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BIG Girl goes to Boot Camp

Friday, November 11, 2011

I faced my fears and went with my husband to a Boot Camp session on Guest Night. It was a lot more intense than our typical strength training group, and I couldn't fulfill all the repetitions of some things, but I liked it.

People were very encouraging and never made me feel humiliated about my extra pounds or less strength.

I want to keep extending out of my comfort zone and trying new things, trying harder things. Next year I will be the strong and fit one helping the heavier newbie reach for another level!

  
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BIGLITTLEWOMAN 11/12/2011 5:21PM

    You have great confidence, good for you FL. You are an inspiration to me.

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BETTA13 11/12/2011 2:15PM

    So very proud of you! You push past those fears and go for it!

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WARMSPRINGDAY 11/12/2011 1:05PM

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NANCY- 11/12/2011 8:01AM

    WTG on doing what you needed to do for you. Your actions are great for you and are wonderful for inspiring others.
You are an amazing lady.

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JLITT62 11/12/2011 5:10AM

    I know that wasn't sat - good for you!

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HIFIGODDESS 11/11/2011 9:47PM

    Great job! :) That was brave.

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MR54BLD54 11/11/2011 9:30PM

    What fun congratulations!!

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Can't resist 11-11-11

Friday, November 11, 2011

What a great date to launch some new goals!

First small goal: no eating after dinner.

  
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BIGLITTLEWOMAN 11/11/2011 7:46PM

    Welcome Home, one goal at a time emoticon

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NANCY- 11/11/2011 8:15AM

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TRAVELGRRL 11/11/2011 7:06AM

    I agree! Great small goal, too. I can relate!

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MARKSTIPANOVSKY 11/11/2011 3:56AM

    Just weighed someone who was 11 stone 11 pounds...
How mad is that...

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Escape from the Cookie Monster

Friday, May 20, 2011

I was lying in bed last night, praying over today's schedule, when I thought, "Uh-oh! What are you going to do about the coffee and cookies at the haircut shop??!"

Two short-term goal dates are around the corner, and I've been doing well on food choices and exercise, so I don't want to blow it for store-bought cookies and coffee (coffee is not a stumbling block to me, although I enjoy it WITH stuff I don't need anyway).

God is helping me. I thought, "I have to make a plan. What will make it possible for me to sit around there an hour without ingesting [FREE] stuff I'll regret?"

1. Sit somewhere else. The principle of physical distance. The normal waiting area has the temptations, but we are just as welcome to sit in other spots. I mentally rehearse where I'll sit--far away from the refreshments.

2. Eat a healthy meal right beforehand. I wasn't biologically hungry, and---surprise---the refreshments didn't look that appealing.

3. Take something interesting to do. I took an absorbing book. I only felt drawn to the cookie platter once, and then I added the strategy of postponement. "I won't take any now. Not right now." Later I forgot about it---yay!

4. For next time: I had the first appointment of the morning. They had not made the coffee yet. Yay! Less temptation!

5. Accountability. The woman who cut my hair knows me, and we have talked about my weight loss journey. That's added motivation not to pig out there!

I am excited and grateful to see these techniques work so well for me. By God's grace I methodically executed the plan, and it was not painful! Later 2 dds and I fixed a nice lunch for 2 visiting ds, and I was not in calorie-crisis! Much more gratifying!

  
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PARISTASAI 7/12/2011 9:28AM

    How did the hair cut turn out--and the cookies?

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AMAZINGMOMMY4 5/31/2011 12:14AM

    Love it!! I think this planning ahead stuff is great, I have tried it a few times too (mine was for dinner at Olive Garden...pasta and cheese and bread !HELP!, but I had soup and salad because I planned ahead, and I felt great when I left)!! Keep up the good work, and let God's strength shine on!

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MAMASUDS 5/27/2011 5:04PM

    Way to go! So inspiring to read your successful plan. Thanks for leading the way.

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BIGLITTLEWOMAN 5/25/2011 3:32PM

    Queen on the mountain!! You thought, you planned and you won. Doin' the happy dance on the mountaintop.

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ID_VANDAL 5/24/2011 2:35PM

    What a great job! You are just doing things so well right now!

Keep up that good work - you are an inspiration.

Vandal

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JUNEBUG1960 5/24/2011 8:49AM

    Great ideas! Thanks for posting this. emoticon

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ATPEACEWITHLIFE 5/23/2011 1:45PM

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NANCY- 5/21/2011 8:07AM

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What a wonderful achievement and great planning on your part.
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One thing that I use during times of temptation is ...
I can have this (crap) now....
or I can have better stuff later (and incorporate it with my food plan.)
I always hold out for the better stuff.
Keep on Sparking!!!

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JLITT62 5/21/2011 5:24AM

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WATERMELLEN 5/20/2011 10:07PM

    Excellent planning! It really really works!!

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HSMOM2FOUR 5/20/2011 8:28PM

    wow! great job!!!! kudos to you!!

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LALASLAND 5/20/2011 3:38PM

    This is FANTASTIC! emoticonYou have taken exactly what you've been learning about at SparkPeople and elsewhere, and incorporating it into real, current situations! that's PERFECT! emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon

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Drive-Thru Diet Doesn't Compute

Friday, April 29, 2011

My daughter and I were looking at an ad for Taco Bell about their promoted "Drive-Thru Diet." The woman featured said she lost 54 pounds in 2 years. The fine print said this was achieved with a 1250-calorie diet. Does this sound right to you?

The calculator site I used said a woman age 35 who is 5 feet tall and weighs 110 pounds needs 1720 calories a day to maintain without exercise. At 500 calories less---the 1250 calories claimed by the ad---she'd have a 3500-calorie deficit in 7 days which should add up to a pound lost most weeks.

Seems like even a petite woman eating 1250 calories would lose a pound per week. We all know that doesn't always work, but TWICE as slow doesn't seem right. Hmmm . . .

  
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ID_VANDAL 4/30/2011 12:30PM

    I like Nancy's comment - just drive thru.

I really don't like these fast food companies trying to sell a "diet." That's just BS.

Well here's to a successful May for all of us!

Congratulations on 32 years!! That's awesome!

Vandal

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WATERMELLEN 4/29/2011 10:06PM

    Agree with you about these numbers: but then you have the facts and the tools to figure it out, and the average viewer would not . . .

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JIBBIE49 4/29/2011 8:09PM

    Sounds like she had a LOT of days when she went WAY over the calorie count.

I do give her credit for having gotten off that much in two years. Most people GAIN WEIGHT, so she did well.

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LALASLAND 4/29/2011 10:31AM

    You are right. It is a bunch of HOG WASH! emoticon

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MBSHAZZER 4/29/2011 8:36AM

    I bet her weight loss was slowed by all the chemicals that are contained in fast food!

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NANCY- 4/29/2011 7:57AM

    This just affirms that I should avoid TB and eat healthy.
I should just "Drive-Thru" and not stop.
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MAMASUDS 4/29/2011 2:00AM

    More than likely, the discrepancies will become clear in the details. Usually if it sounds too good to be true, it is. Kind of like the Special K - high carb, low calorie, killing hunger pains diet - you know, torture-me-thin diet. When I look at the calorie count for Taco Bell items, it appears that I would have a hard time feeling satisfied with the small amounts of food that would be included in a 1250 cal diet from there - Not to mention that my bank account would be empty and I wouldn't have any money left to buy new "skinny" clothes.

In short, yep, I don't think they are giving you all the info. But on the other hand, good for her. Glad it worked for her. I hope she is able to maintain and stay healthy.

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Tweaking Goal Weight?

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

I changed my goal weight from 145 to 140. Here is why.

I am not 5'6" any more; I am closer to 5'5" so at 145 I would still have a BMI of 24.1 and that seems like it's just inside the high end of the healthy range. I would rather have an official goal of BMI 23.3 which is where weighing 140 comes out. (when I first put up this blog I transposed those numbers--eeek!)

I have been finding it very helpful to have short-term goals as advised by many of you. When I lose 3 more pounds and weigh 185, I will be out of the obese range, and I will be elated. Of course getting into the healthy BMI range, even by just a smidge, will be a huge celebration. That will occur at 150 pounds. But I feel better about setting a target for more than just squeaking in.

All through college & early marriage I weighed 125 . . . and I had plenty of padding. So I don't think 140 is excessively thin, to have as a goal weight.

What do you guys think about this? Are there reasons this is not a good idea? I would really like feedback, pro or con. Thanks!

  
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DIDMIS 4/29/2011 12:19PM

    Hi. Bravo for you. In my personal opinion and through being a weight recorder for TOPS I think when you get closer to your initial goal then you could see if you really need to lose more weight. As Watermellen said, take it 5 pounds at a time. Otherwise you might begin to feel overwhelmed.
I especially liked what BLGIBSON68 said. Please read that again and thanks for that comment. It is exactly true.
You know I always wonder where that inch we lose goes to. emoticon
Probably to the hips and belly. emoticon

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BIGLITTLEWOMAN 4/28/2011 5:41PM

    I think a good weight for you will be determined by experimenting once you get in that range. I think there is going to be your own personal best weight that you will be able to maintain with reasonable eating and exercise. Once we find that "good norm" for ourselves I plan on being vigilant and go into damage control mode if I go over that by 5 pounds.

140 seems low for your height. I'm only 5'2 and 140 is my goal too. Maybe I've set my sights too high but I can figure it out when I get there. Isn't it great to speak of these issues as realities and not hopes and dreams?? They are our reality.

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ATPEACEWITHLIFE 4/28/2011 4:47PM

  Once you get closer and closer to your goal weight it will be more and more difficult to lose. You need to take that into consideration and see where your body naturally wants to rest. BMI figures are generalizations. They cannot take into consideration someone's bone density or other factors that play into weight like muscle composition.

I think it's important to set reasonable goals, but also important to gauge the reasonableness to our own bodies.

Keep up the great work!

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MAMASUDS 4/28/2011 3:50PM

    I think your new goal sounds very reasonable. I too weighed 125 when I got married and don't plan to go below that. Though, I haven't set a goal weight at this point as much as a goal size - Knowing that the waist measurement limit for women in order to avoid diabetes is 35", I prayerfully set my waist goal at 33". The book I am reading promotes praying about your goal weight and waiting for God to give you that number before you set an end-weight goal. I have been praying, but can't say that the Lord has revealed that number to me yet. It was after beginning to pray about the wight goal though that the Lord gave me the inch goal, so I feel quite confident that when I reach that inch goal, I will know "how" the Lord designed me to be.

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GODS_SERENITY 4/28/2011 10:33AM

    I think that is very reasonable for your height. As you get closer to that number you'll know if it's just right or you'll need to tweak it. Your doing great!

Debbie

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NANCY- 4/28/2011 10:21AM

    I agree with WATERMELLEN.
Once you get to goal your body will let you know.
Also I found by doing yoga and pilates I get closer to being 5'6" again. :)
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MOM-OF-SIX 4/28/2011 9:47AM

    I'm 5'4" and have set an initial goal of 150lbs. I haven't been below 165 since before I met my Brian. I figure I'll get down to 150, then reevaluate a final goal, be it 140 or 125 or something in between.

I'm not sure how the medical community came up with "ideal body weights" but I do know they have been reevaluating IBW lately and possibly adding in an age factor.

Keep setting small goals and keep plugging along. It's taken me 15 months to be down 34 lbs. Slow and steady wins the race!!!

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RUNNINGOMA 4/28/2011 5:56AM

    I think this is reasonable. And, as you get closer to goal, you can always reevaluate if need be.

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JLITT62 4/28/2011 5:24AM

    I have basically set my GW so it just puts me at a healthy BMI (altho that's not the end-all be-all).

Would I like to weigh even less? Sure, but I also know how hard it can be to maintain a lower weight, so I'm going with something I think I can maintain.

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WATERMELLEN 4/27/2011 6:50PM

    You've done so well with your weight loss so far, and I think your reference to BMI is a completely reasonable one -- although of course BMI is not the only measure of appropriate weight.

I like Beck's suggestion to take it 5 pounds at a time -- a goal at a time -- and when you get "close" then to go through the process (where I'm still at, actually) of determining the difference between "lowest achievable weight" and "lowest sustainable weight". It might be 150, it might be 145, it might be 140, it might be another number . . . but the end point of hte process of learning to think like a thin person is one that I haven't been able to "predetermine" yet.

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