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went to court

Thursday, August 28, 2014

well we waited around for a good 3 hrs and something happened today his mother looked really upset and the lawyer doesn't look confident. They are choosing not to have jurors instead a judge is going to sit on the bench and rule , kids mother didn't seem happy about it and the lawyer was shaking his head a lot I don't think he's got the witnesses he thought he'd have and something about not having a jury.
The kid had to face a judge today by video as regular judge is on maternity leave and this judge could be heard yelling at the prior kid and when the bully was being sworn in he wasn't talking loud enough and the judge was getting irritated and he wasn't telling him his name. The judge asked who we were and they said it's the victim and his parents, don't know what is going to happen of course it's continued till September 25th. Tomorrow meeting with the superintendent and principal.. fun

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RASPBERRY56 8/28/2014 4:13AM

    Hmmmmmmm - don't want to speculate too much, but it looks like your adversaries are finally meeting their match (I hope)!

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TCANNO 8/28/2014 3:52AM

    At least you are on the way now Sharon, fingers XXX.

Have a good day.


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ZRIE014 8/28/2014 12:52AM

  have a nice day

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Tomorrow is court prayers needed, heard from school committee person

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

We went for a tour of the new school yesterday it's okay to me it's not worth 82 millions dollars the classes are so small, the cafeteria is small and the stools are attached to the tables and makes it very uncomfortable to sit down and what they call a library is a joke! You see no books at all , it feels very cold and sterile and there are 300 camera's in the building and microphones so it's got the feel of a prison to it that's the impression you get specially in the cafeteria. We saw the state rep asked if she knew if the school committee members received the letters I wrote it was like she didn't want to be bothered and said go talk to that guy, well saw that guy and was kind of blown off. He said yes I'll call you I'm busy, he was going with a tour like he hasn't seen that building already? c'mon.
Today I received a call from the new principal saying he'd like to meet with us Thursday with the superintendent and then few hours later I received a call from a committee member who seemed genuine. Her 2 children had been bullied in the same schools and she said she was just put in office last May and wasn't a popular choice and that everything I wrote (I wrote a 8 page letter) hit home with her and that she was going to try and help us but that she was only one voice, I thanked her for getting back to me as she has been the only one out of 9 people I sent the letter to.
Tomorrow is court say a prayer for us!

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JANISMKW 8/27/2014 9:24PM

    emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon emoticon
(Those represent prayers.)

My son who has autism was bullied to the point of a concussion from being punched in the head and the school was horrific to him and us. I filed a complaint with the Dept. of Ed. but they did nothing because I had already pulled my son out of the school so he was no longer in danger.

Wishing you the best. God be with you tomorrow.

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MRSP90X 8/27/2014 9:21AM

    Just one of the many reasons I am so glad that I homeschool!! When I was working on getting my Masters degree to teach mathematics and physics, I leaned that schools are nothing but the government's institution to mold you into their ideal and to strip away all, and I mean all, parental authority. It gets worse every year. Schools are really no longer about teaching and making kids the best academically, but rather kids that feel good about themselves without merit, as evidenced by kids who can't even read well and get passed on and graduate anyway. We get kids that feel great about themselves but can't do anything. Not like they did 30+ years ago. I wonder who my future Dr will be? What a scary thought. Sorry for the rant.

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MARYBETH4884 8/27/2014 8:18AM

    You'll be in my thoughts and prayers!! emoticon

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TCANNO 8/27/2014 5:41AM

    Good luck Sharon, at least it is a step forward.


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felt very hurt, venting

Monday, August 25, 2014

Yesterday hubby wanted to bring me to this umbrella factory that has little gardens all done up because he knows I love flowers. So he had me text his friend we got a late start because the boys went to a comic book show and wanted to know if the place stayed open late.
His friend told us to google it so said we were out of data and he's been there before so he knows where it is and times.
He makes over 130,000 a year as an engineer so money isn't a big deal for him so he texted back well only costs an extra 10 for more data, so hubby said 10 to much if you don't have it. He replies back well get her working, her as in ME! Now when this guy was first married he had to work several jobs because his lazy wife wouldn't work nothing wrong with her and her house wasn't kept up always lived like a pig. So when I read that I got upset, felt hurt and thought this guy thinks I don't want to work?????? Heck I loved my job!!!!!! I was a medical assistant, I went back to school for that after working 10 yrs in a warehouse killing my body (probably why my fibro and lyme are so bad because of all the repetitive motion. I said to my husband this is what your friend wrote back to me, he said that wasn't called for and I said you think???????? I said if anyone is lazy and doesn't want to work it's his wife and he's got the nerve to say send her to work?
So my hubby starts to stick up for him, boy did I let him have it I said you know I always have your back always and with him you never have mine. See his friend thought he was texting with my husband, didn't know it was me.
I've written before how guilty I feel for getting sick because hubby has to work so many hours and to see friend say that well how do I know my hubby doesn't talk about me behind my back? I was so hurt he said that he said something to his friend this morning and his friend apologized how do I know? I said your saying he apologized, but I didn't hear it. I live in a dark place a lot because of this stupid lyme, do you know what it's like to have your dream job and then lose it by no choice of your own, god I was going to go back to school to be a nurse because I so enjoyed helping people and I was sooooooooooo good at it and to have this guy act like I'm so lazy woman like his own wife, just was like someone knifed me in the gut. I can't stand ignorant people no one knows the pretend face I put on just to go out, when your in pain constantly it's very difficult to do. Someday karma will come back on him, that was just so thoughtless and mean....

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DS9KIE 8/27/2014 10:07AM

    you are an emoticon emoticon person emoticon emoticon

emoticon to those that think any thing else

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JANISMKW 8/25/2014 9:50PM

    My favorite saying about having anger and resentments: it's like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die.

We hear you. As the others have said, don't let it ruin your days, try to let it go.

Peace, God bless.

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SUSIEPH1 8/25/2014 8:55PM

    Sweetheart you need to let this go! .. You know ,and your hubby knows that you are not able ..
It was a very insensitive thing to say on your hubby's friend part .. But I don't think your hubby would think that .. He is just trying to smooth things over ..
Men have no,idea how to sort things out .. It is better to try forget it ..
Don't let this insensitive man put a wedge between your hubby and you ...
Love and Hugs Susie ... emoticon emoticon

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HEALTHY4ME 8/25/2014 8:13PM

    YOu know what is right and true so just throw the rest out. YOU are strong girl, look at all the family stuff and what has been done and said. So take what this guy said with a grain of salt and ignore it. And I can't even imagine your hubby thinking or talking about you like that so don't go down that street girl. It will only cause you more stress and heartbreak, you don't need to get upset cos hubby is upset with you or you him.


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TCANNO 8/25/2014 5:12PM

    Put it behind you and keep smiling Sharon, don't let it get you down


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BLUECAFE 8/25/2014 1:46PM

    Unfortunately we live in a world full of judgmental people that feel they can give their opinion on things they don't have a clue about. Let it go..... you have enough to deal with without stressing over ignorant people. emoticon

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BRENDA_G50 8/25/2014 1:42PM

    Yes dear, You're absolutely correct!!! Karma does have a way to come back and bite you in the butt. What you put out into the world, good or bad, will eventually come right back and if you're really lucky, you'll get to watch!!! emoticon

Chalk off that "friends" comment to being misinformed and ignorant to boot!!! I know it hurts when someone says things they know nothing about (like your health issues for instance), but you're better than that and as long as you keep the anger inside of you, he wins.


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COOLRAIN 8/25/2014 1:36PM

    I'm so sorry you were hurt like that. But please, don't let it upset you anymore. The jerk isn't worth it. I know it's easier said than done, but just let it go. Anger and bitterness hurt the ones feeling them more than the ones they are directed at. You deserve better. You ARE better! Take care of yourself.

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What a great time we had

Sunday, August 24, 2014

yesterday we went to a cookout held by one of my hubby's buddies from the national guards, I was hurting but when I got there and had a little rum coconut punch hahaha I felt decent, so I just kept drinking it hahahaha I'm not a drinker so it must of been enough to dull the pain hahaha.
It was good to see him smiling and having fun with buddies he hadn't seen in about 10 yrs, a few didn't show but the ones that were there had me laughing so hard, god I can't remember when I laughed so much.
One girl showed up that always liked my hubby, she's divorced now with 2 kids and kept telling me how wonderful my hubby is hahaha like I don't already know that? haha
She got really old looking and she's way younger then me but she went through a divorce and she's a single mom, I guess the hubby doesn't really want to bother with the kids. She kept staring at my hubby, but hubby could of cared less. I said boy she kept telling me how wonderful you use to be when you did your two weeks and how you could always be counted on , he said oh brother she use to be such a witch when we went away hahaha okay well he really used the "B" word hahahaha.
It sprinkled a little bit but they had tents up , I made this huge salad with tomato, cucumber, hot peppers and onions and my god that was the best tasting salad for some reason hahaha
We really did have a great time and so glad we went, on the way there I was really hurting and hubby said if I wanted to turn around and not go, but I said no we're going so glad we went, I haven't seen him laugh like that in a while.

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TCANNO 8/25/2014 6:13AM

    I am glad you had a good time Sharon you deserve it

Have a good week as well

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JANISMKW 8/24/2014 8:23PM

    Glad it turned out well and you got beyond your pain. My DH was in the Coast Guard and it means a lot to him to be around other veterans, so good of you to support your hubby in that.

Always a good move to bring emoticon something healthy to eat too.

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HEALTHY4ME 8/24/2014 5:44PM

    Glad you had a good time!!! Sometimes it gets better when we get out for awhile.

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MARYBETH4884 8/24/2014 2:35PM

    Glad you had fun!!

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Doctor's visit, I thought he was going to break his neck

Friday, August 22, 2014

I've been seeing my doctor for 30 yrs , which is odd cause I'm only 29 yrs old hahahahaha anyways....
I shut the lights off because I usually have to wait a while for him to come in so he pokes his head in and says Sharon why you have the lights off? I said my eyes are very sensitive, he says okay. He came in like 10 minutes later now my doctor is in his mid to late 70's and he was trying to be nice and not have the lights on for me but there is no windows but a small light that they use for the gyno exams. I said I'll tough it out so he was actually quite nice, was telling him about everything he said Sharon when are you going to get better how long are you going to be on antibiotics? and he's saying it in a cute Indian accent I said I'm not sure, so he steps out of the room so I can undress and he says you want me to shut the lights? I said I'll do it because I have to see to get undressed and find the table, so I shut the lights off got on the table he comes in and he can't walk that good and he's trying to do it in the dark with just the light from the computer ahahaha he was making me nervous I said no doc you can put the light on I don't want you to fall, he didn't listen almost fell I'm like oh dear lord if he falls they are going to run in and say what did you do to him? hahahaha
Thank god he didn't get hurt, I think it was nice that he was considerate seeing his secretary yesterday was a jerk on the phone.
Then I get out the girl wants to put all the testing through their group but my insurance company wants me to go to the cheaper places, she got such an attitude, she says what about your blood work I said no I go to this one place cause the girl gets my vein everytime hey I'm not going to be a pin cushion for her just cause she doesn't want to do her job and write it out. So she was mad cause I didn't want all my scripts to be put through the computer but if she did then they fill all of them and I don't have money to fill them all right now... So she forgets to give me the bloodwork paper and of course I didn't notice till I got home, I called she says oh yeah you confused me cause I had to do so many things for you, well to bad! That is her job I use to be a medical assistant and I had patients ask me to do tons of things and I NEVER gave them an attitude because that was my job.
So now I have to wait for it to be sent in the mail because she had an attitude because she actually had to do a little work...

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TCANNO 8/23/2014 5:45AM

    Sharon, you should read my blog from a few days ago, at least you would get a laugh out of it.
It is all about doctors secretaries.


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