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I Forgot about the TEMPTATION.....

Monday, August 06, 2012

of grocery shopping! Boy oh boy!

So today was my first solo grocery trip in 8 weeks. Getting ready for total return to responsibilities when I go back to my office after this week.....

So I walk into my local No Frills....and food! food! food! Junk! Junk! Junk! Chips, and chocolate, and cookies, and cakes, bless our prosperity in North America, but really!

I think that I had inured myself against these distractions pre-surgery through regular exposure. But today?

In case you are waiting with baited breath, I did not give in. The only thing that called me slightly was the candy bars at the checkout (candy bars at the checkout, evil supermarket, bhwaa haa haa, but I told myself they were not worth it. Which they are not.

I did find a new product (at least new in Canada) called MIO, it is a liquid water flavor enhancer. I bought it and tried it, the fruit punch flavor, it is good. I think I can even use less than recommended, it is pretty concentrated.

Interesting experience!


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2BMYOWN 8/8/2012 12:35PM

    As you walk into our local Walmart, the entire wall you are immediately greeted with is filled with:
1.) Pringles
2.) Bags of miniature peanut butter cups and candy bars
3.) Energy drinks

(As if anyone would need an energy drink after that sugar rush.....lol)

It's no accident that these chains have psychologists on staff to determine where they should **strategically place** things. It's allllllll about the bottom line and appealing to peoples' worst (and strongest) weaknesses. Whaddya do....takes a strong person to live in today's world, for sure. Junk is in abundant supply, while organic is usually twice as expensive and far less appealing to our psyches. LOL They're even more aware of every foible in the human brain than WE are, usually. I read that in those stores that have inhouse bakeries and delis, they actually pipe the cooking odors thru-out the stores in order to get peoples' salivary juices (and their minds) going so they will be more inclined to purchase from the bakery or deli. I find it all so manipulative and kinda scary, sometimes. Also caught an article awhile ago that spoke of how they are now using video cameras to record where customers' eyes are first drawn to, in their displays. Geez...does the manipulation NEVER end??? We are but puppets in a junk food world......

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ROCKMAN6797 8/6/2012 10:00PM

    I love using the powdered sugar-free drink mixes! I have tried the Mio, it is good.

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MUSICNERD1993 8/6/2012 3:30PM

    I know how you feel! Sometimes it's a little hard to walk by all of those tempting treats. That's why I never go to the store hungry.
Good for you for not giving in, and it's great that you can go to the store alone now!
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MEXGAL1 8/6/2012 2:39PM

    I know when I go to the states and go to the food store that I get on overload. I can believe all the products and things on the shelf. I am already worried somewhat about my upcoming trip to Seattle and all the temptations. I guess I will have to really work on portion control
Good for you to pass on the junk!!! You are right as we just do not need it!

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This and That...

Sunday, August 05, 2012

Today is the first day since my surgery when I really believe I am going to heal up and get my capacity back...all of it.

Did a full housecleaning today, including using the vacuum instead of a carpet sweeper, and then walked for 30 minutes on the treadmill. And my foot hurts a bit, which is as usual, but we are not talking about extreme pain here!

So, next week is my last week of working from home, then I am moving back to my office. Feels like the right time.

I am going to use this week to move completely from a combination of arm cycling and treadmilling to treadmilling only. Arm cycling did its job, but I do not really like it. I have read blogs from Sparkpeople who have had to give up their favorite workout because of injury, etc. and do something else, and I see now how it feels.

So what have I learned?

Things heal.
Lack of mobility is really bad...being unable to drive is worse. Great motivation to stay as fit as I can.
I can adapt, even when I don't like it.
I can persevere....oh heck, I knew that already.
I didn't gain weight, which is kind of amazing...

Looks like it is back to LIFE!

Feels good.


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2BMYOWN 8/8/2012 12:26PM

    It's kind of a scary thing, being temporarily incapacitated, isn't it?? At this stage of the game, my 'motivation' is a bid to stay out of the nursing home for as long as possible, and how bad is that??? LOL Kudos to you for an excellent outlook and keep on taking care of yourself to the max.

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ROCKMAN6797 8/6/2012 9:53PM

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PUDLECRAZY 8/6/2012 8:09AM

    Yes, you should have it all back and more once you finish healing up. Driving again will be great.

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HAPPYSOUL91 8/5/2012 7:36PM

    The circle is almost complete, you are truly healing nicely.

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MUSICNERD1993 8/5/2012 6:41PM

    So happy that you are healing! You have been doing wonderfully and I know you will continue to do great things.
Maybe soon you'll be able to work in a music store! :-)
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MARATHONDAD 8/5/2012 6:37PM

    glad to hear u are getting better

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MEXGAL1 8/5/2012 6:06PM

    So glad to here that you are on the mend. I know how hard it can be when you can't do the things that you Re used to doing! Been there for sure, I know tha tyou are going to heal and your attitude is wonderful. That is the key!
Keep on Keeping on!
Sallie

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I'm at the mall!

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

How did I get here, you may ask?

I drove here!

I am sitting in the food court, having just finished lunch (brought from home, of course) in between follow up appointment for my hand surgery (all is good) and my first physiotherapy appointment.

What a sense of freedom!

I am now going to go and window shop a bit and wait out a thunderstorm that is banging away out there.

Feeling good!


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2BMYOWN 8/8/2012 12:23PM

    I had to read this one. LOL Malls and I do not have an easy relationship....I avoid them whenever possible because I have a nasty tendency to 1.) get lost in them, and 2.) to lose my car in the parking lot. However, this equates to also getting much more **cardio** than usual because of the excess of walking, so I guess I can't complain. LMAO

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SWEETYOUNGTHING 8/1/2012 5:24AM

    We take doing simple things for granted sometimes, don't we. "Don't know what you've got til it's gone". Glad you got out and about.

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MEXGAL1 7/31/2012 7:55PM

    So glad that you are feeling good and all is well.
Enjoy the rest of your evening!

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MUSICNERD1993 7/31/2012 7:41PM

    How fun!! I'm glad you're doing well! emoticon

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ROCKMAN6797 7/31/2012 6:14PM

    Just one more step to full recovery Bonita, good for you!

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JESPAH 7/31/2012 1:18PM

    Today, the mall! Tomorrow, the park?

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LESSNESS1 7/31/2012 12:52PM

    you was smart to bring that lunch, no temptations, the smell of food would have got to me. emoticon

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What A Difference....

Thursday, July 26, 2012

A visit to the fracture clinic makes!

Pins--in my possession but not in my foot
Bandage--gone
Boot--in my possession but not on my foot

Physiotherapy--required, covered by my work
Driving--as the foot can tolerate it
Treadmill--as the foot can tolerate it
Footwear--supportive lace up shoes for the next month, think running shoes
Shower--foot can get wet but no soaking for 3-4 days.

How cool is that? I am already going upstairs like a normal person, downstairs I still do not quite have the knack.

I see normalcy returning on the horizon.....

All good.

I want to thank my Sparkfriends for listening to me blather on for the past six weeks and Pre-surgery too.

You are one of the big reasons I have made it to today with sanity intact!


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MEXGAL1 7/30/2012 5:33PM

    All this is wonderful news!
Woo hoo!

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ROCKMAN6797 7/27/2012 4:03PM

    Great news Bonita!
We are more than happy to support you!

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MEDDYPEDDY 7/27/2012 3:51AM

    Nice to hear - congrats! Whenever I am restrained by illness or injuries I swea that I will never forget it and be gratefu every day I am well...do O -no emoticon

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RACHELSHADOAN 7/26/2012 11:24PM

    Yaaaay! That's great news! I'm sure you're delighted to be more mobile!

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CLEBLOOM 7/26/2012 11:20PM

    Yay!!! Congrats! emoticon

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PUDLECRAZY 7/26/2012 10:29PM

    Yay! That is such terrific news! You are really healing fast and well. Congratulations.

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DOVE1010 7/26/2012 9:25PM

    Good for you! Sounds like it has been a tough time, but now you have made it through and good things are up ahead.
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MUSICNERD1993 7/26/2012 8:35PM

    emoticon I'm so happy that you're doing well! You're always such an inspiration.
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WILDFLOWERMA 7/26/2012 8:27PM

    i'm so happy for you! You're on the home stretch & have maintained an incredible positive attitude the entire way. Kudos.

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Book Review--"Breaking Free from Emotional Eating", by Geneen Roth

Monday, July 23, 2012

This is the third book I set myself to read during my healing from foot surgery. The opinions are solely my own.

Ms. Roth has been there. She is, or has been, an emotional eater and is very emphatic with we who suffer as well. I could not find academic credentials for her, she teaches and runs workshops. I did not visit hr website. What does she say?

Ms. Roth's advice is of the "give yourself a break" category. Forget scales, or "calorie counting" (her words) and even exercise if you want to, just be very aware when and why you eat, and you will reach some weight that you and your body is happy with.

Now, I am not being (too) sarcastic. I read these self help books--an activity I used to eschew like poison--because they usually have something to give to me. And this book does as well.

One of Ms. Roth's messages that resonated is stop eating as if you will never be able to eat the food again. That is, if you want cake, and chips, and ice cream (there are no "bad foods" in her world view) go ahead and eat them with the idea in mind that you can go right ahead and eat them in the next minute, or hour, or day, or week, and so on. This will likely minimize binging. There may be some lack of reality here, such as having dollars to purchase what you want, but the book seems to be aimed to an educated and reasonable well-off audience.

Another message is eat what you really want, or else you will you eat what you don't want and then go ahead and eat what you do want anyway. Again, socially, this might be awkward, as your family lets say sits down to a three course meal and you sit down to a pint of ice cream (or to nothing at all if you don't want to eat at the pre-ordained suppertime). But, the idea of trying to put off binging by eating something else resonates with me. With me, it doesn't work.

Ms. Roth provides many helpful hints and brief exercises that are understandable and doable. She addresses areas such as family of origin, social eating, exercise, the concepts of wanting, needing, and having.

So, this book is not psychological, or Freudian, but pretty much common-sensical. It is kind, and forgiving, and she writes like she knows you. There is value in this.

The book is of fairly small dimensions and on decent quality paper with a reasonable sized font. Easy to hold and carry around.


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CALLIKIA 7/24/2012 9:01AM

    I may have to look into this book. I do agree with her on having the thing you want and not treating it as a "I'll NEVER be able to eat this EVER again" kind of event...but I agree with ROCKMAN too...how does that address the emotional aspects of the problem of emotional eating? Still, it might be interesting to see what she has to say...

Thanks for the review!

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MEDDYPEDDY 7/24/2012 12:43AM

    I remember one summer when I lot weight without counting calories, tracking or weighing foods or exercise. I was occupied with outdoor work and had things to do all times. It is an interesting concept because it involves abandoning the ideas about how my compulsiveness works. Thanks for the review!

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ROCKMAN6797 7/23/2012 11:39PM

    Her ideas are good but how does this address the emotional issue? I am not really certain that eating the food is the problem. It seems to me that most emotional eaters have other reasons for choosing to assuage their issues with food. It seems a deeper approach might be the better approach for the emotional eating issue.
Thanks for reviewing the book Bonita!


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DOVE1010 7/23/2012 8:47PM

    I'm an emotional eater. I am very rarely hungry. I never give myself time to get hungry because I am always snacking on something hence the weight problem. Not sure the book would help me with my EE problem though, but it might help someone else. Thanks for the heads up on the book. emoticon

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MEXGAL1 7/23/2012 8:01PM

    Thanks so much for the review. Sounds like you gave us the. Est parts of the book.
Have a great evening!

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MUSICNERD1993 7/23/2012 5:50PM

    Hmm, seems like an interesting view...I don't think it'd help me at all, but maybe someone else would benefit from doing the things she suggests.
Thanks for the review!
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KMSIMMONS1 7/23/2012 4:44PM

  Thanks for this review. I'll probably not waste my time on it!!! But your time on it, and review, helped me to come to that conclusion so THANKS!

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HAPPYSOUL91 7/23/2012 4:42PM

    omg, a name from the 80's. attended some of her workshops

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