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Wait... what? Why are you giving me crap???

Thursday, August 26, 2010

So, I went to dinner last night for my dad's b-day. I did really well, I looked up all the nutrition info and knew what I was going to order so I wasn't really worried about it. When we got there I found, that because it was a chain, not all the items listed on their "nutrition menu" were actually served at the restaurant. That's ok, I left me with only 2 choices, so we're still good. I ordered steak and asparagus and then I asked what it was cooked in. That sent up a big sigh from the waitress, "I'll have to check." The other issue I had was when I ordered the dressing for my salad, they didn't have the low fat honey mustard I wanted so I asked what other low fat dressing they had. The waitress looked at me like, "you're so big now, why does that matter... do you REALLY want to know about LOW FAT options, come on..." I'm sure it's all in my head, but that look just really unnerved me. I don't care what SHE thinks, who is she anyways? I know by questioning the food, that I'm going to get exactly what I want. I'm just sorry that there may be others out there, not wanting to ask for low fat options or get thing "on the side" because of that look. Don't let anyone make you feel bad for asking 100 question about their food, you're paying for it, you deserve to get what you want. This is why I cook the majority of my meals at HOME!!!

ps - the food was really good...

  
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TEMPEST272002 8/30/2010 12:04AM

    It's her JOB to get you what you want. Good for you for standing up for yourself.

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SHAKENMA 8/26/2010 9:16PM

    Way to go on doing what was right for you! I do the same thing....I want to KNOW what I am putting in my body.

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HOPE2011 8/26/2010 8:54PM

    Sorry that you had to deal with this. I wonder if she was hoping you would just say, "Oh - never mind!" when you realized she was going to have to delay ordering your meal because she had to go ask how the food was prepared. Whatever, right? You ended up winning in the end and that's what matters.

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ARDYNLEE72 8/26/2010 6:41PM

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I hate to say it, because my sister was a server forever.. but it has been my experience that people that work for tips are getting so complacent that they are going to get a tip, no matter how they act, they just don't care. I know most people don't want to make a scene, especially when they are with family, but if it'd been me, I would have asked her, flat out, why she was giving you attitude. I mean, the prices that those kind of places charge for their food anyway, you should be able to get it however you want it, without any attitude from the wait staff.

I'm not saying that all servers are like that, believe me. I just know from experience, that good service is hard to come by.

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DARBOYMOM 8/26/2010 4:33PM

    Good for you for hanging in there and not letting an incompetent waitress steal your resolve to take care of yourself. Restaurants can be frustrating, but there are good ones out there, even though they can be hard to find. It's really disgusting how some chain restaurants make horribly bad-for-you food sound so healthy on the menu. It's up to you to ask, and it's up to the servers to know how food is prepared. AND...... you can ask to have food prepared differently. It's your right. Thanks for inspiring me!
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YELLOWDAHLIA 8/26/2010 1:57PM

    #1- the waitress should always know how something is prepared- it's her job to know!
I don't think your requests were over the top at all- people ask for stuff on the side all the time.

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JAMIELOGICAL 8/26/2010 1:56PM

    I've gotten a LOT more confident about ordering things MY way when I go out to eat. I used to always worry about being a "bother" by demanding substitutions or asking questions. All-in-all, my experiences with being more picky have been pretty positive. I rarely have places get my order wrong or have a server make me feel like I'm being an nuisance. If I did encounter that, you can bet it would affect their tip!

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LOSIN4MYSELF 8/26/2010 1:36PM

    I think...that it was not that she was looking at you thinking why are you trying to eat low fat, but rather that she did not want to do her job and go ask questions about the food that she did not know the answer too. If she had been waiting on me, her attitude would have greatly affected her tip.

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ACIMPEGGY 8/26/2010 1:02PM

    Sweets, you are correct in not worrying what others think. YOUR opinion is what matters!

Another technique is to get your dressing on the side, just dip in your fork before you spear a bite of salad. That way you get hardly any...and it doesn't matter if it's low fat or not! You still get the flavor, though.

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SKINNYPOWELL1 8/26/2010 1:01PM

    What a horrible thing for her to say to you. I hope her tip reflected that. Good for you for asking questions. emoticon

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Getting to know you....

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Fun Questionnaire to Get To Know Each Other

Copy the questions and post your own answers in your blog!

WHERE ARE YOU FROM?
Erie, Pa

DO YOU HAVE ANY KIDS & IF SO HOW MANY?
Jacob is 7 and Kathryn is 5

WHAT IS YOUR OCCUPATION?
I'm a Case Manager at a Hospital.

ARE YOU MARRIED & IF SO HOW LONG?
It'll be 10 years at the end of October

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE FOOD?
Pizza, oreos, ice cream, the list continues

DO YOU HAVE ANY BROTHERS OR SISTERS?
I have 1 brother who's getting married in October

WHERE IS YOUR FAVORITE VACATION SPOT?
We're fortunate to live in a vacation town. We have the theater, an amusement park, the lake and sports teams... We really don't go anywhere exotic

WHAT'S YOUR FAVORITE MOVIE?
I LOVE movies... I really can't pick a favorite. I love horror, comedy, drama I love all of it!

PICK JUST ONE WORD TO DESCRIBE YOURSELF:
Compatible

HOW DID YOU MEET YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER?
While in college, I worked with his brother

WHEN/WHERE WAS THE LAST PLACE YOU HAD A COMPLETE BREAKDOWN?
Right before I got my current job, I guess about a year ago. I couldn't take my job anymore, I needed a new one, 3 months later, bingo!

YOUR FRIEND JUST MOONED YOU. ARE YOU GROSSED OUT?
No, I'm always looking for a laugh!

WHERE IS THE LAST PERSON YOU KISSED?
Sleeping peacefully!

WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FORWARD TO?
School starting, the leaves falling, I REALLY love the fall weather

ARE YOU EXPECTING A PHONE CALL?
Mom usually calls after the kids go to bed, so probably

DO YOU HAVE A SONG STUCK IN YOUR HEAD?
Soul Sister by Train

LYRICS FROM THAT SONG?
Hey soul sister, hey there mister mister on the radio, stereo, the way you move ain't fair you know.

ARE YOU LISTENING TO MUSIC RIGHT NOW?
No, Dirty Jobs is on the TV in the other room

  
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ARDYNLEE72 8/23/2010 6:48AM

    Ditto.. this is going to be my blog today. Don't feel like being motivational this morning. emoticon

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HOLLYBELLE77 8/21/2010 11:38PM

    I'm stealing this! :)

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She's pure EVIL!!!

Friday, August 13, 2010

And, NO, I'm not talking about the venomous duck at the end of my road... Some of you may know that I have recently bought a treadmill. As a bonus, it came with a Jillian Michaels iFit card. I was really excited to try it out tonight! She welcomes you to the iFit software and tells you she's here to help you get stronger and into shape... I had no idea what that meant exactly. Apparently it means working you out till your lungs bleed! It started off all nice and sweet, 2.5 miles and 0 incline. I can handle this... immediately it moved to 3.0 at 5% incline. I can go 3.0, not a %5... barely at 0. Then it switches to 7% incline at 3.2 mph. I THOUGHT I WOULD DIE!!! She kept saying, "stay with me, we're almost there and it's all down hill from here." We NEVER got to the downhill part, except at the VERY end. Does she not know I'm terribly overweight? Does she not know I could have set kindling ablaze with my thighs they were rubbing together so fast? Who is this woman and why is she trying to kill me? But I have to say now that's it over and oxygen has returned to my lungs it was FANTASTIC! I can feel it in my thighs and calfs and it felt really good... afterwards! I lived to tell the tale and try another one of her workouts... another day... Jillian ROCKS!!!!
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MYRTLEBEACHWINS 8/17/2010 6:54PM

    Funny but unfortunately I know to well what you mean. Great job making it thur it. Keep it up. It will be easier one day off in the distance. I can almost see it.



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VICTORIA12U 8/16/2010 10:23AM

    Way to go. I am so glad to hear I am not the only one getting my butt kicked by these workout DVDs and stuff. I love it as long as the curtins are closed. My boys have almost quit killing themself laughing at me. Heck...now they try to join in and it's me laughing at them.
Keep it up. You are strong!

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HYPHENATEDLADY 8/16/2010 9:50AM

    I have never done one of her workouts but I have heard she is tough. Someday my knees will be able to take an impact routine again :D

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STEPHLYNNB 8/14/2010 1:54PM

  LOVE the reference to the venomous duck!!!!!!!! Oh my gosh I am pretty sure if I would have liked to punch jillian, but it sounds like an awesmoe work out! Glad you survived

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HOLLYBELLE77 8/14/2010 9:45AM

    I decided to try her 30-Day Shred...and thought she's equally as evil in that too. And she talks about how anyone can do it no matter their weight, fitness level, etc., but her two "helpers" on the video look more toned than she does! So there's me trying to keep up with three skinny mini's.

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LOPEYP 8/13/2010 7:05PM

    That's great that you stayed with it and didn't bail.
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PICKIE98 8/13/2010 6:57PM

    Hope you are not sore tomorrow!! Yes, people that never had children, or larger body types, can afford to strike up the band and drag us through the trees in the forest as they wave to us, as they sashay by, waving and smiling!!!
She does not even have "eaters arms", and you can actually SEE between her thighs when she stands up!! What's that all about????
You are a gutsy woman to keep up with her!! Great job!


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I never knew...

Saturday, August 07, 2010

that I could actually accomplish the goals I'm trying to reach. We all know I'm not talking about getting a job or cleaning the house.... I'm talking about changing my life. When I started this whole thing on May 24, 2010 my goal was to lose weight, plain and simple. I never thought it would get to this level! Maybe it's because I've never stuck with a diet for very long, never exercised, never anything! I never thought I'd care so much about how many calories are in foods never mind the fact that I'd actually be "counting" them. I never wanted to walk down my driveway to get the mail and this morning I walked 3 miles on my treadmill and didn't even think twice about it. I never knew, that by starting with small steps and writing down your goals, I'd be able to accomplish so much! Thanks to Sparkguy, sparkpeople.com and all of the support from my new sparkfriends!!! Everyday, I'm learning more about the things I never knew I could do!
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CRIS76 8/7/2010 4:45PM

    What a wonderful blog!

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KATHY192 8/7/2010 1:54PM

    What a great blog. Congratulation! I'm coming back to SP after being away for a while. I have 1st hand knowledge that all the SP tools work. I am so happy for you. Keep up the good work. emoticon

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PEGLYNN 8/7/2010 1:52PM

    It good to have help, but I am also learning how important it is to be able the help oneself and work hard on what we need to do with the information given to use.

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Thank you!

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

I started this WLJ not knowing what was going to happen. I've never stuck with a diet for more than a few weeks. Exercising was exhausting, I didn't like that fact that I could only eat certain foods and I really hated not being able to eat things when I really craved them... It was all very restricting.

SP has totally changed all of that for me. I eat what I want and when I want it (within reason of course). I do the exercise that's right for me when I want to do it. SP is not a diet plan, it's a life changing experience!

I just wanted to say THANK YOU to all of my new SP friends! You have all made the transition from blob to babe(hopefully) a wonderful experience. It's so wonderful to have such great support from people who know what you're going through so thank, you, thank you, thank you! SP friends ROCK!!!

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DISUJO 8/3/2010 2:40PM

    That is so true! It's a great place to come and see others that are in the same boat as us. Or to read about the great success stories! Plus i love the recipes! :) Keep up the great work! emoticon

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MYRTLEBEACHWINS 7/29/2010 2:08PM

    emoticon Ditto.

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MADEMCHE 7/27/2010 7:39PM

    That is so true! SP friends do rock!

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CRIS76 7/27/2010 7:28PM

    I couldn't agree more!

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K_FERGUS 7/27/2010 7:11PM

    THANK YOU for this post! I am struggling today and you have encouraged me!!! emoticon

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