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Trying On Clothes ~ Specifically, Jeans!

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

**This photo is NOT of me, but it very well could be!**

Yesterday my youngest daughter was at my Mom's house for the day and my oldest was in school. I had to get some birthday gifts because my youngest daughter will be 3 next week. So, I went to Toys R Us. After I was finished there I needed to find something for my 1st grader to wear for school photos this Friday. So I stopped into Sears with the hopes of finding something. Instead of finding clothes for her though, I found a lot of things on clearance for me! I went into the dressing room about 4 times trying different pairs of dress pants and jeans on. If I were thinner and taller (I'm only 5'1) I would have come out of there with a lot more than I did. I ended up with 2 pairs of dress pants and 1 pair of jeans. I really wanted to find more jeans because I barely have any. You see, I have come accustomed to wearing sweatpants most of the time in the Fall/Winter months. I'm a stay at home Mom and don't get the chance to dress up much; so I have become frumpy emoticon.

I then went to Burlington Coat Factory where I found a nice top for my daughter for school photos, as well as some tights for her. I then decided to look for pants for myself again, even though I was quite depressed from my dressing room try on's at Sears. I found some nice work out/sweat pants (dressier than what I have now) and a lot of them were too tight on me too! I ended up with 2 pairs of work out pants and a dress shirt.

I do not shop for myself often and it's because I hate the way things fit me. I also hate buying clothes for the size I am now, because I do not plan on staying here (I'm about a Size 14 right now, although it totally depends on the make of the pants/jeans/skirt; sometimes I can fit into a 12 if it's made bigger.) It disgusts me to try clothes on. I hate it immensely. I want to be able to love to buy new clothes because I look good in them, not loathe it because I have to worry if I can fit into them.

So maybe I will take a pair of jeans I have ( a small pair that I want to be able to fit into one day) and try them on once a week to remind me that I have got to eat properly and exercise in order to fit into them someday. What are your thoughts on this?

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JBINAUSTIN 10/15/2009 3:42PM

    I don't personally believe in buying things in the hope that you'll lose weight to fit them. I did that once and found that my had taste changed and I didn't like them when they fit.

But I did keep my skinny clothes as I gained weight. I've been slowly giving away the ones I won't ever wear again, mostly dresses & suits for a job I don't do anymore. But I kept my skinny pants. Imagine my joy when my fat jeans got too big and I found that my skinny jeans from over a decade ago fit again! I didn't try them on periodically. They just sat hopefully in my closet waiting for me to need them.

I'm especially happy because they're high waisted, skinny leg jeans that I love but have been out of fashion for so long so I haven't been able to buy any in my size. I mean, who wants to buy jeans that stop right under your tummy roll. And let's be realistic, barring liposuction or celebrity-type daily training, every woman has a tummy roll--some are just smaller than others.

So I agree with your idea to keep some clothes that you like in a smaller size, but maybe only try them on every few months or so, lest they become a constant source of discouragement rather than a joy to discover.

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CFMOSS 10/15/2009 8:31AM

    i've seen mixed comments on holding on to a pair of "skinny" jeans. i know that until i lost weight i despised going clothing shopping because i didn't like seeing myself in the mirror. now it's better but....i have too many curves for clothes these day which means that waistlines still don't fit - lol. Go figure - at least i look better in the mirror. Support for you on the shopping expeditions - i still have to take my cheerleaders along.

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CELLEBRUCE 10/15/2009 3:48AM

    I know exactly how you feel about wanting to enjoy shopping for yourself. Where you find just the right thing and it fits great. Where you look great in jeans and feel even better. But, I'm not sure about the trying on of smaller jeans. I think that would discourage me, but for you it may work. Hey, give it a try, if it doesn't work, no harm done!

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Happy Summer!

Thursday, July 16, 2009

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Hello All! Sorry I have been away from SP for sooooo long. My 2 & 6 year olds keep me entirely to busy. (and not in a way that I can lose weight mind you!) The weather here in Eastern PA has been lovely (read as: NO HUMIDITY----Yahoo!)....up until today that is! Oh, and we did have 2 weeks of horrible rain in the beginning of June. But today feels like it's July. We will be going swimming in a bit since I am sitting out here typing this while I am starting to perspire a little.

The main things I have been trying to concentrate on lately are de-cluttering and organization. Not just my house (which is a big job with all the kids toys!), but also on my computer and the paper trail that accumulates on my desk. And when I'm not trying to take care of that, I've been in the backyard with the kids for most afternoons. And when not outside, I try to fit in the normal cleaning & other errands that have to be done.

So where do I fit in Spark Groups and online socializing, food tracking, exercise, eating properly, etc? How do other busy Moms do it all AND exercise AND eat healthy? I want to be able to do it too! I just don't know how?


Disappointed In Myself

Monday, May 18, 2009

It's the middle of May and my weight is pretty much right back where I started at the beginning of 2009. If I had stuck with exercising and eating properly the past 2 1/2 months, I could have lost 15 lbs by now. But no. I fell into the same trap I seem to fall into every year. I get sick and then start eating crappy all over again. I have so much housework to catch up on and I tend to not eat properly. I stopped using my elliptical (which I do miss doing by the way). So yes, I am very disappointed in myself.

My first step back into trying to do SparkPeople again is to make sure I visit the site every day, track, blog, post. I need to keep myself accountable. It's almost like I need to keep reminding myself that I need/want to lose weight and the only way that can happen is by making a lot of changes in my eating & exercise habits. I hate so much that I know what I need to do to get the lbs off, but the matter of fact is old habits die hard. I have got to stop using that excuse though!

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BIBS4664 5/19/2009 8:26PM

    The past is over. Start a new day, and a new way. We are here for you. Take small simple steps.

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SCAROUSEL1 5/19/2009 2:02PM

    I wonder if this is something we all struggle with during those last months of winter and first months of spring?

Hang in there... Don't beat yourself up... The past is the past and you are looking to the future!!!

You can do this! You will do this! Baby steps are the key... Take it one steps, one meal and one day a time!

I think this is a lightbulb moment for you. I had one just recently myself when I realized I had gained 12# since the beginning of 2009. I made the decison to...


You can too! We are here for you!

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SMYLEERED 5/19/2009 9:32AM

    It's understandable how you feel. Rather than being harsh on yourself, put it all behind you right now. Try to stay positive, and it is a good thing coming into SP to post on the message boards or in your blog....and read some of the other members' comments. It will help to put you in the right frame of mind. Track your own foods and exercises. If you enjoy using the eliptical, then get back to doing it. They always say it's easier keeping up with exercises when you like it.

Put on a smiley face happy....we support you!

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Trying To Bounce Back

Thursday, March 26, 2009

The last blog entry I made was 3/11. That night I got a fever, chills, sore/swollen throat and was miserable for 3 days. My throat was so sore and swollen that I could not swallow. I seemed to be getting better and then my left ear and side of my neck (glands) hurt for a few days. I made an appointment with the Dr and they couldn't get me in until the next day.....and then of course it drained overnight and I could eat I cancelled the appointment. Since then, I've just been trying to get rid of the stuffy nose. I think it is finally starting to give way and I may be able to start exercising again over this weekend.

I lost 6 lbs within 2 days of being sick and have pretty much kept that off, but I'm not sure what will happen when I start eating more again. My appetite still isn't back to normal.

I hope to make a Dr's appointment in the near future for a physical and to talk about possible testing. I've been so tired and drained this pas year and a friend thinks I should get a blood tests for mononucleosis. I've also had a lot of digestive/gas issues which make me feel horrible. I just want to feel good! So if I make the appointment I'm sure I'm in for a bunch of testing to find out what could be wrong with me, but I want answers!

Also, before I got sick I began Spring cleaning and of course I fell behind on that. So, over the next month I will be doing a lot of cleaning and was wondering how I incorporate that into accounting for exercise on SP? Thanks for any help you can give me on this :-)

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SCAROUSEL1 3/27/2009 5:32PM

    Glad to hear you are the road to recovery!

Go to and use their Activity Calculator. Look under C for cleaning. You will be amazed by what they list and you can manually add it to your SparkPeople Fitness Tracker.

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MRSMILLER777 3/27/2009 7:33AM

    emoticon take it one day at a time and you'll be feeling better before ya know it! I got hit with the bug back in January and it didn't let up until it had wrecked havoc at home (with cleaning & keeping up with the family) and with my journey to getting fit. After taking the time off though I have determined to attack more ferociously and started on a new challenge. I'm hoping that you are feeling better and back on track towards a healthy life soon! emoticon Sandy

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Mix It Up In March Challenge ~ Log!

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

3/11/09- 20 mins on elliptical / manual mode up to Level 8 - 328 calories burned
*Resistance Bands*- Bicep Curls w/ bands 2 sets of 15
*Read - SP Stretching Guide-Benefits Of Stretching* found here:

*Lying Double Knee Hug Stretch* - 2 sets held for 30 seconds each
*Child's Pose Stretch*- 3 sets held for 30 seconds each
*Neck Stretch* - about 10 rolls....this felt sooooo good, as I seem to have a lot of tension in my neck
3/3/09- 20 mins on elliptical / manual mode up to Level 7 - 289 calories burned
*AB Roller*- 15 minutes....I did 100 front crunches and side crunches/ 50 per side
This challenge runs from March 1st through March 31st.

*3 part challenge in which the goal is to mix up your exercise routine, try new things and educate yourself about other kinds of exercises that you could be doing.

emoticon MIX IT UP!

Try new exercises, workouts, read more about a topic (like Yoga, Pilates, something you've never done but you might like if you try it out),watch a Spark demonstration online for an exercise you've never done---then do it!

emoticon- USE IT!

This is where my inventory list comes in.

See my inventory list here:

Use 3 things from my inventory list per week.
This will help me to incorporate things I have that I haven't been using. At the least, use the SparkPeople demonstration exercises and do one of them. DO something new & different!

emoticon- LOG IT!

Keep a log for the month in '1' (one) blog entry on your SparkPage.
Blog about how I mixed things up for the week, what I tried that was new, what I used of my own). Use 3 different things from my list per week.

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SALONGIRL70 2/28/2010 12:03PM

    I am going to join you. I love challenges because sometimes or all the time its hard to say I will exercise but when doing with others and sharing I want to exercise. so thank you!!!!!!!!!!

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SWIMMERYOGINI 3/11/2009 2:22PM

  AWESOME goals!

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