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Thursday, December 10, 2009

There are a couple things my BF has mentioned the one time we've talked lately that has really made me wonder.

He was unhappy that I was going to get him a christmas present because he hadn't gotten me anything.

He said that he wasn't sure how he felt because even though he enjoyed my company and coming home to someone, he also likes being home alone now.

Finally, he doubts (different times but similar concept) my feelings for him. He comes up with other reasons why I might think I love him, as if I'm confused and don't really care for him.

This has me questioning what to do.

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ELFMAGE7 12/15/2009 10:48PM

    He wasn't online during the time but he also didn't know.

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KYRRDIS 12/12/2009 9:03PM

    Honestly? He sounds like a waste of your time and emotions. Isn't this the guy who made himself scarce when you were concerned about whether you were pregnant or not?

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Saturday, December 05, 2009

For fun, I thought I'd consult the tarot deck in my pregnancy question (whether I am or not). I used an online one, which is okay thought I prefer picking the card myself. Did get an interesting response.

Question = Am I pregnant

The card represents the critical factor for the issue at hand. Two of Cups (Love): The perfect harmony of union, in romance, friendship, or business. A deep and palpable connection radiating joy and contentment. A great concordance or pledge of fidelity. The joining of male and female interpreted in the broadest sense. The sanctification of the natural through that which exists on a higher plane. May indicate the meeting of a kindred soul, marriage, engagement, merger, or partnership.

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KYRRDIS 12/10/2009 8:08PM

    I see from your feed that you tested negative. The card said 'yes you are' in my opinion, but who am I to question science?

If your cycle doesn't start again soon, you may want to have the doc see if it's something else. Or run the test again.

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Call or not...

Wednesday, December 02, 2009

So, for the past month, I have talked with my boyfriend maybe 5 times overall online. He doesn't even come online anymore. Haven't received an email response to my request I sent at the end of last week. The only phone number I have is to his mother's house (or cell, not sure which). Since he doesn't have a phone, we don't talk on the phone, and he doesn't want to do long distance calls on his mom's phone.

I'm not sure if I should call or not. I'm starting to feel a little concerned.

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RONIH2O 12/2/2009 2:00PM

    Time to ask the hard questions. My son's girlfriend is in the Navy and ran up over 230 minutes on a cell phone he got for her. Only 12 of those minutes were to him. From where she is stationed, it's $2.00 per minute and she has not paid either.

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another symptom overview

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Have a fair amount of symptoms and it's amazing how many there are.

odd feelings/ache in midsection
food cravings
food aversions
heartburn sensations
odor sensitivity
back pain
aches in breasts

Just about the only symptoms of pregnancy that I have had is sharp pains, vomiting, missed period, and positive test.

I am not sure how long to wait and take another test.

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JAMIE71004 11/30/2009 1:37PM

    My cousin had at least 10 NEGATIVE pregnancy tests and she was pregnant. so, you never know. Just wait a little longer if you want, and if you don't, then go in and ask your doctor to take a blood test for you for piece of mind. Im not saying you are pregnant, I don't want to get your hopes up, but, as Carrie said, she had no symptoms, and that happens alot, plus, with my cousin, she knew she was pregnant, and kept getting negative tests anyway.. just something to think about. I hope everything works out for you!!

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CARRIE4116 11/30/2009 12:37PM

    When I became pregnant with my son I had absolutely no symptoms of pregnancy. The only reason why I took a test at all was because at the time my periods were on time to the minute of the exact day and I didn't start that day. Well I also had a few food aversions but not really I just blew it off as nothing. I literally took the test the very next day my period was suppose to start. I ended up taking like 10 all in all :) Surprise they all said the same!!! :)

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Sad or Confused

Thursday, November 26, 2009

So, I've felt like I am pregnant for about 2 weeks now. Had my period but still have had the feelings. I waited 9 days from the expected period date, even though it came early, and tested. Came out negative. But I still have the symptoms and the gut feeling.

My biggest issue is I'm tired of feeling sick and no one knowing why. I'd go to the doctor but have no health insurance and it's not worth going since often they don't know what's wrong either.

Back when my mom was pregnant with me, the test came out negative. It wasn't until a while later that she went to the doctor and found out she was pregnant.

I'm going to be careful still and see what happens in december. Maybe in the 8 week period I'll test again, or wait to see if I get my period for that month.

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ELFMAGE7 12/2/2009 12:10PM

    The truth is I wouldn't mind it. I've always wanted a child but also, it would be nice to know what is going on with my body. I don't like not knowing. If I'm not then I still have plenty of time in the future.

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TLGREIG 11/26/2009 1:08PM

    Do you want to be pregnant? I know that I would have that feeling too only to be disappointed when it turned out negative! Hope that all goes well for you!

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