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finding a new goal

Sunday, March 14, 2010

so ive been thinking of what i want to do now, now that ive reached my all time goal. (still cant believe i made it lol!) im pretty sure i want to loose more weight, but the question is, how much? its a hard question because im actually very happy with where i am now (which is awesome). i mean, im very happy with my clothing size (8/10), im in the best shape of my life, and my self esteem has improved dramatically. my fitness goal is easier to decide, because you can always try something new and different, and make new goals for yourself. but weight is different, cause at some point you need to stop.

everyone around me is telling me that i should stop loosing weight now, but i disagree. dont get me wrong... im not looking to loose alot more. but i do have some areas that i would like to improve. for example, i would like to loose a little more fat from my tummy, my inner thighs and my arms. of course its not easy to loose weight from specific spots. but i would like to loose a little more fat. the problem is though, when i tell people this they roll their eyes. some people have even said "it sounds like youre going the other direction. youre going to become anorexic". this bothers me because its so not true! i am in no danger of becoming anorexic. and i guess its a little insulting to think that people assume that would happen after i worked so hard to conquer my old eating disorder. im realistic about my body... i know im never going to look like a fashion model, and i am perfectly a-ok with that! but the fact is, i do want to loose a little more. im very very happy with my size! i just want to loose a little more fat, thats all (and believe me, i still have plenty of it lol)

so now im trying to decide if i want to set a new numeric goal, like loosing 5 of 10 more pounds, or if i just want to loose weight until im happy. but the problem with the latter is it would be hard to have a goal to reach for. i mean, im happy with my pant size, like i said, so i wouldnt be shooting for a smaller size. i was thinking of maybe having a goal for my waist measurement, but i just have a little bit more i want to loose, and i have no idea how many inches that would be. besides... truthfully i dont know if what i have on my tummy and thighs is fat, or if its loose skin... because after being so overweight most of my life and loosing 90 lbs, i definitely have loose skin. and i accept that ill probably always have it. dont get me wrong... ill take the loose skin over those 90 lbs any day! please... those are like my battle scars, lol! probably, its a little bit of both, fat and loose skin. so im thinking of setting my ticker to a new goal of 145 lbs or 140 lbs... what do you think?

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EFFIEANNIE 7/6/2013 9:14AM

    You look great. I would try exercise for those areas, but you probably have done that. What is your height? Have you checked with the ht/wt tables for a good weight? Good luck~you are an inspiration to so many!

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JAZZWOMAN1266 3/17/2010 11:13AM

    I think you have done great and you are smart to think about a new goal. We all have to have goals in life. I think that maybe you should stop thinking about weight and work on those areas you want to improve. Strength training with weights or bands is great for spot areas. I do not know if you already do this, but you should look into it, if not just for your health. We all need strength training to keep up our bone mass as women. I have free weights and bands, as well as a weight pulley machine. I do not look for bulk, but I do use it to tighten up the chicken arms and thighs. If you are not sure what to do, you could have a one on one with a trainer to get the information and do it on your own or join a gym to get the real workout weekly with a trainer. So many things are out there to choose from. Find something that fits and makes you feel good!

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CAMILLE-LEON 3/16/2010 3:36PM

    I'm in a similar situation, now that I am at a very reasonable weight, people all tell me to stop losing! but, like you , I want to shape up my tummy and tone my arms. maybe try working out some new goals that have more to do with measurements of your waist and arms, rather than weight. or perhaps, just be like me and say vaguely that you are still trying to tone up some loose bits! I think I want to lose 5-10 pounds, but what I really want is just to strengthen and tone up what I've got, and that may not mean any weight loss at all, (which is fine) more like building muscle. definitely give your workout routine a little shake up to keep it interesting for yourself and to keep your body guessing! good work!

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FORMYBABYJD 3/15/2010 5:24PM

    So Ali has a similar problem, she's lost 80 pounds and has some loose skin that she was having trouble getting rid of. Soooooo, she went to a personal trainer. They told her to work on toning the muscles in the specific areas she was concerned about, and for her legs and chest, she runs. Her trainer told her the bouncing action that comes with running helps tighten your chest (it's worked extremely well for her) and you can't beat runners legs!
It might be a good idea to forget about a number goal and just work on toning. And I highly recommend cocoa butter, it helped my woah saggy tummy post-baby :)
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FORMYBABYJD 3/15/2010 5:23PM

    So Ali has a similar problem, she's lost 80 pounds and has some loose skin that she was having trouble getting rid of. Soooooo, she went to a personal trainer. They told her to work on toning the muscles in the specific areas she was concerned about, and for her legs and chest, she runs. Her trainer told her the bouncing action that comes with running helps tighten your chest (it's worked extremely well for her) and you can't beat runners legs!
It might be a good idea to forget about a number goal and just work on toning. And I highly recommend cocoa butter, it helped my woah saggy tummy post-baby :)
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FORMERTEACHER 3/15/2010 1:06PM

    WOW! Congratulations on your weight loss!

I too have lost a lot of weight (w/the help of SP)! You've lost at least 90, which is about 5 lbs. more than I have! Way to go!

I feel pretty much the same way as you do. Now that I've met my original goal of losing 80 lbs, I'd like to lose more of my stomach, but wonder if that is really even possible. I have some loose and baggy skin, and I don't really want to have more of that around. So I'd be content with just maintaining my weight or losing 5 - 10 more pds.

Again, congratulations!

Your fellow loser,
Anita
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MICHELLEAZD 3/15/2010 12:59PM

    The first time I lost all my weight my trainer used to make fun of me and tell me to go eat some french fries cause I was too skinny. Oddly though I was at the ideal weight for my hieght and frame. People would tell me all the time that I was too skinny, to stop working out. It really is about knowing your own body and what you can handle. Don't let others discourage you.

You can set your new goal for something like definition: see that bicep pop, or hot calves when wearing heels. That is what I did when I lost it all (I wanted Jennifer Aniston's arms!) and it made working out and dieting more exciting, and I still lost another pant size.

Good luck!

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SHANNONIGANS 3/15/2010 9:04AM

    Hey Erin! CONGRATS again on reaching your initial goal!
I think setting a new goal of 5#s each time as you spot-train your 'problem areas' is a great idea. Now that you've reached your goal weight, your success may start to show more in measurements than weight loss. Especially as your skin starts to tighten up. Luckily you're young & your skin still has some of it's elasticity.
So...my suggestion would be to set 5# goals at a time as you tone what you want (tummy, arms & inner thighs) thru area specific training. You may find that you don't lose as much weight as you're toning because you're adding muscle as well. Or you may also find that you're body is still willing to give up a little more weight. Either way, 5#s is a do-able number.
Also, I'm sure the people telling you to stop are just concerned about your health. They've never seen you small & it may take some getting used to. Unfortunately, I'm sure there are those that are just jealous as well. Surround yourself with the people that encourage & support you in your new goals.
Anyhoo...that's my 2 cents worth.
~Hugz~
Shannon


P.S. Another way to figure out how much more fat you can lose is to get your body fat tested. That will let you know where you're at & a safe place to stop.

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SLKYSMTH 3/15/2010 12:10AM

    Wow! I had to look at your pictures first to see this goal you have accomplished! Holy Smokes!!! What does TJ (or was it JT) think about the new you?
I think you are right about the loose skin and fat combo. I have several friends that have lost an extreme amount of weight and they have the loose skin syndrome. With that being said, I saw someone on the biggest loser or something like that and their loose skin looked just like that....loose skin. there was no guessing if it was fat OR loose skin, sooo, the question is.....how does a person loose weight in specific areas???? when you figure it out let me know. lol!

PS~ you really have come a long way! don't let ppl try to discredit your accomplishments!

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i made my goal!!! i cant believe it!!!

Monday, February 22, 2010

I cant believe it... I reached my goal. I weigh 150 lbs... I lost 90 lbs!! Is this real? And right before my 28th birthday! I have been trying to be this weight since I was 14 years old, half my life! And to think at this time last year, I weighed 220 lbs! And now after all these years of hoping and praying trying so hard, I did it. Part of me is so scared that this is all a dream, and I'm gonna wake up and be 250 lbs again. But this isnt a dream... this is reality right lol? I did it, I really did it!!! I just cant believe it!!! I feel like screaming at the top of my lungs and dancing and singing and crying all at the same time! I actually reached my goal! I did it I did it I DID IT!!!!!!! emoticon

Thank you Sparkpeople for helping me reach my goal! emoticon

Thank you Chris Downie for creating this amazing website and helping me do what I've always wanted to do! emoticon

Thank you to all the people of Sparkpeople who have inspired me to keep going, like Coach Nocole, Coach Jen, Dean Anderson and Becky Hand and lots of others! emoticon

Thank you to all of my amazing SP friends, who have motivated me and supported me throughout my whole journey! emoticon

Thank you to my amazing fiancÚ, JT, who was so supportive and who made me believe in myself, and told me that I could do it, and that no matter what, he loves me. emoticon

Thank you to my wonderful family.. my Mom, Tina, and my sister Katy, who were so encouraging and who motivated me every day! emoticon


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KEEPITUP62 8/10/2014 11:08PM

    just finished reading your story. Congratulations on reaching your goal and I see by your weight tracker you have even surpassed your goal. You look fabulous.

You are most inspiring to myself and all other Sparksters. My wish for you is that you continue to be healthy and fit for life as is this wish for myself.
We will do it.

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BARBARAMUZZ 2/28/2010 11:00PM

    Congrats to you. I would love to know how you did it. I mean day to day. I really need motivation.
I am leaving for a cruise next week and have gone down to 145 which was my goal for the cruise. Now Im working for 140. I need to get down to 125. I am only 4' 10" so any weight on me is very noticeable.
I need your help.


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SHANNONIGANS 2/25/2010 9:35AM

    I'm SO proud of you! emoticon You're such an inspiration! emoticon

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JAZZWOMAN1266 2/25/2010 7:03AM

    Give yourself a great big hug and do the happy dance! Enjoy this moment and realize that YOU did it! You are now an inspiration to others and should be proud of what you have done! Take this feeling and realize that this is how you should live your life! ENJOY! emoticon emoticon

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CAMILLE-LEON 2/24/2010 3:32PM

    YOU ARE AMAZING! I am so happy for you! Bask in the glory of accomplishing your goal weight! and enjoy your 28th birthday! emoticon

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KATVHALE 2/23/2010 7:31PM

  It doesn't get any better than this!!!! I think you are just emoticon It is not a dream and you made it!!! Just remember all you learned getting to that goal and stick with it so you don't have to worry about gaining any of it back!!

Yeah You!!!

Kat

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EGR2BEME 2/22/2010 11:17PM

    YOU DID IT!!!!!!

Awesome...congratul
ations. So encouraging and motivating.

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EGR2BEME 2/22/2010 11:15PM

    YOU DID IT!!!!!!

Awesome...congratul
ations. So encouraging and motivating.

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DEBRA_T 2/22/2010 6:03PM

    Congratulations! What a great job you did for yourself. And you know what's just as good as the weight you lost. You became a person you can depend on. Well done!

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RITAROSE 2/22/2010 6:00PM

  WOW! You did it! I am so excited for you and your pic looks fantastic! What a difference a year makes!! As exciting as this is (and it is!!) I hope you've planned your maintainence plan. You are at a perfect size for you, I hope it will always be that way!
Have a great week enjoying your success!! Ritarose emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

I so hope next year at this time I can be rejoicing that I've met my goal too!! emoticon

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WRWW13 2/22/2010 5:07PM

    Way 2 go!!!!! Congrats!!!! Go out and scream, dance, laugh, jump, shout and anything else that feels like something you want to do - U deserve a huge trophy and lots of applause!!!!

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FLGIRL1234 2/22/2010 1:50PM

    This is what its all about! Congratulations on your dedication and hard work! It definately paid off for you.

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SZNN4570 2/22/2010 1:08PM

    emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon ! Thanks for sharing-your blog has motivated me to get going!

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JLGGLASS 2/22/2010 12:45PM

    GREAT JOB emoticon

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CAROLYNINJOY1 2/22/2010 12:31PM

    BRAVO for you! Excellent accomplishment. You are an inspiration.

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MOMOQUATRO 2/22/2010 12:14PM

    congratulations... your excitement is so motivating.
you deserve to do all of those things...
sing
cry
danceR>and scream at the top of your lungs...

great job!!!!

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SPYKEY_RYE 2/22/2010 12:01PM

    Well done on getting to goal, you look amazing!

You are a true inspiration! x

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MACYBOSTON 2/22/2010 11:57AM

    Congratulations on your achievement!!! I hope you reward yourself for such a great accomplishment!!

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One year on Sparkpeople!! Thank you all!!

Sunday, January 24, 2010

One year on SparkPeople... emoticon What a year it's been!

Christmas day 2008 was one of the most memorable days of my life. It was the day that the love of my life, JT, proposed to me. I couldn't have been happier! We decided to celebrate our engagement by going to Seaworld, our favorite place. The whole day we were completely giddy and all smiles. I didn't think anything could make me sad... I was wrong.



We decided it was time for a rollercoaster ride, so on we went. Struggling to get on a ride was nothing new to me, as I was so very heavy for so long. This time was different, however. I just couldn't seem to squeeze myself into the seat completely. Once I had got myself as far into the seat as I possibly could, I started trying to put the safety harness on. The fact was, I just couldn't do it. My fiancÚ tried to help, and he couldn't get it any further than I could. Finally the ride attendant came over to help. By this time the ride was ready to go and I was holding things up. As the attendant struggled to get the harness attached I saw his eyes say, "Girl, you are really way to fat to be allowed on this ride". I knew he was debating in his head whether of not to tell me I couldn't fit on the ride and I needed to get off. The people on line waiting to get on started getting noisy. Some were annoyed that I was slowing things down, and some were just plain laughing at me. It was quite simply the most embarrassing moment in my life. Just as I was about to start crying, the attendant snapped the harness into place and gave me a look that clearly said, "Good luck".

I spent the whole ride wishing I had gotten off when I could have. I usually have no fear of rollercoaters, and love riding them. But far from loving it, I was just terrified. Terrified that any moment the safety harness would fail under the pressure and I would go flying to my death. I was beyond relieved when the ride ended. But my troubles weren't quite finished. At the ride's exit, there was the booth were you could view pictures of yourself during the ride, and see how much fun you were having. JT said "Oh here we are! ...wow... Look at your face!". I looked at the picture to see what he meant, and I was horrified. I had seen pictures of myself in the past where I looked very large, but not to this extent. The girl in the picture looked like an overstuffed pillow, shoved into a wastepaper basket. I had never seen ... really seen just how obese I really was. Worse of all, the girl in the picture was obviously scared out of her mind. Her face was red and twisted in fear. It was obvious she was not having a good time at all. I couldn't recognize that girl next to my fiancÚ was myself and I didn't want to try.



I spent the next few days thinking about how I came to be this way. At almost 5'2" and 252 lbs I was very obese. I had been obese my entire adult life and most of my childhood. Healthy eating was something I just had not learned and never really thought about. I was never especially active, even as a child. I had of course tried to loose weight in the past, with no real success. Dieting just frustrated me, and I would inevitability break down and binge. I had tried fad diets like Adkins and the South Beach diet, hated them, and stopped. I had tried exercise machines that promised to "burn the fat off those trouble areas". I had tried countless diet pills that promised speedy weightloss with hardly any effort. I even went so far as to starve myself and all I accomplished was to make myself sick. The results were always the same; I would loose a little weight, the highest amount being around 40 lbs... Then I would get frustrated and give up. Then without fail, the weight would quickly come back. After a time I just gave up. I figured I was just never meant to be anything other than fat and I needed to learn to accept that.



But in the days following the incident at Seaworld, I realized that I simply HAD to do something about it. My weight was so out of control and getting dangerous fast. I realized how lucky I had been, having none of the major health problems associated with obesity. No knee problems, no breathing problems, no heart problems, no diabetes. In fact, aside from my weight, I was a fairly healthy person. But then it hit me like a ton of bricks... This would not last forever. I realized, I'm young now, but as I got older, my luck would run out. Diabetes runs in my family and I knew that as heavy as I was, It wasn't a question of "if" I would develop the disease... It was a question of "when?". Probably sooner than later, at the rate I was going. I suddenly realized "Wait a second... This is my one and only body, the only one I'll ever have! What am I doing to it??" This was no longer acceptable... because it wasn't just me I had to think about anymore. I had a future husband and future kids to worry about. Heck, at the weight I was, who knew if I could even HAVE kids? And even if I did, how could I take care of them properly if I cant even take care of myself? This woke me up.

I decided to loose weight. I didn't decide to try to loose weight. I just DECIDED to loose weight. I knew I had to really do it. But if I wanted to succeed this time, I knew I had to change my way of thinking. First of all, I had to be more realistic about how l was going to do it. I had been hoping and praying that a miracle diet or a miracle pill would come out and make all my problems go away. My first step in my weight loss journey was to realize that the "miracle pill" wasn't coming, and I needed to stop waiting for it. I realized that if I really wanted to do this, I needed to do the thing I was dreading... I had to change my lifestyle... period. The second step was to understand that if I'm going to loose this weight the right way, then it was going to take a LONG time, and I just needed to accept that. I tried to think of it as a year-long project. I knew it would probably take more then a year to get to where I wanted to be, but I kept thinking to myself "Think of how much better off you'll be if you put a year into this... Think of how much better you'll feel". That was very motivating thought. It was almost something to look forward to. I thought to myself "After all, just imagine how you would be had you just stuck to that one healthy diet you tried". I knew in my heart that it would be hard at first, but if I could just make it over the "hump", then my new healthy practices would eventually become habits, and I knew that was the key to changing my lifestyle.

The most important change in my thinking was getting rid of the "all or nothing" attitude that I had always adopted during all my previous attempts. I always thought of weightloss as "the bandwagon". I would be "back on the bandwagon". But what happens if you "fall off the wagon"? It keeps going and leaves you behind. So, if one day I went over my calories, or gave into temptation, or ate something I shouldn't have, I would think to myself "oh well, I screwed it all up... might as well quit". Weightloss is NOT an "all or nothing" thing! Its about the changes you make over time. But somehow I always thought that if I ate a little more chocolate than I should have, that meant I had negated all the work I had done before that. This needed to stop. So I chased away the bandwagon. Instead, I thought of weightloss as a hiking trail. Its a long trail full of obstacles, and it's gonna take you a long time to walk to the end. And if you stray from the trail? Well that's OK, the trail is always there! Its ok to leave the trail for a little while to check out the scenery... just be sure to get back on the trail and keep on going. After all, you still have a life to live! I realized that if I "strayed" and ate some cookies, or didn't exercise one day, or went over my calories, that's OK... I just needed to get back on the trail and keep on going. It may take a little longer, but if I resolve to keep going, even when I left my hiking trail once in a while, I would reach my goal. I just had to keep going.

In the first month I tried my best to eat healthy, and managed to drop 9 lbs, but I still needed a little help. January 24th, 2009 (One year ago today), I was browsing the internet for some healthy lifestyle ideas and stumbled upon Sparkpeople. I didn't know then that I had found possibly the best resource I could have found. It became clear that this website had a wealth of information and tools that I desperately needed. The tool that has helped me the most has been the nutrition tracker. I had always heard that tracking your food was an important part of weightloss, but it became truly apparent when I started using it. It really put ito perspective how much I was eating before and made me more accountable for what I was eating now.

The community was important too. Having nobody to make the weightloss journey with, it was wonderful to have people at my fingertips who were going through the same thing. It's very motivating to see how far other people have come and for people to see how far YOU'VE come. Its wonderful to see people who succeeded and still had the same problems as you loosing weight. This was very helpful in conquering the dreaded "plateaus". Because if there's one thing I noticed when moving through the Sparkpeople community, its this; Everybody who succeeded in loosing weight has 2 things in common. First, they have all hit bumps like plateaus, temptations, and all the negative things that come with weightloss. Secondly, they have all kept going and have not given up. This was such a helpful realization, that made me know that I could be one of those people, if I just keep going and don't give up. Sparkpeople made me realize that you cant go on for a long time burning more calories than you eat and NOT loose weight. Does that mean you are going to loose weight every week you weigh in? No it doesn't. Does it mean you wont occasionally gain a few pounds? No it doesn't... What it means, is that over time, these changes you make to your diet and lifestyle will result in weightloss. It will take a while, but it will happen. Plateaus wont last forever... not if you keep up the effort.

Another thing that Sparkpeople taught me is how important moderation is. There really is no "bad" food... it's all about moderation with those foods. Realistically you're not going to stop eating ice cream forever, right? Right... so learn to eat ice cream properly and you will succeed without driving yourself crazy. I myself eat chocolate everyday... in moderation! And that means I am learning to eat chocolate in such a way that I don't have to let it get out of control ever again! SparkPeople taught me that it's not just about eating less food, it's also about eating enough food to get the nutrition you need. I never starved myself, never went hungry thinking that would speed up my weightloss (which it wont). I have a theory that because I concentrated on eating a balanced diet and getting the right nutrition, that I actually helped lessen my cravings. I think that because my body was getting all the good nutrition it needed, it didnt crave things as much... Of course, I'm not a nutrition expert, it's only a guess hehe!

The visual things that Sparkpeople offers like the charts and graphs and even the little weightloss ticker, all give you a sense of accomplishment, even when you cant see the results in the mirror. Focusing on the little goals you set and the accomplishments you make is so important... because it does take a while to see the results in the mirror (For me, I didn't start to really see my weightloss in the mirror until I had lost 50 lbs). And this aspect of Sparkpeople was and still is, invaluable to me, because it kept me motivated to not give up and to keep moving forward.

As great as it was to see the numbers on the scale go down, it was the other little milestones that surprised me. For me, one of the best milestones was when I realized that some of the healthy practices I was learning were becoming habits. I started automatically reaching for water when I was thirsty, reaching for fruits, veggies or nuts when I wanted a snack. The day I realized I didn't have to measure serving size, that I was automatically giving myself the right amount of food, was awesome... even eating the correct serving size was becoming a habit! Another great moment was when I realized that my feet no longer hurt as they did while standing for long periods of time. One day I realized I wasn't getting heartburn all the time the way I used to. One day my rings were too big. One day I realized I hadn't even been sick with a cold since I started my new lifestyle. One day I realized I had reached the last hole on my belt and It was still too big. And then the day I realized I didn't wear plus-sized clothing anymore. Or the day I went from an "obese" BMI to an "overweight" BMI... All these little things were all evidence that what I was doing was actually working, and It prompted me to keep going.




Then came my proudest moment... The day my fiancÚ and I went back to Seaworld. It had been 6 months since that fateful day when I had ridden that rollercoaster. I was 40 lbs smaller, and yet I was so scared to get back on the ride. What if I still couldn't fit? What if I still needed help getting in? What if people laughed? My fiancÚ held my hand and told me how proud of me he was and how I was going to be surprised when I got on the ride. Boy was he right! Not only did I fit easily in the seat, but I didn't need help getting the safety harness on! I got it on with room to spare! No struggling whatsoever. I looked over at my fiancÚ with a look of disbelief, and he was just grinning at me and said "Told you so". That was the best ride I had ever been on. I felt so elated and had so much fun... I wasn't scared of exploding out of my seat at all. And when we left the ride and looked at the pictures I was blown away... I looked like I fit so much better in the seat, and I didn't look like I was bursting out of the harness. But better than that was my face... which instead of looking upset and scared, looked so happy. I was obviously enjoying the ride and having a blast! I started tearing up right then and there... not because anything was wrong, but because I realized how my effort had resulted in this wonderful moment!

It has been a year since I started Sparkpeople and my weightloss journey. I am happy to say that I have lost 97 lbs (88 lbs from the day I started SP), having gone from 252 lbs (243 lbs at the start of SP) to 155 lbs, and going from a size 22/24 to a size 8/10. I'm not at my final goal yet, but I'm close! (Only 5 more pounds until I reach 150 lbs, which has been my goal since I was 14). And I have no doubt in my mind that I can get there. After my year long project, I may not be where I want to be yet, but I am 110% better off for having come this far, just like I knew I would be! I am prouder of myself than I ever have been before. Prouder than the day I graduated high school. Prouder than the day I got my college degree. Prouder than the day I got a promotion. And why? Because I always knew I could do those things... but loosing the weight.... that was something I never thought I could do. But I did do it... I did! And that feeling of accomplishment boosts my self esteem more than I ever could have imagined... even more so than how I much better I look now.



My advice to people who are on the same frustrating journey is this; You have to want it all... You have to want all the good that comes with the weightloss process, as well as all the bad. Nothing worth getting is easy to get, and believe me, getting to a healthy weight is VERY worth getting. Yes you need commitment, dedication, willpower and discipline to loose weight... but more than that you need patience. Not just patience with the time it takes to loose weight, but patience with yourself, and with the struggles you will encounter. You just need to realize that it will all be worth it if you can just keep going and don't give up. Don't just try to loose weight and be healthy. DECIDE to loose weight and be healthy! Weightloss is the hardest thing to do and the easiest thing to do all at the same time. For me, loosing weight sure was the hardest thing I ever had to do, and yet it wasn't nearly as hard as I thought it was going to be. And I'm so glad I did it! I wouldn't trade a day of this past year for anything... It's been SO worth it! It is, without a doubt, the best thing I have ever done for myself. I cant properly express the feeling I have, and anyone who has suceeded in loosing weight must feel the same way. You can feel this way too! I firmly believe that if I can do this, anybody can! Just remember, the trail is long and hard, and the end can seem so far away, especially at the beginning... But if you stay on the trail, you WILL reach the end. And if you stray from the trail to smell the flowers, have a picnic, or to eat some cookies, that's ok... That's OK! Just adjust your backpack, get back on the trail and keep on going!

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TERRIMMIX 5/16/2014 10:39AM

    You are an inspiration. Hope you don't mind I added you as a friend for those days I need help believing this is really possible. ▄

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CAMILLE-LEON 1/29/2010 3:02PM

    you are amazing! emoticon

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FORMYBABYJD 1/25/2010 4:19PM

    You are truly inspiring... I know that you inspire people who have followed you on this journey over this past year through sparkpeople, and to someone who just happens to open this blog, never having seen your profile or spoken to you in anyway, your story is still amazing and motivating... but for someone who has known you for the last 16 years... The little girls that were inseparable, the person who introduced me to my husband, stood with me through junior high, high school, crazy college years and stood next to me on my wedding day... you are amazing. You did it! I can't even put into words how happy and proud and everything else that I feel, you literally brought me to tears. I love you so much and I'm so proud to be able to call you my best friend.

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BALANCEDLIFE4ME 1/24/2010 1:26PM

    That is such a great story. Thank you for sharing your journey! emoticon

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POORGIRL_DIET 1/24/2010 1:21PM

    OMG wow, you have done brillant and an inspiration to all.

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PURPLEVALENTINE 1/24/2010 12:20PM

    All I can say is WOW. Your story is so inspirational and I wish you all the best! Thanks for sharing and happy anniversary! emoticon

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SGRONOW1 1/24/2010 12:14PM

    emoticon Way to go. A real inspiration

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PAULA3420 1/24/2010 10:52AM

    You look fantastic and congrats on your RESULTS!! I enjoyed reading your blog especially your analogy about weight loss being like a hiking trail. I know I will keep that in my mind, and if I should find myself, off trail, enjoying the view, I know I will be back on the trail soon. I want to see the view from the top of the mountain. HOW fantastic, I'm sure clicking the safety harness was a moment of joy for you. What a wonderful guy you have got. I know you will reach your goal soon. emoticon

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LAUREN1257 1/24/2010 10:43AM

    Amazing blog. You have made such great accomplishments and are an inspiration to a lot of us! Keep up the AMAZING work! emoticon

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NJEATON 1/24/2010 9:58AM

    Oh Wow! You are such an inspiration! I wish you continued success and much happiness! Thanks so much for sharing - I think it was in another diet book (maybe Dr. Phil) that said: "A year will pass anyway - you can either weigh less or more - it's up to you!"

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MISSM66 1/24/2010 9:40AM

    emoticon emoticon emoticonon your emoticonkeep up the good work wonderful story emoticon

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RITAROSE 1/24/2010 9:24AM

  Amazing story of triumph and determination to achieve a healthier you! Great way to start a new life as a wife. Your cooking for you husband will reflect your healthier choices and you will both benefit from it! Your blog was exactly what I needed to read today! Many thanks and God bless you both! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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NONAMEMONKEY 1/24/2010 8:43AM

  It's so motivating to see the changes a year can make. My goal is to be unrecognisable in a years time so thanks for sharing your year with us.

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THINKINNOW 1/24/2010 8:30AM

    Happy One year anniversary - what a super story

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no longer obese!

Friday, December 04, 2009

for the first time ever in my adult life, i am no longer clinically obese!! just barely (bmi of 29.9) but still!! im so excited! i started Sparkpeople at 240 lbs with a bmi of 44, and now after losing 77 lbs with SP, im 163 lbs with a 29.9 bmi. now i have a "overweight" bmi. i dont think ive ever been happier to be considered "overweight" lol! i know its just numbers, but its an incredible feeling knowing how far ive come. i was so dangerously obese, and ive managed to change my body so much that it is clinically healthier. i just cant believe it! emoticon

  
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KATVHALE 12/10/2009 7:07PM

  Erin, YOU ROCK!!! I knew you could do it and I know you will continue to keep working to get below that "overweight" BMI

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CAMILLE-LEON 12/4/2009 2:52PM

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CONNIE_LYNNE 12/4/2009 10:27AM

    That's awesome! Thanks for the inspiration, I will add this as a goal to attain too!

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NHELENE 12/4/2009 9:22AM

    Congratulations and keep up the good work!!!

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SGRONOW1 12/4/2009 9:14AM

    emoticon that is amazing. you should feel so proud right now

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SHANNONIGANS 12/4/2009 8:42AM

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You have done just awesome. Great job! Thanks for the inspiration. Keep at it. You're almost there!

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BLASIAN-BEAUTY 12/4/2009 8:10AM

    This is so AWESOME!!!! emoticon

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DENI47 12/4/2009 8:02AM

    I know the feeling! I was petite growing up. After the kids, I ballooned. One day I woke up with an obese BMI. Just making it to overweight was so encouraging.

Hope this stimulates you to keep going. Believe me, the results are worth the effort! Congratulations on your success and best wishes for continuing!

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LOVESLIFE48 12/4/2009 7:42AM

    Wow!! That's wonderful!! Keep up the good work!! emoticon

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ITSABOUTME2407 12/4/2009 7:39AM

    WOW!! WHAT AN ACCOMPLISHMENT .. emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon
YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL GIRL ...JUST ENJOY THE ACCOMPLISHMENT ..IT TAKES A LOT OF HARD WORK AND DETERMINATION ...YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION FOR ME ..HERE IS TO A HAPPY ..HEALTHIER YOU emoticon
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promotion

Friday, October 16, 2009

well, its happened... ive been promoted.

for about 2 years now ive worked at Sears as a sales associate in the home improvement department (tools, hardware, paint, lawn and garden, ect...). yesterday i got the official word that i have been promoted to be the manager of the fine jewelry department (in the same Sears thankfully).

so on one hand, im very excited. when i first applied to Sears i had asked to be put into the jewelry department because i had worked for years in the jewelry industry in NY. well they didnt have room for me there... so they put me in tools... logical, right? (note the sarcasm lol). i shouldnt complain, because ive learned alot in tools, and ive really enjoyed working there. and im happy to be going into the department where i had originally wanted to go. but ill miss the comfort i felt in the tool department...

...which leads me to my nervousness... i am so scared about this! im really gonna miss the comfort level i felt in tools. ive never been promoted before, and ive never had this much responsibility in the workplace before. i absolutely DETEST starting new jobs (in case you cant tell, im not a big fan of change... as readers of my blog will know, ive even had issues with my dropping weight...lol im crazy i know). i keep trying to tell myself that its not really a new job... i mean, im still working for Sears, ill still be at the same location, and i know all the policies and sale procedures and so forth... but this isnt working because, well, it IS a new job. ill be working in an entirely different department, and i wont be a sales associate anymore. as a manager, my job will be entirely different... and ill need SO much training because most of the job requirements ill need to perform i have NO idea how to do! and OMG, what if i screw the whole thing up?!?!? emoticon

i wish i could say that im more excited than nervous, but its not true.. im just plain scared. i keep stressing myself out. i mean, this is a GOOD THING, why cant i just enjoy that?? i am very happy but im even more scared... aarrrrrggg!!!

well, my first day is monday. tomorrow and sunday are my last days in the tool department. its a bitter-sweet feeling. oooohhh man, lol... ok this was a longer vent session than i meant it to be, so sorry bout that... anyway, wish me luck!

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KATVHALE 10/18/2009 8:55PM

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That is awesome, Erin, you are going into Management!! Stop fretting and start planning how you are going to operate your department!! You have finally made it into Jewelry right where you wanted to be all along! You Go Girl!! God would not have opened this door for you if He didn't know that you could handle this! Thank Him and get ready for yet another wonderful adventure in your life!!

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LAUREN1257 10/17/2009 4:10PM

    Congrats on the promotion! Remember they promoted you because they have confidence that you can handle this. They know it's a new position for you and I'm sure you'll get the training you need. The good thing is that you're in the same store you were in previously so you'll likely be more comfortable to ask for help when you need assistance.

Great job!

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JAZZWOMAN1266 10/17/2009 3:14PM

    You will do fine and you will learn your new job as in anything! Go in confident and do not let them see you sweat! You can do anything you put your mind to!

GO GET THEM!

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CAMILLE-LEON 10/16/2009 10:24PM

    you got a promotion because you DESERVE it. of course they think you can handle the job. I am so excited for you! I know it's scary, but you're gonna do great & I have a feeling you will LOVE it! (I hope you love it!)

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BUTTONS973 10/16/2009 10:11PM

    First of all, congrats....on your promotion. I'm so happy for you. I can imagine that you are nervous plus excited at the same time. But you know what, you are going to be fine because that is expected.

Girl you are going into MANAGEMENT!! Those people in there see the confidence you have in yourself and now they want to put you in charge. That is awesome!!

You already know that there is nothing you do that you can't achieve. Look at your weight loss success. You set yourself a goal and now you are achieving it. Now set yourself another goal and make sure it include you being the best manager you can be. Those people in there see the potential and confidence you have. So now you got to really show them. They are going to train you just like SP did. So don't be afraid, don't think negative, just go in there Monday ready to work in your new position of MANAGEMENT. That is the door that's gonna open other doors to your future. emoticon

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LUCKY-13 10/16/2009 9:41PM

    It's normal to feel nervous about change, but you have to be doing something right in order to be promoted. Pat yourself on the back!! This is a good change and I'm sure you're going to do fine.

Wishing you the best!
Hugs,
Lucky

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