Sunday, May 06, 2012
So Cinco de Mayo went off quite nicely....and so did movie theater night at The Avengers.
We hit our favorite joint (award winning Pepitos in Destin, FL), got there early (first ones in the door!), and enjoyed their most excellent chips and even better salsa (we always order up a quart to take home with us!) as we perused the menu.
SWMBO went wild, ordering a Margarita to start, then rattled off a list of her favorites to the waiter (flautas, enchillada, and others items from the a la carte menu....yet somehow, she always manages to stay a steady 125 lbs!), #2 son was happy with tacos, and I decided to go for a nice bowl of caldo de pollo.....chicken soup, loaded with veggies, chiles, parsley, and tons of broth. It was good and there was tons of it, so I took home a more than half of it to have later in the the day...worst case, it was a 400 calorie lunch, most of which was due to the tortilla chip appetizers!
#2 son's date night to see the The Avengers went nicely too. We met the girl and her dad at the mall nearby, had dinner at the food court (I had some chicken stir fry & veggies....about 600 calories I guessed), then some popcorn (200 calories?) once we got seated in the theater.
So my previous Quattro de Mayo angst ( www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_jo
urnal_individual.asp?blog_id=4866942 ) helped pave the way for me to think & plan my way through the fiesta day....and I buttressed the plan with a good hour of cardio & sit-ups at the gym before hitting the movie.
The movie was pretty freaking great! The kids enjoyed it, I enjoyed, and I think the gal's dad enjoyed, but I couldn't really tell....he was demonstrably undemonstrative. I can be quite engaging and personable, but he wasn't really helping out much. He would give one word answers to my most penetrating questions, a simple nod of the head to my funniest stories, and didn't even blink or make a pretense of an offer to split the bill when I got out my credit card to pay for ALL FOUR of our tickets! His only demonstration of affect was a nervous Rainman like banter when he thought we were in the wrong line for the movie (We weren't. I knew because I actually TALKED to someone to get the information!)
So rather than sit next to him at the movie, I put the kids in between us, and surfed on my iPhone during the previews while the kids chatted each other up. I told SWMBO afterwards that she better start making friends with the mom, because I wasn't willing to build too many more bridges with the dad unless he gave signs of meeting me halfway. I think he just possesses an apathetic soul....
Today I had a great morning, sitting on our back deck reading on a beautifully, breezy spring day.
I finished up one book, then started another by Jo Nesbo, a Norwegian crime novelist who uses great language, is pretty funny, and makes some great connections to tie up all the many threads in his stories. I finally tore myself away around 3:00 to hit the gym and get a haircut.
A good book, a sunny day, a view of the beach......it totally got my mind off the oddities of last night....until I started blogging about it!
Have a great night Spark friends!
Friday, May 04, 2012
Yes, Cinco de Mayo is a big deal for us....basically an excuse to gorge on good Mexican cuisine. It's no use fighting it, it's been a household tradition for years.
On top of that, #2 son is officially on his 1st date tomorrow. He and this gal have been a number for a while and they've finally gathered up the courage to go see a movie together....The Avengers!
We've spoken to the parents and agreed that we'd chaperone, so of course SWMBO told me that if it's The Avengers, that I would be chaperoning....oh, come on and hurt me!
So tomorrow we've got a Mexican meal out, then I'm hanging out with a couple of teenagers eating movie theater popcorn, sodas, and snacks......what could possibly go wrong?!?!
Luckily I was pretty good today. I took the day off to take care of some stuff around the house, then took SWMBO out for some lunch, where I pretty much played therapist as we figured out how to deal with her mom's ever increasing health problems. The dear old woman has always been a prickly pear, but she's getting increasingly crabbier as she gets older....and now she's compounding it by not taking her meds.
So I didn't get nearly as much done as I wanted to around the house, but helping SWMBO navigate these turbulent waters was well worth it.
I did have one meeting I had to make back in the office around 3:00, and from there I made a beeline for some well-deserved gym time.
So yeah, it feels like tomorrow has potential to be a cheesy, salty day.....I'll try to fit in some early AM cardio to make up for Quesadillas and movie theater popcorn!
Have a great night Spark friends!
Wednesday, May 02, 2012
You know a totally under-appreciated NSV is being able to sit back and to see how much fitter you feel after Sparking for a while.
I still like the feeling of seeing a pound or 2 drop on the goddamn-scale (or maybe it's one word: godammscale), but on those loooooong stretches of time when it does not budge or goes up a lb, down a lb, down 2 lbs, back up 3, etc, etc, etc, I try to focus on all sorts of other things; the ever baggier fit of my clothes, the number of Spark fitness minutes I can rack up, the occasional, "you're looking great" comment, the feeling of being far more in control of what used to feel like an out of control lifestyle.
Today I focused on the fact that I feel healthier today, at 52, than I did at 40.....maybe even 30.
I've blogged before about how it's almost a habit now for me to look for opportunities to work out, instead of "making" myself work out ( www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_jo
urnal_individual.asp?blog_id=4808077 ) and that's a definite plus. Today I decided to try another double workout day....and they both left me feeling friggin' awesome! Driving back from the gym tonight, I looked up and said, “Self, you know, it’s pretty awesome how far you’ve come”
I ducked out at lunch and hit a Hi Intensity spin class. Luckily the whining Sisters of Pain were not there today ( www.sparkpeople.com/mypage_public_jo
urnal_individual.asp?blog_id=4827773 ). The surgically enhanced, ultra-buxom instructor had a really good routine (did I mention I like to get in the front row for these classes) chock full of intervals, hill climbs, and all around "work hard for your cardio points" mix. I felt at the top of my game, not just keeping up with the beat, but even pushing the resistance lever all the way to max on a few of the climbs. And though it was physically demanding, I finished with a smile feeling pretty darn strong. Even curvilicious gave me a waggish, "You did great out there today!" bright-eyed smile at the end.
But I still had tons of work waiting for me back at the office!
It being a Wednesday, I had an ST session with trainer guy at 6:00 PM. Now last Friday, I did a lunchtime Hi-Intensity Interval routine, then lifted at night….and Saturday morning, I felt like I had been hit by a train
So today, I was a little cautious as we got ready for our heavy chest & shoulders routine.....
...but it went off like a champ!
There was some measurable progress from even 2 weeks ago, we added some weight on a few exercises and increased the reps on others.
So overall today was about 2.5 hours of solid, quality exercise interrupted by 6 hours of office time.
Which brings me back to the NSV. As bountiful as Spark Guy is awarding fitness minute points (1 point for 5 minutes, really dude.....how about 1 for 1....these aren't like airline or credit card miles!), I reminded myself how totally cool it is to know I can work out super hard at 2 different types of exercises (cardio and strength training) on the same day and get done feeling pretty darn good.
While not an every day event, that pervasive feeling of fitness and health certainly makes up for the godammscale not budging for weeks at a time!
Have a great night Spark friends!
Sunday, April 29, 2012
I've had an interesting week....busy at work (as always), which makes personal time and family time all the more valuable.
So Saturday I was sore....almost all day long from Friday's double workout of HIIT and ST. Add to that the fact that I felt hungry throughout most of the day, and those two things led me down a very interesting path....more to follow.
I started off with a green smoothie for breakfast, sat outside to read and decided that a) it was a beautifully, sunny spring day, b) Moby Dick is actually much funnier now than when I had to read it in junior high, c) that I probably need to take a rest day from working out (except for push-ups), and d) I was still hungry dammit!
We took a family outing to one of our favorite local joints, all of us in the mood for some crab-cakes and WHAM.....a big sign out front saying they stopped having a Saturday lunch service!! Not good! Once our family lunch train gets rolling with a hankering, it's very hard to re-direct it. SWMBO declared she was up for Mexican before #2 son or I could chime in, so off we went.
I didn't want anything cheesy, gooey, or re-fried, so I ordered up a grilled chicken (no cheese, please) and smothered it with some very nice salsa.
We did a little shopping afterwards, then came home.....where I spied 2 chocolate chip covered banana-walnut bread (with just a hint of coconut shreds) tins lying on our doorstep, courtesy of our plump neighbor who loves to bake!
We almost all let out a collective cheer! These 1 lb loaves are absolutely fabuloso. We have told her to cool it with the baked goods gifting, which she has respected quite nicely since XMAS.....but here it is at the end of April already and she just couldn't resist....God bless her!
So here's where yours truly decided to make a decision. I was going to enjoy myself on this beautifully, sunny spring day. I've been working out, eating right, staying late at the office....I was going to have a guilt-free Saturday. "Eat whatever the hell you want," I told myself. "Log it, savor it, get over it, just this one day!"
What did that feel like, you might ask?
I don't need to go into all the gory details, but let's just say that freedom has its price and this one cost me about 3200 calories yesterday! And you know what....while I enjoyed it, I don't want to repeat it.
What I realized though is that that was how I ate pre-Spark.....no limits, constant snacking....and not on the good-for-you stuff, but sugary, salty, buttery things....like chocolate chip covered banana-walnut bread (with just a hint of coconut shreds) things.
Today I started out with my normal Spark Sunday routine; coffee, smoothie, news, kindle, etc, etc, etc.
But I knew I needed to do a little more (it was 3200 calories after all) than just hit the gym for some cardio. So I declared that we'd take a family hike on the beach!
We trekked across the no man's land of sand.....
....down to the fishing pier....
....and went off on our own path
We walked for about an hour and never once mentioned chocolate chip covered banana-walnut bread!
I hit the gym when we came back and worked up an extra layer of sweat to make up for yesterday's OD. And the crazy thoughts that went through my brain as I revved up the resistance: Work hard now, stay alive later.....when the Zombie Apocalypse comes, you'll look back and miss that nice plump neighbor of ours that baked so well! (she can't run very fast....or ride a bike)
Have a great night Spark friends!
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