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Good and Bad Time of the year!!!

Thursday, December 16, 2010

I am having a really hard time with Mom being gone!! I have not had a problem this last two years!!! But the last two years DH and my Son working together and getting a long!! This year they had another huge fight!!! My Son is also not being very nice to me right now! I have not heard from him in over a week! I gave him his money from Mom's estate it was not much, but right now he does not need anything so I have not heard from him! I am sorry for being a Debbie downer, but I feel I can tell my Spark friend and they will not judge! My work buddy, family and friends here always take my side and that is not what I want!! Sometime you just need to vent!!! No one is in the right here and no is in the wrong! It is just a part of my life experience! I will be stronger for going through this and I know the Lord and the Angels will bring me through this just fine! Thanks you for listening!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I left DH in bed with a tummy ache this morning I hope he is better!!!
Now to happier things I hope to get furniture moved Saturday!! Dish and such back in the china hutch coming from Mom and Dad's! If that happens maybe I can get some wrapping and shopping finished!!!! I hope all my Spark Buddies are having a Terrific Thursday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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STEINERMOM 12/17/2010 6:35AM

  Much love and many blessings to you as you deal with the challenges of your son and your husband. Some days (or weeks or situations) are just challenging. I am glad that you chose to vent here. Sounds like you are missing your mom and in need of a little female energy to balance out the strong males in your life. Hoping that you can find time with a friend or female family member.

Of course, we are here on Spark. Wish we were closer to sit and have a cup of tea and offer a hug.

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LESLIES537 12/16/2010 11:22AM

    Don't you worry about being a Debbie-Downer! We're your FRIENDS, that's what we're here for!!! Vent all you want honey!

Some years are just worse than others....don't be hard on yourself, it's completely normal to be missing her this time of year, and especially with your family fighting like they are. Your son sounds young and maybe is striving for his independence. Rest assured that he still needs his mommy!!! No matter how much he expresses it or not!

You're right, you WILL be stronger for going through this...you already ARE! God will never put us through more than we can handle. And our angels will be right here to help us along too! Keep the faith and know you will make it through this...even if we have to do it TOGETHER! HUGS!
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LITTLEFARMMOMMA 12/16/2010 11:15AM

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KARRYB1 12/16/2010 10:28AM

    Sometimes I feel that my family just seems to want to take all the time and have no thoughts on what I might need in way of help or just a hug.
Those days come and go , hopefully tomorrow will be brighter.
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KATHYJO56 12/16/2010 10:02AM

    We are always here for you my dear friend! emoticon emoticon emoticon

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A Day of Rest!!! MAYBE!!!!!!!!

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

We are going to fix the little gift bags we got for the Nursing Home today!! Their party is tomorrow! My gift is almost wrapped for the Lady whose name I drew off their tree, I just need tissue paper! My Co-Worker whose Mother is in this care facility is going to the party tomorrow!!!! I also need to find my desk! I have invoices to input, check to cut, all sorts of fun things to get done before Monday! We are having our Christmas lunch here at the office Monday!
I moved 9 various size boxes of dishes and glass war yesterday, cleaned up the laundry room !!
I hope everyone is further along or finished with their shopping!!!! Enjoy your Wednesday!!!!!!! emoticon emoticon emoticon
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OPALMOON 12/16/2010 8:40AM

    You are certainly keeping busy! I am sure you will get it all done though - and hopefully have a chance to put your feet up...

I have posted my presents to interstate friends now, and wrapped up one for a friend I am meeting up with tomorrow. At home the house is getting a super clean, and that is taking up most of our time.

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MOMONTHERUN1 12/15/2010 6:35PM

    U are busy, but you will get it all done!

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STRIPEDTIGER 12/15/2010 5:57PM

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MOM2ACAT 12/15/2010 4:33PM

    Shopping was finished about two weeks ago, today I finished the wrapping!

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YELLOW09RED 12/15/2010 3:10PM

    I hope you have a wonderful day.
Hugs,
Debbie
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BUTEAFULL 12/15/2010 1:58PM

    I have some final wrapping to do then I'm ready

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LITTLEFARMMOMMA 12/15/2010 1:42PM

    Wow! And you think you're going to REST?! emoticon emoticon

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THEWINNER33 12/15/2010 11:49AM

    You help me remember why I am happy to be retired. I hope you have a chance to slow down, enjoy the spirit of Christmas and take a moment for yourself. Marcia

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KATHYJO56 12/15/2010 11:39AM

    Wow, you are very busy. Remember to stop and take a deep breath and a moment to relax. Christmas is almost here and I hope you get to enjoy the season. emoticon

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BILLY4225 12/15/2010 11:07AM

    Wow, hope you have time to take deep breath and enjoy the smells of Christmas during all your hustling and bustling.
Have a wonderful Christmas.

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LUCRETIAO 12/15/2010 11:06AM

    Wow what a busy woman you are. Have a wonderful day. And I am not done with my holiday shopping either.

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Work harder today than yesterday!!!!

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

I moved furniture this morning getting ready for the furniture we are moving from my Mom and Dad's house! Then at 9:45 I took Mr R and Lilly to the vet! They are both doing fine! Mr R needs his teeth cleaned and his back knees looked at! I will have to set that up after the new year!!!
I had lunch and finished here at my house!! Then I went to Mom and Dad's and started moving my Sister stuff and cleaning up mouse poop!!! I got all that done! Then then started packing Mom's good dishes and glass wear out of the china hutch!! Got that done and loaded in my HHR! I emptied out the freezer, not much in it !! The cake my Sister had done for Mom's birthday (just days before she passed) was frozen and in the freezer! I had to throw that out!! I got home and unloaded the china and glass wear into my front bedroom! We planning on bringing out the freezer, china hutch and bookshelf Saturday!!! Then I can wash the dishes and stuff and put it up! I am going to Spark and then rest!!!!! emoticon LOL!!
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STRIPEDTIGER 12/15/2010 7:30AM

    Whew!!! You've been a busy little beaver!!

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MADKAPKID 12/15/2010 6:24AM

    I think I got tired just reading all you got done. LOL That was a lot of work! House work does burn calories...woo hoo.....Have a holiday spirit filled kind of day....Karen emoticon

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HEROS3 12/14/2010 10:18PM

    Way too Go!!! What you are doing is more than hard work it can be emotionally draining. Thoughts are with You
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PLAYBLUES22 12/14/2010 6:42PM

    emoticonSweetie, you certainly burned some calories today

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SBLACKWELL93 12/14/2010 5:30PM

    wow that is alot of work but hey all that lifting and moving would be considered heavy cleaning on your cardio so emoticon. You doing good keep it up.

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LITTLEFARMMOMMA 12/14/2010 5:21PM

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catching up!!

Monday, December 13, 2010

I am trying to catch up at work!!! I will be off again tomorrow!! Hope everyone is having a wonderful day!! emoticon emoticon emoticon

  
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SAL1512 12/16/2010 2:13PM

    The catching up is hard to do but it feels so good when you catch up!
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YELLOW09RED 12/14/2010 10:55AM

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Peace today,
hugs,
Debbie

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CATLADY52 12/14/2010 10:49AM

    emoticon just say you'll try, and do your best. emoticon

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BUTEAFULL 12/14/2010 3:18AM

    UGH work, I feel for you

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LESLIES537 12/13/2010 4:32PM

    emoticon Happy Monday!

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PLAYBLUES22 12/13/2010 2:28PM

    Sweetie, the holidays always brings extra work, just do the best you can

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Home again, home again!!!!!

Sunday, December 12, 2010

We got home awile ago!!! I sorted through what we bought over the weekend! I talked to family member try to find out something to finish up my Christmas shopping! I did get some ideas!!! I am doing laundry while I spark! I am also thinking about where to put the bookshelf and things I am bringing from my parents home! I just wish my sister could get organized and get her things out of there so we could sell the house!!! I know it will happen when it is so suppose to happen! I hope everyone is warm and safe!! It is just cold here, no snow or rain!! Sunny and cold!
Every Little Spark in Sparkville saty safe and warm!!!!! Enjoy your Monday!!!!! emoticon emoticon emoticon

  
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LESLIES537 12/13/2010 11:06AM

    Home sweet home! Yay! emoticon emoticon

Have a great Monday!

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STRIPEDTIGER 12/13/2010 10:03AM

    :) A bookcase is my second favorite piece of furniture; my first is a bed! :)

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LITTLEFARMMOMMA 12/12/2010 4:17PM

    Home again, Home again, Jigetty Jig! emoticon

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PLAYBLUES22 12/12/2010 3:57PM

    Sweetie, happy to hear you are home safe emoticon

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