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Physiological frustrations

Sunday, February 17, 2013

I did something to my lower back moving heavy boxes for an attorney at work yesterday. By late in the afternoon I was coping with bouts of pain flowing into my left leg and making it feel as if my knee was going to give out. Pain in my back woke me several times last night and has kept me relatively inactive today. I tried to do my exercise video today, but couldn't do it for the pain. I'm doing my crunches and straight leg raises tonight, the best correcting action for this type of problem, but should have done them for the first time last night or earlier today. Now I'm paying in pain for not doing it sooner.

I get so frustrated when my body fights back, refuses to do what I want. Getting older and having your body fight your intentions is frustrating. I have no patience with these physical issues and resent having to cope with the unpleasant symptoms and the days I have to wait for it to resolve. Now I'm done whining and will go do the exercises and try to get some sleep.

  
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TIME2BLOOM4ME 3/28/2013 8:06PM

    emoticon I do Classical Stretch DVDs for back pain. www.classicalstretch.com

It'
s yummy pain relief goodness. Or James Knight Somatic Yoga always work.

When it continues on a chiropractor office call is in order.

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TENACIOUSTRISH 3/25/2013 3:18AM

    HOpe you feel better soon!

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FLORIDASUN 3/20/2013 3:39PM

    Rats...I hate when my body sez~and you think you're gonna do WHAT?

Back pain is the worst...my DH suffers and it's no fun. Hope you get better soon, have you tried a nice soak in some epsom salts...sometimes that helps.

Hugs to you..mend well...and mend soon. emoticon

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COMPUCATHY 2/25/2013 11:11PM

    Hope you are feeling better. It is frustrating when pain gets in the way of our physical desires, that's for sure. Take care! Keep up the good work! Thanks for the encouragement! Spark on! emoticon emoticon

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JUMPINJULIE 2/17/2013 12:19PM

    emoticon i'm sorry i hope your back feels better soon.

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ANNEMAC5 2/17/2013 6:06AM

    It is good to share these frustrations. Hope you have a good sleep and your back feels better soon

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FITANDFIFTY2 2/17/2013 2:11AM

    I hope you feel better soon. There is nothing good about a back ache! Been there, best to you for a quick recovery! emoticon

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ZRIE014 2/17/2013 1:39AM

  sorry to hear about your problems. wish you the best. you need to take care of you back.

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SUSANBEAMON 2/17/2013 1:12AM

  your body is the only one you going to have, so you really need to cut it some slack and try to stop forcing it to work beyond what it can manage. ever time you do that, you will cause yourself pain. consider, your body is your house. if you poke holes in the roof every time it leaks when it rains, how long do you think your roof will last.?

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Christmas is NOT about how much you buy, dangit!

Monday, November 26, 2012

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I am appalled and disgusted at the behavior of my fellow citizens (I hesitate to use the word humans - connotes a higher being than what I saw on the news reports) bashing each other and grabbing at things on THANKSGIVING NIGHT and Black Friday. What the heck is wrong with people that they buy into all this commercialization garbage?

I am saddened to see people acting as they were on TV. There is something so inherently wrong with adults willing to demean themselves and fight like 3 year olds over the chance to buy some item. Every year I find it harder and harder to go shopping between Thanksgiving and Christmas because the vast majority of the people in stores are pushy and grabby and downright RUDE. My Christmas spirit gets more severely diminished the more
I am surrounded by greedy, grabby, crass and unmannerly dolts. I turn into a variation of the Grinch just watching New Reports of Black Friday.

I frequently make donations to charities as the gifts, except for the children. People actually appreciate that you donate and they can see the good the donation contributes to. If I see something I know a certain person would absolutely enjoy, I'll probably get it for them, but not just because I feel I MUST BUY things. Most of us and all my close friends and family have more than we need already. If I have the choice between spending on something just to have a gift and donating to a charity in a person's name, I'll make the donation. Am I alone in this thought process or are there others out there who feel similarly?

ADDENDUM: Various things I use as alternatives to gifts:
Buy a pair of goats (on-line) for people in Africa
Donate to the local Rescue Mission that feeds and provides shelters for the homeless
Donate to the Salvation Army, which does a lot of good and doesn't pay their
staff ridiculous amounts
Donate to St. Walburga's Convent in Colorado, because the nuns do so many
wonderful things with virtually nothing. (They were the inspiration for
the movie LILIES OF THE FIELD with Sidney Poitier)
Donate to Father Woody's Haven of Hope, which provides homeless men a
place to shower, get a shave and a haircut and do laundry at no cost to them.
Volunteer on Christmas or Thanksgiving to serve meals to the homeless. If
anything will teach you be grateful for what you have, that definitely will do it.
There's an on-line Wildlife Fund you can "adopt" animals through. I have done
that and they send a certificate of adoption and small stuffed versions of the
wild animals you donate to help - wolves, whales, lynx, tigers, elephants, frogs,
etc.

These are just a few of my favorite things . . . .

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WALKINGWOMAN07 1/3/2013 2:46AM

    I just saw this blog now, and although it is before Christmas, I very much agree. for the last few years I have been doing a combination of donations and gifts to friends and family. MCC is one I really respect, even if I am not Mennonite.
Irene in Canada

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MY4KITTIES 12/24/2012 9:01PM

    I couldn't agree with you more! I also agree with TX.PATRICIA. The reason for the season has been lost as people tend to look for the best deals instead of remembering the true meaning of Christmas. I don't think this will change anytime soon. Retailers know we try to hang onto our money and spend less freely. Thus, they make sales almost impossible to ignore.

As a result, my Christmas spirit is practically non-existent. I used to enjoy Christmas but not anymore. However, we've decided to buy gifts just for the children and I do enjoy shopping for them. It's so much fun to watch them open their gifts in anticipation and see the excitement on their faces.

You are NOT alone! There are many other people that have a perspective very similar to yours.

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OPTIMIST1948 12/24/2012 6:11PM

    Yes! yes! YES!!

I also like my local "Boys & Girls Club" The local public radio station & the local small museum!

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TEENY_BIKINI 12/24/2012 5:46PM

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SAFARIBABE 11/29/2012 6:06PM

    Oh please! It's a zoo out there! Animals actually act better. LOL Thankfully, there's a little thing called the internet and these days that's how I do most of my Xmas shopping.

I think giving to charity is a great idea! Might do that for my sister & bro-in-law this year. They never seem to like the funky stuff I usually get them anyway. LOL Thanks for the idea!

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HICKOK-HALEY 11/28/2012 2:42AM

    Remember the very first Cabbage Patch Dolls? Well, if your my age you will remember. Anyway, people were the same. Even running down toddlers just so they could get the newest rage. And I though they were the ugliest dolls. I hear you loud and clear!

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TKO0551 11/27/2012 8:14PM

    You had me at the title!!! emoticon

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IRISH813 11/27/2012 6:25PM

    Very well said!!!

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TX.PATRICIA 11/27/2012 11:04AM

    You are not alone! I haven't had the Christmas spirit in years, and I do not think that it will be any better this year. It just seems that the true meaning of Christmas has been lost. Folks tend to worry more about shopping for the best deals than they to celebrate the reason for the season.

I have a very short to buy for list, and I mean VERY short! I am very cautious about donating to charities, just because my mother worked for a nationally recognized charity in the accounting department & actually saw where most of those donations when. I have been known to "adopt" a child from the local children's home, or something along those lines.

We all give in the best way that we can, above all we need to remember the reason!!

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SUSANBEAMON 11/27/2012 1:44AM

  you are not alone. stuff seems to be a problem, that will not be solved any time soon, since purchasing stuff is such a big part of our GDP.

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NANNABLACK 11/26/2012 7:49PM

    Well said!

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Planning ahead -

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

I've gotten things in order, modified my exercise, have all the ingredients for my contributions to Thanksgiving Dinner and know how I'll be dividing my plate into much more substantial servings of vegetables and less of the "other" side dishes. No worries. It is all good and I can have a bite or two of everything. So can you, as long as you keep it to a bite or two. Don't suffer or feel deprived, but don't over-do either.

A Blessed Thanksgiving to us all. emoticon

  
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WALKINGWOMAN07 11/22/2012 9:26PM

    Sounds like great planning. Have a wonderful thanksgiving. emoticon

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SUNNY332 11/21/2012 7:55AM

    emoticon emoticon Sounds like a great plan. Enjoy your Thanksgiving.

Hugs, Sunny

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LALMEIDA 11/20/2012 9:45PM

  Happy Thanksgiving!

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IRISH813 11/20/2012 6:17PM

    Awesome! Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!! emoticon

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Looking at the horror of SANDY

Sunday, November 04, 2012

My heart is heavy for all those that nasty storm has impacted. My childhood memories are on the New Jersey shore, where I grew up. My first everything is there, on the beaches, the rivers, the sailing, fishing, sunrises and sunsets over the sea. My first loves, first kisses, learning to swim, to drive, Easter Sunday on the boardwalk after church, saltwater taffy from Criterion which was then on the boardwalk in Asbury Park. Sea Bright was where we hung out, learned to surf (sort of) played flag football and went to dances at the beach clubs. ALL GONE! Rockaway in New York and Coney Island, Staten Island with its charming neighborhoods and the fabulous Staten Island Ferry so horribly damaged.

I pray for a rapid recovery and I grew up there, so I know the strength of will of those people. But these are hard times beyond what any of them or us anticipated as the storm rolled in. Please send your most positive thoughts and any prayers you have to help those in need. If you can donate to the cause, do that as well. We ARE all in this life together and we need to be willing to help out when there is tragedy and need. God Bless everyone. May there be a rainbow after this storm emoticon

  
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NEWFLABULESS 11/16/2012 10:01AM

    I've never had the opportunity to see New Jersey, the boardwalk or anything other than Statue of Liberty (from afar) but my heart aches for all those who are touched by this tragedy.

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HICKOK-HALEY 11/10/2012 2:34AM

    I have had everyone in my prayers that live in the devastated areas. It does hit home doesn't it? I just read today where a young lady, all of 19 yrs., quit college because she felt she needed to take care of her younger siblings. They lost their parents due to the storm. So sad, but the community came together and raised over $56,000 for the kids just in one day. Even with the people facing hard times themselves, they gave from their hearts. Like you said, the people are strong, and they will rebuild.

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WALKINGWOMAN07 11/6/2012 12:07AM

    Well said Grace. My heart goes out to all affected by this storm. And my thoughts to you too - for those places of your first memories so damaged.

You are so right - we ARE all in this life together. I had been meaning to make a Red Cross donation to this cause, but hadn't got around to it. After I read your blog, I actually did it. Thank you so much for this reminder. I hadn't known how I could help, but I thought that surely the Canadian Red Cross would be helping - I checked it out, and they are. So thank you so much.

Irene in Canada

Comment edited on: 11/6/2012 12:15:34 AM

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ADARKARA 11/5/2012 8:05AM

    I agree wholeheartedly. I live in NJ (Camden County) and my uncle in Little Egg Harbor lost his house. The boardwalk in Atlantic City is destroyed. My dad was born in Atlantic City, he grew up in Pleasantville, also heavily damaged. I hope those towns can bounce back.

If New Jerseyans are ANYTHING, we're STUBBORN and we LOVE OUR STATE!

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FRACKTHATNOISE 11/5/2012 7:28AM

    Well said, Grace.

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Moving into the changing seasons

Friday, October 19, 2012

Yes - the weather grows cooler and the daylight diminishes and soon it will be necessary to do more of my exercise inside. What am I doing to work toward that and to prepare for 2013?

This weekend I will make a definite effort to re-arrange some furniture and create appropriate spaces inside the house to accommodate me working out more to DVDs in the living room.

I am going to commit to tracking more thoroughly - every day, and see if I can make that work over the next several weeks.

I am starting on an overall "PLAN" for myself to include daily commitments to accomplish certain specified things.

More to be revealed as I get it figured out.

  
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TENACIOUSTRISH 3/26/2013 6:22AM

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HICKOK-HALEY 10/27/2012 2:47AM

    Did you arrange the furniture to your liking? I remember years ago, I had my DH and his Nephew move a cabinet 3 times before I found where I wanted it. Poor guys lol.
Love your background page!

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FRACKTHATNOISE 10/25/2012 6:05PM

    Planning is the key to success! You got this, my friend!

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WALKINGWOMAN07 10/20/2012 6:38PM

    You sound committed! I am now walking daily, and if going out doesn't work, I am using Leslie Sansone walking DVDs from the library. I had tried them several years ago, and ended up with sore shins so I quit. This time I do them while working my orthotics. Makes all the difference in the world.

You sound like you are really planning well, and I look forward to hearing about the upcoming revelations. :-)

Irene

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MISSLISA1973 10/19/2012 7:49PM

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