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You made me go to the gym!

Monday, June 07, 2010

So, there I was sitting at my computer reading about so many of you and the successes and struggles you've been going through. Well, I've been very stuck for the past several years at about 145-155. It has been so discouraging. I've allowed health problems to keep me more sidelined than necessary. Somewhere along the line I decided that I'd rather try and fail than to just e content with never trying. So, one day I mentioned in a forum that I wanted to look at the possibility of joining a gym. Many years ago that was one of my passions. My husband and I worked out together when we could and individually the rest of the time. But, what I remember most is that there was such support from the others at the gym. That is the kind of support I've found with Spark. It has rekindled a desire, misplaced or not, to also once again try my best at a gym. So, since I said it, I had to do it. Last week I took advantage of a free one week trial membership. I'm not really enthused with this gym (no pool, sauna or other extras and really no people support that I can see so far). emoticon But, I've gotten acquainted with a whole new generation of equipment and it has been an encouraging experience. emoticon I've got just two days left, but I came across another gym with a free one week trial so I may try that one as well. emoticon I suspect I will end up at the gym my husband belongs to, but thought I'd first test some other waters.
So, Sparkers, you got me going on this gym business. emoticon It's great to have not only support from all of you, but to know there is some accountability out there. emoticon Thanks for encouraging me to take this first step. I know you will help me keep going. If a gym, terrific. If that doesn't work well for me, I know you will help me find another direction. If I write about it and you respond, I know it will be a done deal.
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MEADSBAY 6/7/2010 10:04PM

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FVHORVATH 6/7/2010 11:13AM

    I am so happy for you and that you took that first step and gotto the gym! Keep us post on how you are doing!

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ANNE-ELIZ 6/7/2010 10:54AM

    Isn't it wonderful that putting our intentions out for others to see and share, gives us the opportunity to receive information and support and, in turn, to inspire others with our process and determination?

You are right, you will find a way!

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Another long day to smile

Wednesday, June 02, 2010

I started to write this to include all the challenges of this day. Then, I decided not to bore the world so I deleted it all. I am very tired. I haven't gotten to everything on my to do list. But, I've gotten to a lot of those items and it feels so good to cross items off that perpetual list of mine. It makes me smile. emoticon Some days I accomplish little, some days a little more. I never did get to formal exercise, but I walked a long way over a lot of time. My pedometer reminds me that just living can be a workout. So, I don't beat myself up that the treadmill was idle. I smile about a full day that will begin to wind down for me in a few hours. It is time to make dinner so we can head off to an evening meeting. This is a special time of day. I love it when my sweetheart gets here and we can share our days, our plans for tomorrow and for all the tomorrows yet to be. Yes, it has been another full day, another long day, to live, to laugh, to love and just to smile. emoticon

  


Here comes summer!

Tuesday, June 01, 2010

It's June! How can that be? Wasn't I supposed to be skinny enough by now to put on a swim suit or a pair of shorts without all those jiggly bits flapping about? Haven't I thought this same thing at the beginning of a lot of Junes? So true, so true. However, this one is bound to be different. This time I've got such amazing support here at Spark and now even my sweet husband is coming around. I want to join a gym where I can swim a bit without being too noticed, where I can cycle a few miles without worrying that I will fall off in the middle of a road somewhere, where I can work this body at the rate it can do and not try to keep up with those healthy, strong young or not-so-young things. Even though I'm often awkward and slow due to multiple sclerosis, this year I'm not letting myself off the hook so easily. I may crash a few times, but I'll also get up over and over again. This time I won't let anyone tell me what I should or should not be doing. There was a time when my neurologist said to rest, rest, rest. Those days are long past. Now we know that exercise can be very helpful in keeping a body moving and as strong as possible wherever I might find myself in that nasty disease process. Too bad we didn't know back then, what we know now. I sure wasted a lot of time 'resting'. No more. Not today, anyway. There will be days or perhaps more than days that I will have to back off, but I refuse to be defeated this time around. Each time my body rebels, I'll do what has to be done to get it able to get going again. Now, my plan is to find the right gym for me before this week is out. That's my plan and I plan to stick to it. What's your plan this week? We are all different. We can't expect to fit into the same mold as someone else no matter how much we might want to do so. Let's just keep encouraging one another to be the best us we can be each and every day. That way, perhaps we won't face another summer of discouragement and disappointment. We are Sparks...hear us roar!!!

  
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ANNE-ELIZ 6/1/2010 11:40PM

    You are absolutely right! Each of us has his or her own challenges and timetable within which we can accomplish our goals.

For each of us, the important thing is to keep at it.

I remembered a proverb the other day which I quoted in a comment to another member, but I think it works here as well, "Fall down seven times, stand up eight."

It is extremely challenging to balance exercise and rest; to differentiate among tiredness, exhaustion, lack of motivation and depression.

We can do this with mutual support and persistence!
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MEADSBAY 6/1/2010 9:53PM

    Take the time to find the right gym- most will give you a guest pass to try it out a few times- mine let me come for THREE WEEKS!
Be sure to ask if they have any specials going on or discounts for any reason- like AAA.
Also, when you do join one- hold your head up high and be proud that you are there- on your journey to better health.
I LOVE that I am the oldest woman in the weigh lifting section of my gym most days. emoticon

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TAYLORCRAFTBC65 6/1/2010 7:00PM

    Progress is only a little motivation and dicipline away

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How'd I get here anyway??

Thursday, May 27, 2010

After reading another Spark blog I started recalling my own childhood influences. My mom liked to cook and bake. We were a meat and potatoes kind of family - lots of beef and chicken. We also grew most of our own produce. We had apples, plums, lemons, quinces, loquats, persimmons, walnuts, berries, squash, corn, green beans, melons and probably lots of other things that don't come to mind right now. I loved to garden with my dad - he focussed on the fruits and veggies. I also helped my mom with all of her flowers. I never thought about how many calories we burned in those gardens. The work was just a part of who we were. So, it was ironic that my mom continually told me she didn't think exercise was important and that she didn't care if I did poorly in P.E. as long as I got my A's and B's in the rest of my classes. Cleaning our plates was expected. And that always included desserts. I can remember a time when I was trying desperately to lose a few pounds and didn't want dessert. That night she got so mad that she took the whole thing and threw it in the garbage. We all sat there dumbfounded. I never refused her sweets again. I learned to starve myself all day when she couldn't see and then eat all that she set before me in the evening. It was kind of a weird way to live, but it worked for me at the time. And so began my lifelong food issues. Through the years my weight has fluctuated quite a lot. Yet, my roots continue to influence me for both good and bad. I still love fresh fruits and vegetables. So, now that summer is coming I am eager for the farmers' markets to open. I still have trouble leaving food on my plate, but I've learned to better manage that one. I serve myself now so can serve myself reasonably. I also make an effort to leave at least a bite or two uneaten as I train myself that it isn't a sin to leave something. When my husband and I go out (rarely) we usually order one meal and share it. If we don't do that, we always bring home at least half. Or, if it wasn't that yummy we sometimes just leave what's left.
I took up running for fun in junior high and added tennis in high school. I always loved to swim but that has always been less accessible to me. I belonged to a gym for a few years before the MS made it difficult to do anything for a few years. Now I'm thinking of joining a gym for the summer. I have a few things here to use (treadmill, stability ball, bands, weights), but I would enjoy being with other women while I can. I now understand that my parents really got a lot of exercise just by managing home and gardens. My mom never understood this connection so thought exercise was useless. She is now 96 years old. She didn't get to that age by sitting and eating cookies all day long. Weight was never an issue for her. She was blessed with good genes and an ability to naturally manage her portions regardless of what she ate. I was adopted and when I met my birth parents as a 30 something it was interesting to see that they had both struggled with weight issues forever. My birth mom died the day before her 75th birthday. My dad struggles with many health issues, but is now 80 years old. Hmmm. Yes, environment is important. Yes, genetics count. But, I know we can reach our goals. For me it includes finding the right motivation each and every day of my life. I won't live in the past. I want to be here for a long and healthy future! I thank all my Spark friends for your encouragement and support. Have a healthy day!

  
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MEADSBAY 5/27/2010 9:07PM

    You know, it's no wonder so many of us have issues with food- with all the crazy things some mothers put us through- my poor DH had to sit at the table for hours sometimes after dinner until he finished all of his vegetables- even if it was one he didn't like and it made him gag.
My mother was very cool about food- eat what you want, as much or as little as you want and (mostly) served healthy (not necessarily delish) food.
Dessert? hahaha- maybe on holidays or something. I think we had ice cream a few times each summer.
My daughter is adopted and I fear she will become a large woman like her bio-mom. She's 22 and I can't control what she eats anymore and am not too happy about her choices.


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Human Garbage Can

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

Yuck! I ate some of the left over pizza from Chuck E. Cheese. Now maybe that wouldn't be an awful thing, but since I've now done that for the past three days it is pretty awful. I just can't bring myself to throw away perfectly good food, even when it's not so perfectly good for me. Does that make me a human garbage can? I think it is true. emoticon
Let me see what have a discarded into me these past few weeks that would have served me better to to into the actual trash can? Besides the pizza there was that order of fries the grand kids didn't eat, that last scoop of ice cream that was already suffering from a bit of freezer burn, those three little packages of cookies that nobody else wanted, that last bit of whipped cream, that pub mix snack stuff that nobody else likes, and those pieces of garlic bread that had already gotten a little hard to chew. Yes, I do believe I am a human garbage can.
As of this moment I resolve to no longer play that role for my family. Far better to throw it out than eat it up. Hooray, a new way to take care of me. emoticon

  
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ANNE-ELIZ 5/26/2010 9:57PM

    I think the resolve is great!

I hope, though that you're not getting down on yourself about this.

Many of us got a full dose of the "clean your plate" "waste not, want not" messages from our families down through generations. It is a very strong message that we need to examine and determine how it applies to us now. It looks like you are beginning to do that.

I agree with EWESCOTT!!

You do deserve good, healthy food, lovingly prepared and mindfully eaten.
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MEADSBAY 5/25/2010 10:56PM

    You DESERVE good healthy food, lovingly prepared and mindfully eaten.
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FITKAT2010 5/25/2010 9:58PM

    Sorry dear, but I think there is more to this than just eating leftovers. I would recommend that you get a food plan that you know you can stick to, track here on the Nutrition Tracker and stay within your allotment. When tempted to go off start writing your thoughts/feelings out on paper.

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MAMAFISH1 5/25/2010 6:01PM

    Sounds like my husband, He doesn't throw anything out. I don't care how old it is. I can eat junk, but it has to be fresh junk. Good luck to you on your goal. Once on the lips, forever on the hips. That's an old saying.

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TEXASFILLY 5/25/2010 4:22PM

    I feel your pain, Barbara! *hugs* Good for you in turning over a new leaf! ;)

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