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TODAY IS 10 MONTHS HE IS GONE

Monday, January 23, 2012

THANKING GOD-- for the great times we had.
His laughter ---blue eyes--- the sweet young couple of years gone by who were so blessed to have a family!!
I am able to volunteer now--the tears still come when I hear a southern accent-- still tears over many wonderful memories--yet I am able to continue with my plan of one foot in front of the other and move forward--sometimes one step back yet I am making progress. I get a lot of exercise this way and have met some nice folks.
Because others have shared their stories I know this is another part of life--because they made it-- I know that I will to.
Thank you all for telling me your story and what helped you through the hard lonely nights and the feeling of being lost in the universe--alone.
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REBECCAMA 1/25/2012 7:46AM

  One of the things I love about SparkPeople is all the support that is out there for non-weight loss life issues. I am sorry you lost him, but I am glad you are still here on Spark. That 2 steps backwards, 1 step forward thing can burn a lot of calories. Hope you are doing 2 step forwards and 1 step backwards more often. :-)

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RAINBOWFALLS 1/25/2012 7:34AM

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TIGGER2908 1/24/2012 12:55PM

    I'm so sorry to hear about your husband. It looks like you are healing, albeit slowly. Getting out and helping others definitely helps. I got through the first year of my separation (I know, it's NOT the same thing) by journalling but not online. I wrote and wrote and wrote in a book that only I had access to. Call it a diary, call it a journal, all I know is that it helped - a lot.

Karen

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SWEETLIPS 1/23/2012 11:34PM

    God Bless you - thank for sharing this, it really blesses me.

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MILLISMA 1/23/2012 6:00PM

    It's the wonderful memories that help to keep us all going. I don't think the pain of loss ever goes away but you learn to handle it differently. Thinking of you.

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PAMNANGEL 1/23/2012 5:54PM

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BYEFATNANNY 1/23/2012 5:52PM

    I'm happy for your memories. I'm happy you are getting by with the help of your friends. You are not alone, you have family and friends and US. Enjoy his memory today. All by best wishes to you. emoticon

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MISS_VIV 1/23/2012 5:51PM

    Right on, you Brave Warrior Woman... You are doing a great job.
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FEELINGS........

Sunday, January 15, 2012

"We can have feelings
But we don't need to let them have Us!"


  
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FLYER99 1/17/2012 9:07AM

    Terrific. I try and follow that every day! Thanks.

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RAINBOWFALLS 1/16/2012 9:15AM

    good one

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MJ7DM33 1/16/2012 12:17AM

  So true!!!

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Fear??

Wednesday, January 11, 2012

"The greatest mistake you can make in
life is to be continually fearing
you will make one."
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FLYER99 1/17/2012 9:10AM

    Absolutely true. Thanks for this!

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RAINBOWFALLS 1/12/2012 4:32PM

    I like it!

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ALASKASKY 1/12/2012 8:20AM

    True.

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KATIEEMMA5 1/11/2012 3:23PM

    not good to fear, I agree with that!!

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MISS_VIV 1/11/2012 9:33AM

    Do not be afraid.
With GOD on your side.........and SPARK PEOPLE....we've got your back.

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I NEED TO GO TO SLEEP

Thursday, January 05, 2012

DANGED IF I KNOW WHY I AM NOT SLEEPING

1. Maybe because my cell went out and I had to find another one and recharge the batteries and change cards

2. That gave me a shot of adrenaline and here I am

3. Good time to count blessings

a. I live
b. I laugh
c. I love
d. I am loved
e. I have friends to laugh with
f. I want to live
g. I have family--how great is THAT!!!!!

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MOM4407 1/6/2012 3:23AM

    Say the TOPS pledge over and over
but counting your blessings is great.
Look at the time 2a. You are not the only one who can't emoticon

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MISS_VIV 1/5/2012 9:27AM

    Sometimes we don't sleep because we haven't exercised enough.
I wonder - just thinking.

Have a great day.

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RAINBOWFALLS 1/5/2012 8:34AM

    I always sing 100 bottles of beer on the wall to try to keep my mind off other things. Sometimes it works emoticon

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“Don't let your feelings be a God to you.” ― Joyce Meyer

Tuesday, January 03, 2012

FOR TODAY

Start the day One day at a time is enough!!
take thyroid
read for inter peace and thank Him

coffee and paper
exercise

yard and leaves after garabage picked up
mop
lunch with Viv

TOPS

go through lawyer stuff
make guest room beds

mail letters

old movie on THIS channel 58
exercise during
read some of 2 books
sleep

  
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FLYER99 1/17/2012 9:09AM

    I need to do this. Thanks for the motivation to do it.

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PANSYLADY2 1/4/2012 5:58PM

    Love it that you are spelling out your daily activity. Makes a person a tad more accountable!

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SNUZSUZ 1/4/2012 10:46AM

    Good job on the goals!

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RAINBOWFALLS 1/3/2012 8:07PM

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