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WHERE DO I START WITH THIS VERY BAD DAY!

Thursday, November 05, 2009

WELL THIS MORNING I GOT UP DID MY EXERCISES AND WALKING! I TRIED AND TRIED TO GET ON MY COMPUTER AND IT SAID THE MODEM WAS NOT WORKING PROPERLY WELL I AM GLAD TO SAY I GOT IT RUNNING ANY ONE WHO KNOW ME KNOW THAT I DON'T KNOW MUCH ABOUT COMPUTER SO THAT MADE ME FEEL GOOD.
THEN FOR THE PAST WEEK OR REALLY TWO WEEKS ON OF MY SO I THOUGHT FRIENDS HAS BEEN DISTANT FORM ME!SO I HAVE ASKED THREE TIME WHAT'S WRONG AND IT SEEM LIKE YOU ARE JUST NOT TALKING TO ME SHE HAS SAID NOTHING!WELL TODAY I WENT INTO HER OFFICE AND SAID OK THERE IS DEFIANTLY SOMETHING WRONG NOW WHAT IS IT? SHE SAID IT'S YOU YOU ARE A NEGATIVE PERSON AND I DON'T NEED THEM IN MY LIFE RIGHT NOW. A GIRL GAVE HER WORK TO DO SINCE SHE WON'T BE HERE FOR A COUPLE OF DAY'S I SAID OH ARE YOU GOING AWAY SHE SAID VERY MEAN YES! I SHUT HER DOOR AND SAID NOW TELL ME EVERYTHING YOU ARE FEELING!SHE SAID YOU ARE ALWAYS TALKING BAD ABOUT PEOPLE AND HAVE NOTHING NICE TO SAY AND YOUR LANGUAGE ALSO. I SAID DON'T HOLD BACK PLEASE TELL ME EVERYTHING! I SAID YOU USE TO COME INTO MY OFFICE ON A DAILY BASIS COMPLAINING AND I WOULD LISTEN TO YOU! SHE SAID WELL IT EASY TO FOLLOW SOMEONE WHEN THAT'S ALL THAT THEY DO AND YOU END UP DOING IT ALSO AND YOU HAVE BEEN DOING IT FOR THE EIGHT YEARS THAT I HAVE BEEN HERE. I SAID TO HER I AM VERY,VERY SORRY IF YOU FELL THAT WAY I NEVER MEANT TO HURT YOU IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM AND YOU KNOW WHERE MY OFFICE IS IF AT ANYTIME YOU WANT TO TALK THE DOOR IS ALWAYS OPEN FOR YOU AGAIN I AM REALLY SORRY YOU WILL NEVER HEAR ME SAY ANYTHING TO YOU AGAIN.SHE SAID AND YES I AM GOING AWAY FOR A FEW DAY'S AND YOU ALWAYS PUT ME DOWN ABOUT THAT TOO. I SAID LIKE WHAT? SHE SAID I HAVE SAID SEVERAL TIME I AM LEAVING HERE AND MOVING SOMEWHERE ELSE AND YOU SAY I BELIEVE IT WHEN I SEE IT YOU WILL NEVER LEAVE HERE! I SAID YES I HAVE SAID THAT AND RIGHT TO YOUR FACE MEANING YOU ARE HERE 8 YEARS I AM HERE 11 YEARS WE AREN'T GOING ANYWHERE! I NEVER MEANT YOU ARE STUPID OR YOU ARE NEVER GOING TO FIND A PLACE OR JOB SOMEWHERE ELSE IT'S JUST SOMETHING THAT YOU AGAIN ARE TAKING THE WRONG WAY.
I WAS IN THE HALLWAY CRYING AND A FRIEND CAME OUT AND SAID SHE HAS TO BE HAPPY WITH HERSELF FIRST AND THERE IS MORE TO IT THAN YOU KNOW. CAROL ALSO SAID YOU WERE THERE FOR ME WHEN MY DAD DIED AND I WOULD HAVE NEVER GOTTEN THRU IT WITHOUT YOU. AND YOU ARE ALWAYS ASKING IF YOU CAN HELP MY BILLING DEPT. AND ANY ONE YOU CAN YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON AND DON'T FORGET IT. AS STRONG AS I AM ON THE OUTSIDE ON THE INSIDE I AM A MESS. SHE NOW HAS ME THINKING I AM A BAD PERSON!
IF I DON'T POST ABOUT IT I WILL GO OUT OF MY MIND!EVERYONE HERE TALKS ABOUT THE BAD DAY'S THEY HAVE AND WE ALL COMFORT EACH OTHER AND DON'T HOLD IT IN OR WE WOULD GO CRAZY! I REALLY DON'T KNOW ANYONE WHO SITS AND SAY'S NOTHING!
WELL SO SORRY TO RANT AND RAVE! BUT IT FELLS GOOD TO GET IT OUT. AND I WILL NOT LET THIS GET THE BEST OF ME I WILL NOT EAT THE WRONG THINGS AT ALL I WILL EAT GOOD THINGS! I HAVE APPLES HERE AND A BANANA NO CANDY FOR ME NO WAY! THANKS IN ADVANCE FOR READING MY BLOG AND HUGS TO ALL I LOVE YOU GUY'S TO PIECES!

POSITIVES:GOD
A LOVING FAMILY
A HOME
A GOOD CAR
A GOOD DOG HARLEY
A BATHROOM THAT IS ALMOST DONE(GETTING PAINTED TODAY)
A JOB
MORE GOOD FRIENDS THAN BAD
A GREAT SPARK TEAM
GOOD SPARK FRIENDS!

  
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MAURIZIA 11/6/2009 12:32PM

    CHAR, I VOTE WITH WOWETOO...CONTINUE TO SHOW HER KINDNESS OF SOME KIND. TRY TO FOCUS ON THE FACT THAT SHE FELT SAFE ENOUGH TO TELL YOU WHAT SHE BELIEVES TO BE TRUE...WHETHER IT IS OR NOT. YOUR GIFT IS TO HAVE ENCOURAGED HONESTY TO FLOW FROM HER...SO YOU SEE, THERE IS A POSITIVE SIDE TO THIS.

MY MOM ALWAYS TAUGHT ME THAT A SMALL ACT OF KINDNESS CAN CHANGE SOMEONE'S HEART. I ONCE HAD A FRIEND WHO SAID THE SAME THING TO ME MANY YEARS AGO...THAT SHE WAS CHOOSING TO SURROUND HERSELF ONLY WITH POSITIVE PEOPLE...SO SHE WANTED ME TO UNDERSTAND THAT IF I WERE COMPLAINING ABOUT ANYTHING, NOT TO CALL HER. SO I CHOSE NOT TO...BUT CONTINUED TO SEND CARDS ON HAPPY OCCASIONS. THO' WE DIDN'T RENEW OUR FRIENDSHIP, I AT LEAST FEEL GOOD ABOUT MY CHOICES. SHE HAS SINCE MOVED AND I DON'T HAVE HER NEW ADDRESS. THAT'S OKAY. NOT EVERYONE WE MEET IS MEANT TO BE IN OUR LIVES FOREVER.

HUGS...LOVE YOU!

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MARLA7 11/5/2009 7:39PM

    CHAR - YOU HANDLED THAT LADY SO WELL. I DON'T KNOW IF I COULD'VE BEEN AS KIND AS YOU WERE. LIKE OTHERS HAVE SAID..... SHE MUST BE FRUSTRATED WITH HER LIFE OR SOMETHING.... SO SHE TRIED TO MAKE YOU MISERABLE ALSO.

I'M SO PROUD OF YOU.... HOW YOU HANDLED IT WITH GRACE & KINDNESS. YOU ARE SO FULL OF LOVE & COMPASSION GIRLFRIEND. OUR TEAM WOULD NEVER BE THE SAME WITHOUT OUR CHAR.

LOVE YOU BUNCHES..... MARLA

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WOWEETOO 11/5/2009 2:16PM

    love one another...even when they are not lovable..what can you do for this person??? it matters not what has been said and done..what can you do for this person that will make you feel better and make her wonder about the things she said the have been said reach out and do some unexpected kindness (as she knows what she said and it will be totally unexpected for sure) the kindness will grow in your own heart..and the rest doesn't matter the only thinkg that matters is that wwe go into the world and spread love and kindness as the leaves filter off the trees and land gently on the earth..you can do it my friend
love and hugs and go in peace and give unto the world
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MOMMA_BEAR_69 11/5/2009 1:57PM

    HEY CHAR, YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON WITH SO MUCH GOOD YOU ARE DOING FOR OTHERS ALL THE TIME. OBVIOUSLY SHE HAS MORE PROBLEMS THAN YOU KNOW...MAYBE SHE REALLY IS LEAVING THIS TIME AND IS AFRAID OF MOVING FORWARD...AND MAYBE SHE IS JUST JEALOUS OF YOU AND ALL THAT YOU REPRESENT. ANYWAY HER PROBLEMS ARE NOT YOUR PROBLEMS. STAY AWAY FROM HER AND HER NEGATIVITY. IT DOESN'T SOUND LIKE SHE WOULD APPRECIATE YOUR HELP ANYWAY. DON'T LET HER NEGATIVITY GET YOU DOWN. STAY POSITIVE AND CONTINUE DOING THE BEST YOU CAN.
BLESSINGS AND HUGS,
HELEN
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DEUCE119 11/5/2009 12:48PM

    CHAR YOU KNOW AND WE KNOW THAT THE LADY IS BATS! NO ONE IS MORE SUPPORTIVE THEN YOU. LIKE YOU SAID YOU ALL HAVE PROBLEMS AND EVERYONE IS ALWAYS THERE FOR THE OTHERS. SHE MUST BE HAVING A BAD TIME AND FORGOT THAT YOU ARE FRIENDS. THERE IS ONE IN EVERY CROWD. I HAVE AN OLD FRIEND ON FACEBOOK WHO WE SEPARATED YEARS AGO , STARTING TALKING AGAIN LAST YEAR AND THEN NOTHING. SHE STOPPED TALKING AGAIN. WE HAVE THE SAME FRIENDS ON FACEBOOK BUT WE ARE NOT FRIENDS. USUALLY I WOULD BE THE ONE TO GO TO HER , BUT NOT THIS TIME. I WILL NOT GIVE HER THE SATISFACTION. KEEP YOUR HEAD HELD HIGH AND WALK RIGHT BY. YOU HAVE NOTHING TO FEEL BAD ABOUT . emoticon emoticon

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MSALOETTE 11/5/2009 11:46AM

    Well Char welcome to the workworld! There are so many people who are truly NOT happy with themselves or their lives and they think that everyone else should be as miserable which allows them to feel better about their world. We have all had friends in our lives that have done this to us in fact some of us have had relatives do the same thing how sad is that. The best thing to do to these people is WALK AWAY with your head high knowing YOU can't change the way they feel and therefore don't waste your time trying go ahead and know you met the problem head on and it is all you can do for now in time she will realize her silly thoughts were unfounded and if she never does Char you didnt lose a friend at all. Think of this the same as the US government girl you can not make everyone think and feel the way you do. Unfortunately the people we work with daily have alot of influence in our lives and if we allow them they can sure make it miserable from time to time. YOU know the kind of friend and person you are and if you weren't you wouldn't have so many great friends here now would you? Chin up girlfriend it will be ok, remember to just hold that head high knowing YOU are a good person who has compassion and feelings and a love for life, keep control and MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY, her friendship certainly isn't the way to make yourself happy!!

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TUBBY44 11/5/2009 10:54AM

    HI CHAR, YOU ARE NOT A BAD PERSON AND DON'T LET ONE UPSET PERSON MAKE YOU THINK YOU ARE. SHE OBVIOUSLY HAS SOMETHING ELSE BOTHERING HER. EVERYBODY ELSE KNOWS WHAT A GOOD PERSON YOU REALLY ARE. SO DON'T LET ONE BRING YOU DOWN. RISE ABOVE IT AND SOAR WITH THE EAGLES.
HEY, THEY ARE ONE OF MY FAVORITE GROUPS,
DON'T LET HER GET YOU DOWN.
JERRY

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WELL THE TILE GUY'S ARE DONE

Wednesday, November 04, 2009

HI FRIEND THE TILE GUY'S ARE ALL DONE AND THE ELECTRICIAN IS ALSO ALL MY THREE LIGHTS ARE IN! SO NOW HUBBY IS DOING THE PAINTING OF THE CEILING AND TOP PART OF THE WALLS HE SAID HE WILL DO IT TOMORROW!YEAH AND THE PLUMBER IS COMING BACK TOMORROW TO PUT THE TOILET BACK IN YEAH NO MORE GOING UP AND DOWN TO THE BASEMENT DURING THE NIGHT.
I AM MAKING DINNER NOW AND THEN ONTO THE DISHES. WATCHING MY SOAP OPERA OF COARSE. AND ATE ALL MY FRUITS AND VEGGIES AND DRANK ALL MY WATER. DID MY EXERCISES AND WALKING FIRST THING THIS MORNING!
THANKS IN ADVANCE FOR READING MY BLOG.

POSITIVES:GOD
THE TILE GUYS ARE DONE
THE ELECTRICIAN IS DONE
A JOB
A HOME
A LOVING FAMILY
A GREAT SPARK TEAM
GOOD SPARK FRIENDS

  
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MOMMA_BEAR_69 11/5/2009 8:44AM

    Can't wait to see some pictures!!! WOOHOO on getting the job completed!!
Hugs,
Helen

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MAURIZIA 11/5/2009 6:07AM

    CHAR, JUST REMEMBER, THO', YOU ARE EARNING SOME STEPS BY USING THE DOWNSTAIRS BATHROOM! HAHAHAHAHA....

HEY, I DIDN'T THINK OF IT UNTIL NOW...YOU COULD HAVE USED THIS SO YOU WOULDN'T HAVE HAD TO GO DOWNSTAIRS! HAHAHAHAHA....

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MAMASALLYSOCKS 11/5/2009 4:42AM

    MooHoo!! We need picture's!

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PLEASED WITH THE TILE

Tuesday, November 03, 2009

YES FRIENDS I AM PLEASE WITH HOW FAR THE GUY'S GO TODAY!TILE IS ALL UP AND ALL O THE FLOOR ALSO NOW TOMORROW THEY HAVE TO DO THE GROUT! THEN PAINT THE CEILING AND TOP PART OF THE WALLS.THEN THE ELECTRICAL GUY HAS TO HOOK UP THE FAN AND LIGHTS IN THE TWO OTHER ROOMS!YEAH I AM LIKING IT IT LOOKS GOOD.
AND AS FOR ME I DID ALL MY EXERCISES AND WALKING ATE ALL MY FRUITS AND VEGGIES AND DRANK ALL MY WATER.I AM WATCHING MY SOAP OPERA NOW AND WASHING CLOTHES THEN I HAVE TO IRON THEM.

THANKS IN ADVANCE FOR READING MY BLOG.

POSITIVES:GOD A LOVING FAMILY
A GOOD DOG HARLEY
A GREAT SPARK TEAM
GOOD SPARK FRIENDS
A HOME
A JOB
A GOOD CAR
A BATHROOM COMING ALONG NICELY

  
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MAMASALLYSOCKS 11/4/2009 12:49PM

    MooHoo!!

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MOMMA_BEAR_69 11/4/2009 10:53AM

    SOUNDS LIKE IT IS ALL COMING TOGETHER FOR YOU. emoticon emoticon emoticon
HUGS, CHAR,
HELEN

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MAURIZIA 11/4/2009 7:36AM

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MAYLINGSNW 11/3/2009 7:28PM

    great going...hope all is well!!!!!!!!!!!!

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HUBBY KEEPS ADDING THINGS ON TO THE REMODELING

Monday, November 02, 2009

YES FRIEND YOU KNOW ALL I TALK ABOUT IS THIS REMODELING OF THE BATHROOM.WELL TODAY THE PLUMBER FINALLY SHOWED UP AND RAN NEW PIPE FOR THE TOILET AND FIXED THE EXTRA TOILET IN THE BASEMENT AND ALSO FIXED THE LEAK IN THE KITCHEN SINK AND THE SPRAYER WAS ALSO SHOT SO WE ARE IN BUSINESS THERE. THEN THE TILE GUY'S HAD TO RIP OUT THE ONE WALL AND HAD TO GO GET MORE DRY WALL AND SPACKELED IT IT IS STILL DRYING SO THEY CONTINUED WITH ANOTHER WALL SO NOW THE HAVE ONE MORE WALL PLUS THE WALL THEY RIPPED OUT AND THEN THE LAST WALL WHERE ALL THE FAUCETS ARE. AND OH COARSE THE FLOOR. WILL I EVER GET MY BATHROOM BACK?SO WE WENT TO LOWE'S AFTER I GOT OUT OF WORK TO TAKE BACK THE HARDY BOARD I GOT THE WRONG THICKNESS SO WE GOT THE RIGHT ONE NOW HUBBY WANTS A CEILING FAN WITH A LIGHT IN IT FOR THE BEDROOM WHILE THE GUY WILL BE IN THE ATTIC ANYWAYS CAUSE WE HAVE LAMPS RIGHT NOW AND NOT IN THE CEILING SO WE HAD TO PICK OUT THE FAN AND WE BROUGHT IT HOME BUT FORGOT THE ELECTRICAL BOX AND SWITCH HE HUBBY WILL GET THAT TOMORROW!MAN AM I TIRED ALL THE RUNNING AROUND!
SO WE ARE LATE EATING DINNER TONIGHT! IT IS ALMOST READY HE WANTED MEAT LOAF MY WAY SO HE PROBABLY WON'T EAT MUCH OF IT! HE CALLS IT ALL DIET FOOD I TRY AND SNEAK IT IN ONCE IN AWHILE MOST OF the E TIME HE DOES NOTICE!LOL
WELL I ATE ALL MY FRUITS AND VEGGIES AND DRANK ALL MY WATER AND WILL HAVE GONE OVER CALORIE A BIT I ADDED THEM IN ADVANCE!
THANKS IN ADVANCE FOR READING MY BLOG.

POSITIVES:GOD
A GOOD DOG HARLEY
LOVING FAMILY
A GREAT SPARK TEAM
GOOD SPARK FRIENDS
A JOB
A GOOD CAR
A BATHROOM COMING ALONG SLOW BUT GETTING THERE
GOT A NEW CEILING FAN TONIGHT

  
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MOMMA_BEAR_69 11/4/2009 10:52AM

    It sounds like a never ending project, but your are making some great progress. Ken always has lots of ideas but I am still waiting for our bathroom remodeling to begin. However ours has to be completed the same day or two as we only have one bathroom. lol Maybe we should just build an addition and put another bathroom in.
Actually not a bad idea.
Blessings and hugs,
Helen

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MAMASALLYSOCKS 11/3/2009 7:43AM

    AH, ya gota love the hubbies!

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MAURIZIA 11/3/2009 6:45AM

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WELL I THINK I HAVE IT!

Sunday, November 01, 2009

OK HERE WE GO AGAIN I WROTE A VERY LONG BLOG AND LOST IT DANG!
I HAVE BEEN STUCK FOR A VERY LONG TIME AT THE SAME WEIGHT SO I AM STARTING BY CHANGING MY EXERCISE ROUTINE STARTING TODAY!FOR A VERY LONG TIME I HAVE BEEN TRYING AND HOPE I HAVE IT RIGHT THIS TIME. IT TOOK ME FOREVER TO SLOW DOWN ON SUNDAY CAUSE IT IS SUPPOSE TO BE A DAY OF REST. SOMETHING MY FRIENDS KNOW I DON'T KNOW HOW TO DO VERY WELL BUT I AM TRYING! WITH TWO JOBS AND MY SCHEDULE SUNDAY IS THE ONLY WHOLE DAY I HAVE OFF FROM BOTH JOBS! SO I DO BOOT CAMP BY SPARK PEOPLE EVERYDAY AND I DO TWO OF THEM FOR A TOTAL OF 20 MINUTES ALONG WITH ALOT OF OTHER EXERCISE,SO STARTING TODAY I DON'T DO THE BOOT CAMP EXERCISE ANYMORE I AM SHAKING THINGS UP A BIT. SO NOW I DON'T DO ANY EXERCISE AT ALL ON SUNDAY WELL ONLY WHAT WALKING I GET IN AND THAT IS IT AND I TELL YA THIS IS A FIRST IN OVER TWO YEARS!
SO I GOT UP SHOWERED READ THE PAPER AND CAME HERE AND CHATTED AND DID MY SPARK POINTS AND DID ONE LOAD OF CLOTHES AND OUT THE DOOR TO GO FOOD SHOPPING CAME HOME HAD LUNCH AND WENT TO MY RECLINER WATCHED ONE SHOW FOR A HALF HOUR THEN MY DAUGHTER HEATHER CAME FOR LUNCH WE TALKED TILL SHE HAD TO GO BACK AND THEN WENT BACK TO MY RECLINER AND TRIED TO WATCH A SHOW THRU MY EYELIDS!LOL SO THERE YOU HAVE IT I REALLY LIKE THIS RELAXING BUT IT HAS TO BE WHEN NO ONE IS AROUND!LOL
NOW I AM GETTING DINNER READY WE ARE HAVING PORK ROAST!THANKS IN ADVANCE FOR READING MY BLOG.

POSITIVES:GOD
A LOVING FAMILY
MY DAUGHT STOPPED FOR LUNCH TODAY
DID A LOAD OF CLOTHES
GOT ALL MY THINGS READY FOR WORK TOMORROW
A JOB
A NICE RRELAXING DAY
A GOOD DOG HARLEY
A GREAT SPARK TEAM
GOOD SPARK FRIENDS

  
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MAURIZIA 11/2/2009 7:03AM

    CHAR? IS THAT YOU? WHO REALLY WROTE THIS BLOG??? HUH????

I'M SO GLAD THAT YOU HAVE FINALLY REALIZED YOU DO NEED A DAY OF REST...PLUS IT'S IMPORTANT FOR YOUR MUSCLES TO HEAL FROM THE EXERCISE YOU DO THE REST OF THE WEEK...

HUGS.

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MAMASALLYSOCKS 11/2/2009 4:31AM

    MooHoo!

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MOMMA_BEAR_69 11/1/2009 6:04PM

    CHAR, GLAD TO HEAR THAT YOU FINALLY HAD A DAY OF RELAXATION AND SPENT TIME ON JUST YOU. IT SHOULD BE TIME TO EAT...I SMELL YOUR PORK ROAST. YUMMY!! GREAT POSITIVES!
BLESSINGS AND HUGS,
HELEN

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