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Disappointed, but I'll survive :-)

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Just wanted to vent real quick. But I'm going to keep it brief. Basically, I just got rejected. and it hurts... but I'll be strong, feel the pain, and get over it. :) At least he was finally honest enough to say what I had been thinking, he just wants to be friends... (he says "I just want to be friends... right now, you know until I figure out everything... all the things in my head. " OH and you know, he would prefer if I didn't date anyone else.... but he knows he can't control that.)

emoticon Um, get out of here. I may not be what you want. I may not be what you're looking for or light your fire... but I am not a toy. If you want to be only friends now, that's fine, but you'd better recognize, we will only be friends later too. I'm not gonna wait around until you decide to "settle" on me. I'm a good person and I deserve someone who wants me with no reservations.

So that's my rant. And I'm done. Off to shed a few tears and move on. Have a good night. :)

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SCHENPOSSIBLE 9/25/2011 10:00PM

    Totally have been there. Moving on is hard but it feels so good when you finally do become indifferent towards this person. Any guy should be happy and proud to call you his girl. You're a real catch. Keep your head high. You'll find your sweetheart who will treat you like the queen you are!

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TRACYZABELLE 9/14/2011 7:57AM

    It is not the end of the world and as beautiful as you are, it is his loss!

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AGENTMNA 9/13/2011 8:15AM

    We've ALL been there!!! Keep your head up and NEVER settle. When he realizes his mistake, he'll be back (they usually always come back) but stay strong!!! I have a situation currently where Mr.'Let's Just Be Friends' has recently resurfaced...I think you said it best, "Um, get out of here." LOL!!!

Hate to quote Beyonce, but her lyrics seem perfect for your situation (sing it to that loser in your head, and he's definitely a loser because he lost out on you!)

"Thank God you blew it
Thank God I dodged the bullet
I'm so over you
So baby good lookin' out

I wanted you back
I'm so through with that
Cause honestly you turned out to be the best thing I never had
You turned out to be the best thing I never had
And I'm gon' always be the best thing you never had
Oh I bet it sucks to be you right now"


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JOURNEII 9/13/2011 6:53AM

    I sending you a virtual hug. You are right you deserve someone who adores you not someone willing to settle.

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GONABFIT 9/13/2011 5:07AM

    Thank you ALL for your encouragement. I didn't expect such a response but I really appreciates all you Sparkies!

HUGS! emoticon

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LUSCIOUSJ00 9/12/2011 7:54PM

    Shooooooot, doesn't sound like HE may not be the one YOU want. More importantly, YOU shouldn't settle. Stay up and do you. Keep your head up and everything else is sure to fall into place.

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LILSHINE 9/12/2011 7:38PM

    Yes you're totally right you are definitely worthy! Hang in there and it's best that you know the truth now, than later. Hugs and know that there is someone out there just for you.

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MELLYBEANS0919 9/12/2011 1:40PM

    Aw sorry. Bravo on taking care of yourself. emoticon

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HEALTHYSLIM2 9/12/2011 12:14PM

    Well-spoken and you are so wise. Stick to your guns on this one and you WILL meet the "right" kind of guy who appreciates you right now, for exactly who you are.
Let yourself feel the hurt and then move on, just like you said. The best is yet to come!

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FITGIRL15 9/12/2011 11:23AM

    Girl! Your blog hits home with me! Don't let any man (or woman for that matter) make you feel like a toy! Who do these people think they are?

You ARE a great person and you DO deserve someone that loves you, no reservations! Kick this jerk face to the curb and thank your lucky stars that now you get the opportunity to find someone SO MUCH BETTER!!!

But the tears first are a must! Get all your emotions out, healing will come, in time!
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SPARKLE1908 9/12/2011 9:56AM

    Yep..his loss for sure...you know you are worth more than being a "consolation" prize....he'll be the one living with regret!!!

I know you will move on from this..that is what YOU do!!!

Love ya sis!!

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MONIQUE1908 9/12/2011 8:19AM

    HUGS! And you are absolutely right about not waiting. Why would you want to be someone's option? No way. You are worth far more than that.

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RASCALSMOMMA 9/12/2011 7:56AM

    YOu WILL survive. Tears and pain go quick when you know yourself hon. HUGS until then. Laurie

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MARINEMAMA 9/12/2011 5:40AM

    Hugs....It is his loss girl.....

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CHRIS138 9/11/2011 10:54PM

    It's his loss. Don't let this take you off your path to your goal of taking care of yourself. emoticon

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LAMARY9 9/11/2011 9:59PM

    I'm sorry. Healing time. emoticon

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    I'm sorry! :(

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A day of recovery:

Tuesday, September 06, 2011

I was on call from 11 am on Mon- 4 am Tues. So I slept in a little today and woke up and decided I could use today to relax.

I ventured out to Borders and took advantage of their 60-80% off sale. I bought 5 books and 3 audio books for $45. I have a book buying problem. lol I should just use the library more but I really like to own my books. :-) I also like the library. I seem to be addicted to reading.

As we speak, I am sitting on my recliner with my books and am going to take some time to rejuvenate my mind and prepare for the week ahead. I will be reading my fitness magazines and new books today, had a good cup of coffee and am letting my mind be free.

Oh and to update you, I stayed active yesterday while I was on call. I walked around the hospital instead of calling/sending an email and made a few extra trips back in forth for the exercise. In the span of a 16+ hour shift I'm sure I squeezed 30+ mins of walking in. (not to mention I actually counted more than 30 mins). :-D

Stay active my friends!

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TRACYZABELLE 9/7/2011 6:12AM

    I am trying to get caught up on responding to blogs that I have been "saving" for later-- I am on again tonight so I will continue then-- just about 125 saved to do!

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KJOHNSON011 9/7/2011 1:14AM

    wow great! im going to go 2 check out some things as well

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NELLIEC 9/7/2011 12:38AM

    A combination of relaxing and getting some exercise sounds great!

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Quick pic update

Thursday, September 01, 2011

Just got done with a spin workout and decided to take a picture.

September goal:

30 mins of exercise daily. Only exception = being on call.

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MOMSLIM 9/26/2011 8:43AM


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EVASTEPHEN 9/8/2011 2:33PM

    Great picture!

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MAGGIEX3UK 9/3/2011 2:06PM

    You look awesome, not to mention you have a great figure. Keep up the good work!!

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KJOHNSON011 9/3/2011 1:50PM

    wow u look gr8!

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MELLYBEANS0919 9/2/2011 12:44PM

    You look fantastic!!

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    Your pica always look great! I carry my weight in my stomach, so it's never flattering to show that section for me, LOL, even at my smallest...unless I am holding it in.

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TRACYZABELLE 9/1/2011 11:32PM

    Looking great! Keep up the good work.. I am working on my September goals-- I want to get rid of at least 10 pounds a month-- I CAN do it~

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Saturday: Soul rejuventation

Saturday, August 27, 2011

Day 4 of logging. I get my gift tomorrow. :)

I saw this quote on my page and found it inspiring. Even though it's been on my page for years, I figured I would share.

Rest but never quit. Even the sun has a sinking spell each evening. But it always rises the next morning. At sunrise, every soul is born again."

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SWEETLIPS 8/29/2011 5:59AM

    I love this quote - saving it!!!

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SCHENPOSSIBLE 8/28/2011 10:46PM

    I Love that quote! I'm adding it to my inspiration chest. emoticon

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Thankful Thursday: Reasons why I'm proud

Thursday, August 25, 2011

So today was a long exhausting day for me. I only have 5 mins to write this blog LITERALLY. I am on a time limit. I gave myself 10 mins to journal and 5 mins to blog.

I have been tired since I got off work. But I decided that somethings MUST be done so I used my time to clean a little, catch up on work that needed to be done this week and of course get at LEAST 7 hours of sleep.

So now I can quickly tell you the reasons why I'M PROUD of myself today.
emoticon* though I am busy, I have NEVER given up on my goal to lose weight and BE HEALTHY.

emoticon* I may not be able to squeeze in much but I try to do something each day. like today I did 20 squats before jumping into bed, a 30 second plank hold for my abs and 5 mins on my spin bike. in the GRAND scheme of things, that was nothing... but to me that was a statement of DEDICATION even when it has to be a little. and I'm sick... so I need to learn to take it easy on myself. I am planning some AM exercise though.

emoticon*I chose a healthy lunch at the cafeteria. - small piece of chicken marsala, cabbage, and carrots

emoticon*I passed on coldstone icecream even though I was right outside the store and wanted it. And I chose not to eat in intentionally! MY goals are MORE important

emoticon * I have been recording my food and exercise for 2 days. 3 more days til I get my first mini gift!

emoticon* I set several mini goals to get the ball rolling on this lasting weight loss and I'm actually completing each step.

** I made time to journal and blog despite an already jam packed day, being sick, and being exhausted. emoticon emoticon

Time is up.
Night Sparkies! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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SPARKLE1908 8/26/2011 10:39AM

    Focused and dedicated to the max!!! Very proud of you sis...keep up the good work!

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HEATHERALENE 8/25/2011 11:54PM

Loving the determination! Keep it up!

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INA_SONKA 8/25/2011 11:03PM

    Great job! You are inspiring; we can't all sit around expecting that someday we'll all of a sudden have a bunch of time, money, etc. to finally focus exclusively on our goals. We need to fit it in NOW. If it is important, it has to make it in there somehow.

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