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Thursday, November 19, 2009

Well was ready to go to bed, and the phone rang. Dh picked it up and it is dd, she is crying cos they were at dads, he is not in a good frame of mind cos of having to go to the bank for some more of mums stuff. Anyway short story here, he said that he is going to blow up at dil, all cos way back when son and dil got married, 6 years ago, she said they werent her grandparents and she wouldnt call them that. also when mum died she wouldnt go in the room cos ti bothered her really bad cos her grandma has passed recently and mum to her had suffered. so now he says if she comes with that baby, and calls him grampa not as to the baby but her - now thats confusing. anyway he is going to in no uncertain terms give her real hell.
so now dd is on the phone crying and scared. this is driving me, dad was bad, then okay now bad again but not sure what to do. He wont go to councelling etc. dd and ds were very very close and then they moved in together with their spouses and not so close but now, she is upset also cos ds didnt go to visit mum as much and that hurt lisa, now this is going to make more mess.
dad rarely speaks and blows up when he does, he had a bad time at the bank so know that is part of it, but still he cant just do these things. I will say i wont blame ds if it severs their relationship. but hopefully when dad is arond the baby we will be there too. I think my way will be that his house is a smokey mess, and come here with baby and will call dad to come here. he wont do these things if someone is around.
OH man i was tired now i am wired.
I so wish that he would calm down, go to counc. etc. or even just think first.
anyway
going ot listen to dh talking to dd. and then go to bed, I have to go to work tomorrow and the OT is going to be there to follow me around.
night all

  

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HAPPYWALKER 11/20/2009 10:03AM

Hi Cindy, I hope things have settled down and you are feeling better inside. Situations have a way of working themselves out if we are able to just take a deep breath and go with the flow of it. That's the hardest thing to do when you in the middle of a crisis, but it's the best way to preserve your own inner peace. Like being the eye of the hurricane...still and calm amidst all the chaos around you. I'm praying for blessings upon you and your family. Hugs, Mary Report Inappropriate Comment

JOURNEY2PEACE 11/20/2009 1:51AM

Sometimes the best way to help someone....is by not helping at all. I know that's hard to hear. Mom's want to fix everything. But sometimes the best thing to do is say "Honey, I was just on my way to bed. Perhaps we can talk this weekend." Then, let her go. Let her cry it off. Let her formulate her own conclusions, find her own answers. After all, you won't always be here to stand her back up. I LOVE your background! LOVE IT LOVE IT! What does the poem underneath Balance say? Report Inappropriate Comment

DOTSLADY 11/20/2009 1:27AM

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WHITE-LOTUS 11/19/2009 10:33PM

Holy smokes--It's so hard to not take on the anxiety that others are in the middle of. Be the voice of reason and sanity--Breathe in breathe out---calm. Report Inappropriate Comment

Great day today

Thursday, November 19, 2009

What a fantastic day for mid Nov in NS!!! Sunny, warm and not even windy! WOW winter could stay like this for sure. lol
Had today off cos the OT is going to go to work with me tomorrow. Fine but now that messes with more than 4 days in row. I am not sure what to think. she only wants me to work 4 days of 7 it is usually 4on then on e off then again 4 so ends up being 5 of 7. but now that she asked me to take today off and work tomorrow, geesh.
I am going to a tier 3 cos I just cant get better fast enough for WCB. seems that the smallest things set my back off and yet otehr things don't that you think would.
Oh well gettting muscles back and that is great. I did most of the exercises today at home til they get approval for tier 3. good to keep going.
well have to get off puter as my back is really sore.
talk to you all later.
hope all are doing well, seems i am not here as often and I miss you all.

  

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ATRANSFORMATION 11/19/2009 10:56PM

You are RIGHT, you haven't been here much! How's the job going? I have to admit, I cant figure out what OT and WCB mean....probably something really obvious, but since I don't text much, I don't know the lingo! Report Inappropriate Comment

WHITE-LOTUS 11/19/2009 9:23PM

This must seem hard to keep asking off in order to do what's best for your body. I'd certainly enjoy getting some muscles back. How is your weather? The crazy fall - warm one day-cold the next. Rain is back again after our nor'easter. Ugh--Reminds me to start coming up with ways to reframe my resistance to winter! Report Inappropriate Comment

Saturday

Saturday, November 14, 2009

LOL just have to laugh, dh is talking to dad on skype and dad says what are you going to do for my birthday? lol he is going to be 84 and loves to let you know it is his birthday.
So... since last sunday, my back has been so sore. I was at work when it started hurting, then again yesterday was pure pain at work. So good that I am not working this weekend and no physio. I am still doing stretches and the squats on the ball.
We are supposed to go to my xmas party this eve. I dont want to go and dh has forgotten so will not say anything for now. We went shopping for baby today, lol I said I need to get a hat and mitts cos the snowsuit is white. lol so also got a little shirt for next year that is a lumberjack plaid. and a onesie with pair of jogging pants. all for 30 $. thats my fix, next is the bookstore. this baby will have a good library his father loves to read, and I also love to read. no problems there.
well nothing else is new just going to putter around and have a relaxing weekend.
Off i go, would love to have a bath but the tub will hurt my back. will drink a bunch of water and maybe my suana.
hope you all are having a great time. I must check my blog feeds cos havent had much email lately.
HUGS all!!!

  

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LOSINGLINNDY 11/15/2009 1:00AM

I sympathize with you over the back pain. Mine is finally getting better with the injections which the insurance pays for. Shopping for baby and getting those darling clothes must have been great fun. Have a great Sunday. Hugs, Gaylinn Report Inappropriate Comment

MOMMA_GRIZZ 11/14/2009 5:32PM

Sorry to hear your back is sore still - hopefully it gets better soon. Sauna sounds like a good idea - it may relax the muscles and help your back. Cute that your dad is reminding everyone of his birthday :) Report Inappropriate Comment

WHITE-LOTUS 11/14/2009 4:52PM

Read to that baby everyday! Sorry to hear about your back! I posted a new blog. Report Inappropriate Comment

Monday Monday...

Monday, November 09, 2009

Well it is monday yet again, and today I am off work. Even though that is only 4 hrs for now, I feel a reprieve. I do have physio and stuff this am, then back there for chiro at 7:15 which I am not happy about but oh well. I may ask if there are any openings earlier. I chose then cos didn't remember I wasnt working. Oh well not a huge thing. Dad is coming for supper but will probably be gone by then.
Holding my TA ( transverse abdominals ) in certainly is not a habit yet. LOL didnt think it would be but was surprised at how often during the weekend I realized hey I am not doing that or not standing straight. I did correct it which is a good thing.
Woke up again with sore throat and touch of runny nose. Better than the flu, just feels like my reg. cold from the weather changing back and forth.
I really miss MEEBO on here, cos don't know most of my spark friends by name to get to facebook and miss chatting with them. I get a real boost talking to all these people that are doing so well or have reached goals.
I guess better go get ready for physio - brush teeth after a healthy breakfast of oatmeal and dried crranbeerries. and get my gloves etc. as looks cold but sunny. I walk over and back not far only a 5 min walk. Back then taking dog for walk and going on wii. By then if we are going to a store dh will be ready. I want to get a bit of scrapbooking done today. I am better than half way done and will have it done for xmas. I do need more plastic inserts for the pages so a run to Micheals may be in the cards.
Hope you all have a great day. ME I plan to - have my exercise in, my Me time in. had a good breakfast, have beef stew in fridge for supper that I slow cookered all yesterday, and only hae to think of something for lunch.
Super plans for a sunny super day. cya

  

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WHITE-LOTUS 11/9/2009 9:08PM

Beef stew! I'm on my way over! Report Inappropriate Comment

MOMMA_GRIZZ 11/9/2009 5:19PM

Hope you had a great Monday! Sorry I missed you on chat this morning...... :( Report Inappropriate Comment

GFNOMAD 11/9/2009 10:22AM

Hang in there! It's one step at a time, one foot in front of the other. After 2 mths I am back at my sticker weight and a long way from my goal weight at this rate. Have good friends send their personal email by Sparkmail. Private and you can keep in touch. I see have left our common team but you are still in my friends. I didn't make it back east this summer. Too much going on at our strata. I'm one of the few with common sense. But I am headed for a trip to Buenos Aires around Cape Horn to Santiago. I have time on both ends so it's going to be a great adventure! Barb Report Inappropriate Comment

KENDALL7261 11/9/2009 7:18AM

Have a great Monday!! Report Inappropriate Comment

Saturday

Saturday, November 07, 2009

Got up cos the dog woke me, a rarity here so she must have heard something. Put her out, did a few of my more important physio exercises and then started the wii. I really enjoy the obastacle course on the wii fit plus and kept at it for 30 mins. So now have my stuff done, feel great. Am a tad sore from chiro. Not sure about him, I find every chiro I have gone to very sure of themselves a tad too much most often. No offense to any chiros out there! LOL
His way is the right way... okay well he felt like he broke my foot and I yelled out that hurt bad. So he did the other foot a diff. way but the foot he hurt is my bad one to start. Did a few minor adjustments on my back and neck. I hope my neck stays okay cos I really can't say I am a fan of this type of cracking chiro. I much rather do the NUCCA type but this facility doesnt do it and where it is WCB I need to stay within the facility. oh well. suck it up, breath adn blow it out and heres the catch try to relax. LOL AHAHAHAHAHA I am not a good relaxer anyway, but when I know I am waiting for you to do something.... lol
Today my dd is in a wedding ceremony. I hope they are all feeling well and that it warms up. It is downright cold now, and the snow is still on the ground. The bride is nervous and preg. so hope she is okay. LOL I havent talked to dd lately so not sure whats up with them.
Well have to get some stuff done around here today. Hoping we dont have to go out for anything, I do have to work at 3 but only the wander around help with supper go home work.
Still logging in my food but was over 2 days but not super bad and that was cos had sausage.
I am doing better and just keep thinking that. Best go now and get the rest of this day started.
have a super day everyone.

  

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MOMMA_GRIZZ 11/7/2009 9:16AM

You ARE doing better and that's a really really good thing - way to go ;) Report Inappropriate Comment