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DH Says, "Lose Weight!"

Monday, May 21, 2012

Ouch! For years I've complained about weight struggles. I've yoyo dieted most of my life. Today, I lamented once again that I need someone to hold me accountable as I do a lousy job of it on my own or in print. My doctor is no help. He needs to lose a few pounds, too, and always tells me my weight is o.k. After telling my DH that I think I need to find a skinny doctor so perhaps he or she would 'bug' me about my weight, his reply floored me. For the first time ever he told me I should lose weight. He's concerned that I could have a heart attack if I don't get it under control. In the past he's always told me I looked good no matter what my weight. So, I know he is concerned. I'm not even all that close to my highest weight at this point, but for whatever reason today was the day for him to finally say something about me needing to lose this girth. I'm not sure how I feel about it. I wonder how I will feel if he actually says more in the days, weeks, months and years to come. I hope I can take his criticism as the encouragement I know he intends. Still, somewhere inside I am cringing and sad. I have let him down and caused him worry. I will be interested to see if this is what I've needed or if I balk and rebel. I must pay attention and see how it goes. Have a great week everyone! emoticon

  
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MEADSBAY 5/21/2012 5:41PM

    My dh hasn't been quite that bold yet,
but,
if I dare say anything to him about his unhealthy ways,
he will say something like
'talk to me when you have lost the weight you are trying to lose'
Ouch!
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MADAMEJEANNE 5/21/2012 12:53PM

    Dear Grandmababa, I know how you feel. My dh usually comments the thinner I get that I need to lose weight......makes you wonder what they thought 40 lbs heavier. Take it as love and concern that he wants his wife to be healthy! I will be praying for you. You are on the right track. Keep up the good work. emoticon

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Off Track Again!!!

Monday, May 14, 2012

Mother's Day was not what I had hoped it to be. Yet, we did get to spend part of the day with our daughter's family. Our oldest grandson broke his arm - clean break through both bones of his left forearm, Friday night. He may yet need surgery, but the ortho doc is trying just setting it for a couple of weeks while watching it closely. That little boy, age 9, is an amazing little athlete. Tae Kwon Do is is specialty and he was doing a back flip board break from high atop a pyramid practicing for a competition this next weekend. Needless, to say he will be on the sidelines. My daughter and I have been concerned about how hard he pushes himself in these things. Her fear has been that he would be injured when over tired. So, after many times through perfectly he wanted to do one more run through Friday night pretty late and down he went when he over rotated. He had been invited to compete in an international tournament in Korea this summer - quite an honor. I suspect he will be back at it when he can, but will be laid up for at least the next three months. .. Korea is out of the picture for this year. I kind of admire his drive at such a young age. I loved tennis and enjoyed running for many years, but I was never driven the way he is. It is hard to watch and pray for good outcomes and protection from any permanent harm. At least his head and spine were safe this time. For that we are most thankful. Now I see my role as cheerleader as he heals and it also gives us a chance to focus on his younger brother who also competes in tae kwon do. He will compete Saturday and be the little star of the family for the first time. As I reflect on this reality it reminds me that everything does happen for a reason. I am thrilled that Rocky can be the star for the summer. It will do a lot for his self confidence. I want to think more about this as I know there is an important lesson in this for me, too. I just want to be the best mom, wife, grandma I can be to all of my family. Some days that is harder than others. Sometimes the answers are easy. Sometimes they are hard. Today I binged on a lot of unhealthy things. That was the wrong way to go, but never-the-less it is what happened. Calorie wise I met my daily amount by noon. Now, I probably should have something healthy this evening, but I would prefer to skip more calories at this point. The nutrition for today is terrible - some left over Easter jellybeans, 2 single serve bags of potato chips, coffee, cheerios and milk, pistachios. Not a good day. Tomorrow will be better! emoticon

  
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SARAHTAIT 5/15/2012 9:37AM

    So sorry to hear about his arm....praying for healing for him...He sounds like a wonderful kid...so motivated.
Hang in there...we all have bad days and the secret is to get back on the wagon when you fall off...staying on long term is the key! emoticon
Hugs,
sarah

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MEADSBAY 5/14/2012 7:53PM

    Poor kid! He must be devastated.
Take care of yourself while you're busy taking care of everyone else.
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KNEWMETODAY 5/14/2012 5:02PM

    Isn't it great to be in a place where every day can be new and where you know that we understand, because we've been there? Admitting slips is often really hard because we really want to do it right ALWAYS.

I am sorry to hear about your grandson's arm, but I'm also glad for Rocky. Being in the shadows is not usually a fun place. Bless you as you cheer both boys on!

Kathy

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Gotta stay on track despite...

Monday, April 16, 2012

My 98 year old mom fell again last evening right after I got off phone with her. She's been treating a uti and I was concerned because it grew out a particularly nasty bacteria this time. She's fallen a few times in the past while having a uti. Seem to be areal problem for her. She's nearly blind and deaf and insists on living alone in her little home. I've been back and forth often in recent years - twice this year so far. One of the times was to be with my younger brother who died at age 55 and I got to be with him in that passage. Then it was for Mom and to help with more details regarding my brother. Now, I'm waiting for my marching orders once again. I'll head out there this week, just not sure which day and whether I'll drive or fly this time. My older brother is with her now at the hospital as he was within a 3 hour drive and I live much further away. I hate the thought of her going back to living alone and yet I know my dh will hate it if I go to live with her and care for her. Plus, I have a daughter and her family including three small grandchildren here that I help with. I just don't want to compound the stress and issues by eating the wrong foods in the next few weeks. I must stay strong. My own health has been faltering badly this year largely due to stress, I think. Such is life. I know the Lord will guide and protect. I just pray I hear His wisdom on upcoming decisions. Have a great week everyone! emoticon

  
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GRAMMAP1 4/17/2012 11:57PM

    They call us the sandwich generation. Often helping with elderly parents on one side and helping with Grandchildren on the other. God bless you in deciding where you are neede most and what you can handle. Hugs, Jane

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PLAYBLUES22 4/16/2012 4:49PM

    Sweetie, taking of someone older, your family, and yourself will take a toll on you. I know how you must feel, just try to do your best, because if you fall ill also it will only make matters worst emoticon

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MEADSBAY 4/16/2012 3:02PM

    I will be surprised if the hospital allows her to go home after another fall.
Are you ok with that?
Take care of yourself, Barbara.

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Overeating as Habit

Thursday, April 12, 2012

After reading a health article in SP about 10 reasons why we overeat, I thought of one not specifically mentioned - habit. I started eating an after school snack as a young child. Whether it was when I got home or on those days I stopped at the store on my walk home to buy a small candy bar - mostly Look or Charleston Chew at the time - the result was the same --- often empty calories that I really wasn't hungry for. If it was at home, my mom, who loved to bake and made sure my brothers and I always had fresh cookies awaiting us, insisted we have a snack to tide us over until supper an hour or two later. As an adult I never really thought about changing this habit...until now. I do try to choose healthier options, but often I also end up binging on something not so healthy. I'm not really hungry. I'm simply continuing a habit that was probably not really necessary as a child and helped me to be a pretty overweight kid. My weight has been up and down through the years, but I know that when my weight won't budge despite exercise, healthy meals and lots of water...I need only look to my late afternoon snack habit. For me it is not as simple as substituting something healthy for something unhealthy because once I start munching I often have a hard time stopping. I do find that drinking a big glass of water, taking a walk, doing some chores, or phoning someone can give me time to refocus and make better choices. However, I have been unsuccessful through the years in actually breaking this bad habit. But, that doesn't stop me from continuing the challenge to beat this one. Time will tell. emoticon

  


Coffee filters are healthy - 2?

Thursday, April 12, 2012

After hearing that paper filters filter out two compounds from coffee that can increase cholesterol, I researched further and found that tidbit to be true. So, I'm going to cut out the Starbuck's lattes for awhile and use paper filters in my pot rather than using my espresso maker for awhile - unless I can make the filter small enough to work with that, too. I'll be interested to see if it is helpful. Now I wonder if my doctor will mention that when I visit next week. Seems the docs often are not aware of some of the simple steps that we can take before resorting to popping pills. We'll see! emoticon

  
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GRAMMAP1 4/14/2012 10:30PM

    I wonder what steps we could take (simple and complex) to get away from pills. Losing weight at my age is difficult, but that is certainly motivation to be successful.

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TRISH261 4/12/2012 7:09PM

    Hmm....never would have thought of that. Will have to let my Mom know, because she's a big coffee drinker and I don't touch the stuff. Thanks for the info!

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ARNETTELEE 4/12/2012 6:57PM

  Interesting..... well, I don't drink coffee so.... nice to know. I use coffee filters to line the bottoms of my plant containers. Actually I didn't buy those filters, but they were going to be thrown away so...

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