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Loving Myself Challenge: Day 3

Sunday, January 20, 2013


Well today was another awesome day. :) They are not ALL awesome... so that's why I try to enjoy it when they really are great days.

1. I went to brunch with a friend. Usually I just say no, especially if I'm afraid I may eat poorly... I ran into some co-workers and it was nice to have time to relax and enjoy life a bit.
2. Even though I was at brunch and ordered an amazingly delicious breakfast... I used MODERATION and only ate one chicken strip and 1/4 of the pancakes. :-D ...and I did it naturally, I got full and stopped eating. Simple as that.
3. I took a nap when I needed one. And slept for 4 hours... so apparently I needed one.
4. I reached my goal of 10,000_ steps and actually have done 11553 steps so far!
5. I cleaned my kitchen before bed so I could have it nice and sparkly in the morning... and my house still looks amazing from when I did my clean up session yesterday.

Ok, that's all I got! Here's a bonus... I have tomorrow off and I will be sleeping AT LEAST 9 hours tonight. YAY! [ Oh and I actually did an official workout of 1:20 mins and logged my food too. :) So, yea.. good day!]

Hope you all are Loving Yourselves... It may get boring to keep reading my daily 5 things I'm proud of, but it's keeping me motivated. Hope you don't mind too much lol... cause I'm gonna keep doing it! well, as long as I can remember! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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123ELAINE456 1/21/2013 4:32PM

  I Love Your Blog!!! You are doing a Tremendous Good Job. Keep Going Forward. God Bless You and Enjoy This Beautiful Cold Day. Take Care.

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SEEINGCLEARLY53 1/21/2013 3:24PM

    Great control at brunch!....I'm not at that point yet...... emoticon

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DONNA5281 1/21/2013 1:13PM

  I know that I will continue reading your blogs.
It is so nice to have something positive to read.

As I said the other day, I am going to start this in Feb.

Have a great day!

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PUNZIE73 1/21/2013 11:17AM

    This is a great idea! Im gonna start doing this

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REMEMBER2BME 1/21/2013 7:38AM

    I love this and have subscribed to your blogs. You are an extremely busy person with important job responsibilities AND you are getting it done. It ... being taking care of you. I am impressed. You are an inspiration and I plan to continue to follow you.

Let me know if you need anything. I am happy to support you any way I can. Keep up the great work!!!

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MANDELOVICH 1/21/2013 1:41AM

    I need a loving myself challenge. I think this is such a great idea!

Here are my five things:

1. Took a great spin class.
2. Got in over 15k steps
3. Made lots of healthy food.
4. Got to see a good friend.
5. Got enough sleep and will again tonight.

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LHLADY517 1/20/2013 11:54PM

    Sounds like a wonderful day.

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Loving Myself Challenge: Day 2!

Saturday, January 19, 2013


I'm post-call and EXHAUSTED. So, I'm going to get to the point.

1/19/2013 [ I randomly almost wrote 1/19/2003 --- Time warp! LOL]

1. I did NOT overindulge on coffee while on my overnight shift. I used water and 1 cup of tea to help myself stay awake. I also did not eat the FREE Goldfish, cookies, peanut butter, or crackers at work!
2. I came home and cleaned my house for 2 hours after getting off work. :-D It is spic and span and now I can relax the rest of the weekend! I'm off until Tuesday!
3. I did an hour of activity and got a good workout in
4. Took time to take an amazing bath and had a great nap!!!!
5. Going to spend some time with my friends tonight!

I am being extra nice to myself since I worked hard last night. Hope you all have a great day!

Enjoy the Martin Luther King, Jr. Weekend! Take some time to be nice to yourself... AND someone else. Spread joy. Practice fairness and equality.... and as I like to say, ' Be kinder than necessary. Everyone you meet is fighting a difficult battle.'

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REMEMBER2BME 2/2/2013 12:07PM

    Killer blog. I am way behind. I thought I subscribed but was not getting alerts. I am glad I friended you because I was able to go to my friends today and find you. Have a great weekend!

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BUTRFLY_FREEDOM 1/22/2013 11:28PM

    Cleaning after working a long shift? That's awesome haha!

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SKEEWEE2MEK 1/20/2013 10:45PM

    You just convinced me to take a bath. It's sooo hard to carve out time to be nice to ourselves emoticon emoticon

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DONNA5281 1/20/2013 8:50AM

  Great blog, thank you for sharing.

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Enjoy your time off from work.

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OJ_2_OK 1/20/2013 7:50AM

    Great job and thank u for that last reminder

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JUDITHANNIE 1/20/2013 7:49AM

    Great blog have a good weekend

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SUGAR0814 1/19/2013 10:43PM

    You have a great weekend too! Glad you made it through your shift!! emoticon

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123ELAINE456 1/19/2013 10:43PM

  Great Job. God Bless You and Have a Beautiful Weekend. Take Care.

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SUNSET09 1/19/2013 10:43PM

  emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon You are doing a great service to yourself and others. Good for you as if you take care of yourself, you're fit and capable of taking care of others. If it is to be, it must start with me! emoticon

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TEDYBEAR2838 1/19/2013 10:26PM

    Well said, thank you

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JULESJET 1/19/2013 10:19PM

    Good job!
Have a wonderful weekend!

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SEEINGCLEARLY53 1/19/2013 8:52PM

    emoticon Keep Loving!...Have a great weekend!

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Loving Myself Challenge: 21 days

Saturday, January 19, 2013

First, I would like to THANK EVERYONE who read my blog!! However, I got nominated for Popular Blog Award... it was SUCH a surpirse. I didn't think anyone actually read this blog anyway! lol. I just write things down because I like writing and being able to go back and read where my mind was at a certain part of my journey!

I am on one of my 24 hour shifts ( I am a doctor for those people who asked in the previous blog who don't know me. :) and am taking a quick minute to say THANK YOU for taking the time to read my blog. THANK YOU for your suggestions/tips/comments. :-) I LOVE SparkPeople! ... That award ranks up there with my becoming a SparkPeople Motivator! lol

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But, back to the point of this quick blog.

I have been doing this in my own journal at home when I can remember, but I figured... accountability never hurts. So, I am going to but it out there for you guys to see for the next 21 days.

This Loving Myself Challenge will lead me close to Valentine's Day, I'm guessing? :-) The goal is to find FIVE things I'm proud of each day and take the time to recognize that I've done something well. The recognizing the "GOOD " that I've done wil be the art/evidence of loving myself. I've found in the past that knowing I need 5 things I'm proud of by the end of the day, usually gets me up and moving and doing something so I can write it down.

Not that I'm not already active and working hard and you know.... busy.

But, this helps me refocus at the end of the day and try to give credit where it is due.

The 5 things I write down can be: physical exercise, eating well, doing something nice for someone else, or basically anything I want. NOTHING is too small to put on your list.

NOW, if anyone is still reading from yesterday... want to join in!? If not, I'll still be here doing the challenge until someone decides to check back in :-)

Yesterday was the official start for me... But I guess it's today now? I'm not sure, I've been up all night. :) (a little humor to get me through the LAST 4 hours at work. 20 down, 4 to go. )

1. I woke up early and realized work had been delayed due to the weather. Instead of going back to sleep as I had originally planned, I jumped on my treadmill and did a quick 30 min run. Then, I got dressed and headed to work.
2. I logged all of my food. Even the little extras I hadn't expected to eat. wasn't many :)
3. I wore my FitBit Pedometer ALL day and purposely tried to take the long way while walking around the hospital.
4. I walked > 15,000 steps before midnight. The FitBit automatically resets at midnight so all of my latest steps are counting towards today now. ;-)
5. HMMMM.... I have to come up with one last thing. Well, I took the time to talk to a young lady at work who looked particulary stressed out and tried to brighten her day a bit.

BONUS- ** I ate fruit for my snacks.
(OK, I'll stop being a show-off. I logged an extra one. ;-) Maybe I get Extra credit love today since I'm working so hard!? emoticon emoticon emoticon )

See! That wasn't anything spectacular and probably not life changing. But, I bet if you give yourself some Self-Love for the next 3 weeks, and recognize how well you are really doing.... you will be EVEN stronger and ready to take on this weight loss *healthy living* challenge we are on.

Can't give away what you don't have. Want love, give it (to yourself), then to others! Want acceptance, give it (to yourself), THEN to others!

Break is over. Later Sparkies!

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LILY_SPARK 2/3/2013 8:19PM

    I just found you -- what a great idea! I think I'll come up with something similar for myself. I'm in need of some motivation and positivity is MOTIVATION :)

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BUTRFLY_FREEDOM 1/22/2013 11:26PM

    Hi! Just found you and your blog, and I absolutely love this challenge! And it makes me want to do it to! I'll start tomorrow.

P.S. I also run a motivation blog that's not on SP (link is on my profile if interested) and I think my readers on FB and G+ might enjoy this challenge. Would you mind if I borrowed the idea to use in February?

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REMEMBER2BME 1/20/2013 4:02PM

    Love this!

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JSTETSER 1/19/2013 5:55PM

    Great post! Thank you for visiting my post and leaving a comment today!
I added you as my Spark Friend today!

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THESLIMMERME1 1/19/2013 5:24PM

    emoticon I have been trying to do something like this too - so I feel like I have accomplished something for the day...one of the challenges of going from Full time work to full time retirement!
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TEDYBEAR2838 1/19/2013 4:40PM

    Having a plan is the best!

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123ELAINE456 1/19/2013 3:58PM

  I Love Your Blogs. Will have to think about Your Love Challenge for Feb. You are Doing a Teriffic Job. Keep It Up. God Bless You and Have a Delightful Fun Day. Take Care. Congratulations on Your 21 Days Too and being Nominated For POPULAR BLOG AWARD. You Deserve It. WOOHOO.

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NELLIEC 1/19/2013 3:39PM

    It starts with God loving us, and we have to accept it. Once we accept it, we can begin loving ourselves and loving others.

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DONNA5281 1/19/2013 1:37PM

  Great blog. I love your goals.
I think I will try this next month but I will write it in my note book.

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REBBYREB99 1/19/2013 10:52AM

    I love your goals. You can't give to others what you do not have yourself. So everyone needs to tell themselves everyday how important you are and your life has a purpose. I do not think people really realize how meaningful it would be if the next time you are standing in line at the grocery store and that clerk is looking like she/he is having a bad day that you smile and tell them what a great job they are doing. Look how it makes yourself feel when someone pays you a compliment?

Ok..so I won't go on and I will just say that I love your blog. Thank you and I am excited for you and your 21 day goal. I too have a goal to lose 15 pounds by February 20th where I will meet my 4 high school girlfriends in Vegas. It is now going on 2 weeks of my challenge and I am planning on meeting it with the help of people on here. emoticon

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STEVIEBEE569 1/19/2013 10:50AM

    This is a great challenge! I'm doing a Love Myself Challenge in February. I like the idea of writing 5 things you're proud of on a daily basis! Much success to you with your challenge!

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ANGHARAD3 1/19/2013 4:32AM

  Great blog. Good luck with your challenge.

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What I've learned so far... Tips, Lessons 2013

Thursday, January 17, 2013

Hey guys,

I'm taking some time to briefly write down what I've learn so far this year and what I think will help me reach my goals. This may be helpful to you, but it may not. Either way, I am going to try to document my journey so I can have a set of guidelines to follow.

1. I have got to MAKE time to eat healthy. For me, this includes going to the grocery store at least once a week. I don't like grocery shopping and I work so much I generally grab food to go at least 4-5x/week. I choose healthier foods sometimes but still.
-Solution: Pick a day for grocery shopping. Make a list of foods I can eat regularly, memorize the list and get a routine going.
- Once a week sit down and think of a "menu"
- I cook really well, I just am so busy in residency that I may have to Batch cook twice a week and add side items on the in between days

2. If I have healthy foods, I WILL EAT THEM. If given a choice I always eat healthier foods like fruit/veggies. For instance if I am at a breakfast and there are fried things, donuts, bagels, fruits, eggs, etc. I will likely eat the fruit and lighter items. But, if I'm home and nothing is available I will go to the fastfood joint and get something quick.
- when I go grocery shopping, buy healthy foods.
- have them available, so the choice is easier

3. I love working out. This has always been the case. I will try to workout 3 mornings a week so I can get extra energy and feel "accomplished" before the day starts. I workout pretty much every day, sick or not. I take breaks when I need to but try to stay active.
- I am wearing a Fitbit pedometer to push myself on the days I don't want to do an official workout.
- This is a strength of mine. :)

4. I have GOT to get sleep at night. About once a week I have to work a full 24 hour shift. That means I get no sleep. That is non-negotiable. But, on the other nights I can go to bed at a decent time and then I'll feel well rested and can get up and exercise.

5. If I plan my meals ahead of time AND pack a lunch, I will better be able to control my diet. I have a hard time sticking to my meal plans. I do not have an issue with OVEREATING , I very rarely eat more than half of my meal especially if I go out. But I recently learned in November/Dec that I have several hormonal issues that are going to make it more difficult for me to lose weight. Therefore, I can't keep eating how I used to AND I need to be proactive about it.

6. Before I eat, I have to think. I do not want to go through this year working on my goals EVERY DAY and never get there. So while I can return to eating foods that are not entirely healthy as a treat or occasionally, I do need to limit these things now. I used to be addicted to french fries, I am not anymore. But, I do not have to eat french fries EVERY time I get a craving... I know what they taste like. They will taste the same. And, if I am planning my meals and I really want them I can put them in the meal plan for the next day.

7. I need to eat every 3-4 hours. When I did this consistently last time I tried to lose weight, it worked! I felt better. My body gets hungry on schedule anyway so I may as well do what it wants. :)

8. Drink water. I don't enjoy sodas juices etc. I have them occasionally but always opt for the lower/diet version. I usually stick to water. Working on drinking unsweet tea and coffee with less sugar.

I may keep my sugared coffee in the morning and use splenda if I drink another cup later in the day.

OK, that's all I have so far. I am working on losing the next 5 lbs. :) Hope you all are doing well. Have you learned anything new that works for you?

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LBRAUN5 8/12/2013 12:03PM

  A lot of great ideas and good reminders for all of us. Thanks for sharing! Hope you lost that 5 pounds and are moving along well on your journey.

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SUPERSYLPH 7/18/2013 11:47AM

    I get hungry every 3-4 hours also.

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    Thanks for sharing. emoticon

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WHITEANGEL4 2/16/2013 1:33AM

    Great blog thanks for sharing

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    Thanks emoticon

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    emoticon I also have to eat every 3 to 4 hours or else start feeling sick and weak.

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HYATTI1 1/30/2013 5:50PM

    Nice plan....looks like you put a lot of thought into it. I think if you stick to it you will do fine. I wish you luck and good health.


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TMCK-40 1/25/2013 4:30PM

  This is great! Awesome keep blogging

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EMILYDOODLE 1/24/2013 8:43PM

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FIRECOM 1/24/2013 3:56PM

    Words to live by and I thank you for sharing.

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MYRNA929 1/23/2013 11:08AM

    Good for you!!!! Keep it up

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NLYR20 1/22/2013 10:21AM

  emoticon Great List.

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KJDINSC 1/22/2013 9:22AM

    You've got a tough schedule, but you've also got a plan! Keep it up and good luck!

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KARENLEIGH32 1/21/2013 3:24PM

    Good tips! I need to follow them as well.

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JEANETTESTING 1/21/2013 12:45PM

    Thank you for sharing your tips. Gives me something to think about!

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MISSYMOOSE71 1/21/2013 9:27AM

    Great tips for everyone! Thanks for sharing!

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WILSONWR 1/21/2013 8:37AM

    Great ideas - thanks for sharing!

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NEWTINK 1/21/2013 12:06AM

    You are a very wise lady ... application is the necessity of this battle .. just follow through and you will get there ... emoticon

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TLGRNT 1/20/2013 5:14PM

  Great blog, very informative.

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LSIG14 1/20/2013 4:25PM

    Great do-able goals. I need to make myself go grocery shopping too. I do love to cook but hate shopping so much that I often eat out because there's nothing in the house to eat! Thanks for sharing!

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REMEMBER2BME 1/20/2013 4:00PM

    Great blog. Thank you.

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FRABBIT 1/20/2013 1:50PM

  Good ideas!

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BSLMKH1954 1/20/2013 12:14PM

    Thank you for the great Ideas. Planning meals would make it easier to eat healthy and lose weight so I need to do that myself. emoticon

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TEACHEROF4TH 1/20/2013 12:07PM

    Awesome! Thank you!

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TPETRIE 1/20/2013 11:50AM

  Thanks for sharing.

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    Love this! Thank you for sharing! emoticon

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REENIE131 1/19/2013 10:32PM

    Great plan!

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JOYFULSONG45 1/19/2013 10:15PM

    It sounds like you have an excellent plan. I know you can do it!

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ANGIELEWIS023 1/19/2013 10:08PM

  Sounds like you have a great plan!

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J2740LOU 1/19/2013 9:34PM

    Great Blog! Great advice! You have really learned a lot and put it into action! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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SNAPPEAS 1/19/2013 9:04PM

    Great plan.

Coffee and tea without sugar is a goal I'd like to achieve ,too.For a while i used artificial sweetners but i thought to myself that perhaps my body doesn't know how to process these chemicals .So,decided to try to decrease the amount of real sugar .

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FIRECOM 1/19/2013 7:37PM

    Eating the right foods is not as large a problem as getting in the fitness minutes. I appreciate your comments and I will take them into my program. Thank you.

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MELAFYAIYAI 1/19/2013 3:48PM

    Many people (myself included) set new goals for the year, but I love the way you did it (at least partly) in response to things you have learned in the past year. Need to consider doing that myself ...

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JAI_COVEY 1/19/2013 12:18PM

    Very inspiring! I'm working on my goals as well. Trust me, I have a hard time remembering to pack a lunch and snacks. I definitely know that feeling. emoticon emoticon emoticon

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CM_GARDNER78 1/19/2013 11:30AM

    I think your next 5 will be gone in a flash with these goals!! Awesome! Love your background pic too!! This is encouraging - if you can do this during residency, anyone can do it!! :-) Thanks!

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SUSIEMT 1/19/2013 10:48AM

    Good job! Keep it up!

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PROVERBS31JULIA 1/19/2013 10:03AM

    Very insightful! Thanks!!

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Bloom where you are planted

Tuesday, January 08, 2013

lovelylynee.blogspot.com Check it out!

I blogged about how to use what you've got. :-) If you have time, please read! It may be helpful. If not, thanks for stopping by!

Cheers :)

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    Yay! Thank you Soror!! Hope you had a great Founders Day!!

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    Great blog! Loved it Soror!

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