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THURSDAY 2/19/09

Thursday, February 19, 2009

WELL I GOT MY EXERCISE ALL DONE AND WALKING THIS MORNING!JOB NUMBER ONE WENT WELL!THEN UP TO JANICE SHE WAS QUIET AND SAID WHAT IS THIS IT WAS THE PAPER WORK I SENT FOR TO START UP ANY NEW PEOPLE WE CAN GET ONE OF WHICH I THOUGHT WAS MIKES WIFE!AND SHE SAID SHE IS NOT COMING! AND I SAID OH ARE YOU STAYING UP AND WAITING FOR MIKE TO COME HOME TO PUT YOU TO BED SHE SAID I DON'T KNOW WHAT HE IS GOING TO DO!I HAD A NOTE FROM HIM TO CALL HIM AFTER 600PM ON HIS CELL SO I AM DOING THAT RIGHT NOW HE SAID TO CALL HIM TO DISCUSS THE HOURS!SOUNDS LIKE HE MAY HAVE TOLD HER HE WOULD QUIT!SO WISH ME LUCK I AM CALLING NOW BE BACK IN A MINUTE!
OK I AM BACK!CALLED MIKE HE SAID I WON'T BE OUT ANY HOURS HIS WIFE PUT HER TO BED TWO NIGHTS TO HELP HIME OUT AND HE WENT DURING LUNCH SO WE ARE EVEN CAUSE SHE DID IT FOR NOTHING!OK I SAID SHE REALLY SHOULD GET PAID THE PAPER WORK CAME TODAY!OH WELL ANY WAY I SAID WE NEED ANOTHER PERSON CAUSE I CAN'T HELP YOU IF YOU GET SICK AND YOU CAN'T HELP ME CAUSE WE BOTH WORK OPISITE SHIFTS SO AN ADD NEEDS TO GO IN THE PAAPER!

WELL ALL I GO TOT SAY IS HE BETTER KEEP HIDS WORD AND AS SOON AS I GET THESE BILLS TAKEN CARE OF I AM OUUTA THERE!I CAN'T TAKE ANY MORE MY HEALTH IS AT STEAK HERE!
HE SAID HIS WIFE WORKED FOR HER 10 YEARS TO MUCH AND HE SAID SHE WILL NEVER GO BACK TO WORK FOR HER!

JANICE IS ASKING HOW HUBBY IS I SAID HE IS ANGRY ABOUT EVERYTHING THAT IS GOING ON!

WELL GOT TO GET MY IRONING DONE AND HIT THE HAY I FEEL LIKE THAT TRUCK RAN OVER ME AGAIN!IT'S ALL THE STRESS!


POSITIVES. A LOVING FAMILY!

SPARK FRIENDS!

A GREAT DOG HARLEY!

GOT ALL MY EXERCISE DONE!

DRANK ALL MY WATER!

ATE ALL MY VEGGIES AND FRUIT!

STAYED IN MY CALORIE RANGE!

AGOOD CAR!

  
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MAURIZIA 2/20/2009 2:35PM

    CHAR, I AM SO WORRIED ABOUT YOU AND ALL THIS STRESS BECAUSE IT IS NOT HEALTHY FOR YOU! NOW, YOU NEED TO FIND 5 MINUTES TO JUST HIDE SOMEPLACE AND TAKE A FEW DEEP BREATHS...IN....HOLD IT...OUT....IN...HOLD IT...OUT...OKAY???

HUGS,

MAURI

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BUFFALOGAL1952 2/19/2009 10:32PM

    CHAR...PLEASE TAKE A DEEP CLEANSING BREATH. I SURE HOPE EVERYTHING WORKS OUT AS PLANNED BECAUSE I AM WORRIED ABOUT YOU. SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE BURNING THAT CANDLE AT BOTH ENDS AND THAT IS NEVER GOOD. WOULD A PUNCHING BAG HELP WORK OFF SOME OF THAT PENT UP ENERGY? THINKING ABOUT YOU!
emoticon emoticon CLAUDIA

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DEUCE119 2/19/2009 10:06PM

    BREATHE!!!

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DAIRYNURSE 2/19/2009 8:56PM

    Char-sounds like you are getting things under control. If you need to hire another person that is what you should do. Yes you need to get this stress out of your life. Jane

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LINDIEMAE 2/19/2009 8:31PM

    You have to do what you have to do, and if you need a third person, an add is a start. People are loosing their jobs now so maybe Janice wants your hubby to put her to bed, who knows what is going on in that mind of her's. Get a good nights sleep tomorrow is another day.

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GOOD DAY TURNED BAD

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

YES TODAY STARTED OUT GOOD AS USUAL I GOT ALL MY EXERCISE IN AND DONE IN THE MORNING AND MY WALKING!IT WAS VERY BUSY AT WORK BUT THE DAY WENT WELL!GOT ALL MY WATER IN AND FRUITS AND VEGGIES STAYED IN MY CALORIE RANGE I DID REACH FOR A PIECE OF SUGAR FREE CAKE AS I WAS VERY EMOTIONAL WHEN I GOT HOME!

WHEN I WENT TO JANICE I HAD TO FILL OUT SOME PAPER NEEDED A PEN SO GRABBED THE CLIP BOARD WHERE THE PEN WAS AND WHEN I CLIPPED IT BACK ON MIKES TIME SHEET WAS ON THE TOP JANICE H AD HIM COME TO FEED HER LUNCH ALL WEEK AND WILL THE REST OF THE WEEK!SHE HAS X AMOUNT OF HOURS AND HE KNOWS WHAT SHE HAS SO HERE WE GO AGAIN I AM GETTING HOURS TAKEN OFF OF ME WHEN I HAVE MY BILLS ALREADY BUDGETED FOR THE REST OF THE MONTH I TOLD HER SHE WILL HAVE TO COME HOME EARLIER O SATURDAY CAUSE THERE WASN'T ENOUGH HOURS FOR HER TO STAY WITH ME TILL 400 I SAID DO YOU WANT TO STAY HOME ANYMORE? SHE SAID NO I WANT TO COME DOWN! SHE CAN'T HAVE IT BOTH WAY'S SHE SAID I WILL CALL FOR MORE HOURS I SAID NO WE SHOULD WORK WITH WHAT WE HAVE AND YOUR SISTER TOLD ME NO HOURS WOULD BE TAKEN OFF ME EVER AGAIN AND YOU DID IT TO ME AGAIN. NOW SHE DON'T KNOW WHAT SHE IS DOING BUT MIKE CERTAINLY DOES!THE LAST TIME HE DID THIS HE SAID SHE CAN USE THE HOURS WHEREVER SHE WANT TO!LIKE A SMART ###.I AM SO STRESSED RIGHT NOW I CAN'T EVEN TELL YOU. I HAVE BEEN LOOKING IN THIS PAPER FOR WORK ELSE WHERE BUT NOTHING YET!I SIT HERE CRYING MY EYES OUT BETWEEN THIS AND HUBBY LOOSING HIS JOB ANY DAY NOW I CAN'T TAKE MUCH MORE!

POSITIVES! A LOVING FAMILY!

JOB NUMBER ONE GOING WELL!

I STAYED IN MY CALORIE RANGE!

DRANK ALL MY WATER!

ATE ALL MY FRUITS AND VEGGIES!

A GOOD CAR!

GREAT SPARK FRIENDS!

A LOVING DOG!

MADE IT HOME SAFELY WITH THE BAD WEATHER AND SNOW WE JUST GOT DUMPED ON US!

  
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MARLA7 2/19/2009 8:45PM

    CHAR - SORRY FOR YOUR STRESS. I FULLY UNDERSTAND THOUGH. IT'S TOUGH. WE LIVE MONTH TO MONTH ON A MEASLY AMOUNT LEFT OVER AFTER THE BILLS. MY PRAYERS ARE GOING OUT FOR YOU TO FIND SOMETHING SOON TO EASE YOUR STRESS. ALL MY HUGS & LOVE TO YOU DEAR FRIEND... MARLA

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MAURIZIA 2/19/2009 10:16AM

    CHAR, I AGREE WITH CHERYL. THERE ARE SOME SITUATIONS IN WHICH WE HAVE CONTROL AND OTHERS THAT WE DON'T (LIKE FOR ME, THE DRIVERS YESTERDAY). KEEP LOOKING...I KNOW THE PERFECT OPPORTUNITY IS OUT THERE...AND HEY, MAYBE BY CONTACTING HOME CARE AGENCIES YOU CAN GET MORE STABLE HOURS AND NOT HAVE TO TAKE THE PERSON HOME! IN THE MEANTIME, I AM SENDING OUT POSITIVE VIBES TO YOU, MY FRIEND!

HUGS, MAURI

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MSALOETTE 2/19/2009 8:36AM

    Hi Char, oh my Janice strikes again well not just Janice but more like Mike. Hard to blame Janice for Mike taking advantage of the situation. I have a caregiver at work that I just love she's a short, round black girl that is wonderful and giving and hard working and they do this kind of thing to her hours every single day of the week. I know her frustration is real as she's a single mom with a daughter to raise on shortened hours every day of the week. Just remember that YOU can't control what other people do unfortunately the world is full of people who feel they can control EVERYTHING to suit them without regard as to how someone else is going to feel and that's what Mike is doing here. God doesn't close any door without opening another so keep looking something else is out there. If you truly want another client then find one through means other then the paper I don't believe there is any shortage of caregivers needed in any city. Try calling a few homecare agencies they all are looking for good people and you can write your own ticket. All of your retirement centers use homecare people as well I know there is something out there for you with less stress then you have with Janice. You already KNOW all that however and I know Roy's job situation just adds to it all for you but something's going to turn for you and you aren't a lazy I don't want to work person so things will be better soon, sometimes they get worse before they get better but things do get better. You are in my prayers girl. Love you Cheryl

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KSNICKER 2/19/2009 8:29AM

    CHAR - FIRST LET ME GIVE YOU A ((((BIG HUG)))) NOW I HOPE THAT YOU FEEL BETTER THIS MORNING. REMEMBERING TO LOOK FOR THOSE POSITIVES IS A GOOD THING. I'M GLAD THAT YOU ARE DOING THAT.
KEEP CHECKING THAT PAPER MY FRIEND... SOMETHING WILL HAPPEN FOR YOU.
I CAN RELATE AND I AM ALSO FEELING THE PINCH TOO... DH IS ONLY WORKING ONCE IN A WHILE AND TIMES ARE GETTING TOUGH HERE TOO. BUT THEY WILL WORK OUT SOMEHOW... IT'S SCARY NOW THAT WE HAVE A MORTGAGE PAYMENT AGAIN.

HANG IN THERE CHAR...

(((MORE HUGS)))

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DEUCE119 2/18/2009 9:01PM

    Things sound like they are taking their toll on you. Chin up young person! Stresses like these can really get you down. I worry myself coz I can't work and my Dh is the only one who can. Try to stay positive . I know that is easier said then done, but worrying too much won't change the outcome. There are just some things that are out of our control. emoticon emoticon

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GOOD DAY TURN NOT SO GOOD!

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

YES MY DAY WAS A GOOD DAY GOT ALL MY EXERCISE DONE THIS MORNING AND WENT TO WORK AND THAT WASN'T BAD EITHER!THEN CAME HOME ATE DINNER DID THE DISHES WHILE I WASHED TWO LOAD OF CLOTHES!THEN WE WENT YO VISIT MOM!THEN CAME BACK AND STARTED READING MY E-MAILS AND STARTED UP ON THIS NEW FACE BOOK! WELL MY FRIEND LIZ SENT ME FLOWERS AND I TRIE DTO SEND SOME BACK TO SOME PEOPLE AND IT HAD ME PUT IN SOME INFORMATION INCLUDING A CELL PHONE NUMBER AND IT SAID IT WOULD SEND ME A PIN NUMBER TO MY CELL PHONE AND I SEE ONE NUMBER ONE IT I PUT IT IN ON THE COMPUTER AND IT SAY'S THERE SHOULD BE 4 OR 5 DIGITS TO THE NUMBER AND NOW IT WON'T LET ME DO ANYTHING!,MY FREIND SAID NEVER PUT IN YOUR PHONE NUMBER NOW I AM WORRIED SHE SAID SHE DIDN'T HAVE TO DO THAT I AM DONE I DON'T KNOW MUCH ABOUT COMPUTERS AND NOW I HOPE NOTHING HAPPENS!DANG ONLY ME THIS COULD HAPPEN TO!WELL GOING TO GET CAUGHT UP HERE AND HOPE ALL TURNS OUT OK!

POSITIVES. A LOVING FAMILY!

SPARK FRIENDS!

A GREAT DOG

A GOOD CAR!

A VISIT WITH MOM!

A HOME!

GOT MY EXRRCISE DONE!

DRANK ALL MY WATER!

ATE ALL MY VEGGIES AND FRUIT!

  
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MAURIZIA 2/18/2009 11:43AM

    CHAR, ALL I CAN DO IS ECHO EVERYONE ELSE'S COMMENTS. ALSO CAUTION ANYONE READING HERE THAT YOU NEED TO PUT AS LITTLE INFO AS POSSIBLE THERE...AND NEVER, EVER PROVIDE THEM WITH NUMBERS!!

YOU MAY ALSO WANT TO NOTIFY YOUR CELL PHONE CARRIER, JUST IN CASE.

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LINDIEMAE 2/18/2009 12:18AM

    CHAR you need to be careful with what you give at FaceBook, most of the applications are free and should not need your phone number, if it does, then don't accept it... I don't do facebook applications, as they just flood my time with stuff I don't want ... You can always go back and delete like Kathy said.

What I don't like about face book is its hard to read, the print is soo small, so most of the time, I go in write my wall to walls and leave lol

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KSNICKER 2/17/2009 10:46PM

    I did the same thing Char... BUT i THEN WENT BACK AND DELETED MY PHONE NUMBER... SO TRY TO DO THAT IF YOU CAN... IF IT ASK YOU FOR THAT PERSONAL INFO DON'T GIVE IT TO THEM... HOPEFULLY ALL WILL BE FINE WITH IT... I THINK IT IS CONFUSING TOO, BUT i'M JUST PLAYING AND FINDING EGGS AND WATCHING THEM HATCH... AND THEN JUST LEAVING NOTES TO PEOPLE... AND SENDING A SMILE...

HOPE YOU EVENING WENT WELL...

tALK TO YOU TOMORROW...

((HUGS) oH AND THANKS FOR YOUR SUPPORT ON MY BLOG...

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DEUCE119 2/17/2009 10:22PM

    I HEAR YOU ABOUT THE FACE BOOK . I AM CONFUSED ALSO. I DID THAT # THING AND IT JUST KEPT TAKING ME TO ALL THIS GARBAGE SO I GAVE UP. VERY CONFUSING AND I ALSO AM AFRAID THAT I WILL GET ROOKED INTO SOMETHING I DON'T WANT. I DON'T DO WELL WITH COMPUTERS SO WE ARE THE SAME THERE. GLAD THE REST OF YOUR DAY WAS GOOD.

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BUFFALOGAL1952 2/17/2009 10:02PM

    CHAR...LOOK FOR A CONTACT ON FACE BOOK AND LET THEM KNOW WHAT HAPPENED. THERE SHOULD BE A "CONTACT US" LINK. GOOD LUCK MY FRIEND!
emoticon CLAUDIA

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MONDAY 2/16/09

Monday, February 16, 2009

HI! IT'S ME AGAIN FILLING YOU IN ON MY DAY!I DID MY EXERCISE FIRST THING THIS MORNING AND GOT IT ALL DONE BEFORE WORK!AND DRANK ALL MY WATER AND FRUITS AND VEGGIES!WHEN I WEIGHED IN YESTERDAY I LOST 2 POUND!AND THE DIL ONLY HAS 2 MORE WEEKS AND THEN SHE WILL ONLY BE DOING JANICE ON SUNDAY'S! AND THE OTHER GUY THAT HELPS OUT IS HAVING A HARD TIME WITH HIS SCHEDULE SO WE NEED SOMEONE ELSE!I CAN'T DO NIGHTS TO PUT HER TO BED MY DAY ALREADY STARTS AT 430AM! SO THEREFORE E I CAN'T EVEN GET HER UP IN THE MORNING I HAVE TOLD HIM BUT HE STILL ASKS ME ANY WAY!HE SAID HIS WIFE MIGHT DO IT AND SAY'S SHE ISN'T EMPLOYED BY HER SO GUESS WHAT I CALLED TODAY TO GET APPLICATIONS 3 OF THEM I CALLED AD PUT JANICE'S NAME IN FOR HELP AT A BIBLE COLLEGE THE KIDS DO IT PART TIME SO WE SHALL SEE WHAT HAPPENS!I HAVE TO DO TUESDAY'S NIGHTS FEEDING HER IN ABOUT 2 WEEKS ALREADY!I AM HOPING WE GET SOMEONE THEN I AM GOING TO SEE IF THEY WILL DO MONDAY AND TUESDAY THAT WAY I CAN GO SOME WHERE IF I WANT TO IN THE SUMMER WITHOUT HAVING TO TAKE OFF! WISH ME LUCK!

TODAY AT WORK WAS A GOOD DAY VERY BUSY AS USUAL!JANICE WAS GOOD WHEN I WENT UP AND I ASKED THE NEIGHBOUR IF SHE HELPED HER WITH HER MEDICINE AND SHE SAID NO! SO MYSTERY NOT SOLVED!WATCHING MY SOAP OPERA AND THEN HEADING TO BED EARLY WELL I AM GOING TO TRY!

POSITIVES: GOT ALL MY EXERCISE DONE!

DRANK ALL MY WATER!

ATE ALL MY FRUITS AND VEGGIES!

STAYED IN MY CALORIE RANGE!

SPARK FRIENDS!

A LOVING FAMILY!

A GREAT DOG!

A GOOD CAR!

A HOME! TWO JOBS!

HUBBY STILL AT HIS JOB!

  
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DEUCE119 2/16/2009 10:51PM

    Sounds like you are having quite a time with Janice. It must be really hard to find someone reliable to do that kind of work. Good luck finding someone to help!

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SUNDAY 2/15/09

Sunday, February 15, 2009

WELL TODAY STARTED ON A REALLY GREAT NOTE!I WEIGHED IN AND LOST 2 POUNDS!I AM SO HAPPY IT HAS BEEN WAY TO LONG FOR THAT SCALE TO BE STUCK!THEN I DID MY 2 BOOTCAMPS AND WALKED FOR AN HOUR AND WE HAD A COOKED LUNCH!I WENT TO THE STORE WHILE I HAD MY WASHER AND DRYER GOING WITH ALL MY SHEETS AND BLANKETS!MADE CHICKEN SOUP ,THEN I WENT AND WALKED AT THE MALL I DIDN'T BUT ANYTHING AND STOPPED AT ANOTHER STORE!SO ALTOGETHER TODAY I WALKED 150 MINUTES!NOW IT'S TIME FOR SUPPER HAVING THE CHICKEN SOUP I MADE YUM! AND THEN I AM WATCHIG SOME TV!OH YES DAUGHTER AND SIL STOPPED IN THEY WERE SHOPPING ONLY FOR ABOUT AN HOUR BUT I LOVE TO SEE THEM!

POSITIVES: I LOST 2 POUNDS THIS WEEK!

A LOVING FAMILY!

A HOUSE!

A GOOD CAR!

A GREAT DOG HARLEY!

GREAT SPARK FRIENDS!

PLANNING ON MEETING SPARK FRIENDS!

  
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DEUCE119 2/16/2009 10:53PM

    Hey Char, lets try again. I was commenting on the fact that you said male chicken soup instead of made chicken soup. It took me a while to realize that you made a typo!!

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DEUCE119 2/15/2009 8:20PM

    Geesch I WAS READING AND WHEN I GOT TO THE SOUP PART, YOU WROTE 'MALE CHICKEN SOUP' !! I COULD NOT FIGURE OUT WHAT THAT WAS. THEN LATER YOU SAID MADE CHICKEN SOUP. I LAUGHED SO HARD COZ I THOUGHT YOU HAD A DIFFERENT RECIPE THAT CALLED FOR A MALE CHICKEN.

GOOD FOR YOU ON THE 2 LBS. YOU DESERVE IT, WITH ALL THE YOU DO. GOOD FOR YOU !!! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticonDOIN' THE DANCE!!!!!

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