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It is a God Moment or is it old age?

Wednesday, December 08, 2010

When I review one element of this wonderful vacation that’s just about come to a close, I realized I have lost several things: For example, my Nepali black pashmina (a treasured cashmere shawl from a Nepali friend), a beautiful white sweater (a wonderful gift, albeit a relatively new hand-me-down, from my cousin), and about six pounds (alleluia!). I had to throw in that last one for a little levity. Once I lost the pashmina for four weeks, having revisited three restaurants where I may have been, when suddenly it appeared neatly folded and tucked away in a corner of my trunk.

It's to the point that when I go somewhere, I need to make a mental checklist before leaving . . . did I remember everything? Why can't I remember to do this? It's an observation I shared with my partner – in hopes to perhaps elicit a little assistance.

It is a God Moment or is it old age?
While it may be both, I’m going to take it as a teaching moment from God to loosen the grip I have on my earthly possessions. In the parable of the rich fool (Luke 12:13-21), Jesus said, “Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; life does not consist in an abundance of possessions.” If I should never see these wraps again, I will have the wonderful memory of having received them from great people and pray they found their way to someone in need.

Are you getting enough little nudges in your life to change your thinking?

  
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ANDYINBC 12/9/2010 9:24AM

    With the frequency of my losing things, and then finding them, God must be living in my house! I prefer God moments to old age!

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PAMAPPLE 12/8/2010 10:31PM

    Even as the aging process makes changes in our memory, how good of you to reflect on praying that somebody who needs your possessions will find them and be able to use them. emoticonon your 6 lb. weight loss!!

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MARTHAWILL 12/8/2010 8:58PM

    Love your attitude. Awesome. And congrats on the 6 lb. weight loss. I have a hard time parting with things - too sentimental. Gonna have to re-assess things. Got a week off coming up. Am planning to do some "spring" cleaning. Like spring into it.

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CERIUSLY 12/8/2010 8:38PM

    I become very attached to special gifts from special friends. I am reminded of a time a friend asked if I was going to lock my car because she wanted to leave her bible in it. My response was this. "If someone steals my bible from my unlocked car, Praise God, the thief needs it worse than I do". emoticon

Great loss! emoticon

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SHELLEY147 12/8/2010 6:43PM

    First of all, congrats on the 6 pounds gone!! Woohoo!!

Second, I love your attitude! I tend to have to do the 'leaving now checklist', and I'm sure not admitting to it being due to old age! So, I kinda like the idea that it's a God moment! ~hugs~

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BOBBIENORTHERN 12/8/2010 3:07PM

    Great insight overflowing with the wisdom of God and I am happy for you having lost and never to find again six pounds, good for you. I love to here happy things like this they make my day and let me know that if she can do it so can I. emoticon

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FMREES 12/8/2010 2:45PM

    Congrats on the 6 pounds and I am sorry for your other losses. We do tend to get caught up in possessions - I remember from one spirituality book I read that one idea of poverty is learning to appreciate things where they are - they need not be our own... so I can see things in stores and enjoy them then and there - and leave them for someone else (not always!) When I moved 9 years ago I ended up abandoning most of what I had gathered.. so I got to start over in a new place.. it was very freeing, to say the least! Treasure the memories and the people

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CINDY1TWO3 12/8/2010 2:27PM

    You are right - and congrats on the 6 lbs!

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TRUTHISFREE 12/8/2010 2:11PM

    To many possessions can cause you to loose sight of what is important, what is important is God, family, friends. These things can not be replaced!! Possessions are just things, that why I and my husband are down sizing our lives, and putting Jehovah God first!! You are right!! Take Care!! emoticon

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Do you weigh often or seldom?

Wednesday, December 08, 2010

How often anyone weighs in is uniquely personal. I happen to like my official weekly weigh-ins once a week on a calibrated scale outside the home. I continue to check in most mornings on my personal scale and am now pretty good at determining if I will be up due to all the usual reasons. From a life-time of learning, we must learn to like who we are (as we are) in order to move to the place where we can take steps to be a better, more healthy person. I'm grateful for the many SparkPeople and challenges that are helping me reach a new personal best! However you lose, I hope you enjoy the journey.

Do you weigh often or seldom?

  
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SHELLEY147 12/8/2010 6:44PM

    I weigh in weekly at home....every Friday morning, buck-naked in the bathroom! :)

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TOPS-TORTOISE 12/8/2010 12:00PM

    I weigh in officially on Tuesday evening at our TOPS meeting. The only thing I don't like about that is I always weigh more at the end of the day after I have eaten two meals, and that can vary depending on what I've eaten that day. Maybe it doesn't make that much of a difference over time. I usually check on my home scale on Friday or Saturday to make sure I am staying on track and that seems to be working well for me.

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ANDYINBC 12/8/2010 9:17AM

    I tend to weigh daily, if things are on track! This weekend was rough, so I Didn't weigh in until I got things back on track for a couple of days. Today, I weighed in and I am back on track!

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FMREES 12/8/2010 9:02AM

    I weigh a bit haphazzardly - sometimes once a week, sometimes an extra time, sometimes I skip a week.. Now it has reached a point of curiosity - I have gotten into a pattern, not one with which I am thrilled, of wandering up and down in a 3 or so pound range and then about once a month it drops 1-2 pounds and so the range lowers. I am paying more attention to how my body feels than what it actually weighs.

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NINJA-NED 12/8/2010 7:48AM

    I weigh twice a week, although I usually prefer once. I only have access to a scale Mon-Fri, so I weigh on Fridays for the Winter Challenge, and I weigh on Mondays for the holiday challenge at my fitness center.

Go, Teddy Bears! emoticon

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SLIGHTLYBRAINY 12/8/2010 1:39AM

    I weigh in monthly. For me, once I had my "click" and realized it was not about my looks but about my health I stopped caring about the number on the scale or how fast it moved.

I stay in calorie range and nutritional range, that makes my life journey a success.

Terri =)

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TEAM-ERIC 12/8/2010 12:50AM

    I'm going to throw a new one in here. I weigh consistently I'm not sure if it falls into the often or seldom category! LOL. Once a week (Tuesday) I weigh and record. Saturday I do a spot check, to see if I am on track. Which may have kept a 1 pound gain from being a 2 + gain a couple of weeks ago, and a 1 lb loss from being 0 loss to a gain.

I agree the when and how is all very personal. What seems obsessive for one person is how another stays on track. Once a month may be the key for others. Late last winter I had hubby hide the scales, because I was on them 2 or 3 times a day!

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CHARLI101 12/8/2010 12:28AM

  I usually weigh in weekly on my home scales. Only weigh on professional scales a few times a year but I've stayed at goal for almost 4 years.

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Weight Loss Commitment for the Winter 5% Challenge

Saturday, December 04, 2010

Today is the start of a new commitment to lose 5% of my weight in the next 8 weeks: That’s 9.8 lbs.

Exercise:
1 I will exercise 30 minutes a day by primarily walking.
2 I will also do at least three days a week of 10-15 minutes of strength training
3 I will learn something new: Either Jazzercize, Latin Dancing, Zumba, or hope to rejuvenate a regime of Tai Chi (Qi Gong) . . . something I’ve been away from for about 5 years (as my VHS tape gave up the ghost) . . . depending of what my level of exercise my body can tolerate.

Diet:
1 I plan on following the new Weight Watcher plan, while
2 Tracking my food on SparkPeople

Water:
1 8 glasses a day
2 4 glasses of hot tea, coffee, or water

Here's to traveling the world! Cheers!

  
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KALISWALKER 12/5/2010 10:38PM

    emoticonYou have a great plan!

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HIKESHAPPY 12/4/2010 4:56PM

    Great job setting forth clear and simple goals for yourself! Woo Hoo!

One day at a time - you can DO this!

Go Teddy Bears:-)

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COLOURFULME 12/4/2010 11:38AM

    Clean cut goals. Well done!

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EJOY-EVELYN 12/4/2010 11:08AM

    Thanks, my friends!

The excitement level is so high that I’m reminded of that great line in Pretty Woman that is now cropped from the made-for-television version:

Julia Roberts: "It was so good, I nearly peed my pants"
Richard Gere: "She said, it was better than the Pirate of Penzance"

Go Teddy Bears!

Comment edited on: 12/4/2010 11:14:49 AM

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VEMAN1 12/4/2010 9:33AM

    Great start! Read your commitment out loud twice each morning a once before bed. Focus wins the day.

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SHELLEY147 12/4/2010 8:36AM

    Sounds like a great plan Evelyn! You're on the right road to reach success for that 5% challenge! I'm so proud of you for your committment you've made to YOU and your health!! emoticon

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Who would have guessed it? – I’m not hungry! – A new revelation for me!

Friday, December 03, 2010

I love food! I always have and always will. I've pretty much told myself this message all my life. Within the last five years, I have come to believe that I will always have a weight problem because of my love of food. While I don’t see that love ever really going away, something really strange happened today:

I ate so healthy today, I need to add calories I wouldn't typically add. But my health education reminds me it’s not good to cheat my body out of the calories it needs to live a healthy lifestyle.

Today’s feeling is RARE. I'm actually thinking about which high calorie food I might add that’s both light and healthy.

About the only thing different that I’m doing this week is eating more fruits and veggies, as well as learning and living the new Weight Watcher program that just came out this week. For backup personal research, I continue to track my food and activity with SparkPeople. I'm guessing all those fresh fruit and veggies I've added, are doing their magic.

Have you noticed a change in your perception of food when you increased your intake of fruits and vegetables?

  
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SHELLEY147 12/3/2010 8:31PM

    Love this post! You are making so many great changes in your life! I have noticed that there are days I need to really think about what else I can add to get in enough calories! Never in a million years would I think that...I am used to having to figure out how to cut calories! :) The fruits and veggies just fill me up so much I'm not hungry! YAY for us for finally living the good life!! ~huge hugs~

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CERIUSLY 12/3/2010 8:28PM

    Great blog! Enjoy those freggies!

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MUEHLBBO 12/3/2010 8:12PM

    So great. I'm with you on not being hungry and still having calories to burn. Keep up the good ways.

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VENISEW1 12/3/2010 7:33PM

    Love it! That's the best feeling isn't it!

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Get over yourself!

Wednesday, December 01, 2010

With all the wonderful resources we have available, we can get pretty wrapped up in ourselves. We’re learning great ways to make self improvements that lead toward being a much healthier person. WooHoo! Please make the choice to stay involved. Be patient: There will always be hurdles to overcome. Be persistent: Make life-long learning a virtue that helps you meet your goals. Be philanthropic: Find ways to give back.

Would you like your report card to read any of the following phrases?

“Plays well with others”
“Good team player”
“Well done, good and faithful servant!”

If so, then your revelation today (or not) may very well be this: It’s not all about me, me, me, or you, you, you! If I’m being too bold, please forgive me. I’m probably “preaching to the choir.” I doubt if I have many blogs left in me, so I’m probably not saying anything new . . . Most of my friends are already very generous people.

One surefire way to keep your friends, meet new people, and build great character is to see and act on the gift of goodness in your friends and family and by giving back to others and your communities. As much as we might like to shoot from the hip a little too quickly, we must be carefully not to be too judgmental or murmur, grumble, and complain. Many fine people give back as leaders and active participants within the SparkPeople community. Many also give back within their neighborhoods and find ways to reach out to beyond their immediate borders to help make this world a better place to live in. Wow . . . what a gift! You become the blessing to others! By giving, you put your focus on reaching out to others, leaving your mind off of those bad (unhealthy) habits you learned. Ultimately, you find great personal blessing in this new focus.

For me, I strive to find improved ways to live under the unconditional love God has for me . . . such great grace, mercy, and forgiveness is ours. Regardless of your faith, you are loved! I appreciate your presence within this wonderfully diverse SparkPeople community.

Are you leaving your legacy of giving in good hands!

  
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MSKITYOCAT 12/1/2010 6:37PM

  I think so. Blessings on your journey.

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SHELLEY147 12/1/2010 6:36PM

    I have found that offering to help out alot keeps my mind occupied with so many things, I can't focus on negative thoughts or bad habits! :) The more I reach out here on Spark, the more I have to focus on good habits and staying motivated! I'd like to think my report card would read...'plays well with others, but is a bit talkative!" :)

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