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WOW !!!

Thursday, March 26, 2009

Hi ladies , I just found out about this and am ok .. I know I am strong enough what ever way this goes . I have total faith Gods will be done and I will stand and pray for good news .My husband is someone who does not talk . This is also what I need prayer for . I know my God and I know HE LOVES ME .. i THINK THE PART THAT IS THE WORST IS MY HUSBANDS SILENCE .He has always been a silent kind of guy . Probably for me the roughest part is should I TELL MY SON AND DAUGHTER ..HE SAYS WAIT TILL AFTER THE TEST ...I AM THINKING NO THEY SHOULD KNOW NOW ..SO I AM MERELY ASKING FOR PRAYER TO HAVE GOD GUIDE ME ON TO TELL OR NOT .. PLEASE , I HAVE READ AND ASKED AND HAD SO MANY TELL ME ABOUT THE CANCER , PLEASE NO MORE ... I AM MERELY ASKING FOR PRAYER ...AND POSITIVE COMMENTS ...MY HUSBAND WILL LOOSEN UP CAUSE GOD KNOWS I NEED TO KNOW AND I WON'T BUG THIS MAN TO TALK BECAUSE GOD WILL DO IT ...I DON'T FIGHT BATTLES THAT I WON'T WIN , BUT I KNOW GOD CAN AND WILL .PLEASE DON'T THINK OF HIM AS SELFISH AND NOT CARING IT IS THE TOTAL OPPOSITE .. BUT THAT IS NOT FOR DISCUSSION .. JUST PRAY GODS WILL ON THIS ...THANKS YOU GUYS ..I KNOW MY GOD AND IT WILL BE DONE AND I WILL BE STRONG .. MY HUSBAND WILL BE STRONG ENOUGH ALSO .. THAT IS HOW MY GOD WORKS .. I JUST NEED TO BE STILL AND LISTEN ...ALL GLORY TO MY GOD ...JESUS CHRIST ..

  
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YESLORD 4/6/2009 4:52PM

  MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOU ARE RIGHT, THE BATTLE IS NOT YOURS BUT THE LORDS.
MAY HE STRENGTHEN YOU ALL THE WAY THROUGH. AND FILL YOU WITH HIS JOY! JUST ME, THE MIN emoticon emoticon

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LOSINGLINNDY 3/27/2009 5:04PM

    Hi. I read your blog yesterday and having been praying for both you and your husband. I am sorry that I did not have time to respond as soon as I read it. I now this is hard. Thank goodness you have God to give you strength and guidance. Please keep us informed.

Hugs and blessings, Gaylinn

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CWAITES 3/27/2009 3:55PM

    I will definitely pray for you. Also, there is a quote I like because my DH is not very affectionate with words or gestures - "Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have." That quote has helped me - hope it helps you, too. Do keep us informed. Hang in there.
Cheri


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BEFIT014 3/26/2009 8:46AM

    You've got my prayers. emoticon emoticon

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BLACKCANARYBABE 3/26/2009 7:58AM

    Ruth, I sure love you and know God does too. I am sure you will get the answers and strength you need. I can tell how much you love your husband. It is great when we can love people for who they are and not who we want them to be.

My heart and prayers are with you.

BC

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WHAT A DAY ...

Monday, March 23, 2009



WOW !! A day like this is when your faith is tested ...My first bit of sad news was a very good friend of ours called to let us know they had lost there home ...then about 2 hrs later this same friend called me to tell me the terrif dentist I was so happy about was just killed in a plane crash this week-end .. he and his family ...how so sad ..they were going skiing in Montana for spring break ..

THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND EXCITING NEWS IS GOD IS CREATING ME ANOTHER BEAUTIFUL GRAND DAUGHTER .. SHE WILL BE COMING TO US IN LATE JULY ...
THIS WAS A GREAT WAY TO END THE DAY ...
I HAD NATHAN AND SARAH ALL DAY AND AM REALLY READY FOR BED ..A 1 YR. AND 4 YR OLD ARE QUIT BUSY ...
ALL DAY TO KEEP FROM SECOND GUESSING GODS PLAN ON MY TWO FIRST PIECES OF NEWS
WAS .. GOD YOU ARE GOD AND NOT ME ...
this just really makes me express my love and forgiveness now and not wait .. who knows if you will be here when wait is over ...PLEASE PRACTICE SAYING I LOVE YOU TO THE ONES YOU LOVE .. TALK TO THOSE SPECIAL ONES REGULARLY .. MAD AT SOME ONE .. GIVE IT UP AND SAY I AM SORRY .. WHAT IF ???? I LOVE HAVING THIS PLACE TO CAME AND WRITE WHAT IS HURTING AND WHAT IS MAKING JUMP AND SCREAM WITH JOY .. THANK YOU ALL FOR CARING ..

  
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CWAITES 3/27/2009 3:59PM

    Sad news and happy news all in one blog. I heard about that plane crash on the news. It was such a sad thing to think of those 3 families that were killed. And then to realize that one of them was the dentist you spoke so highly of and who seemed to be such a wonderful man just makes it worse.
I'm happy for you about the new baby, though. Congratulations!
Cheri


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LOSINGLINNDY 3/24/2009 11:09PM

    emoticon on your new grand daughter. emoticon

The story of your dentist's plane crash and death in Montana was on the national news. That was so sad it brought tears to my eyes. But we have to believe that God will bring good out of tragedy. God is our strength, our rock. Take care of yourself. You are so dear to me.

Hugs, Gaylinn emoticon

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NEELOJ 3/24/2009 12:05PM

    Wow Ruth, What a day in deed!!!!
Sometimes my teeth get sore, (just gritting my teeth and hanging in there), when days are like this.
Sadness and Blessings go hand in hand I guess.
I will say a prayer for you right now!! Just keep hanging in there, things will be better.
JO

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SPARKLE72023 3/24/2009 10:45AM

    Dear SparkFriend,

I'm so sorry to hear about all the sad news that suddenly tumbled into your life - - and also very happy to hear about the new Blessing that awaits the family in a few months. Praise the Lord!

Allow me to share some uplifting words of faith from a dear friend of mine who lost her son last year in the Iraqi War: ". . . hang on to the promises. Our God is good! All the time! Even when it hurts!"

As hard as it is for us to learn about and accept the deaths of loved ones, we must stay focused on the great promises of our Lord - - and keep our eyes focused on the Second Coming, when all tears will be wiped away and we will reunite with our loved ones in Paradise.

Love and Prayers and Happy Congratulations too !!!
Margrit


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BEFIT014 3/23/2009 11:00PM

    WOW!! WHAT A DAY!!!

I read your Blog and I went from sadness to happiness in the blink of an eye! Unbelievable!

emoticon on your new granddaughter!

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ANOTHER OUTSTANDING WEEK-END

Monday, March 23, 2009


Good day to all .. it is Sunday nite . I have had a great week-end .I spent time with my daughter and grand kids ..we went to visit my sister and family from out of town .The weather started out beautiful and midday it became rainy and cold .But you never notice anything bad when you are blessed with people you love around ..we talked and laughed and cried and went back in memories that just left me still remembering. My daughter .. I still get a tug in my heart as I watch my daughter with her children and expecting another baby blessed .. It is still an amazing miracle to have 2 grand babies and one more coming .
I went to church this morning and God meets me there ever time ...He is just so faithful ...This is a new church for me . I moved from a church home of 35 years ...I love my church and it is high on prayer .. my husband works out of town for weeks at a time .. so God is the one I have to talk to ...not a bad thing ...
My daughter came by this morning with my grand son . They were on there way to the outlets . He always says to me as a good bye .. GRANDMA I AM GOING MISS YOU , YOU KNOW !! Talk about puffing up grand ma's heart .
I got home from church and changed back into my pjs and watched old movies all day .. it was cold out side .. so what else would one do ...I am now ready for a new week with new post to always cheer me to the next week-end .. I AM A BLESSED LADY ..

  
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LOSINGLINNDY 3/24/2009 11:13PM

    What a wonderful gift to have you grandson say those words to you as he leaves. You are so blessed with such a wonderful family. Sounds like a fun and blessed Sunday.

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BLACKCANARYBABE 3/23/2009 8:36AM

    I am so excited for your to be adding another grandchild to your family. Seems like yesterday when you were expecting your second, boy does time fly.

I too spend Sunday with my kids (including the spouses) and our Granddog - I guess in a couple weeks or so I should be a Grand Grandma to some puppy Boston Terriers, but no human grandchildren on the way. One day.

God has blessed you and your family.

BC

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-WRKNG2ABTTRME- 3/23/2009 7:56AM

    Something to be very thankful for...for sure! (GLOW team)

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BEFIT014 3/23/2009 6:42AM

    You are indeed blessed!

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ALL IS WELL ..I AM BLESSED

Friday, March 20, 2009

Well this has been an interesting week . It started the end of last week . I couldn't get my lower partial in . The tooth it anchored on was extremely loose . I am in a new area and no Dentist ( I knew) .. I finally talked to God in my prayer time and walah ..ask people who are working around your house. You trust them .. I did and to my surprise they all go to the same dentist . They were each doing something different on my house and had just met . I live in a small community but when I started looking for a dentist , I found 6 .I was so amazed when I went in . This place was more up to modern ways than where I left . They were very nice and the dentist ,actually had time to talk o you about your fears of being there .. I was so amazed ..I had my back tooth removed and no pain ..I need to return in 2 weeks so the dentist could send my partial out to be filled ..I went in on ST.PATTY'S DAY . The dentists had taken the staff out for pizza at lunch ...I AM SO HAPPY I TRUST GOD . YOU KNOW A BAD DENTIST WOULD REALLY HURT .. THERE WAS NO STRESS AS SOON AS I HANDED OVER TO GOD .. LADIES I AM OFF TO ENJOY THE WEEK-END AND HOPE YOU ARE ALSO ...LIFE IS SHORT SO DON'T BE CONCERNED ABOUT THE SMALL THINGS ONLY YOU CAN TURN IT IN TO A BIG THING ...

  
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BLACKCANARYBABE 3/22/2009 3:01PM

    Ruth, your faith is amazing. I am so glad you found a good dentist. Funny how different a good and bad dentist can make your experience.

BC

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CWAITES 3/21/2009 10:13PM

    What a wonderful lesson for us all! Trust God in everything! And finding a great dentist can be really difficult - I'm glad it worked out so well for you.
Cheri

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LOSINGLINNDY 3/21/2009 1:41AM

    It is amazing how well life goes when you turn the problems over to God. Glad He led you to a dentist you liked and that the problem is being corrected. Enjoy the weekend to the fullest!

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BEFIT014 3/20/2009 7:49PM

    OOh, I know how you feel! I found THE perfect dentist the same way!

Glad all went well for you!

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SUNDAY AND DOWN

Sunday, March 15, 2009

Good morning all . It is Sunday and not going to church. I have a tooth ache . That also means it is part of my partial. So I am not going to church with out my teeth . I WILL HAVE CHURCH AT HOME .
I have gone before with out them put not today .
I will do good on eating today ..soft soft ..
The worst part is I am in a new area and will need to find a dentist who will remove and cap my partial .This when TRUSTING GOD REALLY IS A TEST. I WILL GET MANY NAMES I AM SURE BUT NOW IT IS TO PICK THE RIGHT ONE ..KEEP ME IN PRAYER FOR GUIDANCE ..
This has happened before and when I did get in the back room getting ready ..I UP AND WALKED OUT ..not happy with a comment he made .. I was surprised and so was the doc. ..so shy I am not .. life is tough and when you think it smoothes out ..bang here comes another one ...fear is a nasty thing if left to run free.. my fear is pain ..kind of crazy I have birthed 2 children ..both natural .. I am ok with pain except dental .. I do not know why I do fear dental .. this to will pass or my other option ..RUN LIKE CRAZY ..but then it is still there when I run out of breath .. so I will find the right one .. GODS CHOICE AND IT WILL BE GOOD ...JUST SHOOT ME UP WITH THAT SWEET NO PAIN STUFF ..AFTER THAT i'LL FIND A QUIT SPOT AND RELAX AND LIFE WILL CONTINUE ..I feel better already ,just writing it down . It is out of my head and I won't dwell on it ..GOD IS GREAT AND LIFE IS ALSO IF GOD IS DRIVING ..

  
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LOSINGLINNDY 3/15/2009 7:01PM

    I am so sorry you have a tooth ache. I had a bad one in Jan., so I can definitely understand how you are feeling. I know the feeling of just shut up and give the shot to deaden this pain! I will add my prayers for you and finding the perfect dentist quickly. I hate for the emoticon to feel bad.

Hugs, Gaylinn

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