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Public Personal Fitness Challenge

Thursday, September 13, 2012

emoticon Hello all....I'm scared! SparkCoach told me to do this so here I go.......
My new personal Fitness Challenge is:
Beginning today 9/13 I will do 10 situps. Every day I will add 2 more situps.. 10-12-14-16...etc. By the end of my 30 day challenge I will be doing approximately 70 situps at one time.
You have to understand this is so so huge for me. I have absolutely no ab strength ... but I WANT IT !!!
Well there is it! Challenge for the first 30 days and who knows what I "WILL" come up with for the next 30 day fitness challenge!! emoticon
Just writing it down in front of all of you to view pumps me up! I will keep you posted of course, accountability, and will give you a view of my new 6 pack.... just kidding!! emoticon emoticon

emoticon - 10 situps done!
9/14 12 crunches done (I need to clarify "crunches on ball" not situps...situps to come!)
9/15 14 crunches done!

  
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DIET_FRIEND 9/14/2012 9:49AM

    That sounds like a cool goal. I don't have any ab strength either. To justify watching Entertainment Tonight in the past, I would do sit ups or crunches during the commercials--this habit only lasted a few weeks though.

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123ELAINE456 9/13/2012 7:16PM

  You Can Do It!!! Keep Pushing!!! God Bless You and Have a Wonderful Week.

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FALLNTENN 9/13/2012 7:02PM

    You can do it. emoticon

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LINDAK25 9/13/2012 4:33PM

    Courage!

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LOVINSHERRY78 9/13/2012 2:47PM

    u can do it!!! emoticon
i actually made a goal to do crunches for the entire song of vengaboys "up and down"...i love it! lol
oh yes...firm flat tummys...here we come!!

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MOVIN2OBX 9/13/2012 2:15PM

    I think this is AWESOME!! And very Do-able! Not over whelming :) It is a way to keep pushing forward!! YOU GO!!!

I LOVE this challenge for me too - I can do this too with my elliptical. I feel stupid staying on it 8 minutes - BUT I can do 8 mins and if I increase it in increments and with a goal of .. say 4 more mins each time - or x mins each week... It makes it do-able. Push ups - Sit-ups -- and Elliptical

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Thank You All

Sunday, September 09, 2012

Just a short little note..... thanks to all who commented on my last blog regarding my Mom meltdown. Lots of understanding and love sent my way and I so appreciate it!
On a good note emoticon , I lost another Lb., so going through this plateau and stress every week with my Mom, has finally paid off. The persistence, patience, hard work (mentally and physically) and trying to stay positive pays off in the long run!
I tell myself emoticon and I will look back on this down the road and be proud that I stuck with it!! emoticon
Thank you again because my SparkFriends are the best!! emoticon

  
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LINDAK25 9/10/2012 10:43AM

    I'm thrilled for you, congratulations on losing another pound! Staying positive is:
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JEANNE229 9/10/2012 9:41AM

    When you forget to tell yourself well done, let us do it for you. WELL DONE!

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LOVINSHERRY78 9/10/2012 9:17AM

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BLUEBIRDSFLY 9/10/2012 12:38AM

    I am so glad that you didn't turn on yourself because of your mother's remarks. I understand that it is especially hard because it is your mother.
Congratulations on losing a pound.
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123ELAINE456 9/10/2012 12:02AM

  Congrats on your 1 Pound Loss. Keep It Up!!! Hope you are feeling okay. God Bless You and Have a Wonderful Week.

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DIET_FRIEND 9/9/2012 10:00PM

    Nice to lose a pound! Hope you are doing well.

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GOOSIEMOON 9/9/2012 9:58PM

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UPSET !! and getting it off my chest now!!

Saturday, September 08, 2012

OK.... I have to get this off my chest right now!!! You know... I live by myself, so me having others sabotage my weight loss doesn't happen (or so I thought) emoticon
My mother (90 yrs old) is in an assisted care facility and I go to see her every Sat. and Mon., to pickup and take back her laundry for her to save her $$.
Today I was so excited breaking my plateau and losing 3 Lb., being at my lowest so far!! So I tell her, right? She looks at me and says.... wow!! 25 Lb.? "It sure DOESN'T look like it!.... emoticon
Yea...so that burst my bubble! Obviously still bothering me cuz it happened about 3 hrs. ago. She has always done this sort of !##$! to me..... no wonder I turn to food??
Well..don't worry, I'm not this time! But, why do people have to be so cruel, because just the day prior my daughter-in-law said, "Wow, you've lost more weight, huh?"
I know some of you will say, Oh, she's old...blah blah blah....! She knows what she's doing, and that's outright "mean".
Oh, bad daughter, bad daughter....
OK...I'm done, I'm bloggin and gettin it "out".... THERE IT WENT!!!! emoticon
Gonna go make me a nice salad w/ vegs, tuna, etc.... Yummy...! emoticon
Thanks for listening SparkBuddies!! emoticon

  
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STEPH-KNEE 9/9/2012 9:09PM

    I am so proud of you for breaking through your plateau and doing amazing! I am glad you held your composure and are not turning to food! Such a great accomplishment, and you are going to keep on pushing and get to your goal. I am so proud of you! emoticon

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123ELAINE456 9/9/2012 4:20PM

  Congratulations on your 3 pound weight lost. My family has treated me like that all my life. It has ruin my life. God Bless You and Have a Wonderful Week. Stay away from people who puts you down. Its takes it toll on you life. It is'nt worth it being around them. God Bless You and Have a Wonderful Week. You are doing good. Keep It Up.

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JEANNE229 9/9/2012 1:38PM

    When my mom first got dimentia, she did things like that to me, too. She'd always been a kind mom, so I just didn't know how to handle the mean streak that came out (she called me her fatty daughter almost every time I saw her and told me she didn't know why my husband stayed with me).

Really!

I was bigger than I should be, but not THAT big. Nothing worse than a mom's stinging words. I have since assigned it to her illness. Soon she even forgot who I was and I actually wished she'd still call me her daughter, fatty or not.

Three pounds is amaing! Better to get the "hurt" off your chest than to put it back on your tighs (smile).

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HEATHERFREE 9/9/2012 12:23PM

    woohoo on the three pounds!!! And don't listen to your mother! She is old and shes just grumpy cuz your young and happy and doing something good with yourself!!! Get angry about it, vent and let it go....you cant change a thing about what she says or does.....maybe dont do her laundry a couple times hehehehe

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LINDAK25 9/9/2012 11:20AM

    Congratulations on losing 3 lbs! That's fantastic. I don't have anyone who sabotages my diet, either, other than my mother. That's why I haven't discussed losing weight or Spark with her!
It doesn't matter how old you are or how many times this has happened before, it's still upsetting when your mom doesn't support you! Maybe it's time to stop doing the same thing and expecting different results. It took me forever to figure this out! Accept the fact that she is never going to be warm and fuzzy and stop expecting that. When my mom chooses to be nice, I have time for her. When she's being spiteful, I find other places to be and things to do. I've decided that there is no place for toxic, negative people in my life. I'm much happier now!

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SANDYW1945 9/9/2012 8:47AM

    Some people are such jerks. That includes our mothers. I know your pain.
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LOVINSHERRY78 9/9/2012 8:14AM

    this makes me think of a quote i have on my computer... " i love a hater b/c they motivate me". not that your mom is a hater per say, lol...but like you said...she knows what she's saying.
so glad you didn't let it turn you to digress!! you know some of my personal situations at home and one thing i've have had to learn is those that like to bring us down need to be the ones who push us forward. it's like a race car..as soon as the negative comments hits..you get a turbo boost!!
OFF YA GO! vrooooom!! emoticon
here's to getting to the finish line...b/c by golly...we will!!! emoticon

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BLUEBIRDSFLY 9/8/2012 11:16PM

    Ah, screw it. Seriously. We all have to learn to blow it out the other ear and not take stuff to heart that is intended to be hurtful. You have a community of people here who have your back and believe that 25 pounds is an extraordinary achievement. Really!!! We can't control what comes out of other people's mouths but we are all learning how to react to words meant to hurt without hurting ourselves. I am glad to hear you are busy making a salad. I am sorry your mother has not yet learnt how wonderful it is to share in another person's joy. Because it truly is a wonderful thing. So congraulations on your weight loss and I wish you continued success.
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CHRISKENANDKIDS 9/8/2012 10:55PM

    My husband's aunt is like that. She said on Facebook once, "If you weight 160 pounds how can you be in a size 8?" Ugh. Of course, my answer was - "It's called muscle!" She has NOOOO filter and I don't think really cares. You should be proud of yourself! Congratulations!

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AGK3112 9/8/2012 9:52PM

    First of all Congrats..I am so happy for you. I wish I could do it. I am been trying to lose and what I get is just a same. I have not lost a bit since 1 month. When I checked my weight day before yesterday it said the same..got so frustrated..and then checked out inch..1 inch lost..that did cheer me up a little..

Congrats one more time and good luck on your next goal

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ANGELWENDYMAMA 9/8/2012 9:30PM

    Hugs..
well, 25 lbs is a LOT and congratulations to you for that!! And hurray for the plateau breaking and going down another 3 lbs! WOOHOO!!!!

I'm sorry your mom wasn't more encouraging. She is lucky you keep going and helping her with the laundry. Rise above it. You are being the 'bigger' person, so to speak, by continuing to visit her despite her attitude toward you.

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VIMVIGOR 9/8/2012 8:16PM

  I think we must be sisters because it looks like we have the same mother. I waited so many years for my mother to say something positive about me or to me, finally I realized it just was not going to happen. I was just setting myself up to be knocked down. It still hurts if I think about it. But I know it's not me, it's her. That does help.
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MSBOOTCAMP 9/8/2012 7:59PM

    But... from how you wrote this, YOU ALREADY KNEW THIS ABOUT YOUR MOTHER. Leopards don't change their spots.

You left yourself wide open for "rejection" by expecting encouraging feedback from her!
You deserve better-- from YOURSELF.

The only behaviour you control is YOUR OWN.

You could have said, "Hey, Mom, can you give me some positive feedback about me?"- and see what she would say. But you have to be ready for that to not go the way you want.

BOTTOM LINE: You lost THREE POUNDS. You did this for yourself and you're on the right track. We don't get everything in this life. Enjoy your own journey and be thankful for those other folks who DO AFFIRM YOU!

You're a nice daughter helping your Mom with her weekly wash.

Cheers!

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LEN_VERSION31 9/8/2012 7:53PM

    I totally understand how you feel. Went on the scale the other day and lost 4lbs...my co-worker who is young says to me "you have put on weight"...smh...the nerve! Just keep pushing!!

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CLUMBOY 9/8/2012 7:45PM

    my sister in law and i once had a conversation similar to this, and her observation was--"you know, there are people in your life you have to guard your happiness from." even though your mom is your mom and you love her and she loves you, this may be an area you need to protect from her. just don't bring things like that up with her--share them with friends whom you know you can trust with this precious joy. you deserve to be happy about your accomplishment. all the best!

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DIABETICLADY 9/8/2012 7:41PM

  I'm almost 70 years old and I'm STILL LEARNING one has to THINK BEFORE ONE SPEAKS.

More often then not, as I have learned one's efforts often aren't recognized and are often trivialized.

CONGRATS on your achievement; just realize YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR OWN GOALS. Keep moving forward and don't look back..

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My friend (?) "LOUIE".....

Tuesday, September 04, 2012

Ok short and sweet! This has to do with my friend the "scale"... emoticon! This is just another reason why I need to ignore "Him" (I think I will name him "Louie" which is short for Louie the Liar). emoticon
I officially weigh in once a week, but get on the scale daily, just to keep me goin in the right direction. Sooooo yesterday was my official weigh-in day and I gained almost 2 Lb. from last week. Very very unhappy, but had a few days with a little bit of unhealthy eating and skipped a few workouts.... so I know where i went wrong!
Soooo, this morning got on "Louie" and bingo, I'm down 2 Lb. Oh yea, now you understand why I call him "Louie"
It's just another reminder why "Louie" should not be my #1 go to person in this journey!!
So I'll just leave it at that, but I needed to share with my SparkBuddies my feelings for "Louie the Liar"...
Have a movin and shakin day and I love you all!!! emoticon

  
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ZEEDRA 9/4/2012 9:17PM

    I'm going to name my scale Deniro as in Robert Deniro as in "Are you lookin' at me?" because I seldom get on it; I just look at it like it's an alien.

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123ELAINE456 9/4/2012 8:55PM

  You can not focus on the Scale alone for weight loss.Yor are doing great. You lost 2 pounds. Congratulations. KEEP PUSHING!!! God Bless You and Have a Wonderful Week.

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LINDAK25 9/4/2012 8:28PM

    Is it possible that scales know when it's an official weigh-in day? Then again, maybe you had more sodium on Sunday than you did on Monday. All I know is that my weigh in day is Wednesday and I'm often heavier on that day than any other day of the week.

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JEANNE229 9/4/2012 6:59PM

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CARMEL_466 9/4/2012 3:00PM

    Congrats on saying buh bye to the two pounds and I most definitely agree with you and the others. emoticon emoticon

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SHOAPIE 9/4/2012 2:48PM

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RONNIEHUEY 9/4/2012 2:05PM

    LOL!

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LOVINSHERRY78 9/4/2012 1:24PM

    i agree with JO28352. i'm glad my scale hasn't caused me any trouble but i know many have old and messed scales that are bringing them down. great job on the 2 lb loss! :)

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JO28352 9/4/2012 1:18PM

    Great reminder not to focus on the scale. Keep on movin'! emoticon

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HOPELESS and SAD....

Monday, August 27, 2012

I had a very very bad week and the scale showed it today at my Monday weigh-in! I'm up a pound and not happy about it. It started small and totally escalated the rest of the week.

Today I almost feel like I need to stay in my house, lock the doors, be by myself so I can have a controlled environment in order to stay on track. I totally think I am under control and then I realize..no you are not Carol, you had "no control" last week.

Will I have to fight like this the rest of my life to be healthy??? It's been almost 4 months and I'm very proud of my progress....but, I hate having this feeling of being in a spot where I'm "stuck", in a rut, no control, etc..... I just don't know how to "move on".

What happened to my 1-2 Lb. a week progress...where did that accomplishment go?? I've been fighting with this 209-210 spot for weeks and weeks. What the hell do I need to do to get past this !!#$* area. I want to be in onederland at least by my 5th month and I just don't see that happening at this rate.

Where is that little "spark" I need to get me past this "hole" I'm in. I can't find it?? I'm back to my treadmill today, which is where I started ... will keep up my chair and floor dancing and maybe a little lighter on the dumbells?? I don't know?? I'm also going to try to eat 6 smaller meals per day instead of the bigger meals at a sitting. I wish the tracker had a place to track like that?? Maybe I will suggest it to them.

Anyway just feeling a little hopeless today and a little sad that I can't move from this black hole I'm in. I'm definitely not giving up, just need to find another direction in order to move forward in my journey.

Love to all my SparkBuddies and keep up the good work in moving forward...I'm trying!! emoticon

  
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MOVIN2OBX 9/13/2012 2:08PM

    A VERY BIG HUG to you!! I am hard on myself too and I understand. I have been beating myself up - because I let work and stress get me into this hole.

My blog today was about TODAY - because you can not change a single thing about yesterday - or all of last week. JUST commit to something TODAY. Anything - it can be really small Like doing 8 sit ups. Or that tomorrow you will track every single bite of food. I am on a new start that every day is today - and if I blow it - it is a new moment. Just start Now... and look forward.

I wish you the best and hope it looks happy soon
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FALLNTENN 9/3/2012 1:05PM

    I understand how you feel. We all feel that way sometimes. You are right about needing to find another direction in your journey. You can and will do it. emoticon

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SPARK_KITTY 8/30/2012 1:17PM

    It's so easy to fall off the wagon & slide down hill. I find sometimes the best thing is not to lock yourself inside, but go out in the fresh air & take a walk. It always clears my mind & gets me re-focused & re-impowered.

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BELDONDOG1 8/29/2012 1:32PM

    Oh, Carol, do I understand your frustation (as you saw in my blog). But, we can do this. We can forge ahead. I have had a lot of good ideas come from my blog. Set up goals, but don't put a time limit on them. When you reach that goal, reward yourself. maybe with a new book or something. I find I do better if I eat my big meal for breakfast and a small dinner. Don't make too many changes at once because our stupids bodies will get confused :) A lot of suggestions gotten--maybe we can try and maybe one will work for us. Good Luck! Noel

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MOOKBALL 8/28/2012 9:52AM

    I hear your frustration. I (we all) know what it's like to get onthe scale and see it go up. Sometimes all you can do is regroup, rethink and work on the problem areas. You recognize what has to be done, and that is the first step. You are worth all your efforts.

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ANULIFESTYLE 8/28/2012 2:10AM

  I think the smaller meal idea is a good one. I notice for myself that if I split it up into 6 smaller meals and not skip a meal, I am more likely to stay on track. I am feeling the same way about my past couple of days and made a post about it. Maybe you've hit a plataeu (spelling) and need to change up your routine, which it sounds like you are planning on doing. emoticon emoticon

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DIET_FRIEND 8/28/2012 1:10AM

    If the scales are not telling you good news, try the tape measure! It might be gratifying to record inches lost if pounds are on hold. You will come off this plateau. I bet if you look around, you will find advice on how to jumpstart a stalled weightloss. Keep on sparking!

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TORTILLAFLATS 8/27/2012 11:15PM

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Gail

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LOVINSHERRY78 8/27/2012 9:54PM

    A :( well, big hugs and all you can do is re-evaluate things. i've heard that after time i bodies just want a change up so def try the more smaller meals thing. :) i hope things look up for you soon with this issue. hang in there!
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LINDAK25 8/27/2012 9:10PM

    Okay, so your tracking your meals and they are nutritionally balanced. Your exercising and you have a calorie deficit each week. You drink 8 to 12 glasses of water daily. Your body has put losing weight on hold. It happens, even when you're doing everything right! Spark Guy said so and I believe him.

You've checked everything twice and then you blogged about it. Yeah! That's what we're all here for, so we can keep each other motivated. So you gained one pound. Not that bad, is it? I think you're right on target with your strategy. Mix things up and see if you get better results. Make sure you're eating enough food. When I get hungry and I start craving things, it means I'm not eating enough. Listen to your body.

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JEANNE229 8/27/2012 7:05PM

    Six small meals (often with even more calories than I consume in 3) has worked for me. I suggest that....and look in the mirror and see what a beautiful person you are. YOU just need to recognize it.

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SIM1SAYS 8/27/2012 4:20PM

    Man - that's hard and frustrating. Here's the deal - you're going to plateau. You know it. You're going to have bad days. You know that too. Then you start to get anxious and put off that your body is not appreciating your efforts....

it is.

Try shaking up your diet and exercise - more strength? Different cardio?

You can do this. I'm so cheering you on right now!

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CARMEL_466 8/27/2012 4:06PM

    emoticon My nutrition tracker here is set for six meals. I had to add the third snack but it has helped me to have the six smaller meals per day. Praying you can get through the plateau. I know you will. emoticon

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TORAMPAUL 8/27/2012 3:33PM

    Hang in there!! We all have setbacks like that. We all have bad days/weeks. The main thing is, as you said, today is Monday. Last week is over, this week is brand new and full of positive choices to be made!

As for the tracker; you CAN add extra meals. Go to your nutrition tracker, and scroll to the bottom. On the right side are a few icon buttons for ways you want to customize your tracker. The bottom button is "Add/Edit Extra Meals". Click on that.

You can do this! Try not to let setbacks and plateaus get you down too much; you are not alone for sure! The main thing is that your scale is heading in the right direction in the long run. If you're taking two steps forward for every one step back, than you're still doing the right thing. And try not to let the number on your scale be an indicator for your health. Keep on that treadmill and your hear will love you for it!!

Just think of it this way; you may be "stuck" temporarily at 209/210, but where were you four months ago?
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