Thursday, August 28, 2014
well we waited around for a good 3 hrs and something happened today his mother looked really upset and the lawyer doesn't look confident. They are choosing not to have jurors instead a judge is going to sit on the bench and rule , kids mother didn't seem happy about it and the lawyer was shaking his head a lot I don't think he's got the witnesses he thought he'd have and something about not having a jury.
The kid had to face a judge today by video as regular judge is on maternity leave and this judge could be heard yelling at the prior kid and when the bully was being sworn in he wasn't talking loud enough and the judge was getting irritated and he wasn't telling him his name. The judge asked who we were and they said it's the victim and his parents, don't know what is going to happen of course it's continued till September 25th. Tomorrow meeting with the superintendent and principal.. fun
Monday, August 25, 2014
Yesterday hubby wanted to bring me to this umbrella factory that has little gardens all done up because he knows I love flowers. So he had me text his friend we got a late start because the boys went to a comic book show and wanted to know if the place stayed open late.
His friend told us to google it so said we were out of data and he's been there before so he knows where it is and times.
He makes over 130,000 a year as an engineer so money isn't a big deal for him so he texted back well only costs an extra 10 for more data, so hubby said 10 to much if you don't have it. He replies back well get her working, her as in ME! Now when this guy was first married he had to work several jobs because his lazy wife wouldn't work nothing wrong with her and her house wasn't kept up always lived like a pig. So when I read that I got upset, felt hurt and thought this guy thinks I don't want to work?????? Heck I loved my job!!!!!! I was a medical assistant, I went back to school for that after working 10 yrs in a warehouse killing my body (probably why my fibro and lyme are so bad because of all the repetitive motion. I said to my husband this is what your friend wrote back to me, he said that wasn't called for and I said you think???????? I said if anyone is lazy and doesn't want to work it's his wife and he's got the nerve to say send her to work?
So my hubby starts to stick up for him, boy did I let him have it I said you know I always have your back always and with him you never have mine. See his friend thought he was texting with my husband, didn't know it was me.
I've written before how guilty I feel for getting sick because hubby has to work so many hours and to see friend say that well how do I know my hubby doesn't talk about me behind my back? I was so hurt he said that he said something to his friend this morning and his friend apologized how do I know? I said your saying he apologized, but I didn't hear it. I live in a dark place a lot because of this stupid lyme, do you know what it's like to have your dream job and then lose it by no choice of your own, god I was going to go back to school to be a nurse because I so enjoyed helping people and I was sooooooooooo good at it and to have this guy act like I'm so lazy woman like his own wife, just was like someone knifed me in the gut. I can't stand ignorant people no one knows the pretend face I put on just to go out, when your in pain constantly it's very difficult to do. Someday karma will come back on him, that was just so thoughtless and mean....
Sunday, August 24, 2014
yesterday we went to a cookout held by one of my hubby's buddies from the national guards, I was hurting but when I got there and had a little rum coconut punch hahaha I felt decent, so I just kept drinking it hahahaha I'm not a drinker so it must of been enough to dull the pain hahaha.
It was good to see him smiling and having fun with buddies he hadn't seen in about 10 yrs, a few didn't show but the ones that were there had me laughing so hard, god I can't remember when I laughed so much.
One girl showed up that always liked my hubby, she's divorced now with 2 kids and kept telling me how wonderful my hubby is hahaha like I don't already know that? haha
She got really old looking and she's way younger then me but she went through a divorce and she's a single mom, I guess the hubby doesn't really want to bother with the kids. She kept staring at my hubby, but hubby could of cared less. I said boy she kept telling me how wonderful you use to be when you did your two weeks and how you could always be counted on , he said oh brother she use to be such a witch when we went away hahaha okay well he really used the "B" word hahahaha.
It sprinkled a little bit but they had tents up , I made this huge salad with tomato, cucumber, hot peppers and onions and my god that was the best tasting salad for some reason hahaha
We really did have a great time and so glad we went, on the way there I was really hurting and hubby said if I wanted to turn around and not go, but I said no we're going so glad we went, I haven't seen him laugh like that in a while.
Friday, August 22, 2014
I've been seeing my doctor for 30 yrs , which is odd cause I'm only 29 yrs old hahahahaha anyways....
I shut the lights off because I usually have to wait a while for him to come in so he pokes his head in and says Sharon why you have the lights off? I said my eyes are very sensitive, he says okay. He came in like 10 minutes later now my doctor is in his mid to late 70's and he was trying to be nice and not have the lights on for me but there is no windows but a small light that they use for the gyno exams. I said I'll tough it out so he was actually quite nice, was telling him about everything he said Sharon when are you going to get better how long are you going to be on antibiotics? and he's saying it in a cute Indian accent I said I'm not sure, so he steps out of the room so I can undress and he says you want me to shut the lights? I said I'll do it because I have to see to get undressed and find the table, so I shut the lights off got on the table he comes in and he can't walk that good and he's trying to do it in the dark with just the light from the computer ahahaha he was making me nervous I said no doc you can put the light on I don't want you to fall, he didn't listen almost fell I'm like oh dear lord if he falls they are going to run in and say what did you do to him? hahahaha
Thank god he didn't get hurt, I think it was nice that he was considerate seeing his secretary yesterday was a jerk on the phone.
Then I get out the girl wants to put all the testing through their group but my insurance company wants me to go to the cheaper places, she got such an attitude, she says what about your blood work I said no I go to this one place cause the girl gets my vein everytime hey I'm not going to be a pin cushion for her just cause she doesn't want to do her job and write it out. So she was mad cause I didn't want all my scripts to be put through the computer but if she did then they fill all of them and I don't have money to fill them all right now... So she forgets to give me the bloodwork paper and of course I didn't notice till I got home, I called she says oh yeah you confused me cause I had to do so many things for you, well to bad! That is her job I use to be a medical assistant and I had patients ask me to do tons of things and I NEVER gave them an attitude because that was my job.
So now I have to wait for it to be sent in the mail because she had an attitude because she actually had to do a little work...
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