed 'em. But I am looking forward to being able to finally toss them. It's not ready to happen, not just yet.
Oh -- these days I mainly wear clothes I used to wear in 2000.
I went from doing almost nothing to walking about 5 or 6 nights per week. Once I start working, that'll happen automatically with the commute and then we'll see how much more we do. The #1 choice job would give me 30 minutes of walking every single day unless I took an alternate route. Then if 20 - 30 minutes is added on at night my fitness level should really soar.
I went from maybe 2 or 3 reps with 4-lb. weights to 3 sets of 15 reps with 10-lb. weights. I'll probably move onto 15-lb. weights before the Summer ends.
I see it mainly in my biceps and waist. My calves are pretty good, too, and my thighs are starting to show some. My triceps need the most work. My belly is, well, it is what it is. Every inch off is, I figure, an inch worth of pretty much pure fat.
I'm really in a groove, and working again is going to add to that. I know my breakfasts, lunches and dinners except for Friday night dinners and weekend lunches (usually leftovers we didn't get to during the week). Things are mixed up enough so as to not get boring or kick me into a plateau. I am using my slow cooker more than ever.
Restaurant meals are good and I am doing well with Mexican, diner, Thai, Vietnamese, Pizzeria Uno and Indian foods. I am going to try to add Chinese back; I know my husband misses it very much but I need to watch the portions.
I continue to feel good and did not let looking for work or my relative's illness get me too far down. It will help to start working again and hit that routine. My relative is doing rather well so that's a relief.
My main challenge is chainsawing some fat off my hips. They just don't move that fast and are keeping me from going down a size. Right now this isn't a huge problem as I have a good selection of clothes in size 24 and very few in 22 or below, and right now not a lot of bucks to overhaul the wardrobe. I will probably continue wearing 24s into size 22 or even 20, not that that'll look so good but buying too much transitional stuff is no good as I won't be wearing it for too long. Once I get to size 18, though, I will absolutely have to buy clothes, even though my final size destination is probably a size 10 or less.
Oh and I need a dress for my nephew's Bar Mitzvah in September. It'll probably be a 24 or a 22. After that, though, I am totally stumped.
Saturday, June 21, 2008
I'm technically still unemployed. It's weird, but that's what's happening. The #1 place was waiting on a references check yesterday before extending a formal offer and they couldn't reach anyone (pretty typical for after 1 PM on a Summer Friday in Boston) so the whole thing is still in limbo.
Which isn't horrible; it gives me a chance to reflect on the process and enjoy the whole thing. It also gives me a chance to regroup my head. I need some transitional Summer work clothes, the car needs to be inspected, there are things that have to get done and they are easier to do now so I'd better get cracking.
Monday is going to be, if that's at all possible, even nuttier than yesterday. On top of everything, I actually have a phone screen, still scheduled for 2:30 that day, with a wholly unrelated job (the Needham job I had mentioned previously). Of course I'll cut them loose, but not until after everything is settled with the other places. And if they don't settle by 2:30 well, I guess I'll do a phone screen. What the heck. Nothing to lose.
I also got the wireless router totally set up and the computer room is looking really sweet. I cleaned up and moved wires and now things can actually be found without too much trauma. My husband was actually on at the same time as me earlier this morning and that's exactly what we both wanted all along. We will be able to work at home at the same time, and if I get a laptop it will also hook in nicely with the wireless connection. It's golden.
These are the times to remember when life gets discouraging. I'm going to bank this feeling and take withdrawals when I'm feeling low.
Friday, June 20, 2008
Man oh man how the world changes in 24 hours.
At 10:30 this morning I heard from the place that gave me the lousy offer. Since I had not yet heard from the #1 choice, I chatted with the guy at that place and pointed out that standard pay for my skill set is about $10k more than they were offering.
Well, the guy caved so fast I realized immediately I should have asked for more. He sent over a new offer letter and, sure enough, it was for $10k more.
Then he called again, at 11:15, just in case I had heard yet from #1 (I hadn't). The guy really wants to get me into a place where they do regulatory work. I'm not 100% qualified -- or at least I think I'm not, though I'm not telling him that -- but he seems to think I am. In any event, his colleague had told me about this back on 6/4 and it was already a rush then so it must be mondo-urgent right now. If I was all --and only -- about the money, I'd be leaning on him even more. I can smell blood in the water.
But it's not just about the bucks. It's about benefits, which are far better at choice #1, and it's about stability, which #1 has in buckets. For this other place -- I'll call it #2 to keep things clear -- is where they loan you out to other companies. That's all well and good (it's what I was doing in my last gig), but if they can't place you, eventually you're just not profitable to them, and you get laid off. This is what happened to me in the last place so I am determined to not be burned again. If #2 hires me without a concrete assignment (let's say I don't get the regulatory gig) then the clock starts to tick. How long would they hold onto me and my salary? A month? Two? It's hard to say whether July would be a good job hunting ground. The positives are that it's the start of the fiscal year (and brand-spankin' new budgets) for most places but the negatives are that the summer is usually an abysmal time to be looking for work in Boston.
But that doesn't get to talking about #1. Shift gears.
The recruiter on #1 called at about noon. There's an offer pending a references check. Great! But, of course, it's Friday afternoon so no one's in. I tell her I have another offer (though I don't tell her for how much). We talk money. She throws out a figure, asks if that would ice it. I say, "I think so." The figure is $3k more than #2 but frankly I'd be fine even with as low as $2k less than #2 as the benefits and the stability mean that much to me. I don't tell her that but we part amicably.
Other calls come in, from other places, including the cypher company. Now that I'm suddenly almost engaged, it seems the suitors are coming out of the woodwork. Nothing's breaking my focus.
1:30 PM - the recruiter for #1 calls again. She's sure that nothing will happen until Monday. Can I hold out until then? Sure, I say. She tells me she thinks the salary won't top out as high as she'd hoped (e. g. $3k more than #2). Not a total loss, I figure, though I don't tell her that. She wishes me a nice weekend.
Then I start doing everything I can to take my mind off things. I call my mother. I go and put gas in the car. I prepare lunch. I read the paper. And now, 4 PM, here I am.
Poor recruiter for #2 will not be getting a call from me today unless I hear the final yes from #1, which at this point I'm doubting will happen today.
Monday is my day. I can feel it.
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