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WEEKEND WITH MY SON

Sunday, August 24, 2014

My son called me on Thursday and said he was having some health issues and needed to see a doctor, but his health card had been cancelled because he didn't change his address when he moved. I told him that I would take him to see my doctor, as he has a walk-in clinic, and he is also accepting new patients. I needed to go back to see him anyway, so I could go at the same time. My son decided to come over and spend the night with me on Thursday so that we could go to the doctor on Friday. He phoned about his health card, but they told him he had to fill out a form on line and then it would take 4 - 6 weeks to get the card in the mail.

My son is very like my dh was, and he has no patience. He gets angry and frustrated very quickly. I calmed him down and convinced him to go downtown to the main office and see what could be done about his health card. He finally agreed to do that. We were able to get him a new health card right there. We then went to the doctor's office, but unfortunately the office had closed at 1:30 P.M. on Friday. I didn't realize that it closed that early. However the office was open on Saturdays from 12:00 Noon until 4:00 P.M. My son decided to spend another night so that we could go to the doctor on Saturday.

He had been complaining of stomach and chest pains. He said a doctor from a walk-in clinic had told him that he was developing an ulcer, and that he should stop smoking and start eating properly. When he saw the doctor on Saturday, the doctor checked him out and told him that he didn't have an ulcer or anything else wrong with his stomach, but that he had a torn cartiledge in his chest muscles. When my son asked why he had such pain whenever he ate anything, the doctor said that when he ate and if he had gas it was bloating his stomach and pushing on the muscle walls causing pain. The doctor told him to take it easy and try not to do too much work where he was using those muscles so that they would have a chance to heal. My son is so relieved. He was even thinking he might have cancer. Did I tell you he is a bit of a hypochondriac? (lol).

My son is spending the night again, and we are going to church together tomorrow. I have so enjoyed having him here for a few days. I did spoil him a little, but it was fun.

Hope everyone else is enjoying their weekend as much as I am.

  


I FEEL LIKE I'VE BEEN HIT IN THE GUT

Friday, August 15, 2014

I have been dealing with some health issues lately. I have been having dizzy spells and am battling sinusitis. I have had some bad dizzy spells, and since I live alone, it is pretty scary.
I had a bad vertigo attack several years ago, and had to go to the hospital to get some help, so I am a little (okay very) nervous when these attacks come on.

I have been sleeping in my recliner for the past couple of weeks, because it seems that every time I sleep in bed I wake to find the room spinning. I spent several days not being able to do too much because of these spells. I am so afraid to fall and not be able to get any help.

A couple of my friends have been checking in on me once in a while to see how I am doing, but they're not always available if I need someone. There is a lady who lives across the hall from me. She told me she has had several dizzy spells, and twice she fell in her bath tub and hit her head. Thank goodness her hubby was there to help her. She gave me her phone number and told me to call her if I needed help.

When I saw my doctor he told me I had low blood pressure, and he told me to cut my water pill in half and see if that helps.

The other day I got a call from my DB, and he told me that my BIL has been diagnosed with kidney cancer. It is stage 3 cancer, and they want to operate right away. My sister called from Oregon and said that her dh is now in the hospital awaiting surgery. I also received news that a good Spark Friend of mine is battling stomach cancer. She told me she thought she was getting an ulcer, and made an appointment with her doctor. Her dh was in contact, and he has let us know that she is in hospital dealing with cancer. I am awaiting further word as to what is happening.

I am just stunned. It seems like so much to absorb. it almost makes me feel like my problems are nothing compared to what others are going through. My head is spinning and I just don't know what to think.

I am doing a lot of praying right now. I am so thankful to know that I am not alone in this.
God is always there for me. He will never leave me nor forsake me. I am so thankful that I can lean on Him during this difficult time.

  


HEALTH ISSUES

Friday, August 08, 2014

I have been dealing with some health issues over the past few weeks. I have been experiencing dizziness, sinus problems and bad headaches. I have tried different things, but nothing has worked.

Last week I woke up early and when I went to check the time, the room started spinning. I had to stop and hold on to the wall until things settled down. I didn't do much of anything for three days as I was having nausea and dizziness most of the time. I slept in my recliner for a couple of nights, as I was afraid to sleep in my bed again. I started to feel better, so I decided to sleep in my bed again. I was okay for the first night, but the second morning I again awoke to extreme dizziness and I couldn't do too much again for a day or two.

Thank goodness for my wonderful Christian friends. One lady dropped off some Gravol and some diet Ginger Ale for me to help me out. She told me to call her if I needed anything else.
Another good friend called to make sure I was all right. She picked me up and took me out for ice cream one evening, so that I could get out and get some fresh air. She phoned every so often to make sure I was okay.

My doctor gave me some antibiotics to help the sinus condition and the headaches. However, they didn't work. My chiropractor helped after one of my spells.

Today I went back to the doctor to find out what is going on. He checked my blood pressure and then checked it again. He told me that I now have low blood pressure, instead of high blood pressure. He told me to cut one of my pills in half each day to see if that helps. He also prescribed another round of antibiotics, different once this time and for a longer time.

I will pick up the medication tomorrow and I will try cutting the pills and see if that helps. If not I will be going back to the doctor once again. I do hope this helps this time. I am so tired of feeling this way.

One of the ladies in my block gave me her phone number and told me to call her if I was having a dizzy spell. She has had a few and has fallen in her bath tub a couple of times.
As I live alone, it is a little scary when these attacks come on. Hopefully things will improve soon.

  
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CAROLFAITHWALKR 8/28/2014 11:43AM

    I can't see the comments. It says there are 20, I can only see 3. I was looking for my previous one. Didn't want to repeat myself if I'd already asked you if you'd tried SinuFix or not. It really works for me, chronic Sinusitis, inner ear and upper respiratory issues. I am not a doctor but I think what you're experiencing is all connected, Darlene.
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JUDITH316 8/14/2014 11:33PM

    My Dear Darlene, I apologize as I thought I had replied to your post and found out I hadn't, please accept my profuse apologies, bottom line I care and am so sorry you are going through all these health issues and of course am praying for you to get better soon... I am so happy you have someone you can call on to come and help you when needed, I know that alone can relieve some of the stress and fear knowing someone is right there for you. And of course we know we always have Jesus who sticks closer to us than a brother and One who will never leave you nor forsake you, He is always near. He is as close as the mention of His Name...

Another scripture that comes to mind is taken from...

2 Timothy 1:7 (NKJV)

For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.

I pray it brings you comfort and strength...

Love Hugs and Prayer my Friend...

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MVKNET 8/12/2014 11:36PM

  Father, I lift up Your precious daughter today praying that healing virtue would flow through her veins to every part of her body from the top of her head to the soles of her feet. I pray that in the midst of this dizziness she will feel Your Joy which is her strength. I pray that her immune system would rise up and fight off the infection and that her equilibrium would be restored. Lord You are bigger than sinus infections and you are bigger than dizziness. You are the God Who Is More than Enough. May she feel Your Presence as she waits on You. In Jesus Name, Amen And thank You Lord for those nice neighbors who are standing with her. I as emoticon k for Your blessings upon them also.

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CIERAPOET 8/11/2014 3:16AM

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Hello my dear sister!

I will continue to pray for you. When you are tempted to be afraid just clothes your eyes and picture Jesus right there beside you. He is there by the Holy Spirit. You are NOT alone. Angels are around you too. So take comfort and know that God LOVES you SO much. He will perfect that which concerns you! You are BLESSED in Him! Keep your eyes on God!
Many Blessings of Healing Upon You!
Deb


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FUN TIMES AND RAIN DAY

Sunday, June 29, 2014

My girlfriend and I decided that we would get together on Friday and go shopping. She can only use the car on Thursdays and Fridays when her DH is off work, as he needs the car for work.
She picked me up at 8:00 A.M., and we went for breakfast. I had a chiropractor appointment after that, and then we were off shopping. We spent the rest of the morning shopping, and then we went to our Knitting Club.

After the Knitting club was over at 3:00 P.M., we went out shopping again. We spent the rest of the afternoon together and then stopped for supper before we went home. We had a wonderful day. We always enjoy each other's company. We have adopted each other as sisters. We have so much fun together. It is great to have a wonderful Christian friend. She dropped me off at home at around 9:00 P.M. All in all it was a great day, but boy was I tired when I got home, and my feet were killing me. It was worth it, though.

Today has been a crazy day with the weather. It rained quite a bit this morning, and then it quieted down and was nice for a while. This afternoon the rain picked up and it was thundering and lightning. It rained so hard that you couldn't see out of the windows. I thought the swimming pool was going to flood. I was afraid the windows were going to break it was raining so hard. I went downstairs to the restaurant for supper, as I had been doing laundry all day, and I was tired and hot. It was very humid. The rain came in through the windows in the restaurant and there was water all over the floor. I'm sure glad it finally stopped and the sun came out.

We are expecting more rain tomorrow and Monday, but I hope we don't get as much as we have had today. Even the rivers are high. I'll bet there were some areas where there are flooded basements.

  
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IMAVISION 7/23/2014 9:30PM

    I am late in reading this --- still, it was nice to read about your pleasant day with your friend. emoticon with you that it is a blessing to have true friends among our siblings-in-Christ.

God bless!

Ima

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GOOD VISIT WITH SONS AND OTHER THINGS

Sunday, June 22, 2014

I hadn't heard from my son Darren since around Christmas time. He did send me a Facebook message on Mother's Day and on my birthday, but other than that he didn't call. I know he is busy, so it didn't really bother me too much. However for a couple of weeks I was going through some depression. I'm not really sure why, but everything started to bother me. I was even feeling sorry for myself. My church family prayed for me, and my depression did lift.

On Monday evening I received a call from Darren. I had seen on Facebook that he and his girlfriend had bought a car. He had lost his licence several years ago, and now wanted to get it back. His dad took him out driving for practice and then he went for the road test. He failed the first day, but decided to make an appointment to take the test again the next day.
He managed to pass the test, and he told me that his dad had prayed for him, and that "my" Jesus helped him pass the test. He is not a Christian, so that was a big thing for him to say.

When he called me he told me that he and his girlfriend Jean would come over on Friday for supper. I had wanted him to check over my computer, so he said he would do that while he was here. A couple of days late I had a call from my youngest son, James, and he told me that he had been off work for a while because of problems with ulcers. I invited him for dinner as well. So Friday evening we all got together and had dinner. We had a great time.

My son Darren went and cleaned out my computer and checked it over, while my son James washed, dried and put away the dishes. It was so nice to have someone else to cook for. I have a hard time to just cook for myself since my DH passed away.

I have been having a hard time organizing some things in my bedroom, etc., and both my sons helped me get rid of a lot of things I didn't need and took it all down to the garbage.
Later in the evening they noticed that my carpet was wet in front of the air conditioner/heater.
I called maintenance, and they sent someone to check it out. He tried to fix the problem, but said there was a clog in the line. He said he would have to get Rotor Rooter in today to have it checked. This morning he came in and tried fixing it again, and then he went down to the basement and checked the pipes there, and he managed to get the pipe clear. He almost got a face full of water (lol). However, since then my air-conditioning (central air) is working wonderfully. This is the best that it has worked in the two years that I have been here. Someone is going to come in on Monday to change the filter, and then I should be good to go for a while.

I talked to my son Darren, and he is going to come and help me with some other things before I go in for surgery for a torn rotator cuff. I found it that I won't be able to do too much with my left arm for about 4 months after the surgery. I have time to clean out my freezer and cook some meals and put them away.

Looking forward to going to church tomorrow.

  


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