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Free country song downloads today

Thursday, April 10, 2014

www.shop4freebies.com www.regularmom.com Both of these sites are free sites and today have the same link for downloading 10 free country songs by such artists like Rascal Flatts. Just scroll down til you find it. Hope

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LAURANCE 4/13/2014 6:50AM

  I went to the free site and had me a look-see. Wow...I can see that I'm out of the loop! I don't know who the singers are. I'm an old dinosaur...

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MARGEMF 4/11/2014 7:37AM

    Thank you for posting. emoticon

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SNUZSUZ 4/10/2014 6:26PM

    Hi Hope! How have you been? It's been a long time since I've seen you on the team! We miss you, and hope you are doing well:)

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MERRYMARY42 4/10/2014 6:04PM

    thanks, and I bookmarked your web page,

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Freedom of Religion

Sunday, April 06, 2014

I hope people realize you have to be positive sometimes for things to happen. My mom really wanted to realize this before passing away but I know in heaven she will see it come true. I've been writing to the President about Freedom of Religion. One thing which most people have lost sight of is Prayer is a part of Religion and to be denied prayer is denying Freedom of Religion and Freedom of Speech. Also one thing else is the Constitution does not say it Freedom From Religion but rather Freedom of Religion which I think our forefathers meant. When looking at food we have a choice to what we eat. To think about what we are forced to eat does not mean forcing prayer on everyone. We have a choice. Just because one food is good for us doesn't mean we have to eat it but maybe have an informed decision in what we eat. The Dr.s want us to eat certain things but do we? Maybe the Dr.s don't pray before eating which calms the nerves. Anyhow I haven't been on lately so have been trying to think things through about what would be right for all not just a handfull. Hopefully prayer can be put back but not so that everyone has to say it but just respectful of those that do want to say it. Respect from both sides is important to all. Hope

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LAURANCE 4/7/2014 7:18PM

  Hello, Hope...I'm still confused by your blog post. I do want to understand what you are telling us.

You tell us, "The laws are that not all schools or public places allow you to pray."

If I understand what you are saying, it sounds to me as if you're saying children are not allowed to pray in school, and citizens are not permitted to pray on public or government property.

This isn't quite the way it is, actually. A schoolchild may certainly pray softly or silently, "Jesus, be with me as I start my school day." "Dear Lord, be with me as I take my test, and help me remember the correct answers." "Thank you, God, for being with me today in school." This does not violate any law, as long as the child is not making noise, as long as the child is not disrupting or involving other children. (If a child who is not bothering others or involving others is not permitted to pray silently, then that child and his/her parents have the right to make a big fuss and take action. But private, silent prayer is not forbidden at all.)

What a child may not do is proselytize. A child may not try to involve other children in religious practice or promote while in school or on school grounds. Outside of school or away from school is a different matter.

"The reason they took it out was because the atheists had to say prayer too which again was wrong."

(Wrong to take it out because it forced atheists to pray, or wrong to take it out because atheists objected? Which?)

When I was a child I was forced to pray. We had public school prayer in those days. And not just any prayer. It was the King James Bible reading, followed by the protestant version of the Lord's Prayer. EVERYBODY had to say the prayer. Never mind that the Catholics do not read the King James Bible. Their Bible is the Douay Version, and their version of the Lord's Prayer is different from the protestant version. Still the Catholics were forced to pray in the protestant way, and never mind that their beliefs are somewhat different.

There was a sizable minority of Jewish kids. Those kids were forced to pray like Christians. The fact that they were Jews was ignored.

Never mind anybody else who was not a Christian. All the kids were coerced and forced in those days. Protestant religion was mandated, and other religions were silenced.

"Being in an institution is Not fun and to be told they don't allow it is even worse. I realize a lot of people haven't been institutionalized. You can do what you want but you probably haven't been institutionalized and told you can't."

What institution are you talking about? I'm not clear. What sort of institution were you in that forbade you to pray?

As I said above, you are free to pray silently and privately when you are in a school or a government agency. And you can go to church and pray out loud, and you can pray at home, and with your friends, and at a celebration, whether a church celebration or a family one.

What you cannot do is mandate prayer in your work as an employee public or government agency. Public and government agencies are to be strictly secular. And yes, this includes school teachers who can go to church all they want and pray all they want, but cannot promote religion in their classroom.

And this protects you. It means that you cannot be forced to pray to a God you do not believe in, or say prayers of a religion that is not yours.

"You must not have been punished for being a Christian."

Who punished you? Who said you cannot be a Christian? I don't understand. Christianity is the largest and most influential religion in this country. There are churches all over the place. I see Christianity visible everywhere. Christians have power. Who could punish you or forbid you to be a Christian?

"Do you hear their prayer? You apparently don't hear mine."

What prayer am I not hearing? I don't understand. Who is praying but not being heard? What is this prayer I'm somehow missing? I need you to tell me more. I don't know what it is that I am not hearing.

Best regards,


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HOPE2BE 4/7/2014 9:19AM

    In response to Laurence and others this is why I'm trying to change this. The laws are that not all schools or public places allow you to pray. The reason they took it out was because the atheists had to say prayer too which again was wrong. Just because a person is Muslim doesn't mean we too have to be Muslim. I do say prayer when I want but don't want to break the law just because I'm saying prayer. Being in an institution is
Not fun and to be told they don't allow it is even worse. I realize a lot of people haven't been institutionalized. You can do what you want but you probably haven't been institutionalized and told you can't. I also do not hate a Muslim just because they pray differently and besides I was taught to love my fellow man. You haven't heard of the kids kicked out because they said prayer or the teacher who wanted to but was told she couldn't. You must not have been punished for being a Christian. Do you hear their prayer? You apparently don't hear mine. Hope

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DEEEBEE 4/6/2014 11:28PM

    Good topic! Thanks to Hope and to Laurance.

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LAURANCE 4/6/2014 8:56PM

  I don't understand. Who is saying you can't pray? I haven't heard of any laws passed that say you are not allowed to ever pray.

When you first wake up in the morning, is there a law that says you aren't allowed to say, "Thank you, God, for a new day."? When you sit down to your breakfast, is there a law forbidding you to say Grace? Is there any law that says that you are not permitted to look heavenward as you leave your house to go to work and say, "Thank you, God, for being with me as I go to work."? Are you not permitted to kneel beside your bed and thank God for another day, and ask him to send his angels to stand by you over the night?

No, you are not being denied the right to pray. You are free to pray if you wish.

What is not permitted is religion in government institutions. Schools, among other things, are under that umbrella.

Here's the problem. You say, "Hopefully prayer can be put back but not so that everyone has to say it but just respectful of those that do want to say it." But what prayer is going to be said?

How would you feel if you were subjected to a situation in which you were expected to get down with your head on the floor five times a day and recite a Muslim prayer, but not a Christian prayer? You'd have to keep your mouth shut and "be respectful" while a prayer foreign to you was the norm. Suppose it was a Wiccan prayer that was mandated. Shall we expect you to keep quiet and not dance around while The Goddess is being worshiped? Do you want to be subjected to the expectation that you will chant Hare Krishna Hare Krishna, Hare Rama Hare Rama? Will you be content with being silent while all around you other people are praying to different gods?

Separation of church and state is there to prevent this sort of thing. But that means that Christians cannot expect that Christianity will have some special privilege. Freedom FROM Religion is a vital and necessary part of Freedom OF Religion. Christianity isn't the only religion in this country (not counting the people with NO religion)

I don't know how you'd feel about living in a country where a particular religion was The State Religion, and it was The Law that you had to belong to that religion, like it or not. Do you want to be forced to be a Buddhist and forbidden to be a Christian? Do you want to be coerced into being a Hindu? By the same token, Buddhists and Hindus, Muslims and Jews and others, including people with no religion, do not want to be pressured by penalties under the law to become Christians.

Freedom both of and from religion, and separation of church and state protect you. It's this freedom that allows you to choose your church and go to church as much as you want. It allows you to say all the prayers you want, as long as those prayers are not promoted by public agencies.

Your mother up in Heaven can look down and hear the church bells ringing on Sunday. She can see the people going to church and hear them praying. She can hear you saying Grace at mealtime, and hear you saying your bedtime prayers. Nobody is stopping you from praying.

Hope, I don't understand what the problem is here.

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COOP9002 4/6/2014 3:20PM

    Thanks for sharing

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my name

Monday, March 03, 2014

I use Hope2be because my middle name is Hope and I hope a lot. Today I got a letter with my username and an invitation to a member welcoming her to the Cleveland team. Lol I'm from Joplin so it came a a shock to see my name on the co-leaders. Maybe she has it spelled differently than mine? We shall see. Hope

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MOM2ACAT 3/4/2014 4:11PM

    It's great to see you back and posting again!

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SUNSET09 3/4/2014 4:06AM

  Already you have something in common! Sometimes, when you see your name spelled differently, you may think she spelled it wrong. It's a beautiful name. Maybe, she'll be Hope3! emoticon emoticon emoticon

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MARGEMF 3/4/2014 12:59AM

    Maybe the world is smaller than we think.

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POSITIVEHOPE 3/3/2014 9:35PM

    Great name. I'm positivehope because I know that as long as I stay positive, there's hope.

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IGNITEME101 3/3/2014 8:56PM

    lol! Love it when things like that happen.

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a new apt. and issues

Monday, December 02, 2013

I got a new apt. in town and got things out of my storage and now I'm sifting through things trying to get rid of stuff I don't need or can give away and what reallys needs to be kept. I'm limited on my storage even if its larger in some places than my last apt. Its good for me though to get this done. I don't need to clutter up my life. The issue that I'm faced with is Spark People. It seems every thime I have an issue with yahoo it reverts back to Spark People. I'll have to delete everything til I get my maill cleared up. This morning I was on the computer at the library and it wouldn't let me download anything.Not just Spark People. There have been other times as well. I will try to utilize what I've gleamed from the site and go on from there. Hope

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IGNITEME101 1/18/2014 11:28AM

    Was your computer issue fixed?

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LOSTLIME 12/18/2013 9:26AM

    Glad about your new apartment. Computers!!!!!! Yuck! Who said that they would make things easier? I don't know but I am always having problems with mine.
Hope that you can get that fixed. Have a great day!

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A_SIZE6 12/18/2013 6:54AM

    it does the same to me in my email to as well

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IGNITEME101 12/18/2013 6:51AM

    Hate it when things glitch like that.
Glad you are moved in now! woopie! Let the good times begin as far as sifting and sorting goes.

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NAMAARIA 12/2/2013 10:14PM

    Aw too bad! I hope you can figure it out!!! If you have a smartphone, they have an app for 3.99 so that you can track and do other things through your phone.

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DEEEBEE 12/2/2013 9:59PM

    Maybe take your computer to a computer repair shop???

DeAnne, Missourians Team

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MOM2ACAT 12/2/2013 5:53PM

    Hope, I hope you can get the problem fixed so that you can stay here on Spark.

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Thursday, November 21, 2013

Today is cold and wet and rainy all day it looks like. When walking to the trolley stop the road next to the sidewalk was flooded. I tried getting up on the grass to get out of the way of the cars going by and splashing on me but no a van came by going over the speed limit and splashed water all over me. Nothing like cold wet rain and water soaking you when you have to wait for the trolley. I could have been mad but I thought how many times have I told people when I lived in Fla. that I don't melt and so I'll leave the thought for today. Its OK if I get wet. I'll dry out. Hope

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FERRETLOVER1 11/21/2013 3:41PM

    I absolutely HATE when a car zips by knowing there is a pedestrian there and a huge puddle of water. It stinks! Sorry you got all wet.

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SLACHETKA103145 11/21/2013 12:43PM

    emoticon great attitude!

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COOP9002 11/21/2013 11:11AM

    Oh well.

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NAMAARIA 11/21/2013 10:56AM

    That's too bad! Yeah, you'll dry out...good attitude. I hope the rest of your day improves!!!

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ROBBIEY 11/21/2013 10:56AM

  It will get better, hang in there emoticon

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